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Women are one creature embedded with different dramas every time. They don't ever get wearied of creating unnecessary headaches for themselves.

I met this beautiful lady at the beach some time ago where I and my guys normally hang out, but this time my pals came with their babes and babes' friends and all that so it was more like a mini grooving. She's quite beautiful with naturally fair skin (not these bleaching ones) she's curvy and about 5.11 ft, certainly, that can be considered a tall woman.

I noticed she was stealing glances at me like she would look at me briefly and divert her eyes to another side anytime our eyes jammed. I didn't make any pass at her throughout the whole grooving and when it was time to leave, we both sat in the back seat of my guy's car. During the whole ride, as they were chatting and arguing I didn't contribute much to the chatting unless they want to know my view about what they were discussing.
That was how we depart until.  .   .

A week later, I was at lekki mall just to have some time alone (I do this a lot) then I saw her approaching where I was sitting.  . I didn't know she was the one until she got to my side and she was like 'hi sorry, you are David right? The shy guy from the beach?  According to her, she saw me at the parking lot but wanted to be sure if I'm the one.
I nearly choked myself with laughter.  . I was like I'm now shy simply because you were expecting me to approach you at the beach and I didn't, That has now automatically earned me the title of Mr shy-guy. Women! (Of course, that was exactly what was running through my thought at that moment) as they were leaving 2 of her friends was just smiling and one said he's cute you know. (Didn't know that I heard them)


Well, that was how we became friends and she got to know that I'm a reserved individual. We became so close that we started going out together(not boy/girlfriend stuff) and we have had s*s like a handful of times now. It was after we started ravaging each other that babe started talking about relationship, intentionally leaving her things behind in my apartment and all that.

Sincerely, I like her and I wouldn't mind keeping things going the way they are going but these relationship talks are a no-no for me. I already know that her game plan is to manipulate me into that and she too has sensed that I'm as hard as a rock.

Mtcheew. Next!

OK.

Wahala, why don't you tell her from the beginning that you were not interested in a relationship.
I will admit many ladies prefer reserve type of guys because they think they wouldn't be able to hurt a fly and maybe some feel they can easily manipulate such type of guys.
So as you know what she wanted, you would have told her, relationship isn't for you, so when all this shit start happening, you can end it very simple.
Anyway it's not too late, just tell her you mind, if she dont want friends with benefits relationship then end it.

Eweeee!!! NEKWA!!!! Which kind post be this one kwanu?

I'm sad that these are the boys Nigerian women are left to marry.

Sighs! All these kids that bring their childish private watsapp chats to nairaland. What validation do you need from us biko? do wetin dey your stupid mind and leave us in peace.

The babe grammar dey give headache

I can't imagine myself bringing up some issues online.

So what exactly is ur problem young man?

But she said she didn't saw you. She saw your ghost.
So who is lying?
The ghost owner or the sawer?

I wonder what some people do think before doing something.
What do you want us to do with this?
You were having constant sex with someone and she leaves hers stuffs almost everytime in your apartment without any obstacle and you don't expect her to feel she's having an affair with you?
People like you should be hanged upside down and be floged with not less than 100 strokes of wet koboko

Kirkman:
Sighs! All these kids that bring their childish private watsapp chats to nairaland. What validation do you need from us biko? do wetin dey your stupid mind and leave us in peace.

Don't be stupid,this is the romance section for God's sake! Wtf is wrong with some of you who always rush to comment rubbish on people's threads?

So what exactly should we do?

Is it advice you need or something?

What exactly is the purpose of the thread?

odinson1:
Don't be stupid,this is the romance section for God's sake! Wtf is wrong with some of you who always rush to comment rubbish on people's threads?

Cos it's romance section doesn't mean that you shouldn't come here with your brains intact. You and the useless op that opened this thread are birds of the same feather. Stupid lot the both of you . Since you have decided to abandon your morals and support him.

Robertgreene1:
So what exactly is ur problem young man?

Kirkman:
Cos it's romance section doesn't mean that you shouldn't come here with your brains intact. You and the useless op that opened this thread are birds of the same feather. Stupid lot the both of you . Since you have decided to abandon your morals and support him.

Ok then,let nobody post anything on this forum again let us see if it will still be called a Forum.
Nonsense! I'm sure you've never even created a thread here before, person manage create one dey ask better thing,you dey insult am.

I'm i d only one. Coz i didnt see anything sane in that conversation.


Be like human being n robot dey chat.

nawao ,this one don fly into fitting rage , all I am going to say they careful o! na so them they stab men set them on fire

You owe her no explanation,abi na she dey feed you??.No time to explain for me oooooooo. I'll block her straight up,when she wants talk reasonable something I'll know.

Op better block that girl or woman...
Make dem no use you buy fuel.

odinson1:
Ok then,let nobody post anything on this forum again let us see if it will still be called a Forum.
Nonsense! I'm sure you've never even created a thread here before, person manage create one dey ask better thing,you dey insult am.

If this is your version of a better thing and you being in full support of the OP then I can only imagine how low your IQ must be, Too bad.
Calling you stupid would be an insult to stupid people and everyone has a right to be stupid but you just abused that privilege. I am done replying your mentions to me. Ciao.

Kirkman:
If this is your version of a better thing and you being in full support of the OP then I can only imagine how low your IQ must be, Too bad.
Calling you stupid would be an insult to stupid people and everyone has a right to be stupid but you just abused that privilege. I am done replying your mentions to me. Ciao.

@bolded,that line is stale already,una don too use am
If you are not gonna create threads for us to interact with here on this forum,you have no right to Insult or talk down on people trying to do that which you couldn't do. I don dey plan you now,any where i see your comment,na Back to back insult i go fire your papa

Nigeria is now becoming too unbearable. Things are getting out of hands

the girl first greet you ,then choose violence the next second she no even wait for you to land , she just they knack you back to back like fire kilo kilo, short girls and hot temper , Nigeria girls an d jumping into conclusion, anyways she is cray cray ,stay clear low ,not hit the pucci again e don do

Bro na before you go meet girl for mall and beach thinking you meet a good girl

80% of girls going to mall and beach na for paro babe

Some girls go to ikeja city mall everyday to hustle no be say them get anything to buy there but to hurt for guys with money

etrange:
I'm sad that these are the boys Nigerian women are left to marry.

Don't know why this got me laughing

There is no love in lekki with the exemption of few lucky ones, most people are just all about their hustle.

Use your head boy.

odinson1:
Ok then,let nobody post anything on this forum again let us see if it will still be called a Forum.
Nonsense! I'm sure you've never even created a thread here before, person manage create one dey ask better thing,you dey insult am.

one benefit I get from NL is experience from other people especially from romance land. Just leave all those ones that are already frustrated and wait for people with thinking abilities.

DriverX:
Mtcheew. Next!

Kirkman:
If this is your version of a better thing and you being in full support of the OP then I can only imagine how low your IQ must be, Too bad.
Calling you stupid would be an insult to stupid people and everyone has a right to be stupid but you just abused that privilege. I am done replying your mentions to me. Ciao.

oya mumu create one topic make we interact. Big empty head.