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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Islandlady(f): 5:20pm On Aug 15, 2022
Rayban25:


So what are you going to do about it now?
Well, I can't change the nature of you men, I can only create awareness and advice my fellow women to be aware and prepared for the unexpected from you men to minimize the level of heartbreak...Thanks
Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Nonexisting: 5:29pm On Aug 15, 2022
A married man in honeymoon will not start wooing a vaginarian at random especially the one he and his wife hangs out with except if there's an action he is reacting to. My conclusion is that you gave him the green light and he simply reaction to it. In plain man's language, you tired to seduce a married man which makes you an olosho. I have just said my mind and you can bark about it, I don't give a fucck.

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Nobody: 5:31pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
Well, I can't change the nature of you men, I can only create awareness and advice my fellow women to be aware and prepared for the unexpected from you men to minimize the level of heartbreak...Thanks

Okay dear kiss
Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Fira09(m): 5:35pm On Aug 15, 2022
Nonexisting:
A married man in honeymoon will not start wooing a vaginarian at random especially the one he and his wife hangs out with except if there's an action he is reacting to. My conclusion is that you gave him the green light and he simply reaction to it. In plain man's language, you tired to seduce a married man which makes you an olosho. I have just said my mind and you can bark about it, I don't give a fucck.

Bro..... this is a "cock and bull story", don't give a fùçk about it.

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by sharpwriter(m): 5:37pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
The fact still remains Men will always be Men! Stop being emotional and childish!

History and nature has proven men to be polygamous and flirtious in Nature! Although it depends on your level of control but it is an inbuilt characteristics in Men!
Going by your second paragraph about nature, then wouldn't it be logical to say that men has no fault. Then it is God's fault or whoever the creator is.

It would also be logical to say that you should accept it like that since we found it in nature.

It's just like women getting angry because men lord over them because men are naturally stronger. Should men be blamed? Afterall the world and natural law is that the strong will rule over the weak.

Let every one disgruntled about the laid down system and strata take their petition to the creator abeg and let's stop fighting one another grin

In other words, accept that natural reality (which is mostly out of men's control) and quit complaining.

However, that guy na bad boy ó... Hin no wan let opportunity pass him by. At honey moon and just married, it is too early for gbensu gbensu and panachuku flirting grin angry

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Islandlady(f): 5:45pm On Aug 15, 2022
Fira09:


Bro..... this is a "cock and bull story", don't give a fùçk about it.
So what makes you think it's a cock and bull story huh? undecided is it that I can't afford to go on a vacation or what?
Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Fira09(m): 6:00pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
So what makes you think it's a cock and bull story huh? undecided is it that I can't afford to go on a vacation or what?

Let deal with this matter maturely. undecided

First of all I didn't said you can't afford to go on a vacation. But mere reading at your story.....it looks fake.

I know it's a lie, just admit it. smiley

Imagine! How can a man enjoying his honeymoon/vacation with his wife, all of a sudden he approached you and asked for your contacts, then you declined.

Hanty, this your stori carry lie.

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Benwallt(m): 6:05pm On Aug 15, 2022
Malory:
And women will always be women. There are many loose vaginals chasing after married men too and they offer nothing apart from their wrinkled and worn out pussy.
God bless you brother but that gender won't accept this truth in hundred years. If a man chased after you as a lady he must have seen the sign from you.
Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Kronikuz: 6:07pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
Yes, men will always be men irrespective of his race, religion and tribe, their flirtious, cheating and polygamous nature must reflect! angry

So, this past month, I took a first time trip to Badagry to relax n explore wink and I lodged in a resort! During my tour around I met this newly wedded Ivorian couples from Abijan who came to Badagry for their honeymoon, the wife was soo friendly, beautiful and nice toh...so we all tour around together with some other wonderful tourists too!

A day to the last days of my tour, we all chill in a bar to gist and to bid them farewell and then I went back to arrange my stuffs against the next day travel...but the most annoying moment was when this newly wedded Ivorian guy ran after me to ask for my number and also started telling me how he has fallen in love with me(lol) and will want us to have a sexy relationship since he always visits Nigeria!

I blantly turned down his proposal and left, I was so angry and pissed that why will a man on his honeymoon be asking another lady out!... Then I understand that cheating n flirting are natural features of Men!!!

To my fellow women, it's okay to trust your hubby and boyfriends to some extent but just prepare for the unexpected from them, so your heartbreak will not be much!
Cooked up shit angry

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Benwallt(m): 6:09pm On Aug 15, 2022
Stayjoyful:


Be polite and civil please.
no peace, no civility, no chance for peace. It is vawulence for vawulence

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Fira09(m): 6:10pm On Aug 15, 2022
Kronikuz:
Cooked up shit angry

That's what am telling a guy up there, it's a "cock and bull story"

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Malory: 6:10pm On Aug 15, 2022
Benwallt:
God bless you brother but that gender won't accept this truth in hundred years. If a man chased after you as a lady he must have seen the sign from you.
Exactly.
Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Nazgul: 6:18pm On Aug 15, 2022
czarr:
He just saw you as a loose woman based on how you carried yourself, that is what you should be worried about, why did he feel so comfortable asking such of you if you didn't carry the aura of a runs girl.
Well said.

