At just 23
Now i see why you couldn't summons the courage to disembark her normally
To be honest with you eh, you had just invited ants to your doorstep because of the fish water around.

Last last you go park comot for that location
You no wise

kelspinall:
i have nothing to say,lols

they way guys bash ladies in this forum is crazy.

i have asked before and am asking again..

dear male nairalandians who broke your heart?

imagine someone called a 30 year old an evening newspaper...chai..onu ojoo

laughs

I find that disgusting the lady bashing.

Berezuski:
At just 23
Now i see why you couldn't summons the courage to disembark her normally
To be honest with you eh, you had just invited ants to your doorstep because of the fish water around.

Last last you go park comot for that location
You no wise

Funny enough I just moved in there barely three weeks sef

She's too old for you. Stop the relationship now. Call her and tell her you are done.

Go do test bro.

Thinkam:

I find that disgusting the lady bashing.

is now part of them

Then if she knows you brought her case to nairaland then you are done for

abuwidad:
Then if she knows you brought her case to nairaland then you are done for

Nothing will happen if she finds her case here. Can't you see all the ladies here are quiet? Many of them operate here with their football ages - many 50 year old women calling themselves 18.

Thinkam:


I'm not saying I didn't do wrong man, but what bothers me are her faults..

Oga, keep off from that girl. Reduce the communication.

You needed free sex and she gave you, now you're running.
Love is scam because it's dominated with sex(for man) and material things -money(for ladies).

PS: Where there is understand, love grows from it. So don't love to understand but understand to love. It makes the vibe and energy stronger and lasts. Love doesn't keep marriage/relationships but understand do.

Guy..let me be explicit with u run..run..as much as ur feet can carry u..I had such experience in the past... I under estimated the situation w.and I paid handsomely for it...if possible change the environment for her........just don't underestimate the situation...

I don't think you should discharge her. Don't break her heart with a hammer, you should just let het know how the relationship should go, for example, before she comes to your house, make sure she knows how long she is staying.


Take note also that she may not be wise, any lady of her age dating a young man of your age in Nigeria is not wise unless she has ruled out marriage or simply desperate.

This is not a playground find your sand box and playThis is not a playground find your sand box and play...

Nigerian Evening Newspaper is the most desperate thing on the surface of the earth. Most especially the bleached ones.

Dey will do anything to hook u down and when dey do, say goodbye to peace.

They don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Louder ooo

SouthSouth1914:


You are definitely not alright! You camped a girl for 1-3 days after marathon sex, now you don’t want!

Why didn’t you tell the girl, you just wanted to shine her plate? Better be prepared for thunder when it comes!

he that brought anti infected wood should not cry when lizard come visiting.

Zonefree:
You're just 23 and you want to waste your flower age with a Nigerian evening newspaper?

I pity you in advance.

I join hands with you to pity him.
May Heaven pity him and may Hell accept him. Amen.

pointblank247:
I don't think you should discharge her. Don't break her heart with a hammer, you should just let het know how the relationship should go, for example, before she comes to your house, make sure she knows how long she is staying.


Take note also that she may not be wise, any lady of her age dating a young man of your age in Nigeria is not wise unless she has ruled out marriage or simply desperate.

She desperately wants marriage

MemoriesAndMe:

Nothing will happen if she finds her case here. Can't you see all the ladies here are quiet? Many of them operate here with their football ages - many 50 year old women calling themselves 18.

Bro leave them ladies alone o. My shipinni advice for you.

Thinkam:


Frankly I don't mind an older woman, I've never dated or had sex with anyone I'm younger than or same age as myself, I like older ladies..

She didn't look old, I actually thought I was younger than her, until I saw her in her birth suit... Then I asked questions and she told me, but that didn't bother me.

The most annoying part is the revelations of our five days cohabitation, she bleaches, so many things about her is fake..

The boobs wearing big bra's for nothing , skin color, makes me wonder if she worked on her orifice to be tight.

So much red flags, for me

If you fall in her trap. You are trapped forever

What if she's pregnant now?

Boy, you tried ooo, once I notice that a lady uses skin toning or any form of bleaching, I'm out straight up

imagrg:
She's too old for you. Stop the relationship now. Call her and tell her you are done.

the topic isn't clear enough is she older or you are older and how do you meet,are you dating because of money or you love each other first answer those questions and come back I will give you the advice you need.what I know is honesty is the key,first be honest with yourself

NobleStag007:

If you fall in her trap. You are trapped forever

you brought this on yourself you said you like older lady and probably that all what you will find in sugar mummy now packaging and trying to look much more attractive. Sorry it's what you find and see

Women 30 and above are de best so don't break up

Thinkam:


How do you suggest I do it, a plain text message or WhatsApp

call her and sit her down, let her know u love her but you are not ready to settle down and u wouldn't want to waste her time because she's a wonderful girl..she might be upset or hurt, after that u start cutting tiles with her gradually, stop picking her calls nd don't reply her chats till she stops bothering you

Write a formal letter to her na... sheybi you dey find advice. The formal letter gan, how person wan sure say you Sabi write am like this?

ola1989:
you brought this on yourself you said you like older lady and probably that all what you will find in sugar mummy now packaging and trying to look much more attractive. Sorry it's what you find and see

Quoted wrong person dude

Decision is what differentiates a MAN form a BOY

debbydams:
call her and sit her down, let her know u love her but you are not ready to settle down and u wouldn't want to waste her time because she's a wonderful girl..she might be upset or hurt, after that u start cutting tiles with her gradually, stop picking her calls nd don't reply her chats till she stops bothering you

Telling her to her face, don't think i can do that

ola1989:
the topic isn't clear enough is she older or you are older and how do you meet,are you dating because of money or you love each other first answer those questions and come back I will give you the advice you need.what I know is honesty is the key,first be honest with yourself

I loved her at first, until I discovered many things I thought I knew about her which turned out to be fake , which worsened my uncertainties.

We met in a supermarket, I'm not dating for money, she doesn't even seem to be interested in my money either for now

Thinkam:


Telling her to her face, don't think i can do that

So are you going to keep behaving like a pussy or you're going to man up? Wtf is you can't tell her to her face?

Thinkam:


Telling her to her face, don't think i can do that

lobatan ..thats the best thing u can do..or tel her u need space u want to work on yourself

[Justquote author=Thinkam post=115447965]I want to break up with her sensibly, without having to go through any messy drama, like in the movies.


She finally left my house, Yesterday afternoon.
I followed the good advice shared by a few Nairalanders.

Previous Thread : https://www.nairaland.com/7264486/how-Get-leave-house

[/quote] Text her via WhatsApp , stating ur reasons why the relationship btw the both of you can't work out , after that you apologize to her , I blame the lady in question , ladies should learn how to respect themselves , you should know the kind of relationship you're into , if it for sex only you should know & know where to set boundaries.