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lawrenzooo:
Oga face your front. You just visited once and your friend explain to you that his wife is not feeling fine. When you have visited severally and you observe her behaviour to be norm then you can advice but for now leave it at what your friend told you. His wife is not feeling too well.

I love your response.

Is anyone forcing the mother-in-law to do the chores? What if the mama likes doing chores?.....

if your friend didnt have a problem with it, why should you?

my mother will come to my house and clean shiiit, even if the house is SPOTLESS....thats how she is.

Adunn1ade:
Is anyone forcing the mother-in-law to do the chores? What if the mama likes doing chores?.....

From what i saw, those chores were born out of Necessity. i.e. They needed to be done.

Not because the Woman liked doing them..

washing curtains, sweeping the verandah, arranging the Dining table, I don't think it's necessary. I don't know mama or your friend. I hope you know some mothers are stubborn, they might have told her not to do the chores, but, she insisted. Mama may also be using the chores to keep fit���

Vinnie2000:
Yesterday, after several promises and postponement, i visited my Married friend@his place.

My Guy's mother was around.

Throughout my 5hr stay, i saw dat it was this elderly Woman dat was doing all the Domestic work; washing curtains, sweeping the verandah, arranging the Dining table,etc.

His wife just laid on the couch, watching TV and contributing in our discussions.

Was so surprised and annoyed.

I Later asked him why his wife laid down all through, he said she wasn't feeling well.

So if because lady is ill, she can't even do any house chore again?

Anyways, next time we meet, i will tell to caution/advise his wife.

His Mother might be Angry and unhappy but just hiding her feelings.

So Peeps, Do you Support my Next line of Action or You are for 'Mind your Business, E Nor concern you'?


Lalasticlala
Mynd44.

Mind ur business...did d mother complain to u

MrBrownJay1:
if your friend didnt have a problem with it, why should you?

my mother will come to my house and clean shiiit, even if the house is SPOTLESS....thats how she is.

My issue is dat the Woman seems to be too elderly for such Plenty works.

My friend's wife should have stood up and helped her with one or two chores@least.

But she just slept and watched TV throughout!

Vinnie2000:
Yesterday, after several promises and postponement, i visited my Married friend@his place.

My Guy's mother was around.

Throughout my 5hr stay, i saw dat it was this elderly Woman dat was doing all the Domestic work; washing curtains, sweeping the verandah, arranging the Dining table,etc.

His wife just laid on the couch, watching TV and contributing in our discussions.

Was so surprised and annoyed.

I Later asked him why his wife laid down all through, he said she wasn't feeling well.

So if because lady is ill, she can't even do any house chore again?

Anyways, next time we meet, i will tell to caution/advise his wife.

His Mother might be Angry and unhappy but just hiding her feelings.

So Peeps, Do you Support my Next line of Action or You are for 'Mind your Business, E Nor concern you'?


Lalasticlala
Mynd44.

your friend the man can't help his mom or domestics chores is wife duties only?? Btw how is that any of your business

Vinnie2000:
Yesterday, after several promises and postponement, i visited my Married friend@his place.

My Guy's mother was around.

Throughout my 5hr stay, i saw dat it was this elderly Woman dat was doing all the Domestic work; washing curtains, sweeping the verandah, arranging the Dining table,etc.

His wife just laid on the couch, watching TV and contributing in our discussions.

Was so surprised and annoyed.

I Later asked him why his wife laid down all through, he said she wasn't feeling well.

So if because lady is ill, she can't even do any house chore again?

Anyways, next time we meet, i will tell to caution/advise his wife.

His Mother might be Angry and unhappy but just hiding her feelings.

So Peeps, Do you Support my Next line of Action or You are for 'Mind your Business, E Nor concern you'?


Lalasticlala
Mynd44.

Won't you caution your friend also. Where is it written that a man can't help with house chores?
A day visit is however not enough time for you to make conclusion yet.

Vinnie2000:
Courtesy demands that when you see an Elderly person Overworking, u help out in any little way.

Not just sitting, looking or lying doing nothing throut.

The Elderly woman may NOT say anything but might be Angry or Unhappy inwardly.

It's like some of you do NOT understand human nature.

If she visits another of her son's house and dat Wife does Every Chores in the house, she will start to compare.

She will prefer them to My Friend and his Wife..

Hey bro, hold on. Do you want people's advice or you want to keep arguing with them?
Just follow your heart mehn. Back and forths are a waste of time.

Corridon:
Your friend married a mess as a wife.

I support this comment with three bags of rice.

Those are the kinda of wives who retire from wh0ring in to their husbands house. Strength is gone during youthful runs and moving within states to visit men in various hotels and homes.

I doubt if that girl can have more than one Or two children.

The husband must have spent a lot treating illness she acquired from her wh0ring life. He will still spend more.
Marry a young virgin; women get clumsy with age.

lawrenzooo:
Oga face your front. You just visited once and your friend explain to you that his wife is not feeling fine. When you have visited severally and you observe her behaviour to be norm then you can advice but for now leave it at what your friend told you. His wife is not feeling too well.

So he should watch his friend drowning and leave him? You're a bad person.
Shame on you.

Vinnie2000:
Yesterday, after several promises and postponement, i visited my Married friend@his place.

My Guy's mother was around.

