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MJBOLT:

Nigerian ladies and greed

patoski39:
don't blame the gal, blame the sex starved mofo. From the full gist, he was the one that asked her what she would like for lunch after sending her his dicck photos

AkuOlisa:
Esther Villar's sentiments are captured by Nigerian Poet, Critic and Writer, Chinweizu Ibekwe in his book, *"The Anatomy of Female Power"* (AFP) and Will Farrel's *"The Predatory Female*.

They all push the theory that all Societies are Matriarchal and not Patriarchal as we are pushed and forced to believe. Matriarchy has ruled not through brawn, but wits and tricks; women feigning weakness to be protected, etc. Thus, the male becomes the most exploited sex in human history, (in wars the man is always ready to die for the woman; he has been trained to do that).

Chinweizu calls the idea of dating and courtship, ‘a training’, like that of a horse. It is during this time that a woman, having kept the man on a leash by denying him sex and getting him addicted to her by false charms, trains and breaks him to whatever she wants him to become.

The Marriage Celebration becomes a celebration for the woman and her friends, and they all congratulate her for having succeeded in getting herself a slave. A man on that Wedding Day waves goodbye to his independence and his coalition of males, and commits himself to a Sisyphean life, rolling the stone, an act he cannot abandon having Society and the Government checking on him and always ready to jail, shame or exile him for absconding his duties. *Thus the Government and Society helps the woman in keeping her slave in check.*

Chinweizu gives a narration of how women are trained by older Matriarchs to tame men. He explains how a man is trained to rely on women by his own mother. A man is shamed for cooking for himself and undertaking other domestic chores by his own mother who is an agent of the *Global Matriarchal Rule*.

By getting the man to hate domestic works and having it enforced by culture which warns men against going into the kitchen, doing laundry, etc., the mother trains her son for the woman who will captivate him and when the time comes, she takes hold of the man's stomach and by getting the man addicted to her body, she holds him by the two, in bed and in the kitchen. With those two weapons, she manipulates the man and turns him into her plaything.

In the *"Myth of the Male Power"*; Esther Villar's *"A Man's Right to the Other Woman"*; *"The Polygamous Sex"*, the authors of these books challenge the narrative that men oppress women, and by detailed research across African, Western and Eastern, both in ancient and modern Societies, the authors unravel the hidden power of the ruthless Matriarchal Power that rules the world. *Presidents, Emperors and Kings are all puppets of the Matriarchy Forces that rule the World by pulling the strings from behind the curtains.*
*� Man, Take it or Leave it! �*

Above writeup makes interesting reading to me, even though maybe based on precepts and conjectures rather than emperical research, but it accords with good reasoning. Religion, culture, society, and government place the burden of family upkeep on the man alone. Man's mind is skewed to accept this and grow with it from cradle.

Woman understands this from cradle and structures her mind from cradle to take maximum advantage of the situation. A man's mind is imbued with ego which gives him false sense of superiority over woman. During wedlock the priest tells the man that he is the head and tells the woman that she is the neck that holds the head. It's therefore doubtful whether the head can stand firm without the neck that holds it. It's also known that as the neck is pliable it can swing or spine the head to any desired direction. Head depends on neck for every activity without the head knowing or accepting it.

Leo Tolstoy, a Russian writer, likend this to a capitalist who sits atop his victim, exploiting and suppressing him and convinces him that he wishes his problems can be ameliorated in any form except his getting off his neck.

Man is indeed a slave to woman, so inevitably that not to be so will make man a slave of another order of slavery when family, children, society, government descend on him to impress it on him.

In the western world anytime a wife feigns ill treatment from husband law enforcement agency comes to give the man few minutes to take his personal effects and go very far away for the wife to occupy the house and use it as she likes. Who then is the slave and who is the master?.

When a man quarrels with the woman, the man is presumed guilty until contrary is proved while the woman is deemed innocent until the reverse is proved. Who then holds the aces? Man spends all his energy and resources to train his children but when the children grow up they become more inclined to their mother and pity their mother as victim of the man's tyranny, so who is the head and who is the tail.

The man's headship is ostensible while the woman's headship is real. In law, if a woman acquires property it belongs to her alone, but if a husband acquires property it belongs to him and his wife. Wife bears brazen act of unfaithfulness from husband with equanimity and keeps going strong but a husband buckles and dies of heart attack or stroke upon mere imagination that his wife is cavorting with another man. Who then has higher strength of the will?. Pain of labor has been described as the highest sensation of pain on human body such that at the heat of labor a sharp object can be applied to the soft tissue for vasectomy with out the woman feeling it because the pain of labor subsumes the pain of the sharp object but temporal period of impecuniousity sends a man sprawling like banana.
So who is stronger?.


