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New Discovery In My Marriage by Spiker777(op): 8:55pm On Jun 11, 2022

I just discovered that my wife I married 10 years ago has a son before i married her and she had be hiding it from me .I just discovered now and I know find it to trust her again,what do I do?

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Jay5mie: 9:05pm On Jun 11, 2022

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by slimjohn2k5: 9:08pm On Jun 11, 2022

Tell her the one u are hiding. It will mk u feel better

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Slynation(m): 9:10pm On Jun 11, 2022

Eweee....!! There is nothing you can do at this point, perhaps you failed to do your homework very well before getting married!!

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by WatchYourSix: 9:22pm On Jun 11, 2022*

Spiker777:
I just discovered that my wife I married 10 years ago has a son before i married her and she had be hiding it from me .I just discovered now and I know find it to trust her again,what do I do?

uve been living fine all these time, so its not a bid deal to me at this point....dont get me wrong i know the deception hurts..but its been a decade man...

However, if its a big deal to you from the angle of not being able to trust her anymore.....tell her get the fvck out of your house for deceiving you since the marriage was built on lies...only God k ows what other ugly secrete shes hiding..

she knew it would likely be a deal breaker to you..hence, her decision to be deceptive ....

Lol..its funny that single mothers want single guys that doesnt have any kids....

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Emma2Seconds: 9:28pm On Jun 11, 2022

U Mean U no dey test car b4 u dey buy am huh

Can't u differentiate second hand products from New brand products, u better get Eyes for proper vision.

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by JONSYN7154: 9:30pm On Jun 11, 2022

Emma2Seconds:
U Mean U no dey test car b4 u dey buy am Can't u differentiate second hand products from New brand products, u better get Eyes for proper vision.

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by wis3(m): 9:31pm On Jun 11, 2022

this one is strong

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Ballzproblemm: 9:32pm On Jun 11, 2022

slimjohn2k5:
Tell her the one u are hiding. It will mk u feel better

fool

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by inforesource: 9:33pm On Jun 11, 2022

Spiker777:
I just discovered that my wife I married 10 years ago has a son before i married her and she had be hiding it from me .I just discovered now and I know find it to trust her again,what do I do?

Trust me, that marriage is over. I hate to pretend. This is the truth.

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by wis3(m): 9:34pm On Jun 11, 2022

WatchYourSix:
uve been living fine all these time, so it doesnt like a bid deal to me at this point....dont get me wrong i know the deception hurts..but its been a decade man...

However, if its a big deal to you from the not being able to trust.....tell her get the fvck out of your house for deceiving you since the marriage was built on lies...

she knew it would likely be a deal breaker to you..hence, her decision to be deceptive ...

Lol..its funny that single mothers want single guys that doesnt have any kids...

someone who can keep something as important as that from you is capable of so many things. He might not have agreed to be with her if he had known she had a child

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Ballzproblemm: 9:35pm On Jun 11, 2022

Spiker777:
I just discovered that my wife I married 10 years ago has a son before i married her and she had be hiding it from me .I just discovered now and I know find it to trust her again,what do I do?

you have every right not to trust her, anybody telling otherwise is a foolish simp , however the marriage don go far so , breaking things up at this point is of no use , unless say she dey cheat, find out what else she's hiding if e too much , divorce ASAP

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by wis3(m): 9:41pm On Jun 11, 2022

Ballzproblemm:
you have every right not to trust her, anybody telling otherwise is a foolish simp , however the marriage don go far so , breaking things up at this point is of no use , unless say she dey cheat, find out what else she's hiding if e too much , divorce ASAP

most women are not very stable, the same woman would jump at the opportunity of getting back with the father of her son if she finds it's more convenient for her. It's all about convenience for them. dem no dey tink

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Ballzproblemm: 9:42pm On Jun 11, 2022

wis3:
most women are not very stable, the same woman would jump at the opportunity of getting back with the father of her son if she finds it's more convenient for her. It's all about convenience for them. dem no dey tink

evil gender cheesy

*chuckles*. I no dey take them serious

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Emma2Seconds: 9:51pm On Jun 11, 2022

Why U dey Laff ?? grin

JONSYN7154:

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Emma2Seconds: 9:59pm On Jun 11, 2022

How Person Go Just pay for goods without even checking in and out of the goods for any flaws.

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by JONSYN7154: 10:11pm On Jun 11, 2022

Emma2Seconds:
Why U dey Laff ??

e dey funny na

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by TMTR: 10:24pm On Jun 11, 2022

Spiker777:
I just discovered that my wife I married 10 years ago has a son before i married her and she had be hiding it from me .I just discovered now and I know find it to trust her again,what do I do?

