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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by EmiDon11: 5:02pm On Jul 11, 2022
Persephone1:
Lalasticlala frontpage please cheesy
laaaaaa!
If i ever see this in frontpage, imma blast ur head

Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by EmiDon11: 5:07pm On Jul 11, 2022
Persephone1:
Don't derail this frontpage material thread please angry
if it makes frontpage, let my prick get stucked in the vaj imma Bleep today
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Prettygirl200(f): 5:36pm On Jul 11, 2022
Bleeched guys or fair guys ( my spec are dark guys)
Body built guys ( just be moderate)
Short guys,( an average or tall is okay)
Hot tempered guys ( a cool headed guy is okay since am harsh)
A stingy guy( I hate them with passion)
A guy that talks too much
That's all for now though.

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by LadyD22(f): 6:17pm On Jul 11, 2022
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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by LadyD22(f): 6:30pm On Jul 11, 2022
Persephone1:
Mine is :

Mouth odour

Invisible bulge, I hate dots angry

Excessive display of material things.

Lack of respect and finesse.

Talking too much angry


I will add more later.


1) "you're the only girl I like , all these other hoes are fat , ugly , useless and bleached , but you're different, so I want you"

2) when he disrespects other women in my presence to make me feel safe that he won't cheat , I'm scared of those ones , one day he'll disrespect me too , a responsible man respects everyone first and foremost, I would never be proud of a man acting like a bitch to any woman just to make a point , leave that to me , if I see a crazy one , I'll do the dirty work

3) men who find it hard to receive compliments , I'm telling you you're fine and you're telling me that I should look at your haircut , such low self esteem , cannot be my spec

4) I just broke up with my girlfriend of 10 years , I'm not up for rebound sir , do I look be like Taylor swift, move forward

5) what do you bring to the table? You were finished before you started

6)0 talking stage , you entered my dm 5 minutes ago and you're asking me to be your wife , you need screening

7) how can you tell me that you've been in talking stage with me since 1 - 6 months , me I'm already in a relationship with another person , I thought we friend zoned each other

cool audacity and effontery to request we go Dutch , split the bills 50/50 in the name of supporting feminism , liar oshi , you won't remember feminism when you're asking me in the future if I've made dinner , that's if you even have a future with me , God forbid bad thing

9) you can spend your entire timeline in the gym , you're carrying 6 pack upandan , I like responsible looking men with Belle , those ones that eat swallow and credit my akant unprovoked , I don't need six pack , thanks don't mention

10) house you no get , car you don't have , investment e no dey , but you're using the latest Samsung flipphone , you have all of Apple's latest devices , your wardrobe Gucci , givenchy , your barber is the same person barbing Drake's hair unnecessarily expensive, I'm not about to start training a grown man on how to manage his money , take your money and go

11)you're always shouting how you're a man and how you take care of your Women , how you're very romantic , how you're an alpha male , that's a strategy I know you're the opposite of all those things , the real ones no too dey make noise , they just show up and do it , get lost

12) you've ever asked "can you cook?" To a woman , no I can't, I'm not about to be an unpaid chef for anyone , even me sef I starve because I no wan enter kitchen, move on

13) you're on every woman's post , commenting , liking , at your age you're using Snapchat not even LinkedIn tufiakwa

14) you're below 6 feet, you can't handle a stallion sweetie cool buh bye

15) you're chasing women and you don't have resources to keep your kidney in your chest , instead of you to face the issue at hand , you're looking for someone to join you and drown , instead of you to look for conferences , workshops , seminars and mentors , you're looking for a hotel , you're using your last cash to pay for Uber , and your small salary is spent on chicken and chips plus Cold Stone for Netflix and chill and you'll be blaming village people , I don't have respect for men that use their last money for relationships or men that are in relationships when they're not stable ,
Their defense is " so because I'm broke I should not love , you do you have money?" when you love you should make better choices not worse , because you want to make the person you love feel safe
Those ones prefer short term pleasure over long term peace , such a dangerous game

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jul 11, 2022
LadyD22 this your list long oooo. cheesy

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Unlimited4G: 12:15am On Jul 12, 2022
Persephone1:
Mine is :

Mouth odour

Invisible bulge, I hate dots angry

Excessive display of material things.

