Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,158,205 members, 7,836,011 topics. Date: Tuesday, 21 May 2024 at 07:10 PM

I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating - Family - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating (4037 Views)

Man Catches His Wife Cheating With Another Man In Their Bedroom - Video / I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! / My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (Reply) (Go Down)

I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Hunter12: 5:40pm On Aug 15, 2022
Her WhatsApp conversation with this man shows she's cheating and she was saying she's only playing along. I'm walking out of this marriage in peace and not in pieces

3 Likes 2 Shares

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Stayjoyful: 5:41pm On Aug 15, 2022
Tell us more about the conversation
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by StPete: 5:43pm On Aug 15, 2022
What exactly did you see?
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Romanoff(f): 5:44pm On Aug 15, 2022
Her conduct over chat might be unbecoming of a married woman but you'd need more proof than just the chat.

You're within your rights to investigate and have proof.

Unless the marriage done tire you and you just dey find excuse to comot.

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by OurSeun(m): 5:48pm On Aug 15, 2022
Hunter12:
Her WhatsApp conversation with this man shows she's cheating and she was saying she's only playing along. I'm walking out of this marriage in peace and not in pieces

Oga your hand is not clean...
Give details, don't just jump in conclusion
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Kobojunkiee: 5:49pm On Aug 15, 2022
Hunter12:
Her WhatsApp conversation with this man shows she's cheating and she was saying she's only playing along. I'm walking out of this marriage in peace and not in pieces
Alright! So, what is the plan now? Is the next step for you to go pick up the divorce papers, sign it and forward it to her then? undecided
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by crackhaus: 5:54pm On Aug 15, 2022
Me I'm just waiting for screenshots or transcripts of the chat... Daz all



**Modified:**
Thanks for sharing the screenshot. cool

Your wife is definitely cheating on you, no 'what ifs'...
Some women will stain your white sha... Tueh!


There's a silver lining to this though, and it will only make sense if you can control yourself and your emotions. Don't let this discovery phase you so much & make you act irrational.

One stellar thing about catching a woman who has cheated on you (assuming she still wants to be with you), is that all the power in the marriage/relationship is now yours.
You can literally have her eating out of your hands for the rest of her life if she's stvpid enough to still want to remain with you after being caught.

7 Likes

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Richy4(m): 6:02pm On Aug 15, 2022
shocked shocked shocked shocked
Ohhh!!! Don't forget to delete your message?

Just let him keep her buddy sad

Modified
How you will start trusting again is where my worries are...

The next lady that will be in your life assuming you decide to divorce this one will be at the receiving end if nothing is done..

Please try and see a therapist if u can afford it... If u can't, just go to the gym.. use the punching bag a bit man and let off steam

1 Like

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by ibechris(m): 6:10pm On Aug 15, 2022
Hunter too dey divorce abi?

U are hunting and your wife is some where chatting with a man.

Have u treated this woman well?

Ask yourself this question before it is too late.
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by etrouble: 6:17pm On Aug 15, 2022
Hunter12:
Her WhatsApp conversation with this man shows she's cheating and she was saying she's only playing along. I'm walking out of this marriage in peace and not in pieces

The sooner the better before you start training other men's children. Also before she plans with one of her adultery partner to send you to the grave
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by etrouble: 6:19pm On Aug 15, 2022
ibechris:
Hunter too dey divorce abi?

U are hunting and your wife is some where chatting with a man.

Have u treated this woman well?

Ask yourself this question before it is too late.

No he has not treated the woman well. So it is good he divorces the street Olosho so that she can go and meet the men treating her well. If not, in a short while she will plan with one of those treating her well to send her current husband into the grave

Meanwhile, the poster that I quoted here needs comprehensive psychiatric evaluation. Him head no correct

12 Likes

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by gaby(m): 6:23pm On Aug 15, 2022
To save your head first, you better find a way out of that marriage as soon as you can even if it means abandoning everything for her. Just run and go start over in rebuilding your life.

Staying in that marriage will keep you going around in a vicious cycle with no direction or purpose in life.

Do not allow "wetin people go talk" to make you destroy your destiny, life and future my dear brother and anyone else reading this.

And if you know deep down of you that your ways and source of livelihood aren't pure or you cause others grief to live an assumed good life, kindly quit with it and begin to get your life and destiny back on a good track.