Divorce her ASAP , there is no two ways about it, she has been hiding it for ten years, who knows what else she is hiding . Just dissolve the marriage cause it was built on a faulty foundation,built on deceit, built on lies, that your wife is not a good person

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Dizzyyish: 10:31pm On Jun 11, 2022

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Emma2Seconds: 10:34pm On Jun 11, 2022

But the thread dey some how nah . Hope you dey reason the matter with me grin

Who dey buy suya without tasting first.

JONSYN7154:
e dey funny na

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by anonymuz(m): 10:43pm On Jun 11, 2022

WatchYourSix:
uve been living fine all these time, so it doesnt like a bid deal to me at this point....dont get me wrong i know the deception hurts..but its been a decade man...

However, if its a big deal to you from the not being able to trust.....tell her get the fvck out of your house for deceiving you since the marriage was built on lies...

she knew it would likely be a deal breaker to you..hence, her decision to be deceptive ...

Lol..its funny that single mothers want single guys that doesnt have any kids...

because single guys are vulnerable and simple

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by anonymuz(m): 10:45pm On Jun 11, 2022

wis3:
someone who can keep something as important as that from you is capable of so many things. He might not have agreed to be with her if he had known she had a child

nothing is actually bad to marry a single mother, what's bad is the fact that she lied.

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by dbestuncle: 10:50pm On Jun 11, 2022

Spiker777:
I just discovered that my wife I married 10 years ago has a son before i married her and she had be hiding it from me .I just discovered now and I know find it to trust her again,what do I do?

She has not done well.
Pls try to be calm, seek counsel from people who you know can help and don't rush to do anything before you go n kill someone pikin n end in jail.
Finally nothing that can't be forgiven, consider your marriage is 10 years old and in this 10 years if she has been a great mother and wife, don't be in a haste to throw her out.
Though you can purnish her for her actions and also show your displeasure to her family.

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by wis3(m): 10:52pm On Jun 11, 2022

anonymuz:
nothing is actually bad to marry a single mother, what's bad is the fact that she lied.

most times you can't help but feel sorry for them. But it'd be at your detriment.

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by anonymuz(m): 10:58pm On Jun 11, 2022

wis3:
most times you can't help but feel sorry for them. But it'd be at your detriment.

yes it might me detrimental but understanding is the key. It's just that women are unpredictable.

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by wis3(m): 11:02pm On Jun 11, 2022

anonymuz:
yes it might me detrimental but understanding is the key. It's just that women are unpredictable.

nothing to understand about a person whom you call you partner keeping secrets from you.

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Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Demigod22: 12:11am On Jun 12, 2022

Stories like this makes marriage scary and sceptical. OP, I understand your feeling right now, the lies, betrayal and deception is painful.

After girls before you can fear Buhari.

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by talk2hb1(m): 7:26am On Jun 12, 2022

Spiker777:
I just discovered that my wife I married 10 years ago has a son before i married her and she had be hiding it from me .I just discovered now and I know find it to trust her again,what do I do?

Sit her down, tell her to tell you every other thing she hasn't told you before you find out.
But be expecting her to tell you she doesn't want to loose you or she is trying to protect you that's the reasons why

Left over to you, what do you want to do about it? She is your wife, you understand her a little bit.

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by WatchYourSix: 7:30am On Jun 12, 2022

Emma2Seconds:
U Mean U no dey test car b4 u dey buy am Can't u differentiate second hand products from New brand products, u better get Eyes for proper vision.

How is he automatically supposed to know the woman previously gave birth by sleeping with her before marrying her??

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by WatchYourSix: 7:31am On Jun 12, 2022

wis3:
someone who can keep something as important as that from you is capable of so many things. He might not have agreed to be with her if he had known she had a child

Women are naturally manipulative...na their way...she knows its hard for single mothers to find a single guy to marry...hence the lie..

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by Emma2Seconds: 7:40am On Jun 12, 2022*

Let me ask you second hand products and New products are they always the same huh

? Can't u differentiate between them huh

Many things to tell you that your car has been used before you, get Eyes you no gree

WatchYourSix:
How is he automatically supposed to know the woman previously gave birth by sleeping with her before marrying her??

Re: New Discovery In My Marriage by JONSYN7154: 7:41am On Jun 12, 2022

Emma2Seconds:
But the thread dey some how nah . Hope you dey reason the matter with me Who dey buy suya without tasting first.

na him mek me dey laf

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