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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Akalia(m): 9:46am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:Madam you really are not ripe for marriage. Your husband made a goof by marrying you. So you can't even stand by your man in trying times? That means you never loved him from the beginning. Stereotype like you is the reason most single men dread marriage. You want to excuse your ill-motivated resolve by blaming the man for keeping this child's existence a secret as if you don't have any secret you have kept from your husband uptil now. You can leave him to suffer alone and mock his financial situation in public but believe me you someday God will bless that man and you will want him back but then it might be too late. Most women supporting you here are not married or they were once married but could not keep their marriage because of bad behavior, so yes they are jealous of married women like you. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by zedegit: 9:46am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: I understand seriously I do. I have lived with a neighbor who is grandmother to a such a child. As a matter of fact, they abandoned the child for her. This child can cry for Africa. Even feeding the child is a messy affair and a fight. But if the child is the only problem, granted he didn't tell you but if you can forgive him and you people go and check the child into a government Motherless home. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Born2Breed(f): 9:46am On Jul 31, 2022 |
No woman will take this. If the mother can't then why someone else. Give your husband time to figure it out. After the ultimatum then follow your advice. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by maasoap(m): 9:46am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Olayetan: That wasn't part of the bargain, the marriage was built on lies. That is even enough ground to seek divorce, not to talk about dumping the challenged kid on her lap 6 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:47am On Jul 31, 2022 |
iammarvellux: I have already answered that question earlier yes I will stay 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by advanceDNA: 9:48am On Jul 31, 2022 |
maasoap: The woman did it deliberately....she wants to scatter the marriage or make it difficult for the new lady....jealousy of women too much... 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by generalwo(m): 9:49am On Jul 31, 2022 |
maasoap:......na u know.... All i know be say marriage these days no be for better for worst... Na for better only and this woman is a proof of that... I'm sure if the man was as wealthy as otedola... Who has a kid with almost same ailment, she won't leave him for anything.... But because the man no get money... All of a sudden... She can't mother a kid with a disorder..... Na all of una know... Make she dey go.... The man no go die... Neither will the kid..... The man will meet a better woman who will accept him and his kid... U wen get comprehending ability... Go use am boil beans |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by kayperry: 9:49am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: how about hiring a maid just to take care of the child only, that is very much cheaper compared to putting her away asides worrying about paying a maid monthly you retain your home, the child stays with his father and the man is happy, trust me that you leaving is only going to make that man resent his child altho he should have inform you pre marriage buh i think its a forgivable sin The choice is still yours |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by jogsman01(m): 9:49am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Jovialjune1:c'mon, a lady like you shouldn't use such harsh word. Okay, I'm sorry for the previous mention. I'm just trying to make you see some sense in what the guy wrote. Let's just forget it. Have a blissful Sunday darling |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Thermodynamics(m): 9:49am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:Hello, I've been going through the comments, I just want to tell you that I support your decision, your marriage is a lie, your husband deceived you into getting married by hiding his special need child from you, your husband is not a trust worthy person, you shouldn't have even gotten married to such a man in the first place. Being a single mother is not a death sentence AS A PRECAUTIVE MEASURE, I'll advise you go to your doctor and explain the condition of your husband's special child to your doctor and ask your doctor to prescribe fruits or other medication that could prevent your child from being like your husband's child, JUST IN CASE. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ginaz(f): 9:50am On Jul 31, 2022 |
folks4luv: You will tire out my sister! Leave those folks alone. They are emotionally manipulating the story. A husband who was so wicked that he left the mother of the disabled child to care alone for a baby with a special need for 7 F*ckin years. He never provided a kobo for the mother, he never cared a second for the child. He literally abandoned his own blood for the poor woman with no means of livelihood yet the mother kept pushing strong till she got exhausted and brought back his child. Suddenly the man is the angel, the man is perfect, he’s the victim and the one who everyone should show sympathy on. Someone said he wants to contribute 10k for the husband sef. It is the innocent wife that is heartless, wife that is heavily pregnant and have no ideal how to cope with the disabled child 24/7. Some even using Christianity to blackmail. Na wa o. Yet you wonder why people commit suicide ! Nobody cares about your mental health in this country. 13 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ndidi2: 9:50am On Jul 31, 2022 |
BloomingDale:seconded.. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:51am On Jul 31, 2022 |
