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When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 9:33pm On Aug 02, 2022
Hello guys, pls I need some advice before I do something I will regret.

I have a girl I'm very serious with. We have dated before, we stopped dating when she gained admission for her HND.
She's almost through with school now, so we reconnected some weeks back, and it has been nice so far.

We agreed I was going to visit her in school dis coming weekend, and we will be staying at her place for the few hours I will be staying in her school. I have been making Plans so far on how many things I will get her when going.

This evening she told me she informed her roommate about my coming to visit her. That her roommate gave her a stern warning not to bring any guy to the house.

I asked her if she didn't contribute in the accommodation money, she said she paid small part of the money and that she and her roommate had an agreement when she moved in to stay with her, that non of them should bring any guy home.

I asked her why didn't she tell me earlier, she said she just remembered to tell her roommate this evening.

I don't want to assume anything fishy, but I don't like how things just turned out this evening.
I can't take her out to eatery and the likes, not when she's the girl I have the intention of settling down with.
She has even spoken with my mum.

As at last week saturday, she was the one asking me to come visit her in her house. Though she said her roommate wasn't around den.

Any advice will be appreciated guys. Thanks.

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by brosom(m): 9:33pm On Aug 02, 2022
If truly u worth it, she would've broken rules/protocol for u even if it's not at her house but somewhere else. But unfortunately, the obvious is there. undecided

Just as u were making plans on what to get for her when coming, also make plans for the way forward in making more Doug for ur self and against future disappointment.

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Bluezy13(m): 9:42pm On Aug 02, 2022
Hmmm...

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 9:42pm On Aug 02, 2022
She said we can use anywhere else, but not her house.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Jennyclay(f): 9:43pm On Aug 02, 2022
You sound like someone who is ready to spend the night at her house, which is a very bad idea considering the fact that she has a roommate.

If you have standard and you really wanted to see her, you should have planned to meet her In a cool and beautiful lounge. You can even as well book a hotel for the weekend... Abi are you a broke man? If you're broke just don't bother spending the weekend with her.

My Dear, There's nothing fishy going on.. You just don't have standard and you don't have Money as well.

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by advanceDNA: 9:50pm On Aug 02, 2022
Robb4b:
Hello guys, pls I need some advice before I do something I will regret.

I have a girl I'm very serious with. We have dated before, we stopped dating when she gained admission for her HND.
She's almost through with school now, so we reconnected some weeks back, and it has been nice so far.

We agreed I was going to visit her in school dis coming weekend, and we will be staying at her place for the few hours I will be staying in her school. I have been making Plans so far on how many things I will get her when going.

This evening she told me she informed her roommate about my coming to visit her. That her roommate gave her a stern warning not to bring any guy to the house.

I asked her if she didn't contribute in the accommodation money, she said she paid small part of the money and that she and her roommate had an agreement when she moved in to stay with her, that non of them should bring any guy home.

I asked her why didn't she tell me earlier, she said she just remembered to tell her roommate this evening.

I don't want to assume anything fishy, but I don't like how things just turned out this evening.
I can't take her out to eatery and the likes, not when she's the girl I have the intention of settling down with.
She has even spoken with my mum.

Any advice will be appreciated guys. Thanks.


Oga ade.......hotel dey naa if you are sleeping over...if na just to hang for some hours...find nice spot for town.....

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by PerfectStranger(m): 9:54pm On Aug 02, 2022
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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 9:56pm On Aug 02, 2022
advanceDNA:



Oga ade.......hotel dey naa if you are sleeping over...if na just to hang for some hours...find nice spot for town.....

Taking her out is not the issue at all.
I just hope it's not because she has another guy in her hostel, or she has a guy in that area, that's why she's using her roommate as excuse to tell me I can't come to her place.

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Peskid147: 10:04pm On Aug 02, 2022
Robb4b:


Taking her out is not the issue at all.
I just hope it's not because she has another guy in her hostel, or she has a guy in that area, that's why she's using her roommate as excuse to tell me I can't come to her place.
Don't b 2 forward with ur suspicious abt her, with time u will kw bt for nw anywhere she says u guys should stay just comply. And watch her body language den u can get d kind of person she is.

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 10:10pm On Aug 02, 2022
Peskid147:
Don't b 2 forward with ur suspicious abt her, with time u will kw bt for nw anywhere she says u guys should stay just comply. And watch her body language den u can get d kind of person she is.

