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squarelead:
It's so heartbreaking calling someone a queen while another guy is smashing her .

If na match commentators be like
"Another guy smashes his Queen"

Women, wives, ladies are over-hyped.

Idiot like you ! Tell your husband na.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Even though the story is cooked and fictitious but I'll play this game with you and go with the flow. Your act was very much premeditated and effectively carried out. There were alot of inconsistency in it. Oh you didn't have a place to sleep over, your hubby didn't send you cash for hotel and you opted for your ex's sisters place and all of a sudden he was there waiting patiently in the sitting room to do some carpentry work. Mm hmm....he(Husband) called and you switched off your phone, that alone should've brought you back to your sense but you knew how gullible he was and would take whatever excuse you put out.

You have already destroyed the marriage, so start fixing to leave cos if you no tell am, i go tell am.

I used to trust the female gender but not anymore, am no longer shocked by their actions

Ashawooooooooooooooooooooo

Lie till u die! The second u open ur mouth to confess, the second ur marriage is over!! We men have pride and would never share our women with anyone, worst still our nemesis, the ex lover of our woman. Take my advice: what u don't know can't hurt u. If u fall into ur guilty trap and confess, there's no escape

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

The reason I always dropped any babe still reaching out to her ex, like wtf? If I as a man can control myself to distance myself and the so called ex, I see no reason to keep any lady still reaching out to her ex. This shii are bonds to happen but women are so daft, you will hear them saying stuffs like "I know myself " "I can control myself " "I'm different"

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Ur moniker shows you are Male so who is the husband or U be gay ?

Relationship na scam

That was why he made you an ex.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

What many of you don't know is the day you cheated on your husband your marriage is broken already spiritually.

The promises made, the agreement of faithfulness and the bond of shared is broken already. Someday, somehow it will come appears physically in real present that's, the truth of it will come out.

The trust and the medicine is don't do it. Don't cheat.

Keeping it and you take it to the grave has it consequences. Tell him also has it consequences. Now what do you do?

After 10 years? Its well with you.
If you must tell him, ready for the consequences either way.
And if you won't tell him, ready for the consequences in the aftermath, that's hereafter.

The most significant thing about the cemetery is that it full of untold stories.

You just said when you arrive at his Sisters house u saw your ex in the living room, did u not communicate to meet their! U are liying to us! You will need to fast and pray! If u know that your husband will divorce you wait and fast for like 21 days and open up to him the Holy Ghost will humble him!! But if you take it to the grave, that is a first class ticket to Hell! Is just like you getting pregnant by your Ex and putting it on your husband! When u die where will u go to? Hell Fire straight! God bless your home! Christian Ladies will always disgrace us but the Muslim Ladies hardly do that! Repent and change from your ways or you will burn in Hell!!!

Listen to yourself! Very arrant nonsense. You are a cheat. That's what you are. Even if you confess to your husband and he forgives you, there is high tendency you will still cheat when you have opportunity to.

Girls and who broke their virginity are like 5&6.
Despite the long time yet, it never easy to skip. Come put Dem for the same room. Highest Vawulence Order of first love can't come near to it it like peace. Comrades are not surprised.

Girls and who broke their virginity are like 5&6.
Despite the long time yet, it never easy to skip. Come put Dem for the same room. Highest Vawulence Order of first love can't come near to it it like peace. Comrades are not surprise.

Well if ur conscience bugs u and u have a feeling he knows then come clean and ask for forgiveness. He will get upset bt hope for the best.

Some stories are better left untold. Your husband is not aware of anything. It's your conscience that is judging you as a result of guilt. No man will know you cheated on him for ten years and keep shut. Not even a SIMP.

squarelead:
It's so heartbreaking calling someone a queen while another guy is smashing her .

So painful

poshestmina:
A male moniker on Nairaland cheated on "her dear husband with her ex".
.

You all just sit and write false stories , just to discredit women and bring the Alfamails with only soaked garri and salt in their stomach, crawling all over the thread.

Toor!
Mr OP , cheating on your husband was bad , hope your scrotum isn't pregnant with a bastaaaard yet.

babe, you bad

teeshet:
see this whöre advising a fellow whöre

If there were no stupid men like you, the whoOre would be extinct.

No, I haven't. I don't know how it feels like. Thanks

teeshet:
have you been in a threesöme b4

Rinoxy:
U're the hen spitting trash here. Fool.

While you are the limpy cock vomiting after eating trash.

KingTeco:
Girls and who broke their virginity are like 5&6.
Despite the long time yet, it never easy to skip. Come put Dem for the same room. Highest Vawulence Order of first love can't come near to it it like peace. Comrades are not surprise.

The last time I saw the guy I gave my virginity, I gave him a wide berth.

squarelead:
It's so heartbreaking calling someone a queen while another guy is smashing her .

So sorry. Do you need handkerchief?

Well, there is no rule that says if men cheat on their wives, women shouldn't cheat on their husbands. And it's happening whether the people involved are aware or not.

If you tell your husband, he may forgive you but will never trust you again. He will start behaving strange towards you especially if he is not cheating on you.

But I still think it's better to keep silent than to destroy your marriage or family with your hands. Telling your husband may do more harm than good to you. Just my humble opinion.

SisterAnn:
The last time I saw the guy that took my virginity, I gave him a wide berth.

If you guys are put together in the same room for a night, there's a 70% chance of you guys having sex. True or true?

dontrulee:
If you guys are put together in the same room for a night, there's a 70% chance of you guys having sex. True or true?

But I just told you I avoided him completely the last time we saw. I had outgrown him.

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daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

airminem:
You need to tell your husband. Admitting to Nairaland is not the same as telling your spouse.

Never try this at home too dangerous. This is one of the secret you go to the grave with. You try it hmm end of marriage. Better he keeps suspecting forever.

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One-thing-lead-to-another story of the week. I stopped reading halfway.

jaxxy:
Well if ur conscience bugs u and u have a feeling he knows then come clean and ask for forgiveness. He will get upset bt hope for the best.

Never ever try this advice or else your village people are on your tract....