9jaRealist:


How does comments about what she MIGHT have been wearing and what she MIGHT be doing in a public space be “logical”?!
MISOGYNY is so ingrained into Nigerian culture, that so many (even supposedly educated) Nigerians see it and think it “logical”.
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That’s the most annoying part of all this no nonsense.
To them their xtupidity is an example of logic

9jaRealist:


Exactly! She should instead have bowed and dobaled to him instead…smh

Why shouldn’t she “rain insults” on someone who inappropriately touched her?
If it was your own daughter, sister or mother, would you stop at “raining insults” at him?!
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She was touched on the thigh(Lap)......how?
We're they both seated on same/closely laid seat?
And is the lap a restricted part of the body for cautious contact?
Touched...not romance/Smudge.....touch...how?

We need that cctv to ascertain the gravity of the offense and corresponding response that led to assault.
The man can't possibly sue for libel, so he took his chances to recompense with assault.

Doesn't make it right tho....but seems justified.

Acidbath:
Afrizoorian, Indian and Arab males are just one and same.

If they are not raping, they are assaulting,stealing or killing.

Cursed breeds.

While I despise the MISOGYNY evident on this thread…
Please let’s not compound the ignorance with even more ignorant RACISM!
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Lawalemi:
All these Sodom and Gomorah ladies that hangs around Eko Hotel lobby.

You would almost assume that they are inviting you to feel their body due to their extreme unclothedness.

We need to hear from the other party.

Asquare84:
What is she doing in a hotel if not that she is a prostitute

MajesticKris:
What where u wearing....

This one think say na America she dey she wan cash out...

She must have worn something reveling.. to warrant such Touching..

Ceenachi:
Op
please can you tell the judges of social media how the lady was dressed.
Some of the sexual assault we are experiencing today is from we ladies, some will dress without undies while some without bra, some live to go naked in the name of fashion

Unless someone who never visited such places will think morality is there - ladies of nowadays hmmm I fear this our generation

essentialone:
What was she doing in Eko Hotel if she is not a Prostitute?

#JusticeForProstitute kill all of una there.

There they are folks…
Card-carry members of Nairaland’s tribe of PRIMITIVE, IGNORANT AND CRUDE MISOGYNISTS!
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derico:
She was touched on the thigh(Lap)......how?
We're they both seated on same/closely laid seat?
And is the lap a restricted part of the body for cautious contact?
Touched...not romance/Smudge.....touch...how?

We need that cctv to ascertain the gravity of the offense and corresponding response that led to assault.
The man can't possibly sue for libel, so he took his chances to recompense with assault.

Doesn't make it right tho....but seems justified.

Here’s free counsel…
You shouldn’t touch any stranger at all without their consent.

If you do and they insult you, just apologize and move on…
You do NOT have a “right” to touch a stranger without consent at all - and certainly not on their lap!
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Asquare84:
What is she doing in a hotel if not that she is a prostitute

Prostitutes also have rights.

Justice for her even if na big man

on4a:
This woman should be heard and Eko hotels should release the CCTV video to the police without delay. Women do not deserve this kind of oppression in our society. Men should stop acting like lose dogs! and people should not disregard when a woman complains, let everything be put to bare and let us judge it. If she is lying then the CCTV would show this. EKO HOTEL management should do the right thing asap.

She might even be a runs girls.

alcuin:


If men and women are equal as the feminists say. Then I suppose that women also deserve some ass whooping when they Bleep up as do men.

Don't you think so?

It is a claim and not a fact.... But what does violence solve? Nothing!!!

Ceenachi:
Op
please can you tell the judges of social media how the lady was dressed.
Some of the sexual assault we are experiencing today is from we ladies, some will dress without undies while some without bra, some live to go naked in the name of fashion

Unless someone who never visited such places will think morality is there - ladies of nowadays hmmm I fear this our generation

Verily, blessed is the son of man who will walk thee down the aisle for thee hath heavily wisdom bestowed on thou

Aidejay:
of all chimamanda quotes you could have used in this thread after reading this story, you chose this

It suits the narrative

9jaRealist:


Here’s free counsel…
You shouldn’t touch any stranger at all without their consent.

