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Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Nobody: 7:59am On Jul 15, 2022
This is a very real experience I’m going to share with you.
I have been very bitter and unfriendly for many years because since I was little everything in my life just never really worked. I had a passport and visa to go abroad as a kid but my dad never supported me tho he had the money.
I had two different scholarships to go abroad as well And my dad turned me down, all these was before I even turned 18.
I was that kid that everyone knew was special. I tried so many things but they just didn’t work. Imagine everyone telling you you’re so special and getting so much attention from people and yet you can’t get anyone to support your dreams.
After a while I just stopped dreaming and then I fell in love with a very beautiful girl. I was crazy about her but little did I know she was playing with my feelings. By the time she fell for me as well I snubbed her and treated her like she was a ghost.
That was the beginning of my hate for people and life in general. I became proud, egocentric, self centered, bitter and extremely snobbish. I hated everyone and didn’t even dare to dream anymore.
I felt like everyone betrayed my trust and nobody supported my dreams. Now I am very comfortable and I work alone and I don’t date any one. The attention from girls hasn’t stopped but now I get off in making them feel invisible. I intentionally ignore the girls I know are crazy over me just to fvck with their head. I was hurt so much growing up and honestly I don’t think I can ever get over it. And I was sexually molested as a kid by a girl as well for almost a year but that’s a story for another day. Don’t judge people, there is a reason they behave the way they do.

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Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Jeon(f): 8:33am On Jul 15, 2022
Who cares?
you're not the only person on this Earth anyway.. No one give a fuçk.

Your attitudes, your life..

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Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Bluezy13(m): 8:54am On Jul 15, 2022
Mtcheewww...

Nonsense.
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Nyascobar1414: 8:55am On Jul 15, 2022
Yea, I can relate.
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Sweetvie: 9:28am On Jul 15, 2022
Smile... I feel u but lemme tell you
Nobody owe you a thing... Your family may owe you for not supporting ur dreams coz they gave birth to you but trust me apart from them no one owe you anything...
The girl that play ur heart owe you nothing... You're the one that allow one emotion to play u... So my guy you're only hurting your self coz nobody cares
Funny, right? Instead of you finding happiness in everything around you, you still allow yourself to be play by emotions, still feeling everybody owe you... The only people who owe you are ur parent.. Trust me, you will feel more happy if you stop allowing emotion to control you and when you stop feeling everybody owe you smiley

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Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Nobody: 9:45am On Jul 15, 2022
Sweetvie:
Smile... I feel u but lemme tell you
Nobody owe you a thing... Your family may owe you for not supporting ur dreams coz they gave birth to you but trust me apart from them no one owe you anything...
The girl that play ur heart owe you nothing... You're the one that allow one emotion to play u... So my guy you're only hurting your self coz nobody cares
Funny, right? Instead of you finding happiness in everything around you, you still allow yourself to be play by emotions, still feeling everybody owe you... The only people who owe you are ur parent.. Trust me, you will feel more happy if you stop allowing emotion to control you and when you stop feeling everybody owe you smiley

Na I don’t expect shi from anyone. It’s simple I’m not a good person and I love being the way I am grin
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by tayo60(f): 9:56am On Jul 15, 2022
Everyone has a story to tell
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Sweetvie: 9:57am On Jul 15, 2022
Badboibipo:


Na I don’t expect shi from anyone. It’s simple I’m not a good person and I love being the way I am grin
Lol... That's bcoz you're simply trying to make yourself a bad person to show that you don't care... But deep down u do, still expecting smiley
When you feel free, put down all the grudge that's when you will be truly happy.
So lemme ask you... Are you happy? Not talking about money happiness lol