What would give an ivorian guy the confidence to tell a Nigerian girl here in Nigeria he wants a sexual relationship with her clearly means she presented herself as a sex object to him.

No guy, not even a Nigerian guy can tell such nonsense to a girl directly unless he strongly believes that you're a runs girl and you've confirmed his doubt by giving him moves that suggest you're such.

So my dear op, stop judging all men and work on yourself.

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Islandlady(f): 6:22pm On Aug 15, 2022
Fira09:


Let deal with this matter maturely. undecided

First of all I didn't said you can't afford to go on a vacation. But mere reading at your story.....it looks fake.

I know it's a lie, just admit it. smiley

Imagine! How can a man enjoying his honeymoon/vacation with his wife, all of a sudden he approached you and asked for your contacts, then you declined.

Hanty, this your stori carry lie.
Firstly, I don't have to prove anything to you... believe it or not that's your own cup of tea!

Secondly, your @bolded sentences just shows how Naive and unexperienced you are to think things like this doesn't happen, I was surprised but not too surprised when he approached me too! But I want you to know that there is nothing new under the sun!

I am a lady that likes to travel and tour around the world at any slight time I have, so I have experienced a lot of things and met a lot of people, I even create vlogs and documentaries of my visits...I love sharing my experiences here although I always use it to bash men(lol) I love the privacy and anonymous status Nairaland gives! Cheers!!
Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Fira09(m): 6:25pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
Firstly, I don't have to prove anything to you... believe it or not that's your own cup of tea!

Secondly, your @bolded sentences just shows how Naive and unexperienced you are to think things like this doesn't happen, I was surprised but not too surprised when he approached me too! But I want you to know that there is nothing new under the sun!

I am a lady that likes to travel and tour around the world at any slight time I have, so I have experienced a lot of things and met a lot of people, I even create vlogs and documentaries of my visits...I love sharing my experiences here although I always use it to bash men(lol) I love the privacy and anonymous status Nairaland gives! Cheers!!

I won't tell you anything again but

The @bolded= FAKE LIFE

#Keep it on.

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Islandlady(f): 6:30pm On Aug 15, 2022
Fira09:


I won't tell you anything again but

The @bolded= FAKE LIFE

@Keep it on
Cool your opinion not my biz...Just keep off my threads if you feel it's all fake, you don't wanna comment on a fake thread don't you? undecided there was a time y'all said I was a male, so nothing new kiss
Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Nobody: 6:35pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
Firstly, I don't have to prove anything to you... believe it or not that's your own cup of tea!

Secondly, your @bolded sentences just shows how Naive and unexperienced you are to think things like this doesn't happen, I was surprised but not too surprised when he approached me too! But I want you to know that there is nothing new under the sun!

I am a lady that likes to travel and tour around the world at any slight time I have, so I have experienced a lot of things and met a lot of people, I even create vlogs and documentaries of my visits...I love sharing my experiences here although I always use it to bash men(lol) I love the privacy and anonymous status Nairaland gives! Cheers!!

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by JJuanMiguel: 6:35pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
Well, I can't change the nature of you men, I can only create awareness and advice my fellow women to be aware and prepared for the unexpected from you men to minimize the level of heartbreak...Thanks
Why not organise a seminar on this?

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Aaaaarghmed(m): 6:35pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
Yes, men will always be men irrespective of his race, religion and tribe, their flirtious, cheating and polygamous nature must reflect! angry

So, this past month, I took a first time trip to Badagry to relax n explore wink and I lodged in a resort! During my tour around I met this newly wedded Ivorian couples from Abijan who came to Badagry for their honeymoon, the wife was soo friendly, beautiful and nice toh...so we all tour around together with some other wonderful tourists too!

A day to the last days of my tour, we all chill in a bar to gist and to bid them farewell and then I went back to arrange my stuffs against the next day travel...but the most annoying moment was when this newly wedded Ivorian guy ran after me to ask for my number and also started telling me how he has fallen in love with me(lol) and will want us to have a sexy relationship since he always visits Nigeria!

I blantly turned down his proposal and left, I was so angry and pissed that why will a man on his honeymoon be asking another lady out!... Then I understand that cheating n flirting are natural features of Men!!!

To my fellow women, it's okay to trust your hubby and boyfriends to some extent but just prepare for the unexpected from them, so your heartbreak will not be much!
nobody approach you.no dey lie to feel special

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Eagba(m): 6:38pm On Aug 15, 2022
czarr:
He just saw you as a loose woman based on how you carried yourself, that is what you should be worried about, why did he feel so comfortable asking such of you if you didn't carry the aura of a runs girl.
And the man does not have the capacity to look at her and look away.

