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cocoboss:
[/color]Good day everyone , i have been a member of this beautiful platform since 2019 hence why I’m posting this with my real account
I won’t get mad about the insults or pain I would feel when I go through the comment section because my only mistake was falling in love with the wrong person.
Early 2019 I met this beautiful damsel at my place of work back then I’m 26 and she would be 23 by October we became friends , from friends we became lovers and we both resigned to pursue greater opportunities in life
Well I established a business for myself , and I was earning pretty well at the time and doing well for myself as the only son of my family
From my little business I supported her and her brother the best way I could
Recently my business collapsed because my sister was scammed at one of my branch which she handled and it affected me so much because she lost everything I worked hard for that day
Life has been messy , I have been struggling since then Thank God for my loving family that has always supported me and stayed with me through depression

Communication with my girl reduced drastically, at some point I felt the world was against me
The relationship of four years became a mere joke as everyday the communication reduced and she instantly became unavailable, always picking up fights with me , manipulative with her words and deceitful by her actions
I was heartbroken , emotionally exhausted and tired , I told my mom about it ..
And she gave me a very powerful booklet to use and speak to God every night and tell him to strengthen me and expose every thing or person that has been deceiving me
That night I dreamt about my said girlfriend and a friend
The lord exposed them to me in that dream , when I woke up I told my mom what I saw and she smiled
I noticed my girl has been avoiding me but I looked for a way to lure her to my place and that faithful day she came , I knew I wasn’t going to get the truth from her lips
So I asked for her phone , first she started blabbing that I heard no right whatsoever to seize her phone even if I were the one that bought it for her
After much argument and dragging of the phone , I took it and went into action while going through it my girl knelt down and started crying bitterly confessing to me that she has been dating a guy in turkey though they haven’t met but was in a romantic relationship I said ok but I still have to be sure
I went ahead and searched her phone , her chats and Snapchat lo and behold I saw multiple videos of my said girlfriend and another guy doing sex video calls
She was busy exposing her private parts to him
And so many videos of them together on bed and their chats all along , I thought her bro was my strong ally and I needed to screenshot what I saw as an evidence to show him then move on with my life as I’m struggling at the time
I went to her chat with her brother too , and my heart was broken it was clear that she told him that the guy was her preferred person
Their relationship kicked off early this year and then my business was booming until recently so she has two guys she had been cheating with
The guy in diaspora
And the said guy that has been funding her and turned her to a sex slave
That she couldn’t stay with me now , she needed someone that could marry her and I’m not that persn because my business has crumbled
All this happened in the presence of my family ..
I slept with her phone and dismissed her to go home
She came this morning , crying and begging my mom and sisters that it was a mistake
My mom told her how disappointed she was, my girl spent the whole day at my place crying and begging , talking to my sisters to beg me ..........I forwarded everything I saw to her brother that I have been supporting all this years he has been calling me to beg me

But my mind is made up .. the deed has been done I have been on this forum for way too long and it has impacted me in so many ways
And I will never , ever forgive a CHEAT
I didn’t create this story to ask for people’s opinion if I should accept her back I just want every men out there struggling going out of their way to please women to understand that LOYALTY is very very RARE
don’t waste your time , and make sure you always check your partners phone to avoid stories that touch
Thank you
Below is the chat of her continuous pleading and begging .. but nah , I have moved on
Mynd444 front page please

Slmgirldippussy:
I don Taya...bitches won kill me
On Monday I know it's vawulence

cocoboss:
My fam pleaded with me to give her the phone , if was after I gave her the phone she started texting me I have noting to lose , let her have the phone

cocoboss:
I’m heartbroken, four years is no joke a woman I was planning to engage next year on our anniversary

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram It's a lesson for u and to all SIMple men out der..


U de SPONSOR woman and her brother, them de der dey play u for back..


Na u still buy her the wey she use de do XXXX chat and Bleep video with other guys..


I bin de plan to come BLAST BLAST ur left leg wit my old KALA but I thank JAH sey u don lean ur lesson and u don WISE up, just like 3 WISE men..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

GoooodHardDick:
Oga why did you gave her the phone? Why simping? You're the man who has the authority to decide whether to give her that phone or not, and I expected you not to give her that phone. I can bet my balls that Sooner or later you'll accept her back because you think, act and behave like a simp.

You seem emotionally weak and that girl just dey manipulate and whine you into accepting her back, I'm surprised you even still have her on your WhatsApp! Nawa for simps oo.

