kwasoly:
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If your a gay tell us and stop all this nonsense of wanting to be alone.

KemeticPrince:


What's this

I was born on the 28th of september.

KemeticPrince:
Hello guys!

I need an opinion on issues concerning my marriage.

I got married two years ago, although left to me i would never have gotten married but i had to as the only son of my parent.

I live separately from my wife(a house i built, while i live in a rented place) and although we live in the same state but i can't just seem to live or co-exist peacefully with any other person other than myself.

My wife has really been on my neck lately, she came to my house last week with our child and refused to go back after a week. I am tired and i just wish to be alone please.

I am not a deadbeat dad, i give her 100k every month for food and utilities.

I just want to be left alone, i don't hate her, infact i appreciate all she does but i just love doing things on my own. I'll love my family structure to be this way, i mean coming home to visit my kids(when i have more) and wife every two weeks.

chris51:



Then you have a serious mental problem

newcommer:


You know you're right. it's very possible he's gay

KemeticPrince:


Nothing triggered my aloness. In my early twenties i always wondered why i loved being alone until i saw my primary school report card where my teacher's remark was that i wasn't friendly. The only reason i try to act friendly now that i am grown is because of business deals.

kwasoly:



No normal man will marry and leave in separate apartment with his wife, instead they will have separate rooms
The guy na gay him no want make the wife know but one day monkey go go market him no go return.

rickpat:
you have to start learning how to get used to her around you...money is not everything...the woman and your child has other needs.. emotional support,mental support,love and care...

bro I will be very honest to you,you are very very selfish...yes,you ain't ready to marry but you did so as an only son...so,you see,you are there(married) and according to you..you love and appreciate this woman for all she does...so how do you pay her?..with loneliness?..with partial absence from the life of her child?..c'mon bro face reality before you loose a good woman or she loses her patience or she turns into a monster you can't tame...

spend time with them...FIND THINGS YOU AND THEM CAN DO TOGETHER (games, movies etc)..go on a little vacation with them,where you will not think or respond to work or any of those stuffs you prefer to do when you are alone,I think that's a great way to start getting used to them....

I wish you the best,please bro don't destroy your family... there's a limit to the patience of your wife...good luck

iomoge2:
Staying in the same city makes it awkward.

Get a job far away and move.

I am a july born and feel this way too.

But then I am female and my kids are drawn to me and they are female.

I must keep them under my watch.

I know if I was a man. I would have preferred solitude.

Nothing is wrong with you.

For me I just hate the chaos and noise and scattering of the house and leaving your things around or touching things I keep.

I hate someone touching me when I sleep too. I could sleep at the edge of the bed.

Motherhood made me warm up to kids touching me.

JBriel:



Let me guess.


You were a good science student. Infact an exceptional one


Your birth month is around September



Your soul is wrapped up and you need to unwrap. Yes, it may not be trauma induced and it may be how you're created. One must give room for this ideology.


One thing is certain like I said above, every human behavior can be unlearned. New habits can be developed. With this mindset, who and what is stopping you?

SoapQueen:


I'm not sure. It's Aquarius men that possess this sort of selfish, cold-hearted, and mean blooded traits...

JBriel:



He isn't selfish. Instead he is a jello within. He isn't cold hearted either, he just wants his space and do live there unperturbed.

SoapQueen:


If he wasn't selfish, he wouldn't have married to please his parents. Speaking of parents, I'm wondering why he's denying his child of complete fatherly love. It's only a cold-blooded person who wouldn't want to compromise. To hell with him.

KemeticPrince:
Hello guys!

I need an opinion on issues concerning my marriage.

I got married two years ago, although left to me i would never have gotten married but i had to as the only son of my parent.

I live separately from my wife(a house i built, while i live in a rented place) and although we live in the same state but i can't just seem to live or co-exist peacefully with any other person other than myself.

My wife has really been on my neck lately, she came to my house last week with our child and refused to go back after a week. I am tired and i just wish to be alone please.

I am not a deadbeat dad, i give her 100k every month for food and utilities.

I just want to be left alone, i don't hate her, infact i appreciate all she does but i just love doing things on my own. I'll love my family structure to be this way, i mean coming home to visit my kids(when i have more) and wife every two weeks.

MagicBishop:


You are a selfish bastard .

You think marriage and being a father is all about money?

Free that woman and go and live as a recluse in the bush.

Narcistic selfish idiot.

You provably a bottom gay sef.prefers

JBriel:




Lol. Easy. He needs to discover himself and he will do better. He's actually an amazing person and the kind that won't hurt anyone but go about his business privately. With some correctional talks he'll do better


If he reaches out, I can talk with him for a one year period and help him achieve completeness he currently lacks

SoapQueen:


You took the words out of my mouth. Imagine bringing a child to this world and allowing his wife to deal with his demonic acts. The crazy thing is that he'd cry foul if his wife steps out on him.

I know his type, selfish, hypocritical, and wicked.

SoapQueen:


Abeg make I hear word. I've seen his type before and whenever I remember him, I go dey happy say I dodged the bullet that was a selfish soul.

Amazing person that cannot consider the well-being of his son. I hear you.

JBriel:


I'm sorry but you're wrong. This isn't a bad person

NaBanga:


In the United States, most of what you described would likely put you under the umbrella of Autism spectrum disorder. However Nigeria is a different place. The op may have the same or be a homosexual. He needs to let his wife know his feelings so she can make a choice about her future. Eventually she will get a lover if the op continues to push her away. Unfortunately that could place her and her kids in a harm's way. It's best for him to be honest.

SoapQueen:


Lol. Okay. I've heard you.

He isn't bad, truly.. he's plain evil.

I hope you read my harsh words @Op and go cry about it.

*Dodges Bathroom slippers*

SoapQueen:


I'm not sure. It's Aquarius men that possess this sort of selfish, cold-hearted, and mean blooded traits...

JBriel:




Hahaha. Now I understand.. He isn't who you think he is. He isn't your ex

jelel6:


You say this with so much authority that I had to check to see whether I'm Aquarius . Turns out I am indeed. But common, you can't possibly and wholly believe this zodiac myths do you?

I share in the OP's desire for solitude and control but I think the poster is quite extreme about the way he handles it. It really is a self-centered and selfish move on his part. Totally unprovoked and unjustifiable since he's not claiming his wife has a role in his decision.

SoapQueen:


Na, he can never be. I always repay my debts, trust me *winks*

Op...if you read this...nvm..

KemeticPrince:
Hello guys!

I need an opinion on issues concerning my marriage.

I got married two years ago, although left to me i would never have gotten married but i had to as the only son of my parent.

I live separately from my wife(a house i built, while i live in a rented place) and although we live in the same state but i can't just seem to live or co-exist peacefully with any other person other than myself.

My wife has really been on my neck lately, she came to my house last week with our child and refused to go back after a week. I am tired and i just wish to be alone please.

I am not a deadbeat dad, i give her 100k every month for food and utilities.

I just want to be left alone, i don't hate her, infact i appreciate all she does but i just love doing things on my own. I'll love my family structure to be this way, i mean coming home to visit my kids(when i have more) and wife every two weeks.