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Urheadmaster:
Better go get your kids so that things will balance

Urheadmaster:
Better go get your kids so that things will balance

God1000:
Please sit him down and settle it amicably, don't engage in physical fight with him.

I separated two of my neighbours that wanted to fight yesterday

Barrister026:
it's so annoying children of nowadays thinks because they got baby mamas up and down they got no respect for their elders, infact once they notice you haven't had a child yet no matter how old you are. they start looking at you like their age mates or even older than.

my kid bro who i single handledly passed down wears to back then has the audacity to talk to me anyhow just because he his a father of a 5year old boy and another one its on the way. well that's how he's been reason he toke a lot of beatings from me back in the days... the recent happenings happened this morning after so many years, I came home for a very close relative burial same with our eldest bro whose in his mid 30s. discussion we having one thing lent to another... this kid bro of mine flared up shouting at the top of his voice to my elder bro...mom telling him to shut up he's still talking...I immediately pounce on him in the presence of his wife and kid, I gave him the beating of his life, squeezed that his lip he was using to insult our eldest bro, not minding his wife watching.

yes I'm angry with him, the day his wife gave birth out of wedlock, he was jubilating that he the last born first us to give our parent's a grand child. I say see this one, if I wanted to have kids I would have, how many ladies has tried to trap pregnancy on me all through this year's. it's just man not yet ready yet, and been married don't Just freak me yet.

mom been gingering me to apologise to him, but I refused? why would I.

yes I was wrong for beating him in the presence of his pregnant wife and kid, I didn't mean to embarrass him... before he was a husband he was first my kid bro.

Seun
lalasticlala

spice123:
When I read baby mamas in the first sentence, I just gave up. That your kid bro is not married yet. You don't have a sister-in-law either.

Richy4:
<< My brother, Two wrongs cannot make a right...

<<He was wrong by disrespecting your elder brother in the presence of his wife...

<< You are wrong fighting him in the presence of a 5yr old..I didn't say u shouldn't fight.. I mean u are an adult and can make decisions but look around you first...

<< What are u as an uncle gonna be teaching your nephew? That adults settles disagreement by fighting?

<< Again what kind of light would you want your nephew to see his father whom he probably sees as his super hero?... U want him to see how you are capable of beating his father?..

<< You guys are adults, when you were doing some stuffs, please think about the kids around you and how that will impact them and it will shape their future..

Urheadmaster:
Better go get your kids so that things will balance

Barrister026:
yes you don't have to tell me, I felt bad after the whole thing.
but I'm just finding a hard time following what my mom told me to apologise.
the sight of him talking to my elder bro who I didn't even follow, they was another girl before I annoys me more
do you know the age distance?

Barrister026:
yes you don't have to tell me, I felt bad after the whole thing.
but I'm just hard time following what my mom told me to apologise.
the sight of him talking to my elder bro who I didn't even follow, they was another girl before I annoys me more
do you know the distance?

Barrister026:
it's so annoying children of nowadays thinks because they got baby mamas up and down they got no respect for their elders, infact once they notice you haven't had a child yet no matter how old you are. they start looking at you like their age mates or even older than.

my kid bro who i single handledly passed down wears to back then has the audacity to talk to me anyhow just because he his a father of a 5year old boy and another one its on the way. well that's how he's been reason he toke a lot of beatings from me back in the days... the recent happenings happened this morning after so many years, I came home for a very close relative burial same with our eldest bro whose in his mid 30s. discussion we having one thing lent to another... this kid bro of mine flared up shouting at the top of his voice to my elder bro...mom telling him to shut up he's still talking...I immediately pounce on him in the presence of his wife and kid, I gave him the beating of his life, squeezed that his lip he was using to insult our eldest bro, not minding his wife watching.

yes I'm angry with him, the day his wife gave birth out of wedlock, he was jubilating that he the last born first us to give our parent's a grand child. I say see this one, if I wanted to have kids I would have, how many ladies has tried to trap pregnancy on me all through this year's. it's just man not yet ready yet, and been married don't Just freak me yet.

mom been gingering me to apologise to him, but I refused? why would I.

yes I was wrong for beating him in the presence of his pregnant wife and kid, I didn't mean to embarrass him...I felt bad myself after the whole thing.. but before he was a husband he was first my kid bro.


Seun
lalasticlala

Klass99:
Richly I strongly disagree with this. Two wrongs do make a right and it's called giving people a dose of their own medicine.

Before kid brother opens his mouth to talk anyhow or behave anyhow again, him go reason the matter well, before him go collect another round of beating.

There was provocation and a reaction - problem solved.

I no no say u like vawulence like this.. I think say Na only Jovialjune like am

On a serious note though, I'm gonna speak based on my experience as the last in the family... In some cases, every time the elder ones says something, It sounds like it was a law those days... If I talk, they will take it like what do you know..
This is one of the reasons why the youngest were kind of brats just to revolt .. no one takes them seriously because just like the OP said, he handed down his clothes to him, defended him from bullies etc..

It takes maturity to conquer those behaviour... His brother has not gotten to that maturity stage yet.. for him to say that he has given his parents the only grand son means that there's work in progress... He still feels like there's competition going on...

I think his elder brothers should be the one to mellow him down.. and explain to him that he wasn't competing with any of them... That they all got their various destinies to fulfill... They can't achieve that with violence and arrogance... They will only be interdependent with one another..

Klass99:
I dey learn for where JovialJune dey o . I feel you, but yeye dey worry that boy sha. A little vawulence won't hurt to reset his brain.

As for his comment about being the first to provide a grand child, I can't help thinking of the scripture which says there is foolishness in the heart of a child and the rod will help remove it.

Last borns tend to be a mother's pet and favourite, I am sure that is why mama is asking OP to apologize. But has he asked rude boy to apologize to the eldest he was rude to? These are grown men, they will resolve their issues without all this cajoling of one person to apologize to another.

Barrister026:
kid is not an achievement, besides we not in any competition
I love my brother, it's just his character from day one he always stubborn my eldest bro is the cool headed type that tolerate alot. but me I noi dey gree..
sometimes I throway face, but today is different

JovialJune:
Richy4 and Klass99, eyin mejeji, keep talking about me o, well done

We were sending a shoutout.. we no no say e go reach you