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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by kabasa24: 11:43pm On Aug 17, 2022
i know many men will come here and want to crusify the woman knowing fully well they do same. our wife jare see it is not a new thing, i am not encouraging it but e don happen e don . seek for God 4giveness and tell ur husband. so as to clear ur mind.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by pquaver(m): 11:44pm On Aug 17, 2022
iamyungkhalifa:
try and tell them o. All of them are just back lashing her when the lady is suffering from the greatest pain which is gullt. She should just keep the issue to herself and Forget it ever happened


They highest crime is she off the phone on her husband. She dnt deserve that man. Her remaining in that marriage is deception. You are encouraging.. The fact your husband called is supposed to drop the ibido. If my mother walks in on my hard gbola will it still stand? Or wife calls in middle of sex omo panic go fall the gbola na.. Na only ogbonge for cheating go off that phone.. And claim flat bat3

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by effort1: 11:49pm On Aug 17, 2022
Rexymania:
Nobody is above mistake

It wasn't a mistake. It was planned

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Lezzlie(m): 12:20am On Aug 18, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by jaydee87(m): 12:48am On Aug 18, 2022
Smilessssssss...
Don't let anybody make you feel bad ooo..
U made a mistake a decade ago or should I say, you wanted the mistake to happen and it happen. Let it remain in the past joor. Since you know you are vulnerable to your ex try all your best not to contact him again. That is the best way to avoid such. For your husband be more loving to him. What he don't know won't hurt him. If you tell him, he may forgive you or not but he won't forget it and he will have dis resentment towards you and can you live with that?
Just be more loving to him henceforth.

Thank you for sharing your story..

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by aquame: 12:59am On Aug 18, 2022
The day you open up will be the day you leave that house.
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by rickdaking(m): 1:02am On Aug 18, 2022
daylay7:
Sometimes I use to wonder if you guys do sleep at all. grin grin grin
we don’t o, no sleep ! No sleep!

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Danniedpastor(m): 1:04am On Aug 18, 2022
drlateef:




Show me an angel among men. Every human being is created weak. We will always commit sin. It’s hypocrisy and pretentious to say you know a clean man or woman. He may not necessarily have committed adultery, but he could have done other things.

Thank God you said "other things".
Right now, adultery is the subject not "other things".

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Philipmaxwell: 1:17am On Aug 18, 2022
My dear, having read your story, I can tell you there was nothing accidental about what transpired that night. Maybe you didn't plan to cheat on your husband before you got to the house, but that was the only thing in your head, once you saw this ex.

Even teenagers know enough not to share a room with an ex. But you not only shared a room, but you also shared a mattress, and except me to believe any of what followed was accidental? As if that's not enough, your husband called why you were in the act, and your response was to turn off your phone because all you wanted to do at the time was focus on cheating on him. If it was accidental at all, any call will be enough to distract you and give you time to come to your senses, not to talk of that of your husband. But all you could do was switch it off. My dear, you are a cheat and you do not deserve the man you are with.

Why do I say so? I'm very certain you didn't feel any guilt after the whole thing. The only reason you are feeling guilty now is that your husband has been so loving that you can't even find a reason to justify the evil act, whether introspectively or retrospectively. You have come to see that he deserves a better woman, that's why you feel guilty.

Too bad, he will probably forgive you if you tell him. You don't deserve that much. No cheater does

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Ghoxt: 1:58am On Aug 18, 2022
Poor guy.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Huracan(m): 2:09am On Aug 18, 2022
Forever remain silent dear and sin no more!!

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Sukkyy2010: 2:42am On Aug 18, 2022
Swear, your story provoke and stirred up anger within me, how could you dear spread wide your two laps for another man who never paid your pride price. And you received that thing continuously until you reached climax without without no conscience reminding you of your husband at that wayward moment.

You're perfect example of bad women.

My sympathy to your husband.

But for you, fu*k you I hate you.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by BECALMBECALM(m): 3:15am On Aug 18, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters
I AM NOT HERE TO BLAME YOU. BUT WHAT I NORMALLY TELL PEOPLE IS THAT THE EASIEST WAY TO AVOID SEXUAL IMMORALITY IS TO AVOID OCCASSIONS THAT WILL LEAD TO IT. HOW COULD YOU ACCEPT TO SLEEP ON THE SAME BED WITH ANOTHER MAN AND THINKING THAT SOMETHING WILL NEVER HAPPEN. A MARRIED WOMAN.YOU WANTED IT AND YOU GOT IT. IF I AM YOUR HUSBAND I WILL NOT WASTE TIME TO BREAK THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU ARE A VERY CARELESS WOMAN.YOU DONT HAVE COMMON SENSE.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by DaSugarBoi(m): 4:11am On Aug 18, 2022
Onisekuse Oshi, Olojukokoro Obirin . Las las na devil cause am abi? No vex make I no talk again
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by SisterAnn(f): 4:26am On Aug 18, 2022
Rinoxy:

What a misfit to ur gender u are.
Please get over your insecurities.
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Afonso1234: 4:57am On Aug 18, 2022
Put yourself in his shoe...this gender
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by jimmynauty: 6:21am On Aug 18, 2022
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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Stargurl20(f): 6:24am On Aug 18, 2022
Men and hypocrites Sha. To see that they're the ones bashing this woman the most is really surprising. I'm not justifying her actions or saying what she did was right, but does the gender who cheat most with no remorse has right to judge or crucify another?

