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I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Peter532: 5:01pm On Jun 18, 2022
This is one of the biggest embarrassment in my life, I was sleeping on my own this morning when my phone rang. A very close friend of mine called to inform me if am free, that I should escort him to a wedding uptown at a popular event center. I wasn't really interested but I had to, because he had accompanied me to several occasions in the past, turning him down will look some how.

He came around some minutes after 1 and we set out with another friend of mine that just came to visit me normal freestyle movement. On getting there to my surprise we were denied entry. The bouncers and event securities at the gate said attending was strictly on invite. I told my friend show them your invitation card, he started doing as if he wants to make call.

It was then I found out that he wasn't even the guest that was invited to the wedding, so the groom and the bride don't even know him, he was invited by another friend of his that was who he was trying to call. He finally reached him, the dude came and started looking at the 3 of us standing close to the gate like we were full community who came for our entitlement.

He went back in maybe trying to pull some few strings from people that matters, close to over 10 minutes, I was already angry..I touched my friend who accompanied me (the one who came for visiting) and we boarded a bike back home.
Money I wasted for transportation, I paid our going and coming back, this has taught me a bitter lesson today.
Never will I make such mistake again.







To those saying I went there for food even after making it clear I wasn't interested, but I had to because of what my guy have done for me. So I don't have food in my house?
Why are nigeria's like this, always finding ways to ridicule people.

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by HarunaWest(m): 5:04pm On Jun 18, 2022
Lol...E dey happen. Next time, inquire very well before you follow friends comot. Sorry sha grin

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Fahdiga(m): 5:04pm On Jun 18, 2022
You are the one that embarrassed yourself. Why should you go for an event that the celebrants didn't invite you personally

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by blazingblender(m): 5:05pm On Jun 18, 2022
Oh men this days no be to enter wedding any how
That's why I prefer and averages man wedding
A rich man will want to only invite those that can spray money and perform small doings
So as you de chọp thé food you will also pay ..

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Blossommind: 5:06pm On Jun 18, 2022
The level of hunger in the country is becoming unbearable. People now in the look out for social events to go eat free food.

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by HarunaWest(m): 5:07pm On Jun 18, 2022
blazingblender:
Oh men this days no be to enter wedding any how
That's why I prefer and averages man wedding
A rich man will want to only invite those that can spray money and perform small doings
So as you de chọp thé food you will also pay ..
Reminds me of the wedding that I attended last weekend. The groom's parents refused to share gift at the venue. They said no one presented the couples with gifts.

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by blazingblender(m): 5:09pm On Jun 18, 2022
HarunaWest:
Reminds me of the wedding that I attended last weekend. The groom's parents refused to share gift at the venue. They said no one presented the couples with gifts.
oh men ehh
That one bad na
Are you sure the couple's socialize at all
Cus how will no one out of all their invited guest bring gift??

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Jeon(f): 5:10pm On Jun 18, 2022
WAHALA FOR WHO GET TIME, NAH EHM DY GO CEREMONIES.

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Aaaaarghmed(m): 5:13pm On Jun 18, 2022
Lol,sorry na one of those experience
Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Peter532: 5:16pm On Jun 18, 2022
Fahdiga:
You are the one that embarrassed yourself. Why should you go for an event that the celebrants didn't invite you personally
I didn't expect it to be so, he has accompanied me to several occasions I was invited to. Never for once were we treated this way.
Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by doggedfighter(f): 5:17pm On Jun 18, 2022
Looks like I have read about your wedding attendance experience before.





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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Fahdiga(m): 5:23pm On Jun 18, 2022
Peter532:
I didn't expect it to be so, he has accompanied me to several occasions I was invited to. Never for once were we treated this way.
Some days are like that. Move on with your life bro
Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Naijanascam: 5:27pm On Jun 18, 2022
Chaii you really missed the free meal and drinks you targeted...,..... because even if you where served everything in there you.. won't give shi shi to the celebrants


Free booze grin grin missed dearly

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by HarunaWest(m): 5:29pm On Jun 18, 2022
blazingblender:
oh men ehh
That one bad na
Are you sure the couple's socialize at all
Cus how will no one out of all their invited guest bring gift??
Na very big man wedding oo. something when former minister show sef. The problem is they spent most of their time abroad. Diplomats grin..So nobody for Naija sabi dem again
Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Mindlog: 5:51pm On Jun 18, 2022
Blossommind:
The level of hunger in the country is becoming unbearable. People now in the look out for social events to go eat free food.

Mo gbo, mo ya is not a recent phenomenon. Growing up in Lagos, I saw people dress up during weekend to go attend parties they don't even have a clue who the celebrantd are.

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Peter532: 5:54pm On Jun 18, 2022
Blossommind:
The level of hunger in the country is becoming unbearable. People now in the look out for social events to go eat free food.
So you think I don't have food in my house? Or you didn't see where I said I wasn't interested. But I just had to for friendship sake.

