Have watched movies of what I am about to explain now. I just saw it in reality now. Guys should learn from this. Nigeria ladies/women are hell.

let me go straight to the point.

During my NYSC days, I was posted to the Northern part of the country Nigeria. I served with an IT firm cos of my skills and knowledge.

In this company where I served, we had a secretary who is a local ( i mean from that state, LGA to be precise ) working with the firm.

the firm is into skill acquisition and IT training. So i got to meet alot of people from far and wide even international bodies came too for inspection of facilities.

So there was this guy from the East, who do bring systems to us for fixing and upgrades too. he is a big boy in the town because he was well known and had many shops in the LGA for his business services. This guy lives in the Northern part that was where he established himself.

After sometime I observed he always frequent the company, even when he had no issues to be solved, Being a sharp guy like me, I knew it was the secretary that he was always coming for. my guess was right. After some time sha, me and this guy became friends and that was how i now knew he was asking this girl out after which he started dating this girl.

So this guy was a tech expert like me too but in different NICHE. So when i have issues too I do visit his shop for repairs (phone to be precise)

this guy got an apartment for this babe, and was also sponsoring her in school there in the north, and off course allowances too even throwing birthday party for this babe, cos i have attended one of the party before I left that state.

checking online this morning now this same girl is getting married to another man. Not even that Eastern guy that had sponsored her in school.

Note this Eastern Guy IBO to be precise was not a graduate, but could read and understand, write well too, business oriented, he was making a good living from his niche in that state where he is living.

sponsored a girl to school, but of fortunately this girl is marrying another person from what Just I saw on her Facebook post this morning.

guys need to learn.


NOTE; she was working as a secretary in that organization without paper. COS some of you now will be asking how she got the secretary job without education. Also how did I know he was sponsorinng her, She got admission to school and this guy was the one InCharge of the bills and some other stuff.

LoL... This stuff is even common lately among these girls...

Well u just can't tell why they both stopped dating and why the girl married someone else...

Definitely, you gotta think way beyond the fact that the Guy sponsored the girls education or some. Lol, u really think girls of nowadays think about that? Once they see one better offer , they drop the former one saying all sort of excuses or picking up arguments just to cause the breakup...

I'm still surprised some dawgs still sending their chiccs to school or sponsoring their education lol



" Girls be wanting your attention when ur hustling , whereas they can leave u for someone rich and who doesn't give them attention at all " lol

Some fools will still not learn,probably thinking "my babe is different".
Lol.. Premium tears awaits you.

Op, you said her former date was your friend, so ask your friend what really happened, then I can make my contribution, the story is still incomplete.

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Thunder fire am ,ask that same fool to empower his fellow man with business Idea he will strong face like fufu wey Dem punch.

Sponsoring nowadays girls to school is like placing bet.

All of you suddenly made the conclusion that it is the girl that dumped the guy.

What if it was the guy that dumped her, and broke up?

Not every relationship leads to marriage. No be every girl wey cook for man, wash em clothes , and bleeped him ended up as wife. Same with the guys too

Pierocash:
All of you suddenly made the conclusion that it is the girl that dumped the guy.

What if it was the guy that dumped her, and broke up?

Not every relationship leads to marriage. No be every girl wey cook for man, wash em clothes , and bleeped him ended up as wife. Same with the guys too

don't worry, i will find out more details. but i am pretty sure the guy was ready to marry the girl. becuase if not he wouldnt have gone far in taking those steps he took for that girl. i saw everything. this one nor be say i hear from another person mouth. I was the one who do trouble shoot his network infrastructure on weekends when there is issue. I can tell you for sure this girl do come around his place. bros pray you don't fall a victim of such.

jackmrandy:
Have watched movies of what I am about to explain now. I just saw it in reality now. Guys should learn from this. Nigeria ladies/women are hell.

let me go straight to the point.