Throughout my 5hr stay, i saw dat it was this elderly Woman dat was doing all the Domestic work; washing curtains, sweeping the verandah, arranging the Dining table,etc.

His wife just laid on the couch, watching TV and contributing in our discussions.

Was so surprised and annoyed.

I Later asked him why his wife laid down all through, he said she wasn't feeling well.

So if because lady is ill, she can't even do any house chore again?

Anyways, next time we meet, i will tell to caution/advise his wife.

His Mother might be Angry and unhappy but just hiding her feelings.

So Peeps, Do you Support my Next line of Action or You are for 'Mind your Business, E Nor concern you'?


Lalasticlala
Mynd44.

P for padlock, M for mouth

Ask him ooooooo
5 good hours, doing what?

Nonexisting:
Come, I often disagree with the vagina gender but that hasn't robbed me of my common sense. What if she was few weeks pregnant which usually is at high risk? Have you heard the phrase mind your fuccking business before? Open your ear and hear it now. The mother in law no complain to you, the simp husband said his wife was sick, wetin be your own? By the way, why did you visit someone and stay up to 5hours? You no get work?

How is his friend drowning?

jeromestarks:
So he should watch his friend drowning and leave him? You're a bad person.
Shame on you.

Vinnie2000:
My issue is dat the Woman seems to be too elderly for such Plenty works.
My friend's wife should have stood up and helped her with one or two chores@least.
But she just slept and watched TV throughout!

if your friend see no issues about it, then its all good... many times, you will tell mama to leave it but mama wont listen. many times you will tell mama that its not needed, but she wont listen. its not everything that mama wants to do, that we need to object,

Wetin u dey do for person house , wey go make u spend 5 hours there, u no get handwork??

YourFavorite21:
Wetin u dey do for person house , wey go make u spend 5 hours there, u no get handwork??

Y can't you Learn to Read before commenting.

I Said i visited after not seeing him for a long while.

Vinnie2000:
Y can't you Learn to Read before commenting.

I Said i visited after not seeing him for a long while.

u have not seen him for ages and u spent 5hrs in his house. You can't take broom from mama hand

Jobless fool spent 5hrs

jeromestarks:
So he should watch his friend drowning and leave him? You're a bad person.
Shame on you.

How is his friend drowning?

First and famous, you're a good person. So you come to my house once and meet me cooking and my wife is the watching tv and you conclude that am the one that always cook for my wife...! What

Let's always be fair in our judgement.
What if the man and his mum concluded that the wife has been overstressed and needs a rest that day..?

Thunder go fire that your friend and his ugly stupid wife!

Mind your business oh!

The wise is enough for a word!

Vinnie2000:
Courtesy demands that when you see an Elderly person Overworking, u help out in any little way.

Not just sitting, looking or lying doing nothing throut.
.

You are right,

And since the mother in law is the only elderly person in the house, why didn't you and your friend her son help her out instead of sitting down gisting and laughing?

It obviously shows you are also disrespectful and lack home training

Helping an elderly person isn't a role designed for females only, hopefully you are sensible enough to know this

And it is also very obvious that where you come from, you don't have sympathy for sick people, it is the type of you that will beat your sick wife if she is too weak to do any house chores or cook, force her to do it, until she dies

I pity any woman that will end up with you.

If she's really not feeling well then that's a valid excuse except she's half sick which I think it's the situation

Na this kind thing I dey like, I go question am in front of everyone make we hear her reasons.

Vinnie2000:
Yesterday, after several promises and postponement, i visited my Married friend@his place.

My Guy's mother was around.

Throughout my 5hr stay, i saw dat it was this elderly Woman dat was doing all the Domestic work; washing curtains, sweeping the verandah, arranging the Dining table,etc.

His wife just laid on the couch, watching TV and contributing in our discussions.

Was so surprised and annoyed.

I Later asked him why his wife laid down all through, he said she wasn't feeling well.

So if because lady is ill, she can't even do any house chore again?

Anyways, next time we meet, i will tell to caution/advise his wife.

His Mother might be Angry and unhappy but just hiding her feelings.

So Peeps, Do you Support my Next line of Action or You are for 'Mind your Business, E Nor concern you'?


Lalasticlala
Mynd44.

Forget all this lamentations. Whenever my mom visits, that's what she likes to do. She won't fine herself rest. If u try to stop her, she won't answer. And that makes her happy. She didn't complain about it.
I think Ur friend mom and my mom are almost d same. So na u go face your front as long as there family is living in peace

lawrenzooo:
Oga face your front. You just visited once and your friend explain to you that his wife is not feeling fine. When you have visited severally and you observe her behaviour to be norm then you can advice but for now leave it at what your friend told you. His wife is not feeling too well.

Leave the werey make he dey do superman na

obinna58:
If she's really not feeling well then that's a valid excuse except she's half sick which I think it's the situation

Na this kind thing I dey like, I go question am in front of everyone make we hear her reasons.

Asper na u help your friend find wife give am.

Spanishmilf:
Asper na u help your friend find wife give am.

Matured reasonable demands respect, take rudeness out of it cos that's not my type of person.



A friendly discussion to put her in her position with confidence.

You probably don’t have a job or you be enemy of peace. Just one time that you visited and you are here capping rubbish. Shift abeg