Lack of respect and finesse.

Talking too much angry


I will add more later.

__________________________________________

1... A man that's too nice. [They appear boring & immature].

2....Lack of self confidence.

3....A man that goes after a lady like a lost puppy, can't control his emotions.

4.... A Gossip, a liar, a thief, a bitter/jealous man.

5.... Possessive/insecured man.

6.... Irresponsible man who makes excuses over little things.

7..... A man with entitlement mentality who thinks one doesn't have the right to say No to him because of his money or favours he offered.

8.... A dirty & messy man.

9..... Poor dress code, bushy hair, poor colour combination, dirty nails, body/mouth odour, wearing rumpled cloths.

10.... "A baby Man".

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Mrscarter(f): 12:23am On Jul 12, 2022
Cypress042:
Buy a bag cement add it small sand and muld the man of your dream is very simple angry

Men are tired, we need rest undecided

That one be golem lmao

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Mrscarter(f): 12:27am On Jul 12, 2022
Persephone1:
Mine is :

Mouth odour

Invisible bulge, I hate dots angry

Excessive display of material things.

Lack of respect and finesse.

Talking too much angry


I will add more later.


Don't like over muscular guys.
Must be intelligent and funny n cute n tall with sexy voice
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Yusufisraelj(m): 2:03am On Jul 12, 2022
LadyD22:


1) "you're the only girl I like , all these other hoes are fat , ugly , useless and bleached , but you're different, so I want you"

2) when he disrespects other women in my presence to make me feel safe that he won't cheat , I'm scared of those ones , one day he'll disrespect me too , a responsible man respects everyone first and foremost, I would never be proud of a man acting like a bitch to any woman just to make a point , leave that to me , if I see a crazy one , I'll do the dirty work

3) men who find it hard to receive compliments , I'm telling you you're fine and you're telling me that I should look at your haircut , such low self esteem , cannot be my spec

4) I just broke up with my girlfriend of 10 years , I'm not up for rebound sir , do I look be like Taylor swift, move forward

5) what do you bring to the table? You were finished before you started

6)0 talking stage , you entered my dm 5 minutes ago and you're asking me to be your wife , you need screening

7) how can you tell me that you've been in talking stage with me since 1 - 6 months , me I'm already in a relationship with another person , I thought we friend zoned each other

cool audacity and effontery to request we go Dutch , split the bills 50/50 in the name of supporting feminism , liar oshi , you won't remember feminism when you're asking me in the future if I've made dinner , that's if you even have a future with me , God forbid bad thing

9) you can spend your entire timeline in the gym , you're carrying 6 pack upandan , I like responsible looking men with Belle , those ones that eat swallow and credit my akant unprovoked , I don't need six pack , thanks don't mention

10) house you no get , car you don't have , investment e no dey , but you're using the latest Samsung flipphone , you have all of Apple's latest devices , your wardrobe Gucci , givenchy , your barber is the same person barbing Drake's hair unnecessarily expensive, I'm not about to start training a grown man on how to manage his money , take your money and go

11)you're always shouting how you're a man and how you take care of your Women , how you're very romantic , how you're an alpha male , that's a strategy I know you're the opposite of all those things , the real ones no too dey make noise , they just show up and do it , get lost

12) you've ever asked "can you cook?" To a woman , no I can't, I'm not about to be an unpaid chef for anyone , even me sef I starve because I no wan enter kitchen, move on

13) you're on every woman's post , commenting , liking , at your age you're using Snapchat not even LinkedIn tufiakwa

14) you're below 6 feet, you can't handle a stallion sweetie cool buh bye

15) you're chasing women and you don't have resources to keep your kidney in your chest , instead of you to face the issue at hand , you're looking for someone to join you and drown , instead of you to look for conferences , workshops , seminars and mentors , you're looking for a hotel , you're using your last cash to pay for Uber , and your small salary is spent on chicken and chips plus Cold Stone for Netflix and chill and you'll be blaming village people , I don't have respect for men that use their last money for relationships or men that are in relationships when they're not stable ,
Their defense is " so because I'm broke I should not love , you do you have money?" when you love you should make better choices not worse , because you want to make the person you love feel safe
Those ones prefer short term pleasure over long term peace , such a dangerous game


Lols see requirements, can you match what you're dishing out?

