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Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by VictorUSA(m): 11:14am On Jul 27, 2022
Can you imagine?


Women are beings that shouldn't be trusted let alone setling with.

Women are chronic manipulators: it's in their gene coz they inherit it from their mothers.


Most women are cheats: it's in their bloodline coz they inherit it from their moms.

A woman must have had millions of sexual intercourse with thousands different guys.I can't value a public toilet.


A woman must have loved someone.I can't eat left over.


Women setle just for its sake to avoid societal bashing/gossip not because she loves you.

Women causes gut-wrenching emotional stress/pain.

I can't see what I stand to gain in marriage.



Read my lips: May I die a year and a day before the day I will start thinking of marriage/marrying. Amen!

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Cypress042(m): 11:17am On Jul 27, 2022
Nairaland lowkey portable embarassed

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by MITCHELL96: 11:20am On Jul 27, 2022
Your last sentence though undecided Keep up with your Misogyny, you'll definitely regret later.

God, please answer this man's prayer and add small sense for him grin

Let me help you by saying AMEN.

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Samfloxin(m): 11:25am On Jul 27, 2022
You cannot type this gibberish when you hit 35, pressure will force you to marry.

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Medianna(f): 11:25am On Jul 27, 2022
Cypress042:
Nairaland lowkey portable embarassed
You nailed it..

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Messi1: 11:33am On Jul 27, 2022
It's my life and my choice...It's what gives me joy.Women are nothing me...They aren't life and people living and dying single don't regret their lives.If u think i will ever regret my life for not marrying, shame be upon u.


MITCHELL96

Cypress042

samfloxin

Medianna

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Applegirl22: 11:42am On Jul 27, 2022
same goes to men, they are everything opposite you mention there
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by odinson1(m): 11:43am On Jul 27, 2022
Applegirl22:
same goes to men, they are everything opposite you mention there

I don't think you understand what the word "Opposite" means. What is good for the goose, isn't always good for the Gander
This is why we say you people have fish Brainsgrin
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Blunttruth: 11:45am On Jul 27, 2022
Cypress042:
Nairaland lowkey portable embarassed

Brokenhearted smally with mummy issues lashing out , trying to get attention. Be careful what you wish for.

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Medianna(f): 11:58am On Jul 27, 2022
Messi1:
It's my life and my choice...It's what gives me joy.Women are nothing me...They aren't life and people living and dying single don't regret their lives.If u think i will ever regret my life for not marrying, shame be upon u.


MITCHELL96

Cypress042

samfloxin

Medianna
Wait a minute,,, you are
If you like never look at any woman in your lifetime,truth is that I don't care.
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Choilila: 12:00pm On Jul 27, 2022
Maybe this is the reason America deported you back.. Messi no want get sense @late 30s.

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Stallionhorse: 12:02pm On Jul 27, 2022
So OP.. What your trying to say Is that your mother is a manipulator and a cheat and your sisters inherited it from her.. So in others words we should avoid the females in your family??.. Thanks for the advice..

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by omolasho: 12:06pm On Jul 27, 2022
Read my lips: May I die a year and a day before the day I will start thinking of marriage/marrying. Amen![/quote]





You shouldn't lay curse on yourself at least because humans change with time.

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by healthbing(f): 12:40pm On Jul 27, 2022
Eyaaahh..Dem don serve dis wan breakfast..
Just drink a bottle of chilled Heineken and sleep you will be alright..

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by pansophist(m): 12:44pm On Jul 27, 2022
You're still in the first layer of intelligence, above that is wisdom, and above that again is true knowledge.

Try to ascend to the top, and you'll look back to see that you're not making sense. You need women as much as they need you, and no amount of self-brainwashing will erase this simple fact.

Be a good man, live up to the ideal, and restructure your life in such a way that it vibrates only to good women, to unlock a kind of bliss you'll never experience otherwise.

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Messi1: 12:48pm On Jul 27, 2022
Stallionhorse:
So OP.. What your trying to say Is that your mother is a manipulator and a cheat and your sisters inherited it from her.. So in others words we should avoid the females in your family??.. Thanks for the advice..
Women generally...Including the ones in your family.
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by TMTR: 1:14pm On Jul 27, 2022
Hahaha

I created a thread and asked the exclusive benifits of getting married but none could come up with any aside throwing tantrums and insults up and down.

Trust me , you are better off not getting married, it's not worth it

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Stillwhites(m): 1:20pm On Jul 27, 2022
Stallionhorse:
So OP.. What your trying to say Is that your mother is a manipulator and a cheat and your sisters inherited it from her.. So in others words we should avoid the females in your family??.. Thanks for the advice..
Don't mind op.He's telling us what women in their family look like.
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by CaveAdullam: 1:22pm On Jul 27, 2022
1. Is it that you love/like women but don't want to marry, and prefer courtship? Or, you are a misogynist? Or, a sexist?

2. Machiavellian tactics are embedded in the feminine psyche as a result of their evolutionary past. If you're weak and dumb, you will not survive to reproduce. This is mother nature at work.

