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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by rajiedreez: 6:11pm On Aug 11, 2022
Try to spice his food and drinks with libido boosting ingredients like tiger nut milk
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by babzlim(m): 6:12pm On Aug 11, 2022
am sure he's trying to safe you from been effected with something, if it wasn't like this before the marriage then your hubby is effected probably with an "STD".
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by yusluvad(m): 6:13pm On Aug 11, 2022

I don't know how you both got married but the truth is, It's not his fault He isnt just into you..
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Nobody: 6:13pm On Aug 11, 2022
I think he's GAY undecided
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by yusluvad(m): 6:14pm On Aug 11, 2022
Man is weak due to Nigerian economy

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by espbase: 6:14pm On Aug 11, 2022
Endure it pls
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by tonicyril: 6:15pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?
i am on this table, tho i am the man. I am the one starving my wife of sex but not intentional, tho i know the reason but i am fighting to win her affection back.


Op, dont talk long, ur husband like u but the affection has reduced, maybe due to what u have done to him in the past or family pressing issue.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by brainhgeek(m): 6:15pm On Aug 11, 2022
thorpido:
Hmmm.If it is there,it is there and if it isn't,then it may never be there.
Your hubby probably has a low libido and this is something you should have checked before tying the knot with him.
For a woman it might be easier to spice up her sex drive but for a man, it's harder if he has a low sex drive.
There are foods that could help drive your hubby's sex drive like bananas,water melon etc.You can get him Gingko biloba supplements too. You could try giving him that.
Try to be sexy for him too.Keep fit and trim and get nice underwear and perfumes.That can help too though it's not so much about you but him.


Dear OP,
Have you read this quoted advice? It might change your marriage forever.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Akerele44(m): 6:15pm On Aug 11, 2022
Tegabadguy:
just Gmail me......tegasunday@60gmail.com...lets me help your husband cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool

Werey guy...bad guy

U don dey bleep already grin

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by jameshow: 6:16pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

Let me be helping you out. My wife is also starving me
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by spencekat(m): 6:16pm On Aug 11, 2022
Blupen:
You are not better than anyone and no one is better than you oga
Don't mind him,because he has two children,he is now better.People sef!
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by ceejay80s(m): 6:16pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?
u are trying to say u like to f**k,
anyways sex ain't food and I won't advise u to go and have it elsewhere ,
just becareful, he is either f**king someone else, there's no such thing as he is not in the mood, when a man is having an affair with someone else, u will know
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Bryanfaisal: 6:17pm On Aug 11, 2022
I understand how you feel; the tedious nature of some jobs tend to reduce the level of libido in most men; try and understand your husband's body chemistry, d best time to have sex with someone with a strenuous job is in d MORNING before he wakes up cos most men tend to have erections when their nerves are relaxed. Try this little tip and thank me later.
thorpido:
Hmmm.If it is there,it is there and if it isn't,then it may never be there.
Your hubby probably has a low libido and this is something you should have checked before tying the knot with him.
For a woman it might be easier to spice up her sex drive but for a man, it's harder if he has a low sex drive.
There are foods that could help drive your hubby's sex drive like bananas,water melon etc.You can get him Gingko biloba supplements too. You could try giving him that.
Try to be sexy for him too.Keep fit and trim and get nice underwear and perfumes.That can help too though it's not so much about you but him.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Kajaard: 6:17pm On Aug 11, 2022
Most times this happens when wives relax after getting married. They no more take care of themselves. They get obese, start dressing shabbily and have bad odours.

All this makes the husband start losing interest. If you are guilty of any of this change your ways so he starts getting attracted to you.

Men are moved by what they see.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Erniemax101: 6:17pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"

What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

If you’ve tried all you can and he is not interested, get yourself an intimacy gadget
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by shineeye1: 6:17pm On Aug 11, 2022
Kollins11:
In otherwords.. You're a sex stave woman.

Have you really tried to sit him down to discuss this and let him know how you feel?
If a man stays away from sex for two months, he either has a medical issue that has made his libido drop or he is getting it elsewhere.

But incase you're so frustrated and you really need a strong solid 8 inches dick to ride.. Just give me a message, I'm available. Let me help your husband to shift your womb. God says always help your neighbor in need. I willing to help you cure your konji.

