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Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Ink4Hope: 10:26am On Jun 30, 2022
Before I start, I know I'm a simp, a failure to the association of Men, a Pussy nigha and a fool!!

So If this is what you wanted to tell me, don't worry, I've done you the favour.

Earlier this year I got a job at an international organisation down south. It was a breath of fresh air as I needed to leave home and forget the ache of been heartbroken.

I made a vow that I wouldn't have anything to do with the female gender for a long time but like every other vow I made, I broke it.

I met a girl at my work place, we got talking and she was pivotal to me settling well at the place.

One thing led to another and I fell in love(or I want to think I fell in love)... The issue is, this girl has a boyfriend at work, or maybe two sef and despite the fact that she keeps denying it, I am certain she does.. Her best friend confirmed it to me and also, Boys talk.


Now, I'm messed up. Can't concentrate at work, can't seem to let her go yet angry that whenever I look at her because she acts like a Saint with no lies to hide.

It's affecting my psych and everyday I'm losing a part of me.. Kindly advice on the best way to detach from this girl cos I hate the way I love her.


PS: if you want to call me a simp, don't worry, I've done that already

MODIFIED

I will try not to talk to her today. Its going to be hard because we eat at the same spot at the same time.. so I will go to lunch 30 min late to try and avoid her

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Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Kingkum: 10:34am On Jun 30, 2022
Made up stories for likes and shares which will not add a dime to your bank account.

which normal person will leave his newly acquired job and decide to be unfortunate by running after things in skirt? are you not maad?



however, if this story is true, i will advice you to focus on what will secure your future(your job) and leave women alone cos with the way you are sounding, you will end up been fired because of a woman

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Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Nonexisting: 10:38am On Jun 30, 2022
You are not a simp. There are simps and there are fools. You fit more in the latter category.

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Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by AsomArchitectNG(m): 10:44am On Jun 30, 2022
Ink4Hope:
Before I start, I know I'm a simp, a failure to the association of Men

PS: if you want to call me a simp, don't worry, I've done that already

Still doesnt change the fact that you're the leader of SIMP'sons SE region undecided

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Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by HopeNeverDies: 10:44am On Jun 30, 2022
Damnnnn!!!!

Bro! I understand your feelings! And I can tell u; Emotions x feelings sucks.
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Jashub: 10:46am On Jun 30, 2022
Bros, it's best to move on. Rethinking and dwelling on this matter might probably make you emotionally attached to a woman who doesn't give a fvck if you're alive or dead . And lastly, stop attaching yourself emotionally to other people; learn appreciate yourself by focusing on your own growth
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Ink4Hope: 10:50am On Jun 30, 2022
HopeNeverDies:
Damnnnn!!!!

Bro! I understand your feelings! And I can tell u; Emotions x feelings sucks.

Thanks Bro!!

It's hard to let go...


I just go back home, on the shower and just curse my heart
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Ink4Hope: 10:50am On Jun 30, 2022
Jashub:
Bros, it's best to move on.

Not that simple
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Ink4Hope: 10:50am On Jun 30, 2022
Nonexisting:
You are not a simp. There are simps and there are fools. You fit more in the latter category.

Yeah I'm well aware
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Jashub: 10:52am On Jun 30, 2022
Ink4Hope:


Not that simple
Get another girlfriend. If possible get three girlfriends just to kill memory of this current one . Go for chicks that are prettier...you'll be glad you did
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Ink4Hope: 10:59am On Jun 30, 2022
Jashub:
Get another girlfriend. If possible get three girlfriends just to kill memory of this current one . Go for chicks that are prettier...you'll be glad you did

That will be becoming what I hate to forget someone I hate to love
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Ink4Hope: 12:05pm On Jun 30, 2022
Kingkum:
Made up stories for likes and shares which will not add a dime to your bank account.

which normal person will leave his newly acquired job and decide to be unfortunate by running after things in skirt? are you not maad?



however, if this story is true, i will advice you to focus on what will secure your future(your job) and leave women alone cos with the way you are sounding, you will end up been fired because of a woman

I'm just foolish
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Paulianfa(m): 12:27pm On Jun 30, 2022
U are just a weak guy, get urself busy, it's not easy bro especially same working environment hmmmmmmm.
Mehnnnn this is very hard... Just avoid her period.


If u want to live long stay away from love

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Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Rexymania(m): 2:36pm On Jun 30, 2022
Which one will give you more happiness, that girl or your job? Choose

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Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Aaaaarghmed(m): 3:35pm On Jun 30, 2022
Ink4Hope:
Before I start, I know I'm a simp, a failure to the association of Men, a Pussy nigha and a fool!!

So If this is what you wanted to tell me, don't worry, I've done you the favour.

Earlier this year I got a job at an international organisation down south. It was a breath of fresh air as I needed to leave home and forget the ache of been heartbroken.

I made a vow that I wouldn't have anything to do with the female gender for a long time but like every other vow I made, I broke it.

