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I visited my cousin in Port Harcourt and spent three weeks. My cousin's neighbors are all igbos. There's this particular one that has a daughter. She is just 18 years old.

I am very social and jovial, so I started talking to her, maybe when she is working and I am passing, I will jokingly ask if I should help her and she will smiles and accept but I don't always go.

We fell into the habit of gisting, mostly in the evening, talking about school, business, life plans and all that. And I noticed she is always looking forward to that evening.

My cousin and his wife are not so good with their neighbors, the couple, that's my cousin and his wife, are the self righteous characters, which I am not comfortable with. They are the only ones not talking freely with the other neighbors the way neighbors ought to.

I am aware of this but I still accepted the friendship the young girl offered. I don't have any friends and I don't no where to go, so I think it's normal to find her friendship a relief.

She usually compliment my look, mostly my hair cut, skin color, physique and my friendliness. Then I travelled on Saturday. Since then she has been calling me and we have been talking about everything. She said she misses me and wish she give me a good bye hug before I travelled, I took her comment as innocent one.

Today, this morning, she called and she asked me out, telling me about how she is so in love with me, how she has loved me right from the first time we started talking, although, before asking me out, she begged me not to get angry at what she was about to say.

Guys, please, how can I advise this young girl to prioritize her studies over relationship, without sounding judgemental? I want to talk to her to be focus and that relationship will come later, I don't want her to feel bad about herself. Please any idea?

Although, I like the girl too, but I feel she is too young and I don't want to take advantage of her.

I'm also in love with you

Demigod22:
I visited my cousin in Port Harcourt and spent three weeks. My cousin's neighbors are all igbos. There's this particular one that has a daughter. She is just 18 years old.

I am very social and jovial, so I started talking to her, maybe when she is working and I am passing, I will jokingly ask if I should help her and she will smiles and accept but I don't always go.

We fell into the habit of gisting, mostly in the evening, talking about school, business, life plans and all that. And I noticed she is always looking forward to that evening.

My cousin and his wife are not so good with their neighbors, the couple, that's my cousin and his wife, are the self righteous characters, which I am not comfortable with. They are the only ones not talking freely with the other neighbors the way neighbors ought to.

I am aware of this but I still accepted the friendship the young girl offered. I don't have any friends and I don't no where to go, so I think it's normal to find her friendship a relief.

She usually compliment my look, mostly my hair cut, skin color, physique and my friendliness. Then I travelled on Saturday. Since then she has been calling me and we have been talking about everything. She said she misses me and wish she give me a good bye hug before I travelled, I took her comment as innocent one.

Today, this morning, she called and she asked me out, telling me about how she is so in love with me, how she has loved me right from the first time we started talking, although, before asking me out, she begged me not to get angry at what she was about to say.

Guys, please, how can I advise this young girl to prioritize her studies over relationship, without sounding judgemental? I want to talk to her to be focus and that relationship will come later, I don't want her to feel bad about herself. Please any idea?

Although, I like the girl too, but I feel she is too young and I don't want to take advantage of her.

She likes u and u like her..den go ahead unless u are 36 or have a wife, just don't sleep with her and ensure she focuses on her studies ..she will get over u soon..than her infacuation

LoL, thanks dear.

It will end in tears ( speaking from experience)



Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

BirtherOfKings:
She likes u and u like her..den go ahead unless u are 36 or have a wife, just don't sleep with her and ensure she focuses on her studies ..she will get over u soon..than her infacuation

Thanks for your input. I am in my mid twenties, no wife, no girlfriend.

Thonia69:
I'm also in love with you

ashawo

Haakeem:
ashawo

Lmao, can't I tease again?

Ok.

Thonia69:
Lmao, can't I tease again?

I was just kidding

Haakeem:
I was just kidding

I know, lol

OP, If ur story is Not a C.ock and Bull, just LOVE HER ALSO, u hear?
18years of Age Girls are Sweet BUT most of dem Never get Sense complete!
Just use ur sense in d relationship!

Thonia69:
I'm also in love with you

I see u are on full cruise mode

Silentgroper:
I see u are on full cruise mode

Lol yeah

Thonia69:
Lol yeah

Smiles** keep at it..