During my NYSC days, I was posted to the Northern part of the country Nigeria. I served with an IT firm cos of my skills and knowledge.

In this company where I served, we had a secretary who is a local ( i mean from that state, LGA to be precise ) working with the firm.

the firm is into skill acquisition and IT training. So i got to meet alot of people from far and wide even international bodies came too for inspection of facilities.

So there was this guy from the East, who do bring systems to us for fixing and upgrades too. he is a big boy in the town because he was well known and had many shops in the LGA for his business services. This guy lives in the Northern part that was where he established himself.

After sometime I observed he always frequent the company, even when he had no issues to be solved, Being a sharp guy like me, I knew it was the secretary that he was always coming for. my guess was right. After some time sha, me and this guy became friends and that was how i now knew he was asking this girl out after which he started dating this girl.

So this guy was a tech expert like me too but in different NICHE. So when i have issues too I do visit his shop for repairs (phone to be precise)

this guy got an apartment for this babe, and was also sponsoring her in school there in the north, and off course allowances too even throwing birthday party for this babe, cos i have attended one of the party before I left that state.

checking online this morning now this same girl is getting married to another man. Not even that Eastern guy that had sponsored her in school.

Note this Eastern Guy IBO to be precise was not a graduate, but could read and understand, write well too, business oriented, he was making a good living from his niche in that state where he is living.

sponsored a girl to school, but of fortunately this girl is marrying another person from what Just I saw on her Facebook post this morning.

guys need to learn.


NOTE; she was working as a secretary in that organization without paper. COS some of you now will be asking how she got the secretary job without education. Also how did I know he was sponsorinng her, She got admission to school and this guy was the one InCharge of the bills and some other stuff.

Am not surprised to hear this because is very common nowadays.They were only dating but the guy should have sit her down and discuss with her about having future plans than allowing her to marry someone else

jackmrandy:


don't worry, i will find out more details. but i am pretty sure the guy was ready to marry the girl. becuase if not he wouldnt have gone far in taking those steps he took for that girl. i saw everything. this one nor be say i hear from another person mouth. I was the one who do trouble shoot his network infrastructure on weekends when there is issue. I can tell you for sure this girl do come around his place. bros pray you don't fall a victim of such.

you don't have to taunt him even if it is the girl that dumped him.

You are the one making a big deal out of the issue, the guy may not even take it as a big deal. Some men can do anything for a woman once they fall in love, but the moment the relationship fails, they move on , no big deal. Spend only what you can afford to lose, if sending her to school is something not a big deal, do it. But don't spend what will drain you, no hard feelings

Hahahahahah ...
Sincerely, I don't feel sorry for your friend ...

Cause the elders have been saying it here times without number, it is fo.olishness for any man to sponsor a girl or to invest in a girl that isn't his wife, mother, sister, cousin, daughter ...

But y'all don't be listening, y'all be there thinking that "my babe is different", now they have left you behind ...

Either ways sha...
"A f.ool and his money are easily parted" ...
Tell him to move on and learn from this ...

Never invest in any woman, the reward is always death.

The only thing you do for them, is to knack them very hard and dumb them

Pierocash:
you don't have to taunt him even if it is the girl that dumped him.

You are the one making a big deal out of the issue, the guy may not even take it as a big deal. Some men can do anything for a woman once they fall in love, but the moment the relationship fails, they move on , no big deal. Spend only what you can afford to lose, if sending her to school is something not a big deal, do it. But don't spend what will drain you, no hard feelings

See if they play one honestly thank God o. It worse to end up with someone planning to play you. It not simping helping someone out no go send girlfriend go private university o. If na government own, you are being assisted by government. I thank God the guy didn't trade his work for love.

Never invest in a woman hoping to end up with her.na gamble.u shud be stingy to them .you are not her father.only wife get extra benefits

Na wa....

It'd be an act of total foolishness for anyman to place a woman's interest over his, simply because of love.....

Nobody ought to be trusted... Especially these bannies.......