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Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by SavageResponse(m): 11:49am On Jul 15, 2022
Next please!
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Dnalaria: 12:19pm On Jul 15, 2022
Badboibipo:
This is a very real experience I’m going to share with you.
I have been very bitter and unfriendly for many years because since I was little everything in my life just never really worked. I had a passport and visa to go abroad as a kid but my dad never supported me tho he had the money.
I had two different scholarships to go abroad as well And my dad turned me down, all these was before I even turned 18.
I was that kid that everyone knew was special. I tried so many things but they just didn’t work. Imagine everyone telling you you’re so special and getting so much attention from people and yet you can’t get anyone to support your dreams.
After a while I just stopped dreaming and then I fell in love with a very beautiful girl. I was crazy about her but little did I know she was playing with my feelings. By the time she fell for me as well I snubbed her and treated her like she was a ghost.
That was the beginning of my hate for people and life in general. I became proud, egocentric, self centered, bitter and extremely snobbish. I hated everyone and didn’t even dare to dream anymore.
I felt like everyone betrayed my trust and nobody supported my dreams. Now I am very comfortable and I work alone and I don’t date any one. The attention from girls hasn’t stopped but now I get off in making them feel invisible. I intentionally ignore the girls I know are crazy over me just to fvck with their head. I was hurt so much growing up and honestly I don’t think I can ever get over it. And I was sexually molested as a kid by a girl as well for almost a year but that’s a story for another day. Don’t judge people, there is a reason they behave the way they do.

You need therapy bro, my story is completely different from yours but I can relate.
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by begoniaa: 12:24pm On Jul 15, 2022
Bluezy13:
Mtcheewww...

Nonsense.

grin kiss
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Bluezy13(m): 1:11pm On Jul 15, 2022
begoniaa:


grin kiss
cheesy A girl broke his heart and he started hating everybody. I wonder how that relates to the caption of his thread.
That's by the way.

How are you ? grin

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Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Truvelisback(m): 1:15pm On Jul 15, 2022
Badboibipo:
This is a very real experience I’m going to share with you.
I have been very bitter and unfriendly for many years because since I was little everything in my life just never really worked. I had a passport and visa to go abroad as a kid but my dad never supported me tho he had the money.
I had two different scholarships to go abroad as well And my dad turned me down, all these was before I even turned 18.
I was that kid that everyone knew was special. I tried so many things but they just didn’t work. Imagine everyone telling you you’re so special and getting so much attention from people and yet you can’t get anyone to support your dreams.
After a while I just stopped dreaming and then I fell in love with a very beautiful girl. I was crazy about her but little did I know she was playing with my feelings. By the time she fell for me as well I snubbed her and treated her like she was a ghost.
That was the beginning of my hate for people and life in general. I became proud, egocentric, self centered, bitter and extremely snobbish. I hated everyone and didn’t even dare to dream anymore.
I felt like everyone betrayed my trust and nobody supported my dreams. Now I am very comfortable and I work alone and I don’t date any one. The attention from girls hasn’t stopped but now I get off in making them feel invisible. I intentionally ignore the girls I know are crazy over me just to fvck with their head. I was hurt so much growing up and honestly I don’t think I can ever get over it. And I was sexually molested as a kid by a girl as well for almost a year but that’s a story for another day. Don’t judge people, there is a reason they behave the way they do.
How does ur long boring epistle relate to ur Topic above?
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jul 15, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lol... That's bcoz you're simply trying to make yourself a bad person to show that you don't care... But deep down u do, still expecting smiley
When you feel free, put down all the grudge that's when you will be truly happy.
So lemme ask you... Are you happy? Not talking about money happiness lol

Only when I hurt women, that’s when I’m genuinely happy. If you like say I’m lying and deep down I’m so nice, na me know myself grin grin
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jul 15, 2022
Dnalaria:


You need therapy bro, my story is completely different from yours but I can relate.

Can you please share it bro
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by begoniaa: 4:30pm On Jul 15, 2022
Bluezy13:
How are you ? grin

I've been good, you? smiley
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by posty56: 4:32pm On Jul 15, 2022
Badboibipo:
This is a very real experience I’m going to share with you.
I have been very bitter and unfriendly for many years because since I was little everything in my life just never really worked. I had a passport and visa to go abroad as a kid but my dad never supported me tho he had the money.
I had two different scholarships to go abroad as well And my dad turned me down, all these was before I even turned 18.
I was that kid that everyone knew was special. I tried so many things but they just didn’t work. Imagine everyone telling you you’re so special and getting so much attention from people and yet you can’t get anyone to support your dreams.
After a while I just stopped dreaming and then I fell in love with a very beautiful girl. I was crazy about her but little did I know she was playing with my feelings. By the time she fell for me as well I snubbed her and treated her like she was a ghost.
That was the beginning of my hate for people and life in general. I became proud, egocentric, self centered, bitter and extremely snobbish. I hated everyone and didn’t even dare to dream anymore.
I felt like everyone betrayed my trust and nobody supported my dreams. Now I am very comfortable and I work alone and I don’t date any one. The attention from girls hasn’t stopped but now I get off in making them feel invisible. I intentionally ignore the girls I know are crazy over me just to fvck with their head. I was hurt so much growing up and honestly I don’t think I can ever get over it. And I was sexually molested as a kid by a girl as well for almost a year but that’s a story for another day. Don’t judge people, there is a reason they behave the way they do.
you gat to ease up bro ,do much hatred in ones heart ain't good