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CaveAdullam:
Heartofcity12, hope you are good? And you too, saviolamemphis?

AkuOlisa:
I word is enough for the wise

AkuOlisa:
*SLAVERY OF MEN BY WOMEN*

German writer Esther Villar In her book *"The Manipulated Man"* that caused outrage and hostile criticism from women explains how women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves,

ubunja:
this is also why I've never subscribed to that "You don't need women to be a man just succeed and you're a man". nope. success without women is always a miserable existence for men cause they get lonely easy. .
I knew a lot of men were lonely, that is, not getting sex.

Light999333:
99% of divorces initiated by women happened because the woman went up a level while in that marriage. Those who have the core ideas of the redpill ingrained in their consciousness, cannot love wholeheartedly. Even when such a man loves, he always reminds himself about the word hypergamy. The reason women hate the redpill so much is because they know that the messages of the redpill has truly truly great potentials of preventing men from empowering them. An empowered woman is a woman who can challenge your authority as a man, who can walk out of her marriage happily, who can go Bleep whoever she wants. The men who are the perfect fit for the women of our times are the Talibans. The extremist Muslims actually understand lots of things about women that the westernized men do not know about. When they deal with women, they show no mercy. The women understand the kind of men they are dealing with, and they are always on their best behaviours. In the middle east, most divorces are initiated by men, not by the women. As it should be.

Zabiboy:
Man.. I limited my quotes on your posts when you said you are here for "the pussy". And so as someone who cares 0% about "the pussy" (believe it or not) we are definitely not gonna align in most debates. But i wanna touch on the message above.
Let me keep it short:
A poor man would say he's unhappy because he has no money.
A rich man would say "Money no dey bring happiness".
Meaning: if you cannot find a way to be happy as an individual without external influence( women and sex here based on your post), then money wont solve your issue, it might hide it tho..
Same with loneliness. If as a guy, you cannot create/have fun with yourself without external influence, then you'll remain lonely.

Finally, w.r.t the bolded above, as far as Me, zabiboy is concerned, No human on earth(not to talk of one gender) would make my Wins and successes a miserable existence.

chikasnight:
I’m glad men are enlightened these days, everyone is almost woke at the same time... can’t wait to see what the society looks like in like 5yrs time

MJBOLT:

Nigerian ladies and greed

CaveAdullam:
Heartofcity12, hope you are good? And you too, saviolamemphis?

ubunja:
continue limiting your quotes on my posts. You were doing fine. Why stop now?

Buskynwa:
He is actually making sense but maybe putting it in a devastating manner
At the beginning of this thread men were encouraged to be comfortable in their loneliness and solitude cuz they are all they've got because society don't care about them, they were also encouraged to learn and do simple chores, cook good food etc cux that's one of tenets of the redpill to avoid manipulation not even from females only but from the world entirely (even Cave or luminous had to speak on it extensively in one if his great submissions) infact I started putting in work on myself on that aspect and thanks goodness I improved a little on that area.

Why has that notion changed recently with everyone freaking about being lonely? With kids or wives/babymamas,I don't understand, being lonely is hard yes but that's why we are redpillers and we know what we know plus we've been pulled away from that matrix so it shouldn't be a hard thing to imbibe in one way of life... Men have been alone in this world toiling and sweating to build their values which is not an easy feat to achieve
If the kids or thief mother surround you during your lonely days fine, if they don't who cares?

I've never seen a rich old man chronically lonely during the latter years of his life, so I guess the advice for men should be to always build their values and throw away complacency

ubunja:
I actually know one or two guys with multiple babymamas and I don't see them self-destructing... Even the bums with multiple babymamas are not exactly self-destructing, they're what they've always been: bums. Don't mistake Africa for America.

The few guys I know with babymamas are not even suffering,, on the contrary they're the guys who always have someone to call when they need the most and have women who'll drop anything to come to their aid in their hour of need. But let me tell you I know good upstanding gentlemen living their life by the book who don't even have anyone who'll sacrifice for them when they need it the most.
And there's only so much even a true friend can do for you before he cut you off as a liability and face his own problems. How many friends will consistently visit you by your hospital bed till you recover? How many friends will consistently visit you in jail till you get out? Not very many.
You can talk about your own family,, but truth is a lot of guys are not maintaining good family relations and there's plenty of grudges and sibling rivalry between them and their brothers and sisters, and few can count on their own blood in their hour of need. I've seen that shít play out and seen the babymama come through harder for a man than his own family and friends.
If you think I'm talking trash, Here's a sobering fact that a lot of guys will not want to admit: Your own sister, your own blood sister, will be more loyal and do more for her baby's father (married or not) than she'll ever be or do for you. Am I lying?