I have been here and I know what it cost me.

At some point in my ignorant naive young life, I got caught up in the crooked life on the fast lane and made so much money off the back of innocent victims. My story is in my signature..

I thought I was living a life and had finally arrived as a Big boy with my millions but life and karma had a different plan altogether for me.

I was given for free of charge without pay, a curse for a wife that you can't even begin to comprehend the level of issues I had to contend with or go through on a daily until I finally got my eyes opened and decided to make that bold move of running for my only life to go start anew and boy, was that the best decision I had ever made in my life, oh yes and I made sure I quitted for good the shitty lifestyle and stayed away from so-called friends on that path.

You can only imagine what a young me was going through when I came to find out that I had been hitched to a woman for a wife whose mother had 6 kids including her , with 6 different men. Na from thereby know and believe say no matter what, na long thing snake dey born truly.

This is just a part of the many stories of my life and all confirmable. People who know me one on one abound here and can attest to all.

I'd rather spend my time chilling with my origin bitters than come here typing some fable...i no get that kind energy.

Be courageous and smart mate.

Wishing you the best going forward.

Make una no vex for my comments. I am given and enjoy sharing my stories to keep sensitizing and educating people about life and her experiences as I have been fortunate to get them first-hand.

6 Likes 1 Share

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by ibechris(m): 6:44pm On Aug 15, 2022
etrouble:


No he has not treated the woman well. So it is good he divorces the street Olosho so that she can go and meet the men treating her well. If not, in a short while she will plan with one of those treating her well to send her current husband into the grave

Meanwhile, the poster that I quoted here needs comprehensive psychiatric evaluation. Him head no correct



I am married and I think u need to be evaluated to know if u are sensible.

If what that man posted here is the only evidence to quit his marriage,then u the supporter must be sick in the head.
Most of u here are from terrible homes and u guys are always in good mood to see people's marriages in the same situation as yours.

When marriage issue are brought up here,it is vital to keep quiet because marriage isn't relationship that one can treat with kids gloves,therefore I urge u to always keep away from it.

Until u marry,u will know how to respect and treat women in most respectable manner.

3 Likes

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by ahnie: 6:48pm On Aug 15, 2022
Lolz the outburst like citrus burst.
Dem don dey enter her motor **pim**pim**pim.



E Don cast ,madam yaff chop breakfast.
Feelings be swinging like jingle over.
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Offpointng: 7:00pm On Aug 15, 2022
ibechris:
Hunter too dey divorce abi?

U are hunting and your wife is some where chatting with a man.

Have u treated this woman well?

Ask yourself this question before it is too late.

So treating a woman good or bad should be considered in the case of infidelity/adultery??

Your senses are not working for you atm

6 Likes

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by etrouble: 7:21pm On Aug 15, 2022
ibechris:


I am married and I think u need to be evaluated to know if u are sensible.

If what that man posted here is the only evidence to quit his marriage,then u the supporter must be sick in the head.
Most of u here are from terrible homes and u guys are always in good mood to see people's marriages in the same situation as yours.

When marriage issue are brought up here,it is vital to keep quiet because marrange isn't relationship that one can treat with kids gloves,therefore I urge u to always keep away from it.

Until u marry,u will know how to respect and treat women in most respectable manner.



I need to see your medical certificate of mental fitness first because I cannot be arguing with you now, only to discover later that you have been typing from the Psychiatric Hospital. From what you typed up there, I suspect that you may be typing from the Psychiatric Hospital

12 Likes 2 Shares

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Klass99(f): 7:22pm On Aug 15, 2022
...

4 Likes

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by etrouble: 7:25pm On Aug 15, 2022
Offpointng:


So treating a woman good or bad should be considered in the case of infidelity/adultery??

Your senses are not working for you atm

Obviously
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by RightToReject(m): 7:35pm On Aug 15, 2022
OP, get ready for guilt because if care is not taken 90% of the commenters will try to make light of her action, if not justifying it outright, one way or the other, and make you the culprit.