My fellow giymen,brush up your life first, cuz las las na highest bidder bannies dey run follow.

You guys on nairaland are really walking contradictions and shallow

So you mean this guy was not benefiting from this lady in kind? Wasn't he with her because of her looks, youth and personality. And I'm sure she was giving him sex which is a minus as long as a woman is worth to you? If she was worth nothing, why didn't he date a street psycho after all she could give him sex too. Why picky? You end up with a woman that ticks all your lists, and you still complain about meeting her standards

Do you know my conclusion about you lots? you are just selfish. You are just mad that you can't fool women anymore. You want to be the only ones benefiting in a relationship. E pain you abi now that your eyes are wide opened to see that two can play.

I must give my woman every every if e pain you go kpai.

Slaveman343:
You guys on nairaland are really walking contradictions and shallow

So you mean this guy was not benefiting from this lady in kind? Wasn't he with her because of her looks, youth and personality. And I'm sure she was giving him sex which is a minus as long as a woman is worth to you? If she was worth nothing, why didn't he date a street psycho after all she could give him sex too. Why picky? You end up with a woman that ticks all your lists, and you still complain about meeting her standards

Do you know my conclusion about you lots? you are just selfish. You are just mad that you can't fool women anymore. You want to be the only ones benefiting in a relationship. E pain you abi now that your eyes are wide opened to see that two can play.

I must give my woman every every if e pain you go kpai.

This stuff of betrayal leads to revenge porn. The guy could place the ladys nudes on the internet to get back at her.
Generally i think we men and you women need to understand each other better and be honest about issues

Philosopher1979:


This stuff of betrayal leads to revenge porn. The guy could place the ladys nudes on the internet to get back at her.
Generally i think we men and you women need to understand each other better and be honest about issues

There is no betrayal anywhere sir. Let's be saying the truth. Not all relationships lead to marriage, he took from her, she took from him. Let's stop making it look like we are just doing women a favour. They are doing us a favour being with us too.

Well, if he is foolish to launch a revenge, he should be ready for the consequences

Slaveman343:
You guys on nairaland are really walking contradictions and shallow

So you mean this guy was not benefiting from this lady in kind? Wasn't he with her because of her looks, youth and personality. And I'm sure she was giving him sex which is a minus as long as a woman is worth to you? If she was worth nothing, why didn't he date a street psycho after all she could give him sex too. Why picky? You end up with a woman that ticks all your lists, and you still complain about meeting her standards

Do you know my conclusion about you lots? you are just selfish. You are just mad that you can't fool women anymore. You want to be the only ones benefiting in a relationship. E pain you abi now that your eyes are wide opened to see that two can play.

I must give my woman every every if e pain you go kpai.

Nawa o....you better take the redpill or perish

Slaveman343:
You guys on nairaland are really walking contradictions and shallow

So you mean this guy was not benefiting from this lady in kind? Wasn't he with her because of her looks, youth and personality. And I'm sure she was giving him sex which is a minus as long as a woman is worth to you? If she was worth nothing, why didn't he date a street psycho after all she could give him sex too. Why picky? You end up with a woman that ticks all your lists, and you still complain about meeting her standards

Do you know my conclusion about you lots? you are just selfish. You are just mad that you can't fool women anymore. You want to be the only ones benefiting in a relationship. E pain you abi now that your eyes are wide opened to see that two can play.

I must give my woman every every if e pain you go kpai.

simp..sex is enjoyed by both parties it's not a bonus to the man ok.mumu.na so una go dey make women feel say dem dey do you favour by having sex.They even enjoy it most.ode

Aaaaarghmed:
simp..sex is enjoyed by both parties it's not a bonus to the man ok.mumu.na so una go dey make women feel say dem dey do you favour by having sex.They even enjoy it most.ode

You’re still a boy .. and maybe have 10 years more before you marry.. if not 15.

Insult and curse makes you dumb.. and impish..

