Hmmm first of all this will be a long post so I apologize in advance. Also this is not fictional it all happened and all characters are 100% real. People that know me here know I don't cap about my life experiences.
The Beginning.
It was last two weeks Sunday, I was on my way home after Sunday groove, I entered a bike, as we all know Abuja rain get as e be, on getting to the last bus stop where I would enter a Keke heading to my estate it started raining but I had my sweet letterman jacket on. So I get to the bus stop and there's this fair sweet looking girl inside, mind you this was around 10:30 at night and that was the final Keke, the driver was tired so as soon as I came we set out, just the two of us in the back, there's been an increased presence of military checkpoints in Abuja due to the insecurity, anyway so we get to an army checkpoint and the officer speaks to the Keke driver then asks if we're together, we both say NO at the same time but she was closer to him, meanwhile I saw her eyeball me when I first entered the Keke, back to the story so the officer asks her why she said no in that manner and this girl replied that I wasn't her spec, the officer then flashed his torch in my face and says "ah ah this fine guy" all this while I'm just laughing but in my mind I'm just eager for them to let us go and I don't even care about their conversation, the officer probes further by saying no it can't be that I'm not her spec then the babe says "okay he can't afford me" at this point the spanner wey dey my brain knack the bolt gbainnnnnn, I then looked at her and I said "please don't ever say that again, you can say I'm not your spec that's fine but don't say I can't afford you cos you don't know me and it's not right to judge people that way abi shey na because I follow you enter Keke?" Then she says "oh sorry is it this guy you're talking about, no oh I thought it was the Keke driver" I could tell she was just chatting shit cos I don clear her asap then the officer says to me "make sure you collect her number oh" that Soldier na real OG I owe him a bottle of chilled Heineken. They let our Keke go and the ride is a silent one for about 3 minutes then she starts to apologize and say she didn't know it was me she thought it was the Keke guy BLA BLA BLA, being the eccentric guy I am I told her not to worry to cut the long story short I took her number and invited her out for a date the next day being Monday after I got home from work.
I know say my story long make una no vex.

The Date
So Monday night comes and we go to a spot in my estate, we sit and have drinks with sweet plates of Peppersoup while we get to know each other, found out she's a graduate from one of the private unis (name withheld) and that she's actually smart, so we spoke at length about ourselves and I saw that she wasn't materialistic as she gave off initially walked her back home and got a hug.

Communication
So we did a lot of chatting cos I'm not a call guy, she was fun to chat with so we fixed another date same location this time it was much more comfy we talked for hours like we had known each other for years but she kept bringing up the fact that she was single and not interested in a relationship so we should just be friends, as a bad sharp guy I agreed, walked back after the date then we sat under a tree in the park in my estate, that was where and when we shared our first kiss, it was a beautiful hot wet french kiss and it really made my night, few days later precisely when Man U played Liverpool and won she came over to my place and the rest as they say is history.

She still maintains the statement that we are friends even after the sex which I'm cool with but a few days back we were gisting and enjoying the cool even breeze when my phone rang, it was a girl calling and I had saved the girls name with 2 heart emojis and a peach (yansh) I could tell immediately it upset her but she covered it up by saying after all we're not dating, I just shrugged it off and answered the call, she went home by 9pm only for me to get a text by 10pm from her saying "so you left me to go and be with your madam, you're funny" but you said we're not dating na besides I never even left her to be with anyone, but tbh I think I'm falling in love with her and I think she's falling too if she hasn't fallen already, she's perfect, my type of girl, her shape is to die for, whenever we're out Omo men dey stare even married men with their wives, I don't want to tell her I'm falling tho so she no go misbehave but so far so good it's going well, I just don't know why females claim they're not interested in dating you but get jealous when it looks like someone else wants to get in the picture. Anyway she'll be over by the weekend and I can't wait to give her mind-blowing séx the type that will leave her legs shaking, to the point that whenever she remembers it she'll have to change her panties cos they'll get soaked...

So my fellow NLanders why do women act this way??

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She wants to kidnap you.

I also have someone like that too. But just still thinking on what to do about her.

orisa37:
She wants to kidnap you.

Lol the Kanayo O Kanayo picture would have finessed this your comment

WonderManly:
I also have someone like that too. But just still thinking on what to about her.

My brother, just dey chop for now until e turn to relationship on him own

. Women and pretence are like 5&6.

Nonsense

Lee99:

My brother, just dey chop for now until e turn to relationship on him own

Abi now! Na wetin i dey think be that o.

Should we tell him?

Verywickedman please this op need advice, your expertise is needed here

This life Sha, not up to a week or two weeks that you guys met and you have been screwing each other

This is purely lust/infatuation
I don't see pure love feelings here
Damn Nigga

Ma nigga

ojotobiloba1:
This life Sha, not up to a week or two weeks that you guys met and you have been screwing each other

This is purely lust/infatuation
I don't see pure love feelings here
Damn Nigga

I'm telling you bro, that girl is very cheap.

