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A troubled Nigerian man has averred that he is on the verge of leaving his marriage after his wife cheated on him. In a post shared on Facebook by social influencer Fegor Chime, the man who preferred anonymity said he cannot fathom why his wife cheated on him since he’s everything that any woman would want. He stated that for his peace of mind, he wants to leave his home for the wife.

He wrote:

Good morning madam. I actually have been a real guy i.e. rich, cool, educated, sexually active and what most ladies will truly pray to have, but still i caught my wife cheating on me, though i have decided to leave all my belongings for her; take our only son and leave the house for her, please what do i do?

Is because you are a SIMP

Wetin him dey wait for?
Na to japa.

why won't people realize that a man/woman is not meant only you to enjoy and have sex with? the day we remove this mentality from our mind, is the time that 85% of our worries and problems will be gone forever.
i'm married, but i won't be shocked if my wife is caught cheating (not because she has any atom of it) because i've put it at the bottom of my heart that my righteous and perfect wife might be imperfect. after all, she's human

So, he thinks being rich, educated and sexually active can keep a Nigerian woman? Jonsing man!

Didn't you realized that before your wedding day? Abeg o!

Cheat on her with her sister asap

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

I have seen that the only reason Nigerians advocate for marriage is for sex and procreation. Stories like this must be the aftermath of such ideology.

Shedrack777:
why won't people realize that a man/woman is not meant only you to enjoy and have sex with? the day we remove this mentality from our mind, is the time that 85% of our worries and problems will be gone forever

So in Essence a woman whom is legally married can go fvck outside

The comments up there fit make person commit suicide
Vawulence

VladimirPutiin:
So in Essence a woman whom is legally married can go fvck outside

MIGHT!
but don't expect her to be completely loyal. have this at the bottom of your mind and have peace

He didn't marry a virgin that's why.

Shedrack777:
MIGHT!
but don't expect her to be completely loyal. have this at the bottom of your mind and have peace

Is she not suppose to be loyal? The point is our generation do not understand the concept of marriage, we neglect the sanctity of fidelity, loyalty, mutual respect and trust in marriage. There's no excuse for a cheating partner, the husband that didn't cheat isn't perfect too.

She is just a LovePeddler like most Nigerian girls of this generation.

Cheating is a choice and not a mistake. Some people are just not loyal, they're just whoring their lives away.

I doubt if I will marry.

If na u build the house na she suppose pack out o

Shedrack777:
MIGHT!
but don't expect her to be completely loyal. have this at the bottom of your mind and have peace

I would rather end up having a baby mama who will just have a child for me then.

last last everybody go chop breakfast.

Women are wired weirdly

Na wetin thegidredpillers Dey always talk about be this

You think you have money and card and women won’t shiit on you?

Jokes on you brrr

Another simp! you caught your wife cheating, you want to leave all your property for her and take your son who may not even be yours

I will never allow my brothers to be a foo.l in love. A woman will surely cheat on you if you're too nice to her. Know this and know peace.

VladimirPutiin:
I would rather end up having a baby mama who will just have a child for me then.

if this option is ok with you, then, go for it. but marriage in this generation is not for the jealous or over protective people.
remember, men are polygamus in nature and always tend to cheat, but same don't cheat with dolls but with women

Shedrack777:
why won't people realize that a man/woman is not meant only you to enjoy and have sex with? the day we remove this mentality from our mind, is the time that 85% of our worries and problems will be gone forever.
i'm married, but i won't be shocked if my wife is caught cheating (not because she has any atom of it) because i've put it at the bottom of my heart that my righteous and perfect wife might be imperfect. after all, she's human

Wonders will never end. Wetin be this

Shedrack777:
why won't people realize that a man/woman is not meant only you to enjoy and have sex with? the day we remove this mentality from our mind, is the time that 85% of our worries and problems will be gone forever.
i'm married, but i won't be shocked if my wife is caught cheating (not because she has any atom of it) because i've put it at the bottom of my heart that my righteous and perfect wife might be imperfect. after all, she's human

When it happens you will sing a different song. Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown

Demigod22:
Is she not suppose to be loyal? The point is our generation do not understand the concept of marriage, we neglect the sanctity of fidelity, loyalty, mutual respect and trust in marriage. There's no excuse for a cheating partner, the husband that didn't cheat isn't perfect too.

She is just a LovePeddler like most Nigerian girls of this generation.

you got my point. the problem is our generation. women are seriously trying to outdoi men in cheating

Zonefree:
So, he thinks being rich, educated and sexually active can keep a Nigerian woman? Jonsing man!

Zonefree

Shedrack777:
why won't people realize that a man/woman is not meant only you to enjoy and have sex with? the day we remove this mentality from our mind, is the time that 85% of our worries and problems will be gone forever.
i'm married, but i won't be shocked if my wife is caught cheating (not because she has any atom of it) because i've put it at the bottom of my heart that my righteous and perfect wife might be imperfect. after all, she's human

Quite another deep perspective to look at things.

Humans are fallible after all.

This is exactly what was happening to an army man...
He says with AK 47, double silencer, grenade, and per knife in his disposal yet still his wife is cheating on him.

Mehn, no woman no cry

Always test the goods before buying

Exkandayee:
Is because you are a SIMP

You mean wives of redpillers don't cheat at all?

Femifasola:
When it happens you will sing a different song. Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown

only when it happens from an angle i'm not and will not expect. "like with my biological bro" (and the ratio is 0.4/100)