One person
Mumu
Ode
With abusive phrase


And for your mind .. you don type out the size of your brain..


Kids everywhere..


Next!

luminouz:

Nawa o....you better take the redpill or perish

You will grow old and bitter alone. Let's bet?

Aaaaarghmed:
simp..sex is enjoyed by both parties it's not a bonus to the man ok.mumu.na so una go dey make women feel say dem dey do you favour by having sex.They even enjoy it most.ode

A woman with many body counts is a bonus and a flex? Women are the ones always on heat?

You cannot say women who sleep around are useless and still not pay them for daring to useless themselves with you.

Are men not valued for their sexual conquests anymore, which other gain are some of you still looking for?

You gain with more sex, women lose with more sex. So what's the problem when they seek their benefit? Why are you pained that they want to benefit too?

Continue swallowing pills that mess up your thought, while some of us mature into men.

Na werey dey train woman go school, I never see where that thing ever end well

Slaveman343:
You will grow old and bitter alone. Let's bet?

For giving a fellow guy a piece of advice that will make him better?

Who is the bitter one here? You will suffer wotowoto with this your mumu mentality oh... Women advocate oshi

Sure .let's bet.... 1 million dollars each. If you no get am, just go and hide your blôck head!!!

Slaveman343:
A woman with many body counts is a bonus and a flex? Women are the ones always on heat?

You cannot say women who sleep around are useless and still not pay them for daring to useless themselves with you.

Are men not valued for their sexual conquests anymore, which other gain are some of you still looking for?

You gain with more sex, women lose with more sex. So what's the problem when they seek their benefit? Why are you pained that they want to benefit too?

Continue swallowing pills that mess up your thought, while some of us mature into men.

And this is what you call mature?😳😃😳...

I blame myself for replying you. So you never even mature into a man and yet, I, a man, is advising you and you are behaving like a dōnkey?

I rest my case. When you mature finish, your eye go clear. YOU WILL LEAARRNNNN!!!

Odin13:



You’re still a boy .. and maybe have 10 years more before you marry.. if not 15.

Insult and curse makes you dumb.. and impish..

One person
Mumu
Ode
With abusive phrase


And for your mind .. you don type out the size of your brain..


Kids everywhere..


Next!

if dem check am well,u fit never write jamb.no wonder women dey use una do mumu.simpson.keep wailing like a zygote

Slaveman343:
A woman with many body counts is a bonus and a flex? Women are the ones always on heat?

You cannot say women who sleep around are useless and still not pay them for daring to useless themselves with you.

Are men not valued for their sexual conquests anymore, which other gain are some of you still looking for?

You gain with more sex, women lose with more sex. So what's the problem when they seek their benefit? Why are you pained that they want to benefit too?

Continue swallowing pills that mess up your thought, while some of us mature into men.

,na women dey make una mature.hustle o.no dey revolve ur life around women.I thank God I get sense very early

Slaveman343:
You guys on nairaland are really walking contradictions and shallow

So you mean this guy was not benefiting from this lady in kind? Wasn't he with her because of her looks, youth and personality. And I'm sure she was giving him sex which is a minus as long as a woman is worth to you? If she was worth nothing, why didn't he date a street psycho after all she could give him sex too. Why picky? You end up with a woman that ticks all your lists, and you still complain about meeting her standards

Do you know my conclusion about you lots? you are just selfish. You are just mad that you can't fool women anymore. You want to be the only ones benefiting in a relationship. E pain you abi now that your eyes are wide opened to see that two can play.

I must give my woman every every if e pain you go kpai.

your name is in order...

luminouz:


And this is what you call mature?😳😃😳...

I blame myself for replying you. So you never even mature into a man and yet, I, a man, is advising you and you are behaving like a dōnkey?

I rest my case. When you mature finish, your eye go clear. YOU WILL LEAARRNNNN!!!

Man Mean Matured Dude ...
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