If you do and they insult you, just apologize and move on…
You do NOT have a “right” to touch a stranger without consent at all - and certainly not on the laps!
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Forget about right rather talk about probable cause of the assault....the guy may have accidentally touched the girl and the lady replied with insults as a runs girl so the dude answered as a cult boy

My own professional support: as a matter of self security, stop relying on others to secure u when u can’t secure ur self...if actually the young man touched the lady probably no one noticed it so u can ignore and walk away knowing fully well that no responsible man can touch even his gf in pub in embarrassing manner so u move.
Stop whining

Asquare84:
What is she doing in a hotel if not that she is a prostitute

Is EVERY woman in a hotel a prostitute? It's not everything that you think about that you say out loud TBH. Plus many people on NL, male and female, are just lawless individuals who are totally ignorant. How can anyone possibly justify the touching of a stranger as harmless or as a fault of the woman because of where she was or what she wore? That's why the injustice and anyhowness prevalent in our society is good for most of you, because you actually condone shitty behaviour as normal. Try this rubbish outside Nigeria or air these daft opinions where peoples rights are sacrosanct and see what will happen.

It is what came out of her mouth that warrant the blow

One sided story from a lady....lailai.

Very dangerous ohhh

Imagining listening to Amber Heard side of story alone.

CryptoClub2018:
Did she talk about the level of insult she rained on the man? Emotional blackmail
Stupid gender

Nope she is a woman and no man should touch her without permission.

Asquare84:
What is she doing in a hotel if not that she is a prostitute

To think that people still think this way in this age is appalling.

I think you should try and get exposed more to know why people can visit hotels.

CryptoClub2018:
Did she talk about the level of insult she rained on the man? Emotional blackmail
Stupid gender

So u (and ur likers) can just touch a random woman without her consent?

Imagine..: just imagine she has some martial art skills

Man touches thigh, man is rebuked

Man comes back to hit woman for rebuking him

Man chops AP Chagi, followed by yeop chagi then finished up with Sho-ryu-Ken.

In his life he will never touch a lady!

Joezinho:


Until the police gets access to the CCTV footage, I ain't gonna be one sided. Believing a naija lady should be ranked as the 3rd most foolish things on earth.

wow I get why u are so ignorant.. your mother most be the chief executive of foolishness

MajesticKris:
What where u wearing....

This one think say na America she dey she wan cash out...

She must have worn something reveling.. to warrant such Touching..

you're fantastically mad man, she dont deserved to be sexualize if the accusations is true, she can wear pant, who made the man morality police?




na dumbass like you dey make lady see men as inferior

Asquare84:
What is she doing in a hotel if not that she is a prostitute

You really deserve a slap on your face

Asquare84:
What is she doing in a hotel if not that she is a prostitute

See as you dey disgrace yourself.

What if she is a supplier?

What if she had business lunch or meeting there?

What if she went to see a friend that lodged there?

What if she went to look for a job there?

What if...

cococandy:
so everyone who goes to a hotel deserves to be assaulted?

yes now

dettolgel:


See as you dey disgrace yourself.

What if she is a supplier?

What if she had business lunch or meeting there?

What if she went to see a friend that lodged there?

What if went to look for a job there?

What if...

all what you mentioned,nah ashawo dey do am for hotel

elantraceey:




This is a very very very very very stupid thing to say.

That was how I had an interview in pH and had to book a hotel to spend two nights only for some men making advances at me thinking like this idiot here whenever I stepped out to get something. Their foolish brains always think that hotels are only meant for sex.

The way some guys reason here baffles me. One even said the man did well for touching her because she must have been dressed like a slut.

Asquare84:
What is she doing in a hotel if not that she is a prostitute

Omo this your reasoning is piss poor

Change your mentality please

DEMAGE:
It is what came out of her mouth that warrant the blow

Maybe the same man should touch your mother or sister on her laps, then let's hear what will come out of their mouth

Asquare84:
What is she doing in a hotel if not that she is a prostitute

It's such a shame that in 2022 we still have people like this who have their fathers' mindset that hotel is synonymous with prostitutes. May God bail you out of your abject ignorance.