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Since 2010, i've been in a serious & open relationship with my fiancee, whom i've intended to marry. Her family & relations all knows about our friendship.

Her parents have always advice her to find someone else, that i won't marry her since i'm educated, & she's not. But i've always told her not to listen to them, that there is no way i would disappoint her, & that is just the truth.

We both are from thesame community, but currently living at different location. I've gotten a job, and was just planning on marrying her.

I visited home Last season & did a conner betting with someone else, and i was shock when she called me months later that she is pregnant. I had to take leave from work just to go home. I told her to abort it, but she & her mother refused. Her mum said if i don't need the baby, that she will train the baby all by herself

Its being six months now, & i have decided to take my responsibility of her and the child, but i've kept it all a secrete from my fiancee.

I need help on how to tell her.

I've been in a relationship with her even before i gained admission into higher institution. And she has always supported me. She did'nt go to school, but no a hair dresser. I'm just confused, i still talk to her like before, and she still do call me every minute. I don't know what will happen if i finally tell her..

as for the child, her mum said that even if i don't want the baby to answer my name, that she will still keep it and won't consider abortion which i suggested.

i don't know if i should just let them have the baby so as to have peace with my fiancee. I'm really confused.

The same way you came here to tell us.

Surmon the courage, the worst she'll do is kill you!

Be bold enough to tell her, the same way you convinced and impregnated someone's daughter

danietohbadt:
The same way you came here to tell us.

Surmon the courage, the worst she'll do is kill you!

that is my fear, i'm not sure if she will be able to accept it. That is why i need help.

BrainWorkers:
that is my fear, i'm not sure if she will be able to accept it. That is why i need help.

You don't need help Brotherman. It is what it is, this is the kind of shit that comes with being unfaithful. Sorry, and even when you choose to be unfaithful, why didn't you use protection?

Lol, you're funny boss, real men don't even cum in ladies even with their condoms worn. No time to risk am.


You done f*ck up, and if she ever gets to know, she go treat your f*ck up.

When you hear people say satan, you think they are refering to the satan in the bible. Some person are just the devil themself in human form, using op as an example. How can you keep this a secrete from her up till this time, chaii.

Exactly wetin happen to my guy


He was so lucky he had a correct father in-law , the FIL intervened, that was how the issue was resolved.. The marriage was done peacefully.. That girl gave birth to a boy .


But now the stupid boy has impregnated that former girl again and his wife gave birth 2weeks ago ... The wahala when de front de come ehn , there go show the idioot Boy for ARISE TV .. Very Senseless Raam ... His wife doesn’t even know what the idiooot has done yet , she go faint this time , first time na mistake, 2nd time nor be mistake again oh

Somebody should pls play op verse 1 of woman by omah lay

BrainWorkers:
Since 2010, i've been in a serious & open relationship with my fiancee, whom i've intended to marry. Her family & relations all knows about our friendship.

Her parents have always advice her to find someone else, that i won't marry her since i'm educated, & she's not. But i've always told her not to listen to them, that there is no way i would disappoint her, & that is just the truth.

We both are from thesame community, but currently living at different location. I've gotten a job, and was just planning on marrying her.

I visited home Last season & did a conner betting with someone else, and i was shock when she called me months later that she is pregnant. I had to take leave from work just to go home. I told her to abort it, but she & her mother refused. Her mum said if i don't need the baby, that she will train the baby all by herself

Its being six months now, & i have decided to take my responsibility of her and the child, but i've kept it all a secrete from my fiancee.

I need help on how to tell her.

E be like you no know say that girl no like you....


How will she be pregnant for someone else and you still want to marry her?

Most men are the reason of their problems...

Tomorrow you will come here and spill thrash saying YOUR WIFE IS CHEATING ON YOU WITH HER EX...

Even the parents no approve you self..

You ain't seeing the HANDWRITING on the Wall bro

Op, if this is true, then you need the best advice in this word otherwise person fit kpai in the end. But una get mind sha.

Uzomacharles:
E be like you no know say that girl no like you....


How will she be pregnant for someone else and you still want to marry her?