Thanks.

I already told her I'm not coming to her school again. She's now angry.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:26pm On Aug 02, 2022
get a hotel room for the both of you t enjoy the weekend, and be done with the childish nonsense!

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by advanceDNA: 10:36pm On Aug 02, 2022
Robb4b:


Taking her out is not the issue at all.
I just hope it's not because she has another guy in her hostel, or she has a guy in that area, that's why she's using her roommate as excuse to tell me I can't come to her place.

If you tell are you are still coming and will take are some where or rent an hotel and she still refuses...then you know there's someone else

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 10:41pm On Aug 02, 2022
advanceDNA:


If you tell are you are still coming and will take are some where or rent an hotel and she still refuses...then you know there's someone else

She has already agreed for us to meet somewhere else in her school. It's me that is just feeling somehow about us not meeting at her place.
I want that confirmation that she's into me as much as I'm into her. But this her action is not helping matters.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Nyascobar1414: 10:42pm On Aug 02, 2022
Last I heard.. Ladies break rules for guys they value

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by advanceDNA: 10:45pm On Aug 02, 2022
Robb4b:


She has already agreed for us to meet somewhere else in her school. It's me that is just feeling somehow about us not meeting at her place.
I want that confirmation that she's into me as much as I'm into her. But this her action is not helping matters.

Oga....in the first place... its not appropriate to to go to her place when she has a room mate....
what else do you want....she has agreed to meet you else where....

If you want to play small games...thats fine.. I get...call her impromptu later that you are coming....hear what she says

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 10:51pm On Aug 02, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
Last I heard.. Ladies break rules for guys they value
Thanks.

She has broken some rules for me in the past. But this one seem more important than the ones in the past.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 10:54pm On Aug 02, 2022
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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by awoxalat(m): 11:37pm On Aug 02, 2022
There's nothing fishy, she has told you the reason behind the latest development, you seem to have a trust issue. It's not a must that you meet her in her room except if you have ulterior motives, get a nice lounge to meet her and sort yourself out. I wish both of you well.


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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Stanweezy(m): 3:46am On Aug 03, 2022
Robb4b:
Hello guys, pls I need some advice before I do something I will regret.

I have a girl I'm very serious with. We have dated before, we stopped dating when she gained admission for her HND.
She's almost through with school now, so we reconnected some weeks back, and it has been nice so far.

We agreed I was going to visit her in school dis coming weekend, and we will be staying at her place for the few hours I will be staying in her school. I have been making Plans so far on how many things I will get her when going.

This evening she told me she informed her roommate about my coming to visit her. That her roommate gave her a stern warning not to bring any guy to the house.

I asked her if she didn't contribute in the accommodation money, she said she paid small part of the money and that she and her roommate had an agreement when she moved in to stay with her, that non of them should bring any guy home.

I asked her why didn't she tell me earlier, she said she just remembered to tell her roommate this evening.

I don't want to assume anything fishy, but I don't like how things just turned out this evening.
I can't take her out to eatery and the likes, not when she's the girl I have the intention of settling down with.
She has even spoken with my mum.

As at last week saturday, she was the one asking me to come visit her in her house. Though she said her roommate wasn't around den.

Any advice will be appreciated guys. Thanks.

Simple visit her but don't sleep over
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by rickleye: 3:48am On Aug 03, 2022
Jennyclay:
You sound like someone who is ready to spend a night at her house, which is a very bad idea considering the fact that she has a roommate.

If you have standard and you really wanted to see her, you should have planned to meet her In a cool and beautiful lounge. You can even as well book an hotel for the weekend... Abi are you a broke man? If you're broke just don't bother spending the weekend with her.

Ouch �. This hurt

My Dear, There's nothing fishy going on.. You just don't have standard and you don't have Money as well.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 8:03am On Aug 03, 2022
Stanweezy:


Simple visit her but don't sleep over

I don't have any intention of sleeping over at her place. That's the last thing on my mind. My plan is just to visit her, spend 2 to 3 hours then return home.
She said I can't even come see her inside her room, because her roommate will get angry.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 8:09am On Aug 03, 2022
Jennyclay:
You sound like someone who is ready to spend a night at her house, which is a very bad idea considering the fact that she has a roommate.