Female is the future.
Future is female or whatever.

This is not what we were expecting.

Smh

Baronthecelebri:
I'm telling you bro, that girl is very cheap.

People will see a pussy giver lady and they will be calling her my love. Some guys couldn't differentiate between Love, lust, Infatuation or fwends with Benefit. This life is now rotten, sex is now so cheap like pure water that one can get it without any stress at all. That's why keeping a relationship/Home is becoming so difficult now.

TF! What did i just read?

I just don't know why females claim they're not interested in dating you but get jealous when it looks like someone else wants to get in the picture.

The fact that guys especially NL guys forming work don't know @Embolded is a format wome use to make men invest emotionally stiil amazes me. Of course she wants you to keep convincing her to date her so she can do yanga and the radarada, and the moment you start being desperate about it she looses interest and dumps you.

And also the fact you believe everything these bitches say is another wonder. What happens to going for the opposite of a woman's statement? Cos that's where the truth always is

She played a game but I guess you have already won. Now don't do the mistake of leaving your other girls for her cos of her attributes. Maintain your options

Lastly why you go dey swear to God for babe. Who does that

Don't worry about dating her for anything serious, just enjoy your pvssy my friend.
Good luck.

SPAMBOX7:
I just don't know why females claim they're not interested in dating you but get jealous when it looks like someone else wants to get in the picture.

The fact that guys especially NL guys forming work don't know @Embolded is a format wome use to make men invest emotionally stiil amazes me. Of course she wants you to keep convincing her to date her so she can do yanga and the radarada, and the moment you start being desperate about it she looses interest and dumps you.

And also the fact you believe everything these bitches say is another wonder. What happens to going for the opposite of a woman's statement? Cos that's where the truth always is

She played a game but I guess you have already won. Now don't do the mistake of leaving your other girls for her cos of her attributes. Maintain your options

Lastly why you go dey swear to God for babe. Who does that

For swearing, I think he is stupid.
Great advice though.

ojotobiloba1:
This life Sha, not up to a week or two weeks that you guys met and you have been screwing each other

This is purely lust/infatuation
I don't see pure love feelings here
Damn Nigga

Lol hypocrite. Please tell us how long should we wait before having sex that won't be termed lust/infatuation?

Be careful

Watch your emotions.

And she told you that she's single and you believed her.

I pity you.

No be only you dey fúck her o

Akinfemmy:


Lol hypocrite. Please tell us how long should we wait before having sex that won't be termed lust/infatuation?

Just 5mins is okk to have sex after the relationship is official since that's wat u wanna hear bro.

Lmao!! Someone said she wants to Kidnap You

Lee99:

My brother, just dey chop for now until e turn to relationship on him own

It's only to chop that's in your head. She probably doesn't want to appear cheap.
All of you boys always believe once you v sex with a lady, she's less attractive. So do the needful, make her feel more comfortable. Tell her you want her for real.

Women always mean the opposite. Mind you Op, the more she's jealous the better for you. Do not quit your other relationship bcus of her.

Fvck her kpekus woto woto.

Fvck it mercilessly

Bottom line is that some bannies are just too cheap to be taken serious

ojotobiloba1:

People will see a pussy giver lady and they will be calling her my love. Some guys couldn't differentiate between Love, lust, Infatuation or fwends with Benefit. This life is now rotten, sex is now so cheap like pure water that one can get it without any stress at all. That's why keeping a relationship/Home is becoming so difficult now.

Honestly, I met a girl and under 2days we are already copulating.

Omoh, this one na dissertation. I don’t have the mental patience so I’ll round up from the title alone.

Women are selfish; the more men they have around, the more they value their own lives. If she has three serious boyfriends, she’ll still keep you in the friend zone and avoid you from getting opposite sex friends talk less of a girlfriend.

You have two options to remedy this situation; you can either become wise or stay foolish. I won’t go into detail because you already know what to do.

Akinfemmy:


Lol hypocrite. Please tell us how long should we wait before having sex that won't be termed lust/infatuation?

You dey answer the mumu

if you are smart you wouldn't fall in love...because that's where she wants you to be and to control the narratives.
she is only playing a game with you...and that started from the keke.. by saying you are not her type and quickly switched it to the driver.
so that should tell you she's got game...
i can guarantee you... you are not the only one.. she dealing with...she sees you as a F BUDDIES and she seeing someone else.
that's why she is just open to you...and more so women are typically open to other option. better than you..
the best way for you to deal with her is tell her you have a main girl friend too..
and you are just open to side situation and you like her
so you people remain F BUDDIES UNITIL she wants to step up as number one.
and if she accused you of not been faithful.. you tell her you gyes are just friend.
and you appreciate that..
note this women choose who to date... you only choose to ask them out....
and she's not playing hard to get...if she is.. she wouldn't sleep with you...
sincere ladies that play hard to get play it with their body's .not with there attitude..