Now am I promoting immorality and irresponsible behaviour? Maybe. But I'm thinking in terms of self-preservation. I wouldn't want to be a 90 year old man who has no one checking upon him just cause I never had any kids cause I didn't want to overpopulate the world or I didn't want to have kids out of wedlock. Let me tell you, At a certain age it won't matter how you got your children, what will matter will be DO YOU HAVE ANY CHILDREN AT ALL?
A lot of us have uncles etc who have good relationships with their children who they got under suspect circumstances, and at that stage no one is talking about where that kid came from but that the kid is here and they're a blessing.

We can talk about getting married but we know the divorce rate. And honestly speaking if we as the red pill discourage marriage then the more a man needs to have children with different women cause tomorrow is not promised and all the money in the world won't matter in your old age as much as having your own kids (regardless how you got them) be around you.
It may seem like I'm talking a lot of bullshit,,, but men don't have a lot of people to count on. And it will actually be irresponsible of us to let men go into the future without Plan B , especially since we're talking down on marriage.

I don't know man,, but that's the way I see it. It would be nice to hear what other guys think though.

Buskynwa:
He is actually making sense but maybe putting it in a devastating manner
At the beginning of this thread men were encouraged to be comfortable in their loneliness and solitude cuz they are all they've got because society don't care about them, they were also encouraged to learn and do simple chores, cook good food etc cux that's one of tenets of the redpill to avoid manipulation not even from females only but from the world entirely (even Cave or luminous had to speak on it extensively in one if his great submissions) infact I started putting in work on myself on that aspect and thanks goodness I improved a little on that area.

Why has that notion changed recently with everyone freaking about being lonely? With kids or wives/babymamas,I don't understand, being lonely is hard yes but that's why we are redpillers and we know what we know plus we've been pulled away from that matrix so it shouldn't be a hard thing to imbibe in one way of life... Men have been alone in this world toiling and sweating to build their values which is not an easy feat to achieve
If the kids or thief mother surround you during your lonely days fine, if they don't who cares?

I've never seen a rich old man chronically lonely during the latter years of his life, so I guess the advice for men should be to always build their values and throw away complacency

LordAdam16:
It's Zach's fault. If she's in her 20's and you are significantly older, smash and move on. It's Hollywood not rural Utah.

What could have possessed him to believe Pugh will be with him in the long run? Forget Black Widow. Pugh was part of the all-star 'Little Women' cast in 2019 and her romantic interest in the movie was Timothee Chalamet for crying out loud. No one with her pedigree is dating a 45+ year old. From Emma Watson to Chole Grace Moretz to Zendaya. Even them Emma Stone set would not date a Zach Braff, no offense.

So if he was expecting the Pugh dalliance to last, he was deluding himself. Dude is literally a FOG (F*ckable Older Guy) who stuck around too long. All hot Hollywood starlets screw gorgeous older men from time to time: They don't date them.

That is how Brian Austin had young Megan Fox and instead of a smash-and-flee, he tried to monopolize her and ended up a cuck.

With that said, Zach is hot and would have no problem getting chicas. If he wants a relationship, he should seek out them Lyne Renee and Mozhan Marnò or wait for the likes of Briga Heelan and Jennifer Lawrence to be done with their first marriages. Or pretty much just lookup Nathan Fillon's dating history, note the age gaps, and apply same filters during his search.

Or he gets with a young B-list or C-list and hope she never blows up. Kinda like Julian Brink and Maddie Hasson.

Not every lady is a Rosamund Pike. And only Heaven knows what Robie Uniacke has had to endure.

Won't lose sleep about him tho'. Dude can literally step into any club in LA, on any night, and walk out with two younglings who are just as pretty as Pugh, just not as famous. Enjoyed watching him in Scrubs. BTW, he's never married, so his head is screwed on right on the sh*t that matters.

