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Re: . by MisterKennedy(m): 2:59pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Ok12345:Ok great! I thank God for that. Which city are you chatting from dear |
Re: . by Ok12345(f): 8:32pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
MisterKennedy: Lag |
Re: . by RightToReject(m): 8:44pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
It's amusing and a sign of unawareness how some of you think that it will be a herculean task for the OP to find a lady working for a bluechip or multinational company as a causal sex mate, especially if he is doing well for himself and carries commanding and attractive aura like some of us. The problem is that most of you are always quick to see others in your little world, thereby projecting your inadequacies on them. Professional positional standing does not automatically negate ethical disposition. 3 Likes |
Re: . by MisterKennedy(m): 9:07pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Ok12345:Ok. I stay in Jos I wish you a very beautiful weekend as beautiful as yourself |
Re: . by MisterKennedy(m): 9:09pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Ok12345:Ok. I stay in Jos I wish you a very beautiful weekend as beautiful as yourself. |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
RightToReject: The bolded, you no get am, no dey jonze yourself this boy, you are the exact opposite of the bolded. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: . by RightToReject(m): 12:21am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Jovialjune1: Lol, I wasn't referring to harlots, riff raffs, and small-minded elements in general, so I don't hold a brief for you and your likes - only fellow aristocrats will understand. Now, run along and direct your further mention to bumpkins like you because your attention span has expired. 3 Likes |
Re: . by Ishilove: 6:36am On Jul 15, 2022 |
RightToReject:I make it a point to jump and pass your posts because of your despicable polymonikering for intentions of insidious mischief, as well as penchant for unnecessary and wrong usage of bombast and verbosity. However, since your last two posts are not as long as your usual posts, I braved it and read through them, and I am aghast. Do you even know what you are writing? ![]() Look, don't bother answering. Just don't bother. Shior 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by cococandy(f): 7:00am On Jul 15, 2022 |
All this requirement to get what in return? Your peniis? Intelligentguy5: 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: . by Acidosis(m): 7:17am On Jul 15, 2022 |
1 Like |
Re: . by faithfull18(f): 7:50am On Jul 15, 2022 |
You need deliverance. Go and get married Mr. man. Any lady who consents to this should have her head checked. 9 Likes |
Re: . by RightToReject(m): 7:55am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Ishilove: Lol, frustration has eaten you up to your bone marrow. Stop hallucinating on my post with your obvious low IQ. In fact, I guess this is your indirect way of soliciting for the position of my PA on domestic affairs - local - as we discussed some time in the past; unfortunately, the position is not available, and even if it were to be available, you would have to upskill to be fit for the role. Meanwhile, I am in support of the motion to trick the homeless but now rescued actor, Aguba, to take you as a wife. I will make out time to communicate with Pastor Chinyere to see how he can persuade Aguba to consider you. I know that with the better options available to him, it will be nearly impossible for him to consider you under normal circumstances, but I will bring my professional prowess in this regard to bear to see to its fruition. Hey, your attention span for the moment is almost expired. Illuminating the light of those whom the masses assumed too dimmed to shine has always been my hobby. 2 Likes |
Re: . by Ishilove: 8:52am On Jul 15, 2022 |
cococandy:People have done stranger things for preek and punny 2 Likes |
Re: . by Ishilove: 8:52am On Jul 15, 2022 |
faithfull18:Aunty you dey vex o ![]() |
Re: . by Nobody: 9:35am On Jul 15, 2022 |
RightToReject: But I told you the reality and true fact about you now, so why the pains? You sef you know you are not up to quarter of the hype you gave yourself, abi you don forget say you get hammer head of horror face ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: . by Intelligentguy5: 12:58pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
RightToReject: Thanks alot for this! |
Re: . by Intelligentguy5: 1:00pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
cococandy: I AM what i seek. 1 Like |
Re: . by cococandy(f): 2:00pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
Intelligentguy5: you may think that makes sense but it doesn’t. Because even if the qualities you described applies to you, doesn’t mean that a woman who it applies to will want to have sex with you just because you said so. Same with a lady. Even if she has a million qualities m and decides she just wants a man with same million qualities to play around with, she can’t be conceited enough to think they’ll come running. Again I ask. What’s she’s getting from it? If you are what you seek, that means she already has all those things you have. So then your sex without commitment is the prize? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by cococandy(f): 2:02pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