Alaye dump that girl at once and move on with your life, girls full everywhere! Delete and block her ass off your WhatsApp and move on. Stop behaving like a weakling. No go let that olosho dey whine you with her emotional manipulations

chigoziri2403:
I know how painful it can be
Psychologically you can be demoralised because of the time spent and expectations
But look at the positive side, you didn't marry her,and this will save you the future trauma of diagnosing your children paternity

immortalcrown:
Hmmm! What I do not understand is the essence of her apology. Has she not told her brother she prefers the other guy to you? Is she now begging to change her preference?

cocoboss:
Boss I have heard you , I’m everything but not a SIMP I just haven’t had the time to look into her matter I was busy trying to set up my next plan all these made me lose concentration on her as she played her game secretly

Yohans:
Take heart bro. One thing I learnt about relationships is that "the more you raise a woman's value, the more you lower yours".

cocoboss:
Still bleeding but I am sure I won’t ever accept her back

GoooodHardDick:
In all you do, make sure never to accept her back nor go back to your vomit, else I go personally swear for you. No loose guard, girls full everywhere.

No go let any Nigerian girl dey stress your life, We only bang their pussy, dump them and move on. We don't do relationship. Relationships are for weak men! No commitment, do drama, no stories, Just bang, dump them and move on. I'll urge you to do likewise and watch how your life will blossom with happiness.

God1000:
The relationship wasn't built on true love, but on money and material things, that's the reason for her new behaviour and cheating since that money isn't available again

Just let her go, the earlier the better

This is why I laugh when ladies set ridiculous standards forgetting that something can happen tomorrow, that's when true love will prevail, but some of them aren't even ready to endure with a man when the chips are down

Sorry about your situation, you will find another good woman.

cocoboss:
Thank you boss..

Goldmaxx:
stop supporting evil democrats

cumoverna:
It's not only you o, the way I look them eh, I nor know as I want take marry, I de pray to God to help me change my mentality about the female gender.
And I have sisters.
HA.

cocoboss:
[color=#006600][/color]Good day everyone , i have been a member of this beautiful platform since 2019 hence why I’m posting this with my real account
I won’t get mad about the insults or pain I would feel when I go through the comment section because my only mistake was falling in love with the wrong person.
Early 2019 I met this beautiful damsel at my place of work back then I’m 26 and she would be 23 by October we became friends , from friends we became lovers and we both resigned to pursue greater opportunities in life
Well I established a business for myself , and I was earning pretty well at the time and doing well for myself as the only son of my family
From my little business I supported her and her brother the best way I could
Recently my business collapsed because my sister was scammed at one of my branch which she handled and it affected me so much because she lost everything I worked hard for that day
Life has been messy , I have been struggling since then Thank God for my loving family that has always supported me and stayed with me through depression

Communication with my girl reduced drastically, at some point I felt the world was against me
The relationship of four years became a mere joke as everyday the communication reduced and she instantly became unavailable, always picking up fights with me , manipulative with her words and deceitful by her actions
I was heartbroken , emotionally exhausted and tired , I told my mom about it ..
And she gave me a very powerful booklet to use and speak to God every night and tell him to strengthen me and expose every thing or person that has been deceiving me
That night I dreamt about my said girlfriend and a friend
The lord exposed them to me in that dream , when I woke up I told my mom what I saw and she smiled
I noticed my girl has been avoiding me but I looked for a way to lure her to my place and that faithful day she came , I knew I wasn’t going to get the truth from her lips
So I asked for her phone , first she started blabbing that I heard no right whatsoever to seize her phone even if I were the one that bought it for her
After much argument and dragging of the phone , I took it and went into action while going through it my girl knelt down and started crying bitterly confessing to me that she has been dating a guy in turkey though they haven’t met but was in a romantic relationship I said ok but I still have to be sure
I went ahead and searched her phone , her chats and Snapchat lo and behold I saw multiple videos of my said girlfriend and another guy doing sex video calls
She was busy exposing her private parts to him
And so many videos of them together on bed and their chats all along , I thought her bro was my strong ally and I needed to screenshot what I saw as an evidence to show him then move on with my life as I’m struggling at the time
I went to her chat with her brother too , and my heart was broken it was clear that she told him that the guy was her preferred person
Their relationship kicked off early this year and then my business was booming until recently so she has two guys she had been cheating with
The guy in diaspora
And the said guy that has been funding her and turned her to a sex slave
That she couldn’t stay with me now , she needed someone that could marry her and I’m not that persn because my business has crumbled
All this happened in the presence of my family ..
I slept with her phone and dismissed her to go home
She came this morning , crying and begging my mom and sisters that it was a mistake
My mom told her how disappointed she was, my girl spent the whole day at my place crying and begging , talking to my sisters to beg me ..........I forwarded everything I saw to her brother that I have been supporting all this years he has been calling me to beg me

But my mind is made up .. the deed has been done I have been on this forum for way too long and it has impacted me in so many ways
And I will never , ever forgive a CHEAT
I didn’t create this story to ask for people’s opinion if I should accept her back I just want every men out there struggling going out of their way to please women to understand that LOYALTY is very very RARE
don’t waste your time , and make sure you always check your partners phone to avoid stories that touch
Thank you
Below is the chat of her continuous pleading and begging .. but nah , I have moved on
Mynd444 front page please

Slmgirldippussy:
Since I learn that art of BDSM from R.Kelly
Bitches matter no dey pain me again
This morning alone I don chook girl wey think say by Monday I will get her 400k loan.
She said anything for you baby omo Nandini tie her hand ,blindfold her then make her suck my dick.
I don Taya...bitches won kill me
On Monday I know it's vawulence

immortalcrown:
Hmmm! What I do not understand is the essence of her apology. Has she not told her brother she prefers the other guy to you? Is she now begging to change her preference?