You could offer no practical help other than to offer to sex a woman who made it clear that she is MARRIED! Then, 24 other sons of Baal went on to LIKE your daft comment! As surely as God reigns, you will all likewise PERISH from the face of the earth and inherit your due abode in HELL. DEPLORABLE DEJECTED DEMONS OF DARKNESS
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Odaveboy(m): 6:17pm On Aug 11, 2022
Talk to him....that man is going through alot ....na man wey dey happy dey get erection

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by zakkxx: 6:20pm On Aug 11, 2022
My Sister show true love for your husband, massage his ego! Always remove the stress from him by telling him all will be ok! Don’t knack, be prayerful, be very neat. Stress is killing him gradually, don’t cheat on him!! May God bless your home

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by MVLOX(m): 6:20pm On Aug 11, 2022
What's even going on self.... For some marriages Na the women dey deny husband, for this case now Na man dey deny woman.... Make I talk true eh I dey suspect say the man Na gay.....
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Fgo31: 6:20pm On Aug 11, 2022
Baby, so u fit come nairaland come discuss our matter online..?
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Rexnegro(m): 6:21pm On Aug 11, 2022
thorpido:
Hmmm.If it is there,it is there and if it isn't,then it may never be there.
Your hubby probably has a low libido and this is something you should have checked before tying the knot with him.
For a woman it might be easier to spice up her sex drive but for a man, it's harder if he has a low sex drive.
There are foods that could help drive your hubby's sex drive like bananas,water melon etc.You can get him Gingko biloba supplements too. You could try giving him that.
Try to be sexy for him too.Keep fit and trim and get nice underwear and perfumes.That can help too though it's not so much about you but him.
Well said bruh but also tell her not to be tying wrapper up-and-down the house , that shit get me mad
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by franchasofficia: 6:21pm On Aug 11, 2022
Demigod22:
When I was younger, I was eager to have sex but now that I am growing up with reality, my urge for sex is declining. But then, sex is part of human.

Woman, you just need to communicate with your husband about this. Don't be shy about it, be expressive and make him understand how his sex life is affecting you.
This is the reality of life for many men, as a man grows older, his interest in that jigijigi stuff declines and if he is rich and bent on exploring ladies outside his marriage, most times they pay chicks (2 or 3 self) to be touching themselves while he watch in ecstasy cos the strength and interest to be digging a woman is no more there like when he was younger.



Men are most naturally active sexually between 17yrs to 34yrs, after 35yrs their sex drive begin to dwindle, and the first casualty of their declining sex drive is that woman they have been with sexually for years, either their wife, fiance' or girlfriend cos they hardly feel the urge with her unlike before. This is different with younger guys who are ready to dig any available female lol.

Ladies must try to understand this, though some men are exception as they can dig till they enter grave grin

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by VenumX: 6:22pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

Either he is gay, has hidden disease/erectile dysfunction or he is sexually not attracted to you.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Okobola146: 6:22pm On Aug 11, 2022
Forget about him, I'm available to play that role for him
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by ToniBlaize: 6:23pm On Aug 11, 2022
Didn't she know this before they got married?... That's one...
2: how is his sex drive?
3: how hygienic and appetising is that area she calls his food? Cause omo.. once engaged a lady that from the first time entering i decided that was the very last thrust...
4: for what kinda man he is? Is it possible he is cheating?
5: how is her sex game?? Does she give it to h hot hot.. give him a moment he can't forget each time.. are you too timid or too freaky... he could be getting better elsewhere.. person wey dey give am run for his money!
6: you also try and make him jealous.. dress up sexy in the evening and try going out see his reaction..
7: may be he regretted almost immediately after marrying... Just talk to him about it and see his reaction.. use ur head to calculate what happens next.. and look into those points ahead!

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by wildernessVoice: 6:24pm On Aug 11, 2022
How old is your ..?
How healthy is your Man...?
What is the nature of his work...?
When is his departure for work and return hour...?

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Goringo: 6:24pm On Aug 11, 2022
Give him odogwu bitters
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:24pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

A) you guys are sexually incompatible... and thats ok
B) maybe you are not doing what turns him on.
C) the fun of marriage is not only related to having sex whenever you want it.
D) what about COMMUNICATING with hubby and let him know how she really feels abot this sex thing?
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by robosky02(m): 6:25pm On Aug 11, 2022
Different stroke for different folks
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