Ishilove:heck don’t I know it. I’m not even judging cos ![]() |
Re: . by cococandy(f): 2:02pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
Acidosis: Friendship is way too deep for what he described lol 1 Like |
Re: . by eazzzy1(m): 2:29pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
It’s not what you seek, it’s from where you seek and how you seek. The kind of woman you described are big consumers of the casual relationship market. Many of them are single and for obvious reasons; she’s too busy to hold a meaningful relationship, she’s too selective of the kind of people she dates, she’s unlucky in love as her success repels some men, she’s comfortable and does not need any relationship drama. With all these she’s still human and has sexual needs and she would have them met. Nairaland is a wrong place to seek something like this, not because they don’t exist here but it’s an anonymous platform for a reason. You could put them on blast in future over a disagreement. You would have more success with what you seek if you asked for friendship, when they see ‘how you roll’ the benefits portion would work itself out. When girls want such relationships they just sleep with their friends or their exes, they are usually not looking for someone new for that purpose, if it happens with a new guy it’s usually spontaneous. Your requirements for just knacks are a little over the top though, are you seeking a potential relationship but aren’t ready to be serious right now? why do you require intelligence for knacks? 2 Likes |
Re: . by eazzzy1(m): 3:01pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
cococandy: He’s seeking someone who’s like minded, she gets to be in the kind of relationship she wants. Just like in traditional relationships where two people want to date and then date! |
Re: . by cococandy(f): 3:08pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
eazzzy1: Okay |
Re: . by Ishilove: 3:23pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
cococandy:Lol. Abi na. 'Okay' is the best answer |
Re: . by cococandy(f): 3:27pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
Ishilove: You know OP is most likely expecting exclusivity from this person that he couldn’t be bothered to commit to. Unless I’m making the wrong assumptions here. OP correct me if I’m wrong. Is this lady allowed to be intimate with anyone else but you? 1 Like |
Re: . by cococandy(f): 3:32pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
eazzzy1: @ bold, it may sound that way on paper. But when and if OP meets the person who fits the bill, she won’t be qualified because 1)sHe doEsn’t hAve LOw boDy Count (insert clown emoji). 2) He will want her to not have any sexual interactions with other men but him. Yet he feels going into a committee relationship is too much. 3)Even with all the intelligence he requires, he still won’t respect her 3 Likes |
Re: . by Ishilove: 3:36pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
cococandy:My guess is it will be just for the nacks alone. She is free to distribute the punny to whoever, but when it is his turn, she must submit it . 2 Likes |
Re: . by cococandy(f): 4:03pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
Ishilove:You’d be surprised. Let’s what for him to answer first. |
Re: . by silverr(f): 4:03pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
A pretty lady, who works on the island, is very intelligent, and financially well to do won't be short of guys to date or f*ck if need be. Out of the numerous guys around her who are professing love and maybe even marriage, why should she pick you who is there strictly for sex (which she doesn't lack) ? You don't want a lady that's into hookup or prostitution, but you want a decent lady to come be your prostitute. For free ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() If intelligence wasn't part of your requirements, you might be lucky to find a foolish woman who ticks all the boxes, but since your emphasis is on intelligence ![]() ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: . by Ishilove: 4:05pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
silverr:G-Unit |
Re: . by eazzzy1(m): 4:06pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
cococandy: Lol how did you deduce this from his post? Nairaland is not real life o. 1. If he’s looking for fwb, I doubt body count is a concern to him. 2. If I was in a casual relationship, I would want to know if my partner sleeps with other people, that’s material information in deciding whether to strap up or not. I don’t think he has the power to dictate to such woman what she does or doesn’t. At worst he would leave. 3. Lol she doesn’t necessarily need his respect, she’s there for a good time. Many relationships like this has led to the real relationship. From his requirements he’s looking for more than just a casual lay. Maybe he’s looking to start slowly. 1 Like 1 Share |
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