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Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by kingscare1(m): 5:52pm On Jul 15, 2022
Badboibipo:
This is a very real experience I’m going to share with you.
I have been very bitter and unfriendly for many years because since I was little everything in my life just never really worked. I had a passport and visa to go abroad as a kid but my dad never supported me tho he had the money.
I had two different scholarships to go abroad as well And my dad turned me down, all these was before I even turned 18.
I was that kid that everyone knew was special. I tried so many things but they just didn’t work. Imagine everyone telling you you’re so special and getting so much attention from people and yet you can’t get anyone to support your dreams.
After a while I just stopped dreaming and then I fell in love with a very beautiful girl. I was crazy about her but little did I know she was playing with my feelings. By the time she fell for me as well I snubbed her and treated her like she was a ghost.
That was the beginning of my hate for people and life in general. I became proud, egocentric, self centered, bitter and extremely snobbish. I hated everyone and didn’t even dare to dream anymore.
I felt like everyone betrayed my trust and nobody supported my dreams. Now I am very comfortable and I work alone and I don’t date any one. The attention from girls hasn’t stopped but now I get off in making them feel invisible. I intentionally ignore the girls I know are crazy over me just to fvck with their head. I was hurt so much growing up and honestly I don’t think I can ever get over it. And I was sexually molested as a kid by a girl as well for almost a year but that’s a story for another day. Don’t judge people, there is a reason they behave the way they do.

Bad vibes can never be a good positive vibes and energy no matter how you express it.
Good and positive vibes will always supersede over all vibes.

Let love lead! Bruh.

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Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Bluezy13(m): 6:12pm On Jul 15, 2022
begoniaa:


I've been good, you? smiley
I'm okay.
See you later

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Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Sweetvie: 7:16pm On Jul 15, 2022
Badboibipo:


Only when I hurt women, that’s when I’m genuinely happy. If you like say I’m lying and deep down I’m so nice, na me know myself grin grin
Lol... You're funny
M not going to say that... I was going to ask what do you gain after the hurt? Pleasure and revenge? grin
Also bcoz u haven't met another girl who make u go gaga for her grin
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Fashionistic94: 12:15am On Jul 16, 2022
Bluezy13:

cheesy A girl broke his heart and he started hating everybody. I wonder how that relates to the caption of his thread.
That's by the way.

How are you ? grin

So among everything he put up there, all u could single out is the heart break part abi?
I I can relate with op, as I have my own terrible life stories to tell. Life has not been fair to me right from childhood, teenage, even in my adult hood. Life has always given me a million and one reasons to be unhappy and toxic to everyone around me, but am this kind of person with the fighting spirit. I never give up. So instead of putting out bad vibes to other humans out there that has there oun problems aswell, I try to make myself happy, smoking up my weed and listening to music, and that's why I always have my headphones on me angry when people perceive u to be a happy person, thy will love u more, help u in numerous ways u can't imagine, they even confide in u cus they see u as someone who can elevate their spirit and can trust.
Truth be told, everyone on planet earth has one thing or the other that gives them bad feeling each time they think about it. always try to counter those feelings with positive vibes, cus with positivity, u can never go wrong.
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Bluezy13(m): 4:02am On Jul 16, 2022
Fashionistic94:


So among everything he put up there, all u could single out is the heart break part abi?
I I can relate with op, as I have my own terrible life stories to tell. Life has not been fair to me right from childhood, teenage, even in my adult hood. Life has always given me a million and one reasons to be unhappy and toxic to everyone around me, but am this kind of person with the fighting spirit. I never give up. So instead of putting out bad vibes to other humans out there that has there oun problems aswell, I try to make myself happy, smoking up my weed and listening to music, and that's why I always have my headphones on me angry when people perceive u to be a happy person, thy will love u more, help u in numerous ways u can't imagine, they even confide in u cus they see u as someone who can elevate their spirit and can trust.
Truth be told, everyone on planet earth has one thing or the other that gives them bad feeling each time they think about it. always try to counter those feelings with positive vibes, cus with positivity, u can never go wrong.