I met a girl at my work place, we got talking and she was pivotal to me settling well at the place.

One thing led to another and I fell in love(or I want to think I fell in love)... The issue is, this girl has a boyfriend at work, or maybe two sef and despite the fact that she keeps denying it, I am certain she does.. Her best friend confirmed it to me and also, Boys talk.


Now, I'm messed up. Can't concentrate at work, can't seem to let her go yet angry that whenever I look at her because she acts like a Saint with no lies to hide.

It's affecting my psych and everyday I'm losing a part of me.. Kindly advice on the best way to detach from this girl cos I hate the way I love her.


PS: if you want to call me a simp, don't worry, I've done that already

MODIFIED

I will try not to talk to her today. Its going to be hard because we eat at the same spot at the same time.. so I will go to lunch 30 min late to try and avoid her

so na woman dey make u dey mumu like this,you just get work and u knw she has a guy u cannot ignore and face ur hustle.na you sabi,ask her out and be the boldest mumu
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by AgentGoat: 4:57pm On Jun 30, 2022
Search online or offline for a heavy nyash with moderate breast ashawo to fuvk the nonsense from your head you weak slowpoke. Now now wey you get new job you don see new wife there be that.

Stop loving women just fuvk and go your way till you are ready to marry one for house mumu.
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Magnoliaa(f): 5:24pm On Jun 30, 2022
Hard man, hard man, na watin dey end am be this. grin Shior.

But e be like say your own problem pass ordinary eye. Only you and relationship wahala.
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Ningen(m): 6:15pm On Jun 30, 2022
Distract yourself with someone or something else. What's worthy of time and affection is out there, not a liar and dishonesty person.
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by kingscare1(m): 6:57pm On Jun 30, 2022
Ink4Hope:
Before I start, I know I'm a simp, a failure to the association of Men, a Pussy nigha and a fool!!

So If this is what you wanted to tell me, don't worry, I've done you the favour.

Earlier this year I got a job at an international organisation down south. It was a breath of fresh air as I needed to leave home and forget the ache of been heartbroken.

I made a vow that I wouldn't have anything to do with the female gender for a long time but like every other vow I made, I broke it.

I met a girl at my work place, we got talking and she was pivotal to me settling well at the place.

One thing led to another and I fell in love(or I want to think I fell in love)... The issue is, this girl has a boyfriend at work, or maybe two sef and despite the fact that she keeps denying it, I am certain she does.. Her best friend confirmed it to me and also, Boys talk.


Now, I'm messed up. Can't concentrate at work, can't seem to let her go yet angry that whenever I look at her because she acts like a Saint with no lies to hide.

It's affecting my psych and everyday I'm losing a part of me.. Kindly advice on the best way to detach from this girl cos I hate the way I love her.


PS: if you want to call me a simp, don't worry, I've done that already

MODIFIED

I will try not to talk to her today. Its going to be hard because we eat at the same spot at the same time.. so I will go to lunch 30 min late to try and avoid her


Please chat me on WhatsApp - 09035464082 lemme coach you up bro....

If I give you advice and moves to ensure she falls deeply above others or you bang her the way you want you will see the advice as a mere commenter here on naira land. Nigga chat me lets do this together and thank me later. I hate men being trapped by fvcking bitches. She knows you weak and she uses it against you. Bitches are manipulative.
Lemme help you!
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Ink4Hope: 7:07pm On Jun 30, 2022
Ink4Hope:
Before I start, I know I'm a simp, a failure to the association of Men, a Pussy nigha and a fool!!

So If this is what you wanted to tell me, don't worry, I've done you the favour.

Earlier this year I got a job at an international organisation down south. It was a breath of fresh air as I needed to leave home and forget the ache of been heartbroken.

I made a vow that I wouldn't have anything to do with the female gender for a long time but like every other vow I made, I broke it.

I met a girl at my work place, we got talking and she was pivotal to me settling well at the place.

One thing led to another and I fell in love(or I want to think I fell in love)... The issue is, this girl has a boyfriend at work, or maybe two sef and despite the fact that she keeps denying it, I am certain she does.. Her best friend confirmed it to me and also, Boys talk.


Now, I'm messed up. Can't concentrate at work, can't seem to let her go yet angry that whenever I look at her because she acts like a Saint with no lies to hide.

It's affecting my psych and everyday I'm losing a part of me.. Kindly advice on the best way to detach from this girl cos I hate the way I love her.


PS: if you want to call me a simp, don't worry, I've done that already

MODIFIED

I will try not to talk to her today. Its going to be hard because we eat at the same spot at the same time.. so I will go to lunch 30 min late to try and avoid her


I did talk to her today, it's funny how it seems like I'm getting over her but just a smile from her and my walls will crumble
Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Idonweak: 8:16pm On Jun 30, 2022
Bro read about bpd(borderline personality disorder)

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Re: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Moloso(m): 8:37pm On Jun 30, 2022

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