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czarr:
You are just looking for someone to tell you that going back to your ex isn't a terrible idea.

It is.

Bisiebae:
You guys broke up for a reason. Trust me, if you don't find a common ground, you will break up again. Don't ignore red flags. Stay sharp.

Medianna:
Na you no value yourself brotherly. If your story is true she will come around cuz they always do.
Just be patient and wait for her but if you make a mistake of taking a step first, you may not like the result.
You may be missing yea. But weigh you peace of mind when you were with her vs now that you're alone.
Sadly, some decisions in life has nothing to do with convenience but peace of mind..

Emerald04:
Go back to someone who doesn’t value you? Y’all lots won’t just ceased amazing me. And stop saying you’re a student of shola, you’er just one of his Twitter followers who are there to increases his twitters likes and engagement, you failed his class woefully, you shouldn’t be make to repeat class, you should be expelled!!

Cus you no be student at all. Shola I know is a king, and a king values himself the most.

But you are a confused fellow who don’t even understand what bn valuable mean, that’s why your girl will never value you.


My apology if I take things too personal, but damn you have low esteem. How tf will you consider going back to someone you mentioned doesn’t valued you?

Relationship is not a must ok? Work on yourself first. Once you’er valuable, they all come for you.

Here’s a short tip man.

Gold and water are both valuable natural resources.
Water has much value than Gold and more essential while gold on the other hand limit it’s circle.
Gold don’t go to people, but water do visits people, at a point people start to ridiculed water, because till date people never know how essential water is, because of it much availability whenever people needs her. But this same people risks their lives for gold, who won’t even do quarter of what water is doing for them.

The point is when you know your worth, people will valued you, but if you failed to realized your worth on time, you’ll be ridiculed forever.

Keep your head straight kings.

Starz825:
You going back to someone that clearly doesn't value you...
Even in those 3 months you separated..no calls, no chat messages.....

My recent ex dey message me on Whatsapp...I no answer her...she dey ask people about me...if I dey fine...
Na so he supposed dey be....
My female friends that I don't have a formal relationship with sef...just because I stopped communicating all of a sudden....she still dey call over 1 month now to know wetin she do me..wey make me excommunicate...

Ladies don't value people who act cheap..dey scarce ..dey expensive....dey like say you not afraid to lose people.. though respect people..

meobizy:
You never search well enough.

tayo200:
Good day nairalanders, I broke up with my girlfriend 3 months ago after we have dated for 3 years. It's been 3 months we last talked, either chat or call. No form of contact. I broke up with her due to the fact that she doesn't value me as her boyfriend. It's really disturbing and she doesn't want to change.
During these 3 months, I've had 2 girlfriends,which I think can replace her but to be honest, it's not easy getting into a new relationship these days o.. all these girls are widyling.. one started asking for money the 3rd days she said yes..haaaa...one will be uploading different guys on her WhatsApp, calling them bestie..yeeee...talo ni bestie ofo? Me sef know wetin I dey do when I be bestie nah..lol...I'm a student of Shola on Twitter, of you know what I mean.
In short,in comparison, my ex is better. Her own devil is better. And another thing is,to start from "what's your favorite food" is not easy o..
I'm thinking of going back to my ex. I've learnt through one of our mutual friends that she's not in any relationship too. Which still gives me the opportunity. To be honest, I'm really considering it, although I've not done it. Love is a feeling. If we start again, surely,the love will be back.
I need first hand advice from people that have experienced this - going back to their ex. Is it a nice move? Would things get better or worse?
I know most people would say it's not a nice move(I would say that too) but I need people with experience to give the advice.
Thank you. I'll be checking the comments section.

Cc: lalasticlala Kindly push to FP. It's a matter of life and death.. lol...

tayo200:
.I'm a student of Shola on Twitter, of you know what I mean.

tayo200:
Good day nairalanders, I broke up with my girlfriend 3 months ago after we have dated for 3 years. It's been 3 months we last talked, either chat or call. No form of contact. I broke up with her due to the fact that she doesn't value me as her boyfriend. It's really disturbing and she doesn't want to change.
During these 3 months, I've had 2 girlfriends,which I think can replace her but to be honest, it's not easy getting into a new relationship these days o.. all these girls are widyling.. one started asking for money the 3rd days she said yes..haaaa...one will be uploading different guys on her WhatsApp, calling them bestie..yeeee...talo ni bestie ofo? Me sef know wetin I dey do when I be bestie nah..lol...I'm a student of Shola on Twitter, of you know what I mean.
In short,in comparison, my ex is better. Her own devil is better. And another thing is,to start from "what's your favorite food" is not easy o..
I'm thinking of going back to my ex. I've learnt through one of our mutual friends that she's not in any relationship too. Which still gives me the opportunity. To be honest, I'm really considering it, although I've not done it. Love is a feeling. If we start again, surely,the love will be back.
I need first hand advice from people that have experienced this - going back to their ex. Is it a nice move? Would things get better or worse?
I know most people would say it's not a nice move(I would say that too) but I need people with experience to give the advice.
Thank you. I'll be checking the comments section.

Cc: lalasticlala Kindly push to FP. It's a matter of life and death.. lol...

tayo200:
Spot on..

wisdomkid:
You're a student of Shola and you're still going back to your ex? Shame on you. She suppose carry her family members come beg you na.
You failed SholaNation sir.

No go. Stay your lane and let them gals come begging you. Sending you monthly allowance and still cook for you.
Don't fall in love please.

Medianna:
Yours is a case of a person whom let go of a branch to hold on to a leaf
2:0 is sure in such scenarios

HopeNeverDies:
2:0 in what way? Tryna explain

Medianna:
like the good lady you left, you did not get
The lady you thought to be better, did not meet up to your expectations.
Its a loss loss you know!

HopeNeverDies:
Like for real... It Sucks Alot.

Each time I remember her; it makes me sad buh I figured out that an ex is an ex.

Medianna:
Yea. True
But not all ex are ex some still get back together if its worth it

HopeNeverDies:
You’re 200% on point. The reason why I can’t push this further is coz, she has given birth already now... that’s what pains me till this moment!!!! If not, LoL... I would have called her back ASAP

tayo200:
Omoooo.. e no easy o... I go intensify my search then.

Sorry to ask o but is there anything wrong with being single? You act as if being single is a fate worse than death, as if someone is asking you to drink sniper

Do you hate your own company that much?