Ok.
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Dnalaria: 11:58am On Jul 16, 2022
Badboibipo:


Can you please share it bro

I can't share my life story online sorry.

Try to look up some personality disorders online and see the one you can relate with.

I read about borderline personality disorder and it was like someone summarised my character in a nutshell, what I thought was normal for everyone was actually a big problem

I later met a therapist who diagnosed me with the disorder, I'm currently undergoing counselling and medications
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Nobody: 10:44am On Jul 18, 2022
Dnalaria:


I can't share my life story online sorry.

Try to look up some personality disorders online and see the one you can relate with.

I read about borderline personality disorder and it was like someone summarised my character in a nutshell, what I thought was normal for everyone was actually a big problem

I later met a therapist who diagnosed me with the disorder, I'm currently undergoing counselling and medications


What type of medications? Physical drugs?
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Bluezy13(m): 7:52pm On Jul 19, 2022
begoniaa:


I've been good, you? smiley

I got served a ban yesterday while trying to mention you. Still don't understand the reason for the ban.
Funny enough the ban was supposed to be lifted at 5:28pm today, yet I still cannot mention you in your other skin. Keeps displaying "Insufficient Permission".

I saw the video, the seriousness in the boys face is on another level.

How are you doing ?
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Magnoliaa(f): 8:18pm On Jul 19, 2022
Bluezy13:
I got served a ban yesterday while trying to mention you. Still don't understand the reason for the ban.
Funny enough the ban was supposed to be lifted at 5:28pm today, yet I still cannot mention you in your other skin. Keeps displaying "Insufficient Permission".

I saw the video, the seriousness in the boys face is on another level.

How are you doing ?

I thought as much. cheesy Wait...I was the one you were trying to mention when you got banned? Are you sure? I saw a recently deleted/hidden post in your posts' history...I figured that must have been the reason.

But wow, you must really be minding your business on this NL o. Your ban has been fully lifted. smiley If you tried to quote that Diary post, you wouldn't be able to. The Diaries are off limits for general comments, except for posts by the owner.

I am drunk.
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by CosmicJames(m): 10:48pm On Jul 19, 2022
Badboibipo:


Can you please share it bro
If everyone start sharing their story, you sef go know say urs na child's play.

You didn't even reach the point where you wanted to commit SUICIDE. Yet you want to justify a reason for treating people bad.

It seems that you don't know that: You Are Well Built, Fully Equipped To Achieve Or Conquer Anything.

Plus, You have very little or no idea how the universe works.

Just so you know, I will leave you with this thought;

"You Will Get What You Want By Helping Enough Other People Get What They Want" --- Zig Ziegler

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Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Bluezy13(m): 12:51am On Jul 20, 2022
Magnoliaa:


I thought as much. cheesy Wait...I was the one you were trying to mention when you got banned? Are you sure? I saw a recently deleted/hidden post in your posts' history...I figured that must have been the reason.
Oh...right.
I think so, but can't remember exactly what would have caused it.

But wow, you must really be minding your business on this NL o. Your ban has been fully lifted. smiley If you tried to quote that Diary post, you wouldn't be able to. The Diaries are off limits for general comments, except for posts by the owner.
I didn't know that.
I just learnt that one now.

I am drunk.
smiley What you got you drunk ?
Is it your first time ??
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Magnoliaa(f): 2:18am On Jul 20, 2022
Bluezy13:
smiley What you got you drunk ?
Is it your first time ??

I was just kidding, LMAO.
Re: Stop Judging People For Being Arrogant Or Proud You Don’t Know Their Story by Bluezy13(m): 8:30am On Jul 20, 2022
Magnoliaa:


I was just kidding, LMAO.

Are you sure...
Or this message came after it had worn off cheesy

Good morning.

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