Meanwhile, if adultery is your dealbreaker on self-conviction (not because most people think that it should be), go ahead and divorce her, provided that you're certain that you've not gotten involved in adultery in the cause of the union because the woman you have there is not good for you if adultery and untrustworthiness in general is your dealbreaker.
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Nobody: 8:10pm On Aug 15, 2022
I see no cheating here, sex doesn't happen on the phone if that's what you mean, if you want to catch her red handed, monitor and investigate her movements simple, or Op do you want to say you've never flirted or crushed on another woman as you are presently married?

1 Like 1 Share

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Lighthouse50: 8:24pm On Aug 15, 2022
How dare a married woman chat trash with another man and claim she's playing along? women and their lustful desires sha. Bros calm down and keep observing except youre fed up of being a man and finding yeye excuse to flee resposibilities.

1 Like

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by 2dice01: 8:35pm On Aug 15, 2022
Lighthouse50:
How dare a married woman chat trash with another man and claim playing alonp? women and their lustful desires sha. Bros calm down and keep observing except youre fed of being a man and finding yeye excuse
grin cheesy
You are such a wise man

He should keep observing till they kill him or he father bastards

You deserve a medal for the advice man

3 Likes

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Baronthecelebri: 8:41pm On Aug 15, 2022
Hunter12:
Her WhatsApp conversation with this man shows she's cheating and she was saying she's only playing along. I'm walking out of this marriage in peace and not in pieces
mumu why did you cover the name, you caught a thief and you're covering the name.. stupid simp,
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Generalnomercy: 8:48pm On Aug 15, 2022
That man dey kpash the olosho of a wife.

They've been doing it and its somebody the man knows very well.

2 Likes

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Romanoff(f): 8:51pm On Aug 15, 2022
Baronthecelebri:
mumu

The man and woman wey born you, na mumu them be, na shy them born mumu too.

Ozuor.
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by wunmi590(m): 8:53pm On Aug 15, 2022
Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Baronthecelebri: 8:53pm On Aug 15, 2022
ibechris:




I am married and I think u need to be evaluated to know if u are sensible.

If what that man posted here is the only evidence to quit his marriage,then u the supporter must be sick in the head.
Most of u here are from terrible homes and u guys are always in good mood to see people's marriages in the same situation as yours.

When marriage issue are brought up here,it is vital to keep quiet because marrange isn't relationship that one can treat with kids gloves,therefore I urge u to always keep away from it.

Until u marry,u will know how to respect and treat women in most respectable manner.mumu




Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by gaby(m): 9:04pm On Aug 15, 2022
Klass99:


Pardon me but I need to quote this before you change your mind, return and delete it.

When a guy created a thread asking men to share stories of their married life or why they were divorced, you were pissing all over that thread, dissing him and fighting everyone you didn't agree with.

I wondered why you were so angry about a harmless question that wasn't mandatory to answer. It is good to see you are opening up now and sharing, from every mess there's always a message either for you or for others to benefit from.



I was pissing on a thread? What a beautiful language and manner.

I can faintly remember that thread and would appreciate you sending me the link.

If my memory serves me right and it's the same thread I think it is, I went about that thread that way with my comment because I felt the op seemed bored, jobless, and decided to create a thread.

If you understand me, you would know I am not sharing my stories here for the first time neither am I one to post something and go deleting it. My story is always on my signature you could have checked it out to know I wasn't "pissing" on the thread.
For what? Who do I owe an apology for my comment, story, and my typing.

Abeg free me joor

Take or discard the massage and ignore my person, please.

Thanks.

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by Klass99(f): 9:14pm On Aug 15, 2022
...

2 Likes

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by gaby(m): 9:18pm On Aug 15, 2022
Klass99:


Lol and now you are just fighting with yourself. If you understood my post then you would know that while I referred to your past conduct on a different thread, this recent post was appreciated because you are sharing and there are lessons to learn. I cannot free you because I did not kidnap or imprison you na.


Lol...I gotcha joor

I'm glad you took a lesson from my lil pissing...

1 Like

Re: I'm Done With This Marriage: Caught My Wife Cheating by anthonyuncle(m): 9:26pm On Aug 15, 2022
na wa o!

things don change o

(1) (2) (3) (Reply)

What Would You Do If You Found Out Your Marriage May Not Be Legal? / The Difference Between The God, The Gods And Goddess: Holy Spirits And Angels / Toddler Walked-Out Of Nursery To Her Home After Door Was Left Open

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 61
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.