I don't want to insult you, better behave yourself

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by BigYash: 6:16pm On Jun 18, 2022
Baba say no be food carry am go cheesy You are right... Party rice different from house rice normally sha,I can't blame anybody when no go wedding ,but settle for reception.. E be things.

Op no too vex o,just take the vahulens one step at a time..

Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by shortIGBOman: 6:26pm On Jun 18, 2022
You go embarrass yourself because of food..


I hardly go to parties. Most times, when I'm invited, I give the person small envelope instead of going. I only attend parties of some of my very close friends or family.

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by shortIGBOman: 6:31pm On Jun 18, 2022
Peter532:

So you think I don't have food in my house? Or you didn't see where I said I wasn't interested. But I just had to for friendship sake.

I don't want to insult you, better behave yourself

Oga na food carry you go. Sotey, you also invited another Friend wey the thing no concern. That one too no fit say no, because of long throat. grin grin grin

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jun 18, 2022
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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Rickmann: 8:00pm On Jun 18, 2022
Peter532:
This is one of the biggest embarrassment in my life, I was sleeping on my own this morning when my phone rang. A very close friend of mine called to inform me if am free, that I should escort him to a wedding uptown at a popular event center. I wasn't really interested but I had to, because he had accompanied me to several occasions in the past, turning him down will look some how.

He came around some minutes after 1 and we set out with another friend of mine that just came to visit me normal freestyle movement. On getting there to my surprise we were denied entry. The bouncers and event securities at the gate said attending was strictly on invite. I told my friend show them your invitation card, he started doing as if he wants to make call.

It was then I found out that he wasn't even the guest that was invited to the wedding, so the groom and the bride don't even know him, he was invited by another friend of his that was who he was trying to call. He finally reached him, the dude came and started looking at the 3 of us standing close to the gate like we were full community who came for our entitlement.

He went back in maybe trying to pull some few strings from people that matters, close to over 10 minutes, I was already angry..I touched my friend who accompanied me (the one who came for visiting) and we boarded a bike back home.
Money I wasted for transportation, I paid our going and coming back, this has taught me a bitter lesson today.
Never will I make such mistake again.







To those saying I went there for food even after making it clear I wasn't interested, but I had to because of what my guy have done for me. So I don't have food in my house?
Why are nigeria's like this, always finding ways to ridicule people.

No reason am bro..
Glad you learnt a lesson.
Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by 1Sharon(f): 8:42pm On Jun 18, 2022
UpInTheSky:
Your friend (who knew neither the bride nor groom, and was understandably not invited to the wedding by them)
decided to ask you to come along and you decided to ask another friend who was visiting to follow y'all.

Y'all were just inviting each other to a wedding none of you were personally invited to.

He's not the first and won't be the last.

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Alapojames: 8:48pm On Jun 18, 2022
The comments here funny
Everyone just they talk about food...
Most times people get bored of staying at home.. And for you inviting your friend isn't a bad either..
These days eh, party food them they look face share am..
Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jun 18, 2022
1Sharon:


He's not the first and won't be the last.
Of what?
Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by 1Sharon(f): 9:07pm On Jun 18, 2022
UpInTheSky:
Of what?

Mogbomoya
Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jun 18, 2022
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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by Emma2Seconds: 9:23pm On Jun 18, 2022
Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by armyofone(m): 9:48pm On Jun 18, 2022
Next time if the celebrant didn't personally invites you, don't go.

It cost a lot of money to feed people.

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by sisisioge: 9:52pm On Jun 18, 2022
Good for you! Imagine, 3 uninvited people from one invited source. Imagine if they invited 100 and they all decide to invite 3 people each,no be 400 be guest list so?


Yes, strictly by invitation to stay on budget biko grin I hope all those people that like to extend invitations to others would learn.

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:39pm On Jun 18, 2022
........he was invited by another friend of his that was who he was trying to call. He finally reached him, the dude came and started looking at the 3 of us standing close to the gate like we were full community who came for our entitlement.

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:41pm On Jun 18, 2022
sisisioge:
Good for you! Imagine, 3 uninvited people from one invited source. Imagine if they invited 100 and they all decide to invite 3 people each,no be 400 be guest list so?


Yes, strictly by invitation to stay on budget biko grin I hope all those people that like to extend invitations to others would learn.
Lol cheesy
We wonder, for this economy of the WOLRD now.
That everybody dry manage resources.
Mogbomoya friend.... grin cheesy wink

We don laff fall yakata for floor grin cheesy wink

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Re: I Was denied Entering At A Wedding Reception by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:42pm On Jun 18, 2022
To those saying I went there for food even after making it clear I wasn't interested, but I had to because of what my guy have done for me. So I don't have food in my house?
Why are nigeria's like this, always finding ways to ridicule people.
Don't mind some people jare.
They talk based on what they do, so they think everyone is as hungry as them.

Good you learnt your lessons tho...

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