If you have standard and you really wanted to see her, you should have planned to meet her In a cool and beautiful lounge. You can even as well book an hotel for the weekend... Abi are you a broke man? If you're broke just don't bother spending the weekend with her.

My Dear, There's nothing fishy going on.. You just don't have standard and you don't have Money as well.

First of, I'm very very far from being broke. Guess you didn't read the part where I said I wanted to buy somethings to give her in school. The money I will spend on taking her out is even lesser than the one I will spend In buying her foodstuff and other things. As I said before, I don't have any intention of spending the night at her place. She was the one that even suggested I buy foodstuffs for her when I'm coming to visit her, which I have already program my mind to do. Thanks for the reply though.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 8:13am On Aug 03, 2022
I will just assume she's right, that are roommate is the one stopping me from knowing her hostel.

Which will also mean I can't buy foodstuffs for her again.

Thanks guys.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Adsexpert: 8:25am On Aug 03, 2022
Dont Fall My Hand By Sending That Girl Money If You Dont Want Electronic And Digital Slap From Me.

If A Girl Bill Me Instantly Through Chat Or Physical Without Being Close Enough To Bill Me , I Turn It To Sex Chat Immediately Or Demand She Come Into My Room To Collect It.. No Hard Feelings..

I No Be Ur PaPa...Life Is To Hard Enough Pleasing People..

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by blinking001(m): 8:28am On Aug 03, 2022
My God, most men have really fallen. Dear Op you're a foolish man.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Exkandayee(m): 8:35am On Aug 03, 2022
Jennyclay:
You sound like someone who is ready to spend a night at her house, which is a very bad idea considering the fact that she has a roommate.

If you have standard and you really wanted to see her, you should have planned to meet her In a cool and beautiful lounge. You can even as well book an hotel for the weekend... Abi are you a broke man? If you're broke just don't bother spending the weekend with her.

My Dear, There's nothing fishy going on.. You just don't have standard and you don't have Money as well.
Not AN HOTEL na A HOTEL...olodo .. That's why you failed your waec..mugu..no offense
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Jennyclay(f): 8:44am On Aug 03, 2022
Exkandayee:

Not AN HOTEL na A HOTEL...olodo .. That's why you failed your waec..mugu..no offense
Money you don't have
Car you don't have
House you don't have
Business of your own you don't have
Property you don't have

But here you are insulting your sisters, can't you see you don't have single sense upstairs. Go and get a Life my Dear and improve your standard of living.... No offense too.

Broke men with their numerous wahala sef!

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Baddestbiitch(f): 9:08am On Aug 03, 2022
Bro take her to a hotel room if you really wanna hit that cookies, kiss Not all ladies will allow a guy to come stay with them in the same house most especially if she has a roomie, we ladies don't like it.

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Baddestbiitch(f): 9:11am On Aug 03, 2022
Robb4b:


First of, I'm very very far from being broke. Guess you didn't read the part where I said I wanted to buy somethings to give her in school. The money I will spend on taking her out is even lesser than the one I will spend In buying her foodstuff and other things. As I said before, I don't have any intention of spending the night at her place. She was the one that even suggested I buy foodstuffs for her when I'm coming to visit her, which I have already program my mind to do. Thanks for the reply though.
that's why we don't value nice guys, you haven't smash and you want get foodstuffs for her? WTF does that?
Bro i'll advice you as a lady, get her laid and she's all yours, if only you know what you're doing kiss

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Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 9:53am On Aug 03, 2022
Adsexpert:
Dont Fall My Hand By Sending That Girl Money If You Dont Want Electronic And Digital Slap From Me.

If A Girl Bill Me Instantly Through Chat Or Physical Without Being Close Enough To Bill Me , I Turn It To Sex Chat Immediately Or Demand She Come Into My Room To Collect It.. No Hard Feelings..

I No Be Ur PaPa...Life Is To Hard Enough Pleasing People..

We have dated in the past. We are not just meeting for the first time. And, she has already agreed to settle down with me.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Robb4b: 9:54am On Aug 03, 2022
Baddestbiitch:
that's why we don't value nice guys, you haven't smash and you want get foodstuffs for her? WTF does that?
Bro i'll advice you as a lady, get her laid and she's all yours, if only you know what you're doing kiss

I have smashed her when we initially dated in the past.
Re: When She Changes Her Mind At The Last Minute. by Onasbaba212: 9:59am On Aug 03, 2022
How old are u?

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