3. Women are born Machiavellians, especially in the aspect of their mating and sexual strategy. Men are still training themselves in the art.

4. To women, a relationship is a business. For men, it is love and romance. That's why women can easily jump into another relationship after a breakup. While men weep for a specific amount of time after break up.

5. The mating strategy for women is business-wise because egg(ova, ovum) is expensive and limited. Women bear the cost of pregnancy and more parental investment in their children. Ejaculation is quick, sperm is cheap and produced in millions. Scarce commodities are more highly-priced than common commodities - eggs and sperm respectively.

6. Since it is business, you don't expect women to be nonchalant about it. Women are the gatekeepers of sex; sex will not happen if women don't allow it. They are the choosy sex: they choose the male(s) they want to mate with. This is where the manipulations get tough:

A. Men must prove themselves before they get sex.

B. Women select the type of men they will mate with based on their mating strategy - alpha fvcks; beta bucks.

C. Manipulation and exploitation set in because men are 24/7 h0rny due to a larger volume of the hormone testosterone than women. Horniness for women is cyclical - which falls during the proliferative phase of the menstrual cycle.

Since men want sex all the time, women can easily finesse them.

D. Prostitutes are not around because of a lack of sex, love, and romance. They are after men's money because men are the gatekeepers of commitment; prostitutes offer sex to get it. Men are not after prostitutes' money. They are after sex and they pay with their money.

E. Women see sex as a means to an end. And that end is a man's commitment. Women are emotional about sex because the cost of sex/reproduction is high and they need a man's commitment to cater to the aftermath of sexual intercourse. While men see their commitment as a leeway to excessive sex, love, and romance.

7. If I say women are emotional about sex, why is it men that usually feel more pain after breaking up? Simple answer: Loss of commitment. Women can provide sex any time or day, anywhere or place. There's no competition before women can give sex. Competition only happens when quality males are scarce.

8. Securing commitment involves wrestling with other males and can even lead to death. Men are physical, and always like to take it by force. The highest number of murder victims are men; men are still the highest perpetrators of murder. Murder is not a common crime though. Unlike sex, commitment is not cheap even though men are the gatekeepers.

9. Women know this and they date several men at a time. Mr. A, B, or C will provide what she wants. Their vagina walls are elastic you know. Men can't afford to date several women distributing their commitment. However, they are ever ready for free sex.

10. Take note: This mating strategy is instinctual. Only when brought to our notice do we think it a conscious act. Social media bloats the effect of the mating strategy consciously whereas genes are acting behind the scene unconsciously.

11. Marriage institution just like the University is dying slowly because people don't get what they expect. Marriage is failing because:

A. No concrete institution oversees its affairs. The family court that ought to protect it exploits it through stupid divorce and family laws.

B. Liberal culture in nations. Our animalistic tendency is been appealed to because no set rules and quality leadership. This is prevalent in developed nations.

C. In underdeveloped nations, women engage their sexuality for their livelihood. Thereby making them unfit for marriage. While the men engage in various crimes.

12. Female promiscuity can lead to a decline in civilization if not curtailed. When men who are the pillars and saviors of civilization decide to engage their libido with women, with no sexual restraint, there will be no/slow productiveness.

13. Although by men's nature, their promiscuity is to spread their genes, it doesn't make them less marriageable. Women want men that can accrue many women as it signifies sexual prowess and resources.

14. Promiscuity reduces a woman's value. Overall, promiscuity leads to a decline in civilization in the long run if not "curtailed". And it is to curtail it that marriage seems reasonable.

15. Marriage does not only curtail sex. It is the building block of civilization. Marriage unites families and provides good space and network for individual growth. It is in the family one learns the basic tenets of society. And the modern decline of marriage has led to a decline in the nuclear family which has also led to a decline in reputable individuals.

16. (Please, marriage here can be whatever you want to call it: monogamy, polygamy, traditional, brown or white wedding). The most important thing is the family.

17. The family is like an onion bulb, every layer you remove exposes the inner layers to the sharp edge of the knife. Each layer bind together to protect itself and form a unit. The knife aims to split the onion bulb into tiny helpless Incoherent fragments.

18. Like the onion bulb, Individuals will not stand without the family, and the family can't stand if they are not bound by marriage. From research and statistics, individuals from single parenthood don't perform well as their counterparts with at least two parents and other family members.

19. You can be misanthropic, or a nihilist. But the question is are truly ready to face death mano a mano? Those that have lost faith in themselves and humanity branch the road of suicide, and it is not their fault. Humanity is like the ocean tides, full of ups and down. With strong faith and hope and love for mankind can one be able to bear with it.

20. Until there is a total overhauling of the different sectors and affairs of our lives, with the rise of quality leaders with established rules and order to help manage the majority, the decline continues. And our fate is doomed!

21. Sexual relationship, courtship, dating, and marriage is a rough terrain at the moment, and I advise men to tread carefully. They should only deal with quality women and let the trashy ones be. Women are for fun and good complements. It is bliss where a quality man meets a quality woman.