zedegit: Yes everything you said just like my stepdaughter some nights we don't sleep because she will want to be awake all night crying. last night she cried all night it so frustrated not knowing what was wrong with her because she cannot communicate. I am overmelted and I am on my way to my brother house to go and get some rest. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by lawrenzooo: 9:51am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:It's sad enough that he didn't tell you and no member of his family told you. When you eventually find love next time, do your own research on the person. Wish you all the best. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Juanmike(m): 9:52am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:You have a child on the way,don't reject that child, the law of universe has a way of getting to us. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by iammarvellux(m): 9:53am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:Oh great.. meaning you still have love for that man and the family. You sure have a good heart �. Have you tried bringing this issue on air? I mean on a radio station. Here in Lagos we hear a lot of this family issues on air and people who have been into it and can give great suggestions like nairaland can also help out even showing you special homes (NGOs, foundations) where they take care of such 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by jaxxy(m): 9:54am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: Marriage started with lies and then filled with stress. Leave the man to sort out his situation with his babymama and kid. it shouldn't be ur burden. If u love and can trust him u can stay in the marriage bt he has to sort out hos kids situation 1st. An advise to him is to take the kid back to the mother and agree to pay her her for taking care of the child since he can't afford the 200k per month place which is damn expensive. or he gets a caregiver for her. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ijaya123: 9:54am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: Just joking though. It's alright. Wishing you all the best in your decision going forward. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by IamtheTruth1(m): 9:55am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Follow your heart. I won't judge you if you leave... No say e no sexy anywhere o! Just know your unborn child needs a father figure. A lot of simps everywhere. Please , if you do leave the marriage, don't poison your childs mind to hate the father. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:55am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Juanmike: That's her parents portion not mine. I didn't birth her I have choose to go to the village with my pregnancy no matter what I will face there with him I will always take care of him and I will never come to abuja to abandon him with his father 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:56am On Jul 31, 2022 |
lawrenzooo: Thank you 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Advancedman(m): 9:56am On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil: Fasting for a pregnant woman I hail o.. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ginaz(f): 9:58am On Jul 31, 2022 |
The man is not even financially stable yet she loved him enough to marry him, With 15k salary and baby on the way. They won’t see that one. The ideal picture of a perfect marriage is dying mentally. You will have to suffer and endure, mentally drained to stupor before people will congratulate you. I cared for my aunt’s baby when she gave birth 4yrs ago and I was so surprised the amount of energy it takes to care for a healthy baby. Go to the hospital and see how premature kids are being cared for… every second is monitored. They want this poor woman to exhaust her energy for a wicked husband. I like the mother of the child , the child belongs to them so let the husband feel the heat too. Very wicked man! 8 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by PraiseHim4ever: 9:58am On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil: Women like you can never be seen around. May God bless u |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by backnbeta(f): 9:58am On Jul 31, 2022 |
advanceDNA:The man is insincere and selfish if he expects her to take care of another woman's special needs kid- even if she's not pregnant. However, leaving the marriage still leaves the kid stranded. What I think she could do to help the kid and her marriage (if it's worth salvaging): 1. Get her husband to return the kid to the birth mum same way she brought her to him 2. Take the kid to a home - I carried out s study on PWD and I know there are some homes where they take them in. Though like you said, it may not be totally free but I believe it's nothing near 200k. They even have some abandoned kids there 3. Even if she'll leave him, she can help that child get some stability before leaving. I'm just about the child |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by gulfer: 9:58am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Since he did not deem it fit to let you into his past before the marriage was consumated, you are also not bound to continue in the marriage because it was all built on lies and non-disclosures. I believe that's a ground for divorce and separation. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Cutehector(m): 10:01am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:oya leave the marriage. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mrkumareze(m): 10:02am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Richy4: You don't like OP. U want her to meet a woman who is likely not happy the man abandoned her after getting her into a motherhood. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by CSTRR: 10:02am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Connect to the healing streams by pastor Chris. Today is the last day. His disciples asked him, "Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?" "Neither this man nor his parents sinned," said Jesus, "but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life. As long as it is day, we must do the work of him who sent me. John 9:2 |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by jimter44(m): 10:03am On Jul 31, 2022 |
I guess you are a Christian. The bible says if the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do? Ps 11:3. You built your marriage on a faulty foundation. You married two months ago, but with 7 months pregnancy. It's abomination to the christiandom. Go back to Jesus, he will show you a way out. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Davidoff2000: 10:03am On Jul 31, 2022 |
hmmmm...this your pregnancy so..how are you sure it will not be a deformed child too? Another case of cerebral palsy? Do you know if it runs in his genes? thats what you should be more concerned about. before you divorce, give birth and get stuck with a child with medical conditions you cant take care of alone, because you left and he wont have you back H0711: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Web2020: 10:05am On Jul 31, 2022 |
People cook up stories just for the fun of it this day. What kind of sickness is that? Then ex will just bring the child, dump her and walk away. Then your husband will keep quiet and be watching you strongly. Then, you are singing you want to leave next month. What is special about next month? To me oh, I find it hard to believe you Maan or Sir |
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