Most men are the reason of their problems...

Tomorrow you will come here and spill thrash saying YOUR WIFE IS CHEATING ON YOU WITH HER EX...

Even the parents no approve you self..

You ain't seeing the HANDWRITING on the Wall bro

what did u read mr man. The op say him get a fiancee but him don give another person belle instead of him fiancee. Now him dey find as him wan take tell him fiancee.

danietohbadt:
The same way you came here to tell us.

Surmon the courage, the worst she'll do is kill you!

i'm very sure she'll poison the op and her side chick if she finds out. Las las op go marry the two for the land of the d**d.

danietohbadt:
You don't need help Brotherman. It is what it is, this is the kind of shit that comes with being unfaithful. Sorry, and even when you choose to be unfaithful, why didn't you use protection?

Lol, you're funny boss, real men don't even cum in ladies even with their condoms worn. No time to risk am.


You done f*ck up, and if she ever gets to know, she go treat your f*ck up.

Boss, I go like jump on this your single oo

Mylordmygod1:
i'm very sure she'll poison the op and her side chick if she finds out. Las las op go marry the two for the land of the d**d.

Lol, definitely!

Omo, you are about to release another bitter woman into the street. Nigga, better handle that shiit well.

This one though i swear.

Best advice I have ever come across " never make a decision that will complicate your life"

DroppingLiquid:
Omo, you are about to release another bitter woman into the street. Nigga, better handle that shiit well.

she won't have to trust men again, she will be like all men are thesame.

danietohbadt:
The same way you came here to tell us.

Surmon the courage, the worst she'll do is kill you!

Records it on your phone and give her to play thank me later

Best advice is to allow her finds out by herself. You have to be very careful, because u're playing with your life. You are wicked.

newdawnlive:
Records it on your phone and give her to play thank me later

but like seriously, this guy they joke with him life o.

I’m in slightly different shoe with the op.
I need advice as well.

My case is this ...let me call my girlfriend A , and Ex B.
I’ve been dating A for about 2 years now. During December 2020, I went home and bumped into B. We reconnected. I took B as sex mate while she wanted a relationship.
All these while I am in a solid friendship/relationship with A.

B got hint I’m not committed to her only for sex. She perceived i had a girlfriend. I told her the truth. We parted in March 2021.
While with B , our sex is without protection. She normally takes pills after it.

Fast forward June 2021, B came around and told me she’s pregnant. It showed 3 months. It matched during our time together. I rejected her and the pregnancy. I told her for 3 months , she must have known or she had sex with another. She denied that and insisted I was the only one ( while together , we had sex often 2-3x times weekly ).
After much squabbles , she left , blocked me everywhere.
Around October 2021, I tried my best to reach her and her siblings, it proved fruitless.

Meanwhile , I have built some rock of friendship, relationship and trust with A , her family and my family.

Last June 2022, B brother called me. He told B delivered a boy last year , November 2021. That I should come and take care of my son. I was shocked.
I’ve already assumed some responsibilities.

B isn’t anxious of marriage . She demands I take care of the baby. But I’m dead broke. The little saving I had is gone. I’m in debt of more than 300k. ( I had to get her a house and furnishing ). She refused to stay in her family house , she was staying with the brother before , the place isn’t conducive for a baby. Now I’m looking for money for baby wears.
I did Genotype and Blood Group test on the baby , it showed AS, O+. I’m AA , O+. But I want to re-perform the test with B together. Now I’m looking for money to do so also.

Marriage isn’t on discussion on B side. They are aware I have a girlfriend A.
To me , I won’t consider B for marriage for personal reasons. ( A ) got me.

The matter now is how will I tell A about the child ? And how will I tell her I cheated ( though I’ve been faithful to A since April, 2021. We met July , 2020 ).
A isn’t around ( her mother died ) , and I’m participating a bit in the burial. While the mum was sick I and my family helped a lot.
Every dream is built on A. Marriage though not on the table now or the next 2 years is subconsciously on our minds.

A and I ( including B ) are students, young and broke in 20’s.