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Good morning family, I left my family house when I was about entering SS1 to stay with our big bro who was into business in a different local government but the same state, he was living in a rented room and parlour when I went to stay with him.. He was the eyes of the family because business was paying and he really helped a lot of people. For me, we didn't have issues at all because it was a kind of boss and boy relationship until he got married in 2018. On the wedding day, one big man came to where I was sitting outside and said " I gave you two years maximum you will leave that house because that's exactly what happened between him and his younger brother" He narrated to me how his wife was an angel to his younger bro before he married her but it reaches a time that his wife was not giving his brother food which forced him to leave the house. On my side my brother built a house and change 3 cars before he married I left the house in February 2020 to warri for security work because the wife was beginning to show attitude.. My brother begged me to stay but I needed to go. Now none of my relatives can go to that house it will be one complain to the other from the wife but two of her cousin sisters are staying with them in the house and her nephew. My brother has lost control.. There was a time Fulani people attack our village I was in makurdi as of then my mom called me that she wants to take my brother son who was barely 3yrs and go there but the wife said no which I called my brother and he said the wife said she doesn't want small children in her house that my mom don't know to train children. My mom cried on the phone when we were talking.. These and many more but I know some of you will say we need to hear from your brother's wife dide.
I just want to hear your own experience in case you stayed with your brother when he was single and later married.. How did it end guys?

I didn't have such experience, but his character will surely change once he gets hitched

God1000:
I didn't have such experience, but his character will surely change once he gets hitched

True..

You see ehn, in the issue of marriage most parents are not doing enough spiritual back up for their male child and thus end up marrying rubbish.

Most guys don't know how to make a choice of a woman because to many of them everything starts and finish with she's presentable. Please ain't marrying for people but myself.
Choosing a partner is hardwork and most guys are lazy about it.

I experienced such too and I don't blame the lady just my brother that didn't do the right thing when seeking for who to marry. Marrying cos of lust..

On the last note parent should stop exercising the habit of brother train brother to me it's wrong . Train your children by yourself and if by chance any of the elder is comfortable let him just assist the younger one financially and not staying put with him except learning of trade or skill is involved.

As a guy, I have only visited my maternal home and spend a month with Dem wen I jox finished my junior WAEC.
Since den till now dat am in high institution, I hv never stay with anyone, I love my freedom and privacy

As a married man you need to be strict with your wife and children to avoid see finish, according to your story, the wife welcome's her own relatives in his house, but wouldn't want to see his relatives in the same house.
Your brother is a low life simp, he'll learn the hard way, but before then it'll be too late.

mrpeter010:

True..

Lolsssssss, my brother, u see why I keep calling them daughters of eve. Naija women are so heartless that serpent self dey fear them. Imagine she doesn't want to see anything that has to do with her inlaw but her own people will come and spend time.
Your brother should get ready, bcs time shall come when he will be needing your assistant not now but that time shall come.
Then, as for u, my brother keep hustling and pushing hard, just take it as a lesson about life and naija women. Atleast this has opened your eyes not to be a simp towards those daughters of eve.
I know that this should toughened u towards daughters of eve. One day everywhere go green for u

Even God regretted creating Women.

Woman is the only creature that has seen the Devil face to face and had a discussion with him. Whatever they discussed, nobody knows till date, except the cocck and bull story that Eve told Adam.

Most women are like that. When the bible implied that woman are weaker helper, it wasn't a physical statement. It covers the spiritual also. Once something want to get hold of them, they get a pretty stronger hold of them.

It is easier for most women to accommodate their own relatives because they can easily handle them when they misbehave. If her own brother eats without washing his plates, she can call him to order. She can even leave all the cooking to her siblings when they come. But when his relatives come, they want executive treatment and not all women have that kind of energy. She probably knew that she will end up being the primary caregiver of that child and didn't want that. It is easy for your brother to accept the child because he will never bath, cook or clean after him.

ireneidiva:
It is easier for most women to accommodate thier own relatives because they can easily handle them when they misbehave. If her own brother eats without washing his plates, she can call him to order. She can even leave all the cooking to her siblings when they come. But when his relatives come, they want executive treatment and not all women have that kind of energy. She probably knew that she will end up being the primary caregiver of that child and didn't want that. It is easy for your brother to accept the child because he will never bath, cook or clean after him.