So na your new moniker b dis?

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by LadyD22(f): 12:18pm On Jul 12, 2022
Yusufisraelj:



Lols see requirements, can you match what you're dishing out?

So na your new moniker b dis?

I was expecting one bafoon to ask me this , the guys that are requiring boobs and ass , do they have boobs and ass ? grin

This requirement is not even all my requirement , I'm just tired if typing , what exactly did you read that you're asking if I match , everything I wrote was traits of a responsible respectable man, interpersonal skills that could be used in an interpersonal skills on a daily basis , would you prefer I start with......'Okay do I need him to have curly black, chiseled abs , a BMW , a house in Los Angeles "

Even simple manners is too much to ask for from your kind , but you're typing somewhere , " I want a woman with clean kitty , big boobs and ass , flat stomach , waist long hair , in fact I want her to look like Nicki Minaj but without the surgery NATURAL BEAUTY" grin

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jul 12, 2022
Mrscarter:


Don't like over muscular guys.
Must be intelligent and funny n cute n tall with sexy voice
I don't like guys with too much abs too, however I shouldn't have lines on my cheeks when I rest my head on his chest though.

Yes deep baritone voice with a dark sexy penetrating eyes. wink You gat it!

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jul 12, 2022
Unlimited4G:

__________________________________________

1... A man that's too nice. [They appear boring & immature].

2....Lack of self confidence.

3....A man that goes after a lady like a lost puppy, can't control his emotions.

4.... A Gossip, a liar, a thief, a bitter/jealous man.

5.... Possessive/insecured man.

6.... Irresponsible man who makes excuses over little things.

7..... A man with entitlement mentality who thinks one doesn't have the right to say No to him because of his money or favours he offered.

8.... A dirty & messy man.

9..... Poor dress code, bushy hair, poor colour combination, dirty nails, body/mouth odour, wearing rumpled cloths.

10.... "A baby Man".
Can a man be too nice? Please explain better ooo.
I don't like cheap guys too. I like men who place value on their body and time.

No to petty men, those things annoy me.

Lol @Baby Men.

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by begoniaa: 8:25pm On Jul 12, 2022
Persephone1:
I don't like guys with too much abs too, however I shouldn't have lines on my cheeks when I rest my head on his chest though.

Yes deep baritone voice with a dark sexy penetrating eyes. wink You gat it!

*Agama eyes looking at yew in 5D* Continue. O n ba e lo. *Yimu-s at her*
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jul 12, 2022
begoniaa:


*Agama eyes looking at yew in 5D* Continue. O n ba e lo. *Yimu-s at her*
grin grin grin
You want to tell me you don't feel those types of guys too grin grin
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by begoniaa: 8:39pm On Jul 12, 2022
Persephone1:
grin grin grin
You want to tell me you don't feel those types of guys too grin grin

Emi omo Olorun? lipsrsealed Sister Bekolari Majekodunmi? Lailai.

What is blue eyes?
What is penetration?
Watin be baritone voice sef? Me I dun know all those things oo. embarassed
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nyascobar1414: 8:39pm On Jul 12, 2022
Even evening newspapers wey no get hope again still dey give list...
Abeg I wan laff oo.. More comments pls..


Next...

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Karemarealty288(m): 8:41pm On Jul 12, 2022
Persephone1:
Only ladies are allowed to state their turn off. You are to learn.

He is a Gay ........
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jul 12, 2022
begoniaa:


Emi omo Olorun? lipsrsealed Sister Bekolari Majekodunmi? Lailai.

What is blue eyes?
What is penetration?
Watin be baritone voice sef? Me I dun know all those things oo. embarassed
grin grin grin This your name deep o, Afi bekolari nah

Lol, keep denying something that is giving you shivers and making your knees weak already tongue
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jul 12, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
Even evening newspapers wey no get hope again still dey give list...