-Lord

ubunja:
nice one man,,

actually over population is a hoax used to push different agendas. Numerous studies have showed the world population is infact declining. What's tricking People is that they live in cities and see how everywhere you look it's just people people and more people,, truth is we're not overpopulated, we're just crowded in cities. A trip to the countryside/villages will show you just how empty vast lands are. In certain European countries they're even trying to incentivize people to make babies,, cause everyone's just aborting and aborting. Google "Demographic Winter" for a more indepth look at the world population problem.

It's not coincide that even in the US of A , the land of women's rights, women are actually starting to be denied the right to abort. Cause you can only abort so much until the population and future of a country starts to be in danger. Elon Musk is maybe the most high profile individual who's been speaking on the world population problem so far. In many countries (US included) population is no longer at replacement rates,, the rate of people dying is actually more than the rate of people being born. More people are dying than are being born. And the most obvious problem with this is that in 40/50/60 years there's going to be a very large old age population which can't work and relies on government hand-outs and pensions while everything rests on the shoulders of a very small young working population. That burden they won't be able to carry and the system will crush.

To avert this disaster, many governments in the West, started importing people to boost populations via immigration programs. Previously racist countries that wanted nothing to do with Africans started allowing African immigrants arriving by boats to settle in their lands. It's one of the biggest reasons even America is allowing people to enter via the Mexican border. Its a matter of national survival. Some countries like Japan are already facing extinction in the long term. No Country can long survive if there's more people dying than being born.

ubunja:
80/20 is in full effect. women are congregating around a few men to the exclusion of the majority. at least in the west. (see the 2 pics below) but this is nothing the red pill didn't predict. we been saying this for years. women want money from men but at the same time women have made the government their provider and have also become financially independent, so no one must be surprised men are becoming increasingly single. this is also why I've never subscribed to that "You don't need women to be a man just succeed and you're a man". nope. success without women is always a miserable existence for men cause they get lonely easy.
in all my writings I've never talked about sexual temperance and sexual control cause I've always operated from the viewpoint that most men are struggling to get sex and telling someone who's starving for puccy to deal with puccy in moderation has always been hilarious to me--- how you gonna be moderate and have self control around women when you're not getting any women to begin with?

what most men need is women, especially sex. that's what male loneliness is all about. it's also why for ages, even before that article on THE RISE OF SINGLE LONELY MEN came out, I put that display picture on my profile that explains what male loneliness is.

even before that article came out,, I knew a lot of men were lonely, that is, not getting sex. and it's funny how a lot of men don't wanna hear anything about sex and will go to great lengths to call you shallow and desperate for always talking about sex and not other nobler things like building your career etc,, but the same men, after building themselves find that women are not exactly streaming to them, and they're left lonely with all their achievements. as said article has revealed.

hypergamy declares women want someone who makes more than them,, yet the same women are screwing nobodies and getting pregnant for nobodies. how do you reconcile the two?
well hypergamy IS NOT sexual. what turns a woman on is the same regardless of a man's financial position. if a woman is turned on by muscles, she'll be turned on by muscles regardless of the guy's job status - just that if muscle guy is top achieving, a woman will deal with him PUBLICLY,,but if he's a broke failure, the woman will deal with him SECRETLY. at either state, muscle guy will get the puccy. it's why/how many times, broke men and successful men end up dealing with the same type of chicks. cause both are what turns her on.
now, Since a lot of women are putting off marriage till later, it means hypergamy is at pause till such a time women want to get serious and settle down. which also means women are thinking with their vagina until they decide to settle and have to use their brain and start being choosy and selective with whom they associate with and start having standards,

this is the door I have always preferred. deal with women on a lust level while they're thinking with their vagina, cause then they're not using their brain and are not rational. let their lust turn to love. fucc them until they catch feelings. and they start asking for more out of the situation. there's no relationship whereby a man holds the most leverage as a relationship that starts as a sex thing and a woman gets caught up in the ecstasy of the dicc that she asks for something permanent. you hold all the cards and if you're really as toxic as the best of them, that's when you'd ask for a baby. remember a baby is quickly becoming today's virginity. when no woman is no longer a virgin cause all women are hoes babies become the next best thing.

in all this talk about the Rise Of Single Lonely Men, guess who's not lacking for sex together with the usual suspects (rich men, celebs etc) ---> baby daddies. especially multiple baby daddies. women will always fucc the father of their kid. no matter what.

if men are no longer getting sex and there's no longer any sexual security for them, then making women pregnant all over doesn't seem as bad an idea. modern problems require modern solutions. I'm just saying. and please no man must come for me cause of this baby mama talk I have flue and a headache lol