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There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

You better talk sense into her head because if she cross my path and she verbally abuse me with her sharp mouth. I will help her repair her leaked mouth tap with correct slap.

I go beat 20 years out of her life span... Me I no get joy ooo. Better talk sense into her head. I nor be gentleman at all oo.

Don't ignore the red flags, she's a disrespectful chatterbox, look for another well polished giri if she refuses to change.

I can't put up with someone that embarrasses me every now and then, she's a naff

God1000:
Don't ignore the red flags, she's a disrespectful chatterbox, look for another well polished giri if she refuses to change

Only one red flag bruh not like you will see another girl who no go get red flag/ flawless

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

tear am dirty slap her head go reset , no mind me o , waiting for elders

Marry and love her character by always advicing her about.

In the end she will change

Ladies mouth are generally sharp na..
The question is not if you can control it or not.
Can she control it? Make she no go talk the one wey go be police case one day.

Kollins11:
You better talk sense into her head because if she cross my path and she verbally abuse me with her sharp mouth. I will help her repair her leaked mouth tap with correct slap.

I go beat 20 years out of her life span... Me I no get joy ooo. Better talk sense into her head. I nor be gentlemen at all oo.

Calm down it haven't gotten to this .

ojun50:
Marry and love her character by always advicing her about.

In the end she will change

She dey hear word anytime I dey around

Medianna:
Ladies mouth are generally sharp na..
The question is not if you can control it or not.
Can she control it? Make she no go talk the one wey go be police case one day.

She can control it Sha ooo , cause she not usually like that if am around but my cousin 's dey always tell me say them go beat am , argument go start again , she go come dey talk like say she did no wrong I'll be like I dun do no vex . See me see trouble oo chille boy

Dreadlock69:
She dey hear word anytime I dey around

Any time you dey go out give her serious warning say you no won hear stories or complain

Dreadlock69:
Calm down it haven't gotten to this .

I know but I just dey make you understand say.. Everybody nor be gentleman like you.

Me.. I no get home training oo

ojun50:
Any time you dey go out give her serious warning say you no won hear stories or complain

Shebi and anytime I come back make I ask am wetin she commit this time

Dreadlock69:
Shebi and anytime I come back make I ask am wetin she commit this time

If you know hear any complain lock up

Kollins11:
I know but I just dey make you understand say.. Everybody nor be gentleman like you.

Me.. I nor get home training oo

Before I start to parole am I tell you say I show am small chókó/ vawulence before I come advice am .

Dreadlock69:
Before I start to parole am I tell you say I show am small chókó/ vawulence before I come advice am .

Na so E suppose be..

she dey use you buga - no wahala.
until the day wey she go do am for one soldier

ojun50:
If you know hear any complain lock up

Person wey I save her name as my B.P

anthonyuncle:
she dey use you buga - no wahala.
until the day wey she go do am for one soldier

It hasn't gotten to that odugwu

I swear if care is not taken she will make you lose some respect and make you fight unaware of her behavior to others on a good day

Dreadlock69:
It hasn't gotten to that odugwu

dey dia.
until something hooge go land on your face

Dreadlock69:
Only one red flag bruh not like you will see another girl who no go get red flag/ flawless

nothing like sharp mouth tell her to listen more than she speak...will always want to act as a person who knows all.she go Dey interrupt discussion self and more but you want know all this until she become a wife to you.

anthonyuncle:
dey dia.
until something hooge go land on your face

Ma worrí

Padlock her mouth Na

Kollins11:
I know but I just dey make you understand say.. Everybody nor be gentleman like you.

Me.. I nor get home training oo

Bros shey you know the girl ni?

Bros calm down. That's their ways of life, if u can't keep up with her let her go instead of having a problem that u can't solve. Na my advice be that ooo

Better warn her well o, one day she go land for trouble o

Dreadlock69:
She can control it Sha ooo , cause she not usually like that if am around but my cousin 's dey always tell me say them go beat am , argument go start again , she go come dey talk like say she did no wrong I'll be like I dun do no vex . See me see trouble oo chille boy

Dump her OP...
By condoning this, you're giving her the impression that it's awk to disrespect your family and that's just sickening ....

I don't know your cousin, but for her to tell you to your face that they will beat her up is proof of the venom she spits at them, and that's unhealthy man....

If this continues, I'm afraid that she will direct this venom towards YOU and your parents, don't decieve yourself into thinking, "you can control her", she's just bidding her time ....

Godspeed chief...

Continue to give that thing to her constant .

Please dump her..that thing is not correctable

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

Carry your cross, she is your cross. You ve got to live with it

Buy padlock and call welderman make them help u fix am but no go lost the key Sha.