Pls help advise me on what to do..

I recently got admitted into a private university in the west, it came with 70 per cent scholarship. I have to pay the acceptance fee of N50 000 so I texted my uncle living in the US requesting for 50k but he sent me 200k. My mother knowing that the 200k may not be enough to foot all the bill that may take me thru the streinous process, is now requesting for 10k to pay next term school fees of my step-sis, a wicked girl who tormented me when I lived with them in our father's house. I refused and my mom is threatening to curse me.

My mom now alighn with our step-family to badmouth me for little to no reason.My dad is dead.
Pls what can I do?

You need to Ignore them and live your life since they don't love you, focus on your studies.

eje loju bi ti abasha zeh *leju pa Zeh *marerin zeh* kala zeh* daju zeh * wuwa ika zehhhh

Hmmmm, speechless.

At long as u re utilizing the for the puppose of academics, nothing is gonna happen to u bro.

Whom God has blessed no man can curse, but this shouldn't stop u from saying ur praying because the heart of man is desperately wicked.

obey your father And mother

God1000:
You need to Ignore them and live your life since they don't love you, focus on your studies.

Thank you. My step-mom is jealouse because all her children attended either polytechnic or college of education. I'm the first to in the nuclear family to be admitted into the university and the third in the extended family, my step-mom doesn't like it but my mother is ignorantly following.

It eats me from the roots of my heart that these people tormented and rejected us but here my mom betray me to side with them. What's that, Haaa?

Greattestman:
Pls help advise me on what to do..

I recently got admitted into a private university in the west, it came with 70 per cent scholarship. I have to pay the acceptance fee of N50 000 so I texted my uncle living in the US requesting for 50k but he sent me 200k. My mother knowing that the 200k may not be enough to foot all the bill that may take me thru the streinous process, is now requesting for 10k to pay next term school fees of my step-sis, a wicked girl who tormented me when I lived with them in our father's house. I refused and my mom is threatening to curse me.

My mom now alighn with our step-family to badmouth me for little to no reason.My dad is dead.
Pls what can I do?

This your info look some how! how can your sister whose school fee is 10K old enough to torment you?
Again, you calculated what you needed and ask your uncle for 50K and he gave you 200K only for you to say is not sufficient for the strenuous process?

Your story need clarification from your mother!

Sorry about that.

Greattestman:
Thank you. My step-mom is jealouse because all her children attended either polytechnic or college of education. I'm the first to in the nuclear family to be admitted into the university and the third in the extended family, my step-mom doesn't like it but my mother is ignorantly following.

It eats me from the roots of my heart that these people tormented and rejected us but here my mom betray me to side with them. What's that, Haaa?

Too bad, that's the mistake some parents make which will later hurt them in future

She's 2yrs younger than me(17) and in a private high school which I was never previledged to. She lies to our dad and her mom that I beat her up and they will jointly tie me up to flog me and deny me of food.


It is a private uni, so there are some streinous process, including obtaining sworn affidavit of good conduct from the court and many more I can't begin to explain.

@Correctyourself

Those who don't see anything wrong in marrying more than one wife, this is what you will put your kids through, dead or alive.

That your uncle that sent you 200k when you asked for only 50k, make sure you remain close to him. Don't just contact him when you need money, chat him once in a while to ask how he is faring and his family also if he has any. Position yourself in his life to be helping him out with errands here at home and I can assure you that you will never lack. As for your topic, I don't have an advice on that.

Hit the ignore button on ur step mom



But for ur mom talk to her

Bro 10k from 200k is nothing much.. send 5k to your mom tell her to add the remaining

Your mother is a good woman. She has seen and rebuked you for the greedy person you've chosen to be without holding a brief for her co-wife and step-daughter.

Follow your mother's advice, and know that life does not revolve around you. Eschew greed.

blesskewe:
Hit the ignore button on ur step mom



But for ur mom talk to her

Thanks! But I must say, being the only child of your mother in a polygamous home is difficult most especially when most of your step-brothers and sisters are older than you.

RightToReject:
Your mother is a good woman. She has seen and rebuked you for the greedy person you've chosen to be without holding a brief for her co-wife and step-daughter.

Follow your mother's advice, and know that life does not revolve around you. Eschew greed.

This reeks of hypocrisy. If you had passed thru half of what I wade thru in life, you would be a verywickedman.

You asked for 50k, and you got 200k, please don’t be hard hearted, your sister needs 10k, just give them, you will get more.

Greattestman:
Pls help advise me on what to do..

I recently got admitted into a private university in the west, it came with 70 per cent scholarship. I have to pay the acceptance fee of N50 000 so I texted my uncle living in the US requesting for 50k but he sent me 200k. My mother knowing that the 200k may not be enough to foot all the bill that may take me thru the streinous process, is now requesting for 10k to pay next term school fees of my step-sis, a wicked girl who tormented me when I lived with them in our father's house. I refused and my mom is threatening to curse me.

My mom now alighn with our step-family to badmouth me for little to no reason.My dad is dead.
Pls what can I do?

A supportive uncle is rare and worth stealing

God1000:
You need to Ignore them and live your life since they don't love you, focus on your studies.

Live her life with 200k? Lol... Sorry, OP, but I disagree with this. This is the reaction of hot headed teenager who knows little to nothing about life, no offense intended.

Your mom asking you to spare 10k for your step sister does not in any way imply she doesn't love you or loves your step sister more. She's only giving posterity something to judge by. Your mom will not deny her cowife the life-changing 10k because you didn't get along with your step sister. It might be valid to you, but that's not something she could easily defend. She's only doing her part so as to be able to hold her cowife and her daughter accountable. If 10k is what it'd cost to attain such state of mind, please give it to her. You're not giving it to the girl but to your mother. You're probably too young to understand what's she's doing.

Hmmm, victor why don't you just talk to your mother and show her you're a man now

Chaos14:
Hmmm, victor why don't you just talk to your mother and show her you're a man now

Your sharp sense is probably morethan your age. How did you know it's me, V!ctorUSA?

Ignore them my friend, a woman curse can't do anything

Greattestman:
Your sharp sense is probably morethan your age. How did you know it's me, V!ctorUSA?

Na when you mention usa uncle and mother cursing

Stupid boy... Even your mother is tired of your lack of home training..... Poor woman, I pity her for having a curse of a son like you.

LonelyLucifer:
Stupid boy... Even your mother is tired of your lack of home training..... Poor woman, I pity her for having a curse of a son like you.

Your monika tells it all.

Polygamy na wahala sha. My papa enter am but im don enter eternal sleep now. The kain suffer wey we dey see ehn, wetin eyes dey see, mouth nor fit talk am finish.

I don't know the severity of the hate you are experiencing and the financial management of your family, so it's difficult to offer you an advise.

Listen to your mum. If the 10k isn't a major strain on your finance, then let it go. Afterall you only asked for 50k from your uncle but he gave you 200k.

10k won't make a considerable difference in your finance.

Try to understand! Your mom knows what she is doing, there may be things see is seeing that you can't see and understand but I believe with time you will know, just relax your mind.
Your mom will never want anything that will hurt you now or in the future

Greattestman:
She's 2yrs younger than me(17) and in a private high school which I was never previledged to. She lies to our dad and her mom that I beat her up and they will jointly tie me up to flog me and deny me of food.

I come dey think say na serious matter oo