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by jeromestarks: 6:58pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
Yes, men will always be men irrespective of his race, religion and tribe, their flirtious, cheating and polygamous nature must reflect! angry

So, this past month, I took a first time trip to Badagry to relax n explore wink and I lodged in a resort! During my tour around I met this newly wedded Ivorian couples from Abijan who came to Badagry for their honeymoon, the wife was soo friendly, beautiful and nice toh...so we all tour around together with some other wonderful tourists too!

A day to the last days of my tour, we all chill in a bar to gist and to bid them farewell and then I went back to arrange my stuffs against the next day travel...but the most annoying moment was when this newly wedded Ivorian guy ran after me to ask for my number and also started telling me how he has fallen in love with me(lol) and will want us to have a sexy relationship since he always visits Nigeria!

I blantly turned down his proposal and left, I was so angry and pissed that why will a man on his honeymoon be asking another lady out!... Then I understand that cheating n flirting are natural features of Men!!!

To my fellow women, it's okay to trust your hubby and boyfriends to some extent but just prepare for the unexpected from them, so your heartbreak will not be much!
He did nothing wrong. You should have simply said no and keep it to yourself. Why bring it here?
If a man does not treat a woman like that, she will think the world revolves around her stupid vagina.

Women need to cheated on so they can value you.
Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by jeromestarks: 7:03pm On Aug 15, 2022
czarr:
He just saw you as a loose woman based on how you carried yourself, that is what you should be worried about, why did he feel so comfortable asking such of you if you didn't carry the aura of a runs girl.
Exactly.
This is what a lady close to me here said.
The Op is probably a loose, irresponsible and prospective looking prostitute who must have displayed some forms of sexual behaviors to the man.

She probably was the one who started the whole thing; eye contact, smiling, seductive movement and all what's not.

Now she came here claiming saint. Useless somebody.

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Echoban: 7:33pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
The fact still remains Men will always be Men! Stop being emotional and childish!

History and nature has proven men to be polygamous and flirtious in Nature! Although it depends on your level of control but it is an inbuilt characteristics in Men!

So now that u know, what do u want us to do abt it wink can we change an inbuilt character Na.

Even many pastors, if not for pupit shame, they also wish they are as free as we street men , an average Man wish to taste plenty pussy as much as he can. Let nobody pretend.

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Marvellsmart(m): 8:23pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
Yes, men will always be men irrespective of his race, religion and tribe, their flirtious, cheating and polygamous nature must reflect! angry

So, this past month, I took a first time trip to Badagry to relax n explore wink and I lodged in a resort! During my tour around I met this newly wedded Ivorian couples from Abijan who came to Badagry for their honeymoon, the wife was soo friendly, beautiful and nice toh...so we all tour around together with some other wonderful tourists too!

A day to the last days of my tour, we all chill in a bar to gist and to bid them farewell and then I went back to arrange my stuffs against the next day travel...but the most annoying moment was when this newly wedded Ivorian guy ran after me to ask for my number and also started telling me how he has fallen in love with me(lol) and will want us to have a sexy relationship since he always visits Nigeria!

I blantly turned down his proposal and left, I was so angry and pissed that why will a man on his honeymoon be asking another lady out!... Then I understand that cheating n flirting are natural features of Men!!!

To my fellow women, it's okay to trust your hubby and boyfriends to some extent but just prepare for the unexpected from them, so your heartbreak will not be much!
Men will always be men including ur father, brothers and male relatives... The energy and time you use in painting men black, if u invest it into your life there'll be a whole lot of Change. Your life will be less miserable and your wailings and lamentations bout men on this forum will reduce.

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Gandollar(f): 8:39pm On Aug 15, 2022
Me and the Op are not in good terms, so please brother Malory, help me ask her what mode of dressing she wore during the tourgrin

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Malory: 9:28pm On Aug 15, 2022
Gandollar:
Me and the Op are not in good terms, so please brother Malory, help me ask her what mode of dressing she wore during the tourgrin
What else will she wear if not a skimpy bikini with her black pant she wears for days.

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by Gandollar(f): 9:44pm On Aug 15, 2022
Malory:
What else will she wear if not a skimpy bikini with her black pant she wears for days.
Wow! grin


Gotcha!

How you take know the pant?

Shebi you say you even for dash...

grin
Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by thestreets(m): 9:45pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
Okay, is that all undecided why not add more trash!

the guy no lie abeg. u for add one more thing. Some no get taste again
Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by SarutobiEky(m): 9:52pm On Aug 15, 2022
This OP and sense. parallel lines

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Re: Men Will Always Be Men! My Recent Experience!!! by SarutobiEky(m): 9:54pm On Aug 15, 2022
Islandlady:
Cool your opinion not my biz...Just keep off my threads if you feel it's all fake, you don't wanna comment on a fake thread don't you? undecided there was a time y'all said I was a male, so nothing new kiss
Lol e pain am reach bone grin

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