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I don't know if this is the right section to post this. My life has been a complete mess. I never knew life would turn out this way for me. I had a good start but life turned out differently for me after graduating in 2014.. I felt I would be lucky enough to secure a job as a fresh graduate with no skills but No!!..life doesn't want such for me. I've had to survive through menial jobs upon menial jobs.. At a point in time, i had to venture into football betting with hopes that smtn would come out of it but No!!.. Instead I lost lil money which I don't even have which lead to me putting a stop. At a point in time, I even had to work for sm1 for a meagre salary of 10k yet job didn't stay or last. As the first son of the family, each time I remember that I can't contribute anything to my family or siblings, it truly breaks my heart. TBH I now see myself as a failure. I'm beginning to feel like I was destined to be this way. Imagine a full grown man can't even feed himself. A full grown man above 30 can't take care of himself. A full grown can't boast of 2k. This isn't life. I've had to fight depression for years but right now I think I'm loosing this fight. Everything in me is already failing me even my thoughts as well. Dear Nairalanders, I really need help securing a job. I'm tired of been broke, I'm tired of living a life of stagnation and starvation. Please I really need this help coz I'm already loosing it.. Thanks and God bless Y'all.

Kelvinblaize:
I don't know if this is the right section to post this. My life has been a complete mess. I never knew life would turn out this way for me. I had a good start but life turned out differently for me after graduating in 2014.. I felt I would be lucky enough to secure a job as a fresh graduate with no skills but No!!..life doesn't want such for me. I've had to survive through menial jobs upon menial jobs.. At a point in time, i had to venture into football betting with hopes that smtn would come out of it but No!!.. Instead I lost lil money which I don't even have which lead to me putting a stop. At a point in time, I even had to work for sm1 for a meagre salary of 10k yet job didn't stay or last. As the first son of the family, each time I remember that I can't contribute anything to my family or siblings, it truly breaks my heart. TBH I now see myself as a failure. I'm beginning to feel like I was destined to be this way. Imagine a full grown man can't even feed himself. A full grown man above 30 can't take care of himself. A full grown can't boast of 2k. This isn't life. I've had to fight depression for years but right now I think I'm loosing this fight. Everything in me is already failing me even my thoughts as well. Dear Nairalanders, I really need help securing a job. I'm tired of been broke, I'm tired of living a life of stagnation and starvation. Please I really need this help coz I'm already loosing it.. Thanks and God bless Y'all.

schai OP take heart ,e no easy out there ,2022 make am worse gan ,but by God grace e go favour you

Don't lose hope bro. Keep pushing.. there will be light at the end of the tunnel. You're not alone. Most people are passing through something in this country.. if you think yours is worst, you haven't heard another person's predicament. Nah who give up, fvckup.

Kelvinblaize:
I don't know if this is the right section to post this. My life has been a complete mess. I never knew life would turn out this way for me. I had a good start but life turned out differently for me after graduating in 2014.. I felt I would be lucky enough to secure a job as a fresh graduate with no skills but No!!..life doesn't want such for me. I've had to survive through menial jobs upon menial jobs.. At a point in time, i had to venture into football betting with hopes that smtn would come out of it but No!!.. Instead I lost lil money which I don't even have which lead to me putting a stop. At a point in time, I even had to work for sm1 for a meagre salary of 10k yet job didn't stay or last. As the first son of the family, each time I remember that I can't contribute anything to my family or siblings, it truly breaks my heart. TBH I now see myself as a failure. I'm beginning to feel like I was destined to be this way. Imagine a full grown man can't even feed himself. A full grown man above 30 can't take care of himself. A full grown can't boast of 2k. This isn't life. I've had to fight depression for years but right now I think I'm loosing this fight. Everything in me is already failing me even my thoughts as well. Dear Nairalanders, I really need help securing a job. I'm tired of been broke, I'm tired of living a life of stagnation and starvation. Please I really need this help coz I'm already loosing it.. Thanks and God bless Y'all.

U don't have any problem
Wipe ur tears and change your mentality
Listen to the grace called favour from apostle selman Joshua... That's the first place to start .delete this write up and write all your expectations from GOD here[right][/right] yes love..chat me so u can be added on watsapp to add u on jobs Whatsapp..u will get a job this august..yes

Amen.. Thanks

posty56:
schai OP take heart ,e no easy out there ,2022 make am worse gan ,but by God grace e go favour you

T0BY:
Don't lose hope bro. Keep pushing.. there will be light at the end of the tunnel. You're not alone. Most people are passing through something in this country.. if you think yours is worst, you haven't heard another person's predicament. Nah who give up, fvckup.

I've been trying so hard not to loose hope but I'm really loosing it.

HRHQueenPhil:
U don't have any problem
Wipe ur tears and change your mentality
Listen to the grace called favour from apostle selman Joshua... That's the first place to start .delete this write up and write all your expectations from GOD here[right][/right] yes love..chat me so u can be added on watsapp to add u on jobs Whatsapp..u will get a job this august..yes

Thanks, I will. God bless.

Op if you don't change your mindset now,
your current mindset will keep changing you and try to read books that serves as mind openers
i can recommend few

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Kelvinblaize:
I don't know if this is the right section to post this. My life has been a complete mess. I never knew life would turn out this way for me. I had a good start but life turned out differently for me after graduating in 2014.. I felt I would be lucky enough to secure a job as a fresh graduate with no skills but No!!..life doesn't want such for me. I've had to survive through menial jobs upon menial jobs.. At a point in time, i had to venture into football betting with hopes that smtn would come out of it but No!!.. Instead I lost lil money which I don't even have which lead to me putting a stop. At a point in time, I even had to work for sm1 for a meagre salary of 10k yet job didn't stay or last. As the first son of the family, each time I remember that I can't contribute anything to my family or siblings, it truly breaks my heart. TBH I now see myself as a failure. I'm beginning to feel like I was destined to be this way. Imagine a full grown man can't even feed himself. A full grown man above 30 can't take care of himself. A full grown can't boast of 2k. This isn't life. I've had to fight depression for years but right now I think I'm loosing this fight. Everything in me is already failing me even my thoughts as well. Dear Nairalanders, I really need help securing a job. I'm tired of been broke, I'm tired of living a life of stagnation and starvation. Please I really need this help coz I'm already loosing it.. Thanks and God bless Y'all.

So how can we help you now.
Whats your location?
What did u study?
What are u good at?

Christian music's can lift the soul.

At Op God will see you through..Everyone in the country is going through one thing or the other,we students have been home since Feb doing nothing and waiting for imaginary resumption..come off this mindset pls,i just pray we get a good leader nxt yr,the country is fvcked up already.

motionarena:
So how can we help you now.
Whats your location?
What did u study?
What are u good at?

My location is Delta. I studied Industrial Chemistry and as for skill, I really don't have any and that's my greatest mistake. I should have looked for means to acquire a skill when I had someone to sponsor me instead of focusing all my energy getting a job which never worked out.

tayewomi:
At Op God will see you through..Everyone in the country is going through one thing or the other,we students have been home since Feb doing nothing and waiting for imaginary resumption..come off this mindset pls,i just pray we get a good leader nxt yr,the country is fvcked up already.

Thanks for this.