I believe you..

emmanuelbrown26:

Lolsssssss, my brother, u see why I keep calling them daughters of eve. Naija women are so heartless that serpent self dey fear them. Imagine she doesn't want to see anything that has to do with her inlaw but her own people will come and spend time.
Your brother should get ready, bcs time shall come when he will be needing your assistant not now but that time shall come.
Then, as for u, my brother keep hustling and pushing hard, just take it as a lesson about life and naija women. Atleast this has opened your eyes not to be a simp towards those daughters of eve.
I know that this should toughened u towards daughters of eve. One day everywhere go green for u

Amen sir.

Corporate2020:
Even God regretted creating Women.

Woman is the only creature that has seen the Devil face to face and had a discussion with him. Whatever they discussed, nobody knows till date, except the cocck and bull story that Eve told Adam.

Now i hv seen a brother here.
U see bro, Jah regretted creating them.
Jah did not marry reasons best known to him
His Son did not marry reasons best known to him.
Non of d Angels got married
The 24 Elders in Heaven did not marry
No woman was among d 12 apostles.
Apostle Paul did not marry

Satan did not marry rather he uses women to cause havoc.
Then, the great scientists never married.
From the above, it means something is wrong that they don't wana tell us.
U will see a very United family, immediately woman comes in, that's when u will start seen division and separation.
Something is definitely wrong, and I hv being seeking for an answer to that.

ireneidiva:
It is easier for most women to accommodate their own relatives because they can easily handle them when they misbehave. If her own brother eats without washing his plates, she can call him to order. She can even leave all the cooking to her siblings when they come. But when his relatives come, they want executive treatment and not all women have that kind of energy. She probably knew that she will end up being the primary caregiver of that child and didn't want that. It is easy for your brother to accept the child because he will never bath, cook or clean after him.

Not shocked that that gender will always support evil.
Adam was in a very good relationship with mother earth including animals, trees, water and sea until eve came. And she came and destroyed everything. Daughters of eve are damn evil

Wow your story sound similar to mine.

Here is the link https://www.nairaland.com/5997364/having-issues-brothers-wife-two

ireneidiva:
It is easier for most women to accommodate their own relatives because they can easily handle them when they misbehave. If her own brother eats without washing his plates, she can call him to order. She can even leave all the cooking to her siblings when they come. But when his relatives come, they want executive treatment and not all women have that kind of energy. She probably knew that she will end up being the primary caregiver of that child and didn't want that. It is easy for your brother to accept the child because he will never bath, cook or clean after him.

Why are you being partial in your judgement ??
From your point of view, only the acquaintances from the woman's side should be given the tickets to stay in the house ??

If you were to stay with your brother for a while due to circumstances and your brother's wife becomes tyrannical and shrewd directly and indirectly, would this your point of view satiate your perception of her attitude in her favour ??

One who is staying with an older brother who is unmarried should be conscious of the fact that once marriage cones into the picture, things change and one must plan his/her exit way ahead.

Once your brother gets married, know your title has changed to guest and that kitchen you zoomed in and out when he was a bachelor will become a shrine, going by the Nigerian context because there is a Priestess now in charge!

Bluezy13:


Why are you being partial in your judgement ??
From your point of view, only the acquaintances from the woman's side should be given the tickets to stay in the house ??

If you were to stay with your brother for a while due to circumstances and your brother's wife becomes tyrannical and shrewd directly and indirectly, would this your point of view satiate your perception of her attitude in her favour ??

I'm not partial. I just said the reason why most women don't like accommodating in-laws.

emmanuelbrown26:

Lolsssssss, my brother, u see why I keep calling them daughters of eve. Naija women are so heartless that serpent self dey fear them. Imagine she doesn't want to see anything that has to do with her inlaw but her own people will come and spend time.
Your brother should get ready, bcs time shall come when he will be needing your assistant not now but that time shall come.
Then, as for u, my brother keep hustling and pushing hard, just take it as a lesson about life and naija women. Atleast this has opened your eyes not to be a simp towards those daughters of eve.
I know that this should toughened u towards daughters of eve. One day everywhere go green for u

. Thank you brother