Slmgirldippussy:
Since I learn that art of BDSM from R.Kelly
Bitches matter no dey pain me again
This morning alone I don chook girl wey think say by Monday I will get her 400k loan.
She said anything for you baby omo Nandini tie her hand ,blindfold her then make her suck my dick.
I don Taya...bitches won kill me
On Monday I know it's vawulence

sehin79:
well you got served big time...
relationship is a 2 way thing...especially in this era of GEN Z...
because they are expose to alot of this. aka internet era.
so if you are a man that invest in a woman without her contributing anything then you are in big trouble...
because in otherwords she would looking at you paying for her services
and in that case she as every right to look for the highest bidder in all situation.

so learn from this and make sure you get a lady that is hard working and ambitious like yourself...
don't take her back... she would not change
she is only sorry for being caught not for what she did....
there good girls in Nigeria just open your eyes and make sure they have something doing...meaning working a proper business for her money
that kind go appreciate you wey dey hussle. as bizness is up and down at times..
and always don't try to impress any girl with money... don't always think you have to take care of your girlfriend because if you are not there wouldn't she survive... only come in when its an emergency.... relationship is all about building a future together it is not one sided. not in this ERA...

cocoboss:
I’m heartbroken, four years is no joke a woman I was planning to engage next year on our anniversary

cocoboss:
[color=#006600][/color]Good day everyone , i have been a member of this beautiful platform since 2019 hence why I’m posting this with my real account
I won’t get mad about the insults or pain I would feel when I go through the comment section because my only mistake was falling in love with the wrong person.
Early 2019 I met this beautiful damsel at my place of work back then I’m 26 and she would be 23 by October we became friends , from friends we became lovers and we both resigned to pursue greater opportunities in life
Well I established a business for myself , and I was earning pretty well at the time and doing well for myself as the only son of my family
From my little business I supported her and her brother the best way I could
Recently my business collapsed because my sister was scammed at one of my branch which she handled and it affected me so much because she lost everything I worked hard for that day
Life has been messy , I have been struggling since then Thank God for my loving family that has always supported me and stayed with me through depression

Communication with my girl reduced drastically, at some point I felt the world was against me
The relationship of four years became a mere joke as everyday the communication reduced and she instantly became unavailable, always picking up fights with me , manipulative with her words and deceitful by her actions
I was heartbroken , emotionally exhausted and tired , I told my mom about it ..
And she gave me a very powerful booklet to use and speak to God every night and tell him to strengthen me and expose every thing or person that has been deceiving me
That night I dreamt about my said girlfriend and a friend
The lord exposed them to me in that dream , when I woke up I told my mom what I saw and she smiled
I noticed my girl has been avoiding me but I looked for a way to lure her to my place and that faithful day she came , I knew I wasn’t going to get the truth from her lips
So I asked for her phone , first she started blabbing that I heard no right whatsoever to seize her phone even if I were the one that bought it for her
After much argument and dragging of the phone , I took it and went into action while going through it my girl knelt down and started crying bitterly confessing to me that she has been dating a guy in turkey though they haven’t met but was in a romantic relationship I said ok but I still have to be sure
I went ahead and searched her phone , her chats and Snapchat lo and behold I saw multiple videos of my said girlfriend and another guy doing sex video calls
She was busy exposing her private parts to him
And so many videos of them together on bed and their chats all along , I thought her bro was my strong ally and I needed to screenshot what I saw as an evidence to show him then move on with my life as I’m struggling at the time
I went to her chat with her brother too , and my heart was broken it was clear that she told him that the guy was her preferred person
Their relationship kicked off early this year and then my business was booming until recently so she has two guys she had been cheating with
The guy in diaspora
And the said guy that has been funding her and turned her to a sex slave
That she couldn’t stay with me now , she needed someone that could marry her and I’m not that persn because my business has crumbled
All this happened in the presence of my family ..
I slept with her phone and dismissed her to go home
She came this morning , crying and begging my mom and sisters that it was a mistake
My mom told her how disappointed she was, my girl spent the whole day at my place crying and begging , talking to my sisters to beg me ..........I forwarded everything I saw to her brother that I have been supporting all this years he has been calling me to beg me

But my mind is made up .. the deed has been done I have been on this forum for way too long and it has impacted me in so many ways
And I will never , ever forgive a CHEAT
I didn’t create this story to ask for people’s opinion if I should accept her back I just want every men out there struggling going out of their way to please women to understand that LOYALTY is very very RARE
don’t waste your time , and make sure you always check your partners phone to avoid stories that touch
Thank you
Below is the chat of her continuous pleading and begging .. but nah , I have moved on
Mynd444 front page please