I wouldn't be surprised if you guys say yes, using the men are wired differently yeye talk to back it up.
The last time I checked, adultery was highly prohibited for both genders, in every religion I know. So, men justifying their actions with that yeye sayings is baseless, and to me, anyone who cheat in marriage, whether men or women are the same with this woman, and therefore, have no right to judge

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Slimdaddy27(m): 8:56am On Aug 18, 2022
The same thing you did in relationships most y'all still end up doing it in marriage (that u swore for better for worse)....


How did ur ex knew u were coming to the sister's house?

Of course u and I know something hot saw gonna happen


Ur dear husband called and u went ahead to switch off ur phone... LoL ��

Funny genders

Live with ur conscience
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by etimocity(m): 9:40am On Aug 18, 2022
madam you did it intentionally. why don't you sleep with her sister in her room, why don't you sleep in a guest room, or che the house have parlour right? you're a well monumental comfirm cheater.
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Okobalo123(m): 9:42am On Aug 18, 2022
Ayomidejoseph:
The truth is, its you feeling guity and unable to forgive yourself. Your husband certainlly knows nothing, so its you who's changed.
I kind of support this motion, if of a truth she felt guilty and soberly minded, I will suggest that she goes to God in tears and open soberly minded and ask for forgiveness of sin. And receive peace of heart from pardon from since and vow to God never to allow it to repeat at self and flee from every appearances of such. Things will never be the same again in her marriage even if she confess to her husband because he is human and not God. My opinion thanks stay blessed
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Okobalo123(m): 9:44am On Aug 18, 2022
Okobalo123:
I kind of support this motion, if of a truth she felt guilty and soberly minded, I will suggest that she goes to God in tears and open soberly minded and ask for forgiveness of sin. And receive peace of heart from pardon from sin and vow to God never to allow it to repeat it self and flee from every appearances of such. Things will never be the same again in her marriage even if she confess to her husband because he is human and not God. My opinion thanks stay blessed
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by wayodude(m): 10:06am On Aug 18, 2022
After 10 years[i][/i]

Don't tell your husband.
Don't tell your friend.
Don't tell anyone.
Don't tell yourself.

Do all of these and...

The deed will be 'undone'
Your integrity will be unblemished
Your 'morality' will be untarnished

Do different and...

Your respect will be unrecoverable
Your marriage will be untenable

There will be no where to go
Literally ...
Because you refused to move on.

The end.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by GindoX(m): 10:42am On Aug 18, 2022
My frnd, keep quiet. Dem no dey tell that kind thing.... He will change towards you totally... So my advice keep quiet.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by jokotus: 10:57am On Aug 18, 2022
Sister, this is not a matter of you see your ex once. You have broken your relationships already. It doesn't show that you a Christian you are like a dog that go back to his fomitt. Cried to God for forgiveness and if possible tell your hubby to forgive you every of you wrong this will easy you from this stigmization of your past with your ex.
To tell you the truth you didn't love your husband at all. This is very disturbing kindly stop been a pretenders.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by jokotus: 11:04am On Aug 18, 2022
Sister, this is not a matter of you see your ex once. You have broken your relationships already. It doesn't show that you a Christian you are like a dog that go back to his vormit. Cried to God for forgiveness and if possible tell your hubby to forgive you every of you wrong this will easy you from this stigtimization of your past with your ex.
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by jokotus: 11:04am On Aug 18, 2022
To tell you the truth you didn't love your husband at all. This is very disturbing . kindly stop been a pretenders.
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by beyondPen(m): 11:26am On Aug 18, 2022
A married lady came to my house last week to visit me. She was my friend though and we were very close.

Little did I know she was trying so hard to Bleep me. Whenever she hugs me it's extreme.

I told her I could not have sex with her though she wasn't doing that squishing thing with me again.

But it's fine by me.

I was in their house this week and confident with clear mind. Imagine I slept with her how will I be looking at her husband

Fear women

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by drlateef: 11:54am On Aug 18, 2022
Danniedpastor:


Thank God you said "other things".
Right now, adultery is the subject not "other things".


Kissing other women, pressing womens boobs, sexting, etc are all forms of cheating. They won’t get home to tell their wives, would they?

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by advanceDNA: 12:33pm On Aug 18, 2022
Gunayo:
So you don't know that return leg can lead to loss of life? Make dem no free her for her sake and her family.

Lol.....she ddnt plan it....na one time mistake.. rematch is not likely ...

The kind of woman i cant forgive na those one
Wey go plan to cheat...dey chat with men, dey send núdes, enter bike or even travel 30km go chop penís...and dey collect the penís steady.......
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Danniedpastor(m): 1:02pm On Aug 18, 2022
drlateef:



Kissing other women, pressing womens boobs, sexting, etc are all forms of cheating. They won’t get home to tell their wives, would they?

If I do, I will tell my wife.
But wait how many men would go out of their way to kiss and press boobs without eating banku?
Only a cheat would look at another woman's breast lustfully let Aline touching it.

And some of us have never done such.

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