oke2018:
[Justquote author=Thinkam post=115447965]I want to break up with her sensibly, without having to go through any messy drama, like in the movies.


She finally left my house, Yesterday afternoon.
I followed the good advice shared by a few Nairalanders.

Previous Thread : https://www.nairaland.com/7264486/how-Get-leave-house

Text her via WhatsApp , stating ur reasons why the relationship btw the both of you can't work out , after that you apologize to her , I blame the lady in question , ladies should learn how to respect themselves , you should know the kind of relationship you're into , if it for sex only you should know & know where to set boundaries.

Personally I don't blame her fully tho...

Thanks

debbydams:
lobatan ..thats the best thing u can do..or tel her u need space u want to work on yourself

It'll be definitely awkward, and would be messy too

Es350:

So are you going to keep behaving like a pussy or you're going to man up? Wtf is you can't tell her to her face?

I'd prefer a text or, continually acting up till she takes a hint

You don Bleep finish and want to run away bah ? I bet u e nor go easy for dis babe to rest for ur matter without a fight.Dis ur own na no retreat no surrender

arazanbal:
You don Bleep finish and want to run away bah ? I bet u e nor go easy for dis babe to rest for ur matter without a fight.Dis ur own na no retreat no surrender

Was consensual

Lolz.
Quite a funny interesting situation.
Older ladies in Nigeria are finding it rough and difficult especially the ones that whored around in their Younger days. I hope ladies will learn but nevertheless, guys are also to be blamed too. Many guys can't control themselves, many guys are not faithful. It's just a sad unending cycle.

For the Op, I'll advise you end the relationship as soon as possible. Whatever has happened has happened and it cannot be changed. You have to learn to be decisive and sharp. Wish you the best as you untangle yourself from this entanglement.

Thinkam:


God Abeg o , I'm already disconnected from her totally ..

What's left is just to announce it to her , make e no be say I follow waste her time

don't tell her anything... Just go on and off. she'll understand you're not serious and finally ,both of you will have to play that game. never ever break up with a lady openly, you'll need them to grease your tools someday.....

dontrulee:
Lolz.
Quite a funny interesting situation.
Older ladies in Nigeria are finding it rough and difficult especially the ones that whored around in their Younger days. I hope ladies will learn but nevertheless, guys are also to be blamed too. Many guys can't control themselves, many guys are not faithful. It's just a sad unending cycle.

For the Op, I'll advise you end the relationship as soon as possible. Whatever has happened has happened and it cannot be changed. You have to learn to be decisive and sharp. Wish you the best as you untangle yourself from this entanglement.

She's on my bed, but I'm not making moves

Thinkam:


She's on my bed, but I'm not making moves

Just hope that she isn't the crazy type that will 'kill' because of Love. If not, you're putting yourself in danger. No go loose guard.

So this guy-man is still on this 30 years old woman case.

dontrulee:


Just hope that she isn't the crazy type that will 'kill' because of Love. If not, you're putting yourself in danger. No go loose guard.

AT all, I've decided on ending it today. No matter what

Thinkam:


Frankly I don't mind an older woman, I've never dated or had sex with anyone I'm younger than or same age as myself, I like older ladies..

She didn't look old, I actually thought I was younger than her, until I saw her in her birth suit... Then I asked questions and she told me, but that didn't bother me.

The most annoying part is the revelations of our five days cohabitation, she bleaches, so many things about her is fake..

The boobs wearing big bra's for nothing , skin color, makes me wonder if she worked on her orifice to be tight.

So much red flags, for me

Hehehehe

Thinkam:


She's on my bed, but I'm not making moves

Just Cheat on her she will leave u bro

Your case is even better. In my case, the comfort is just too much for any woman to think of going. So, what I do is to define everything with you on phone before you arrive. Failure to do this, you're in trouble.

Set her up so that she'll cheat and from there, you get angry and end it.

TMTR:
You are 23 and she is almost 30 that's like 7 years age difference, mehn she is trying to manipulate you into making you marry her, just tell her straight up that you are not interested

If na she ,she for don rush tell you, but here you are pretending to have traveled just to discharge her, mehn don't be a weakling

Some women are really heartless when it comes to being blunt in things of this nature. They'll tell you and won't care about your emotions.

Better evening newspaper

Zonefree:
You're just 23 and you want to waste your flower age with a Nigerian evening newspaper?

I pity you in advance.

iLegendd:
Some women are really heartless when it comes to being blunt in things of this nature. They'll tell you and won't care about your emotions.

oga my Garri has finished n it has been raining here I can't go out to work. make U help your humble boy with sth chop

Thinkam:


AT all, I've decided on ending it today. No matter what

How far, what was her reaction when you told her.

2special:
How far, what was her reaction when you told her.

Tears everywhere, but I cared not