Abeg I wan laff oo..
More comments pls..



Next...
You have been noticed , kindly fall back into the hole you crawled out from. Thanks

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nyascobar1414: 8:54pm On Jul 12, 2022
Persephone1:
You have been noticed , kindly fall back into the hole you crawled out from. Thanks


Are you an Evening newspaper Cos this quote is for them..

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by LUAN(m): 8:56pm On Jul 12, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Bleeched guys or fair guys ( my spec are dark guys)
Body built guys ( just be moderate)
Short guys,( an average or tall is okay)
Hot tempered guys ( a cool headed guy is okay since am harsh)
A stingy guy( I hate them with passion)
A guy that talks too much
That's all for now though.
I pity the simp that will fall for you

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Uchesis: 9:36pm On Jul 12, 2022
Okay...
Physical...
1. Short
2. Muscular
3. Bleached
4. Bald
5. Potbelly
6. Big shapeless head
7. Weird facial features
And many more...
Other turn offs include
1. Poverty
2. Arrogance
3. Religious fanaticism
4. Misogyny
5. Tribal intolerance
6. Insensitivity
7. Lack of empathy
8. Pessimism
And many more...

I don't like men who don't read...
Who don't love pets, esp dogs...
Who are basic...boring...
Who don't enjoy adventures...
Who don't think out of the box...
Who don't love science and tech...
And many more...
Your husband is in Mars. Better go there now

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Unlimited4G: 10:13pm On Jul 12, 2022
Persephone1:
Can a man be too nice? Please explain better ooo.
I don't like cheap guys too. I like men who place value on their body and time.

No to petty men, those things annoy me.

Lol @Baby Men.
__________________________________________

A man is "too nice" when;

1..... He agrees with everything I say/request for without objecting.

2.... Can't say his mind just to avoid getting me upset.

3.....Tries so hard to impress me with money and material things.

4.....Keeps making calculative moves b/c he fears that I would walk away if he expresses himself freely.

5.....Can't make a bold decision without asking for my opinion.. If he expects my opinion to be positive but it turns out to be negative, then he'll change his mind simply because I said the color isn't that nice.

6.... Too scared to exercise authority/take charge of a situation.

To me; these behaviour means "Submissiveness". And it's really annoying to see a man being submissive instead of dominating & taking charge.

I like a man who dominates (not in a toxic, abusive/narcissistic way). It shows he's confident, emotionally matured, strong, etc. Which in turn gives me a sense of security and makes me respect & submit to him.

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Mrscarter(f): 1:19am On Jul 13, 2022
Persephone1:
I don't like guys with too much abs too, however I shouldn't have lines on my cheeks when I rest my head on his chest though.

Yes deep baritone voice with a dark sexy penetrating eyes. wink You gat it!

I like soft voice.
Yeah just average body I like but i like nice arms
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Prettygirl200(f): 8:08am On Jul 13, 2022
LUAN:
I pity the simp that will fall for you
U don't have pity him, he might be better than your entire generation put together grin grin okay So rest!!!

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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jul 30, 2022
Lol all these gals think say life na Telemundo or zee world.... But this nigga hot and got all those qualities though wink!
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jul 30, 2022
pleboi:
Lol all these gals think say life na Telemundo or zee world.... But this nigga hot and got all those qualities though wink!
It's Telemundo or zee world when ladies state their wants right?

These things are not even much for a Nigerian man to be.
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 3:53pm On Jul 30, 2022
@Persephone1
Pls if you know you gat no big ass don't talk to me okay?
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Konjiboii: 4:37pm On Jul 30, 2022
ukaface:
Guy that is always talking sex and after sex.

Guy wey too dey feel proud.

Guys that feel money is the problem of all girls.
Unbearded guys
Fat guys
Bleached skin
' Yahoo boy' clothing signature
Fair skin

We would have gotten along fine but you see sex ehn I too like to fvck.
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by guobe: 10:52pm On Aug 02, 2022
British girl found here.
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Newborn27(f): 4:18am On Aug 03, 2022
illiteracy and not willing to improve.

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