What happened to me last three months made me have my doubts about loyalty on the part of some ladies,here is my story:

I met this lady online some years back with the intention of marrying her, although she refused my request initially, but one thing is,she gave me much time on phone infact,we can speak up to 1 hour,fast forward when it was obvious she won't yield to my request, I stopped calling her, and to my surprise, she gave me a call about one year after, with another number and after some back and forth she finally agreed to be my future partner and for the first time, I went to visit her two weeks later, everything was going on and one thing about her is that she won't request for money unless I offered to give her

Oh, let me rest a bit, I will continue later, I am not too happy presently ........



Part 2:let me sip small Koko first
Before I continue, I urge you people insulting me to stop, I am sharing the story for us to learn thanks

Back to the story:

The relationship started but, it is a long distance one, I stay in vi while she stays in ibafo,so it is mostly calls, I was always busy, the day I went to meet her, she appeared so gentle and attended to me very well, after the visit,it was mostly phone calls as I was too busy to visit, The first red flag: She might decide not to pick my calls for more than a day and when she eventually calls, she won't give any genuine reason,after two months, the relationship broke!

As I said earlier,she can go days without picking my calls,this made me decided to stop calling her, to my surprise, she never bothered, and when I decided to call again after like a month, she used that against me saying,if I truly love her, I won't abandon her for weeks, she even said she had found a true love that was(the guy later dumped her)more caring! She actually met the guy in school because she went to a polytechnic in another state to acquire her HND certificate,
Please note, the lady is somehow self sufficient as she went to school without input from anyone, she even rented a self con near the campus
As she said this, I was dumbfounded and speechless, The worst part of it is that I never learned from this, she still found her way back!
Details in part3
NB For those of you who had called me a simp and would still do after this,no the following:
I was so emotionally attached to this girl as no one seems to be like her, I don't understand why
Secondly at about the same time, another lady whom I was dating, practically proposed to me, but I ignored her by giving her flimsy excuse!

Thirdly I had turned down several ladies in the past based solely on taste ( I am not proud of this!)
To be continued

Mtchewwww....

,It obvious the op has be served hot breakfast .

Lool.....op take heart...

Someone ignored you for a year, came back, you stil wanna roll with her,,,I'll disown you as a family member, weak men every where

virginprincess:
,It obvious the op has be served hot breakfast .

omo that adjective dey light please find a stronger one, I am sad,

virginprincess:
,It obvious the op has be served hot breakfast .

I swear…the breakfast is choking him,he needs water to continue 😂😂

Ikennaford:
Someone ignored you for a year, came back, you stil wanna roll with her,,,I'll disown you as a family member, weak men every where

relationship never start my brother, I think she has a date then and decided to call me when things went south with her former date

gentleguy1975:
relationship never start my brother, I think she has a date then and decided to call me when things went south with her former date

just listen to yourself man... just listen to yourself!

so you're just a plan B, a backup man, a safety husband, a push over which everyone comes back to when all other plans seems to fail and you're happy with her... don't you see any other woman apart from that... some men are actually the source of their own problems not women... she has showed you already that she has no interest in you, you're just the guy she uses to pass her time, yet you still kept oushing.. as to what??

if I become president, I will make redpill a compulsory course for all men.. i won't name it redpill, I will call it another sweet name..

@Ikennaford, you sef see the guy abi? weak men everywhere

Some OP just want make person insult them but e no go work

a lady must give you green light before you approach her... This is the law of satan.

And I'm not sorry I practice all the five laws of Satan.

Google it practice it and you'll love life.

Ikennaford:
Someone ignored you for a year, came back, you stil wanna roll with her,,,I'll disown you as a family member, weak men every where

Some boys can by mumu , She keep her as an option and it work for her, She still dump his sorry ass immediately she found another person

You are just second option, please refuse to be second option to anyone

by the time better #1 option comes along, it will be again 1-2yrs before she contacts you again....mumu!

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gentleguy1975:
relationship never start my brother, I think she has a date then and decided to call me when things went south with her former date

So u even know. And u waited a year after she's been dumped to pick her up. Now she's back with the bad guy and ur in ur right position (spare nigga) why are u now feeling heartbroken TF were u expecting bro. She doesn't like u. Ur just the rebound nigga. Know ur position

oga come finish your story

Bloody simp

Bomb dey your head, why start a story when you know you are not ready to finish it.

Omuuvwie:
Bomb dey your head, why start a story when you know you are not ready to finish it.

Op don Dey shame to finish the story..,,he thought Nairalanders were going to sympathize with him 😂😂

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Once you type SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP NEEDED, No Response...
But once you type HO*K UP NEEDED, they will FLOOD YOUR DM📩

What's this world turning into 😂

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gentleguy1975:
relationship never start my brother, I think she has a date then and decided to call me when things went south with her former date

So u get sense enough to decode the situation....yet u agreed to be the guy that is used like trash when the lady needs someone to pass free time with... lol.... the worth u place on urself low gaan

Sha buy herbs.


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Ikennaford:
Someone ignored you for a year, came back, you stil wanna roll with her,,,I'll disown you as a family member, weak men every where

Thank You! Some guys are pathetic.

on colos😁😁

Online ladies are a no-no... 9f they HV good character they will find people close to them


When you see a cockroach running during the day it's most likely running from something

online4business:
a lady must give you green light before you approach her... This is the law of satan.

And I'm not sorry I practice all the five laws of Satan.

Google it practice it and you'll love life.

Lol law of satan. The people that established the law don't even believe in satan as deity. Satan to them is just symbolism of rebellion. Satanist are atheist. My point is it's not laws of satan but rather satanic commandant.

My brother find your woman go another planet 🤣

gentleguy1975:
What happened to me last three months made me have my doubts about loyalty on the part of some ladies,here is my story:

I met this lady online some years back with the intention of marrying her, although she refused my request initially, but one thing is,she gave me much time on phone infact,we can speak up to 1 hour,fast forward when it was obvious she won't yield to my request, I stopped calling her, and to my surprise, she gave me a call about one year after, with another number and after some back and forth she finally agreed to be my future partner and for the first time, I went to visit her two weeks later, everything was going on and one thing about her is that she won't request for money unless I offered to give her

Oh, let me rest a bit, I will continue later, I am not too happy presently

So sorry about your experience.


It must be a sad one.

Can you finish it?

Maybe there a something that can be learned while you move forward.


Please disregard the many so called wise comments.

We live and learn.

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