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Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by balmingilead: 5:05pm On Jun 30, 2022
Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by the grace of the almighty God ....

*DEDICATED TO ALL THE SINGLES, INCLUDING ME �.

We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease.

Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation -
+2348055515629
+2348034875234
+2348050505666

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Loveisnotenough: 5:38pm On Jun 30, 2022
Are you married yet?

Send me the family pictures.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by obinna58(m): 5:41pm On Jun 30, 2022
Listen to this and be ready to suffer till death





Make you're very comfortable in life before thinking about children, no one will come to your rescue, even your wife will give you a more miserable life.
Live to satisfy yourself only

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by FERNANDEZISBACK: 5:47pm On Jun 30, 2022
obinna58:
Listen to this and be ready to suffer till death





Make you're very comfortable in life before thinking about children, no one will come to your rescue, even your wife will give you a more miserable life.
Live to satisfy yourself only
You are a sensible Nigerian..the op is only advertising his BS..

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by fineboynl(m): 5:48pm On Jun 30, 2022
Marry to who? Nigerian girls? That will add sorrow to your life rather than softening it.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by paulolee(m): 5:50pm On Jun 30, 2022
maybe no be same naija we dey, i never chop 3 square meal n de tink to run to back n stay with my parents
u de talk about feeding a bea n children...na u sabi o

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by ImpregnaTor(m): 6:07pm On Jun 30, 2022
grin grin grin E go choke some people cheesy
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jun 30, 2022
paulolee:
maybe no be same naija we dey, i never chop 3 square meal n de tink to run to back n stay with my parents
u de talk about feeding a bea n children...na u sabi o


lol
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Anietieo: 6:16pm On Jun 30, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

You are a sensible Nigerian..the op is only advertising his BS..
abi ooh...
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by yomi007k(m): 6:24pm On Jun 30, 2022
obinna58:
Listen to this and be ready to suffer till death





Make you're very comfortable in life before thinking about children, no one will come to your rescue, even your wife will give you a more miserable life.
Live to satisfy yourself only

No mind that guy.
.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by zionmde: 6:51pm On Jun 30, 2022
obinna58:
Listen to this and be ready to suffer till death





Make you're very comfortable in life before thinking about children, no one will come to your rescue, even your wife will give you a more miserable life.
Live to satisfy yourself only
Until u are 50yrs and ur first child is 10, that's when you will know what is suffering

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by obinna58(m): 7:06pm On Jun 30, 2022
zionmde:

Until u are 50yrs and ur first child is 10, that's when you will know what is suffering
And what's wrong with that? So long you're living a good life.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Mryacks: 7:15pm On Jun 30, 2022
obinna58:

And what's wrong with that? So long you're living a good life.




Exactly......I see Ned Nwoko still having babies at 60 something with Regina Daniels. There is no time frame to these things.

Besides, how about couples that married in their 20's and had to wait for 5, 10, 15 years or more before having.

Some people just like to talk without sense as if this life is ABC..

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by emmanuelbrown26: 7:20pm On Jun 30, 2022
zionmde:

Until u are 50yrs and ur first child is 10, that's when you will know what is suffering
And what's wrong in that? No wonder poor are getting poorer bcs of your mindset. How old was Jay Z before he got married to Beyonce?
Una go dey yan off point, same Nigerian girls wey go add more sorrow.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by emmanuelbrown26: 7:22pm On Jun 30, 2022
balmingilead:
Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by the grace of the almighty God ....

*DEDICATED TO ALL THE SINGLES, INCLUDING ME �.

We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease.

Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation -
+2348055515629
+2348034875234
+2348050505666
Oga en cum bi like say u no sabi marketing at all. U hv lost your angle and target in marketing.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:23pm On Jun 30, 2022
zionmde:

Until u are 50yrs and ur first child is 10, that's when you will know what is suffering
Why do most Africa-Nigerians see kids as an achievement or something.. what's wrong with having kids at 50 or not having kids at all? undecided

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by falcon01: 7:59pm On Jun 30, 2022
Well... marry but don't have kids, make sure you are ready.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Robertgreene1(m): 8:35pm On Jun 30, 2022
What nonsense....
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by jericco1(m): 8:42pm On Jun 30, 2022
paulolee:
maybe no be same naija we dey, i never chop 3 square meal n de tink to run to back n stay with my parents
u de talk about feeding a bea n children...na u sabi o

Funny man
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by diogo23: 8:50pm On Jun 30, 2022
obinna58:
Listen to this and be ready to suffer till death





Make you're very comfortable in life before thinking about children, no one will come to your rescue, even your wife will give you a more miserable life.
Live to satisfy yourself only
Don't mind that idiot deceiving people at this hard time
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by blinking001(m): 8:53pm On Jun 30, 2022
What kind of bad advice are you dishing out to young men bro?
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Silentgroper(m): 9:13pm On Jun 30, 2022
So nigerian girls add sorrow to their mens life. Who i go come marry like this
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by koyyess: 9:17pm On Jun 30, 2022
grin grin grin

Drop your number so the people you are advising can come and beg you for school fees.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Nonexisting: 9:33pm On Jun 30, 2022
Nonsense advice. Marriage is overrated. If you are poor, your wife will cheat on you with rich men and if you are rich, she will still cheat on you with poor men. They don't know what they want. The best way to handle them is to exist alongside them without investing any emotion. Make babies with them but don't marry them. Your children will always be your children. Even single mothers send their children to their real fathers at some point especially when they want to move on with their simp lovers. That marriage you look up to, have you gone on the inside to see how the couple feel trapped especially the man. Most men achieve more after divorce, have you asked why? Enough said for now.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by zionmde: 9:33pm On Jun 30, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Why do most Africa-Nigerians see kids as an acute or something.. what's wrong with having kids at 50 or not having kids at all? undecided
African Nigerian indeed, what's the population of US and China again?
Anyway wen we are young we can make a lot of penny wise pound foolish decisions, old age will always present the report card
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by zionmde: 9:36pm On Jun 30, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

And what's wrong in that? No wonder poor are getting poorer bcs of your mindset. How old was Jay Z before he got married to Beyonce?
Una go dey yan off point, same Nigerian girls wey go add more sorrow.
The last person that gave me that advice is someone u might never be able to lace his shoes all ur life. Poor getting poorer indeed. Not everybody is unlucky to be meeting leeches some have met real women that have added real values to their lives. I guess it's ur mindset that will change the day u meet one
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by horlahwaley(m): 9:47pm On Jun 30, 2022
Op, mo ro pe e n siereundecided

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by JoyousFurnitire(m): 9:53pm On Jun 30, 2022
You dey craze, you no oped thread of how men 25-30 can be their own boss. Indiara undecided
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by JoyousFurnitire(m): 9:55pm On Jun 30, 2022
zionmde:

Until u are 50yrs and ur first child is 10, that's when you will know what is suffering

Your mentality get k-leg undecided

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Jmichael1(m): 9:57pm On Jun 30, 2022
Dis OP need better slap....

U dey advice person wen never chop belleful to go marry nigeria grl...guy u no try ooh
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by johnkey: 10:10pm On Jun 30, 2022
Stupid idiot
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by ukaface(f): 10:16pm On Jun 30, 2022
balmingilead:
Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by the grace of the almighty God ....

*DEDICATED TO ALL THE SINGLES, INCLUDING ME �.

We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease.

Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation -
+2348055515629
+2348034875234
+2348050505666
But what's this issue of ' grow with your kids'

First advice them to know and understand what marriage, parenting entails.
Most don't even know the different styles/ types of parenting.
Some don't know what marriage is all about.
It's usually about kids,kids.

Get things right abeg.
You think say to dey groom pikin Na beans.

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