Men, don't settle for less or allow society to bully you into an irredeemable hole. Be wise. Be watchful.

Thanks.

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Stillwhites(m): 1:22pm On Jul 27, 2022
TMTR:
Hahaha

I created a thread and asked the exclusive benifits of getting married but none could come up with any aside throwing tantrums and insults up and down.

Trust me , you are better off not getting married, it's not worth it
Another woman basher.

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Messi1: 1:29pm On Jul 27, 2022
TMTR:
Hahaha

I created a thread and asked the exclusive benifits of getting married but none could come up with any aside throwing tantrums and insults up and down.

Trust me , you are better off not getting married, it's not worth it
Guy you get A for this one.
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Nyascobar1414: 1:33pm On Jul 27, 2022
Those self acclaimed good men and Real men should come and state the benefit of a married man especially a man married to a Nigerian woman..

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by SlayerOfSatanst: 1:35pm On Jul 27, 2022
Stillwhites:
Another woman basher.
This isn't about bashing women, it is the truth.
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by MichaelJayJay: 1:47pm On Jul 27, 2022
You see the problem with this generation is that they have deserted wisdom for foolishness. When we cry day and night to avoid enticing women with material things you say that's the reasoning of a broke man and when they show you their true colour, you come online to weep.. The truth nobody will tell you is that a high-valued man will never lack a virtuous woman.

Not you mingling with riff-raffs and hungry women and at the end of the day you say all women are the same.. You are probably still in your boy-phase level.

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Legendforte: 1:53pm On Jul 27, 2022
VictorUSA:
Can you imagine?


Women are beings that shouldn't be trusted let alone setling with.

Women are chronic manipulators: it's in their gene coz they inherit it from their mothers.


Most women are cheats: it's in their bloodline coz they inherit it from their moms.

A woman must have had millions of sexual intercourse with thousands different guys.I can't value a public toilet.


A woman must have loved someone.I can't eat left over.


Women setle just for its sake to avoid societal bashing/gossip not because she loves you.

Women causes gut-wrenching emotional stress/pain.

I can't see what I stand to gain in marriage.



Read my lips: May I die a year and a day before the day I will start thinking of marriage/marrying. Amen!
But pls find a way to raise few kids.
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Messi1: 1:58pm On Jul 27, 2022
Legendforte:

But pls find a way to raise few kids.
Children are not that important either.

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Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by johnfaleks(m): 2:20pm On Jul 27, 2022
Them born you so you should born too. Nobody is perfect in both gender
Can you imagine?


Women are beings that shouldn't be trusted let alone setling with.

Women are chronic manipulators: it's in their gene coz they inherit it from their mothers.


Most women are cheats: it's in their bloodline coz they inherit it from their moms.

A woman must have had millions of sexual intercourse with thousands different guys.I can't value a public toilet.


A woman must have loved someone.I can't eat left over.


Women setle just for its sake to avoid societal bashing/gossip not because she loves you.

Women causes gut-wrenching emotional stress/pain.

I can't see what I stand to gain in marriage.



Read my lips: May I die a year and a day before the day I will start thinking of marriage/marrying. Amen![/quote]
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by silibaba: 3:30pm On Jul 27, 2022
VictorUSA:
Can you imagine?


Women are beings that shouldn't be trusted let alone setling with.

Women are chronic manipulators: it's in their gene coz they inherit it from their mothers.


Most women are cheats: it's in their bloodline coz they inherit it from their moms.

A woman must have had millions of sexual intercourse with thousands different guys.I can't value a public toilet.


A woman must have loved someone.I can't eat left over.


Women setle just for its sake to avoid societal bashing/gossip not because she loves you.

Women causes gut-wrenching emotional stress/pain.

I can't see what I stand to gain in marriage.



Read my lips: May I die a year and a day before the day I will start thinking of marriage/marrying. Amen!
You won't die please you will live to fulfil the commandment of God, which is he created them male and female and that is why a man will leave his father and mother and unite with his wife and procreate.
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Messi1: 3:32pm On Jul 27, 2022
silibaba:

You won't die please you will live to fulfil the commandment of God, which is he created them male and female and that is why a man will leave his father and mother and unite with his wife and procreate.
If i didnt marry and procreate will i go to hell?
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by silibaba: 3:35pm On Jul 27, 2022
Medianna:

You nailed it..

But shey na lie the OP talk?

Most girls are domestic prostitute.
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by silibaba: 3:41pm On Jul 27, 2022
Messi1:
If i didnt marry and procreate will i go to hell?

No, but GOD go vex. You want make him use sand they re create human? When your gbola and your wife to be punana can do it even better angry
Re: Reasons I Will Never Think Of Marrying by Messi1: 3:43pm On Jul 27, 2022
silibaba:


No, but GOD go vex. You want make him use sand they re create human? When you gbola and your wife to be punana can do it even better angry
If my wife don dey waste her puna u know say i no fit chop left over.

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