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My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by freeman131: 10:12am On Apr 01, 2020
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Iyiataata92: 10:15am On Apr 01, 2020
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Duru9(m): 10:16am On Apr 01, 2020
Ask his girlfriend to live with you guys for a month or better still invite your mom to come stay with you guys for 2 months

Then use that 2 months for prayers

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by FatherBona: 10:18am On Apr 01, 2020
Free the guy jhor.
Which would you prefer, he keeps one girlfriend and self-services himself anytime he has the urges which is not an offence or a sin (debatable), or he stops wanking and keep strings of girlfriends thereby increasing his chances of contracting an STD?!?
Choose the lesser evil grin



Should I inform my parents,pastor,siblings or his girlfriend?

That will be doing more harm than good, drop the idea immediately. He's 29 years for Christ sake. His wife will take Care of his problem when the time comes. That your brother jerks off is a clarion call for his girlfriend to step up her sex game, or maybe your brother is the busy type, (as expected of Medical workers). Hence, they may be a clash in their schedules, that is understandable. Allow them to work it out, and focus your attention on more serious issues.



My peace I leave you

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Makavelli25: 10:18am On Apr 01, 2020
Maybe i will find useful tips on this thread Let me park here

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Shellsploit: 10:19am On Apr 01, 2020
Lalasticlala sef

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by freeman131: 10:21am On Apr 01, 2020
FatherBona:
Free the guy jhor.
Which would you prefer, he keeps one girlfriend and self-services himself anytime he has the urges which is not a crime or a sin ( debatable), or he stops wanking and keep strings of girlfriends?!?
Choose the lesser evil grin

But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by fulaniHERDSman(m): 10:21am On Apr 01, 2020
Mumu talk. If na me, the slap U go receive, teeth no go remain U for mouth again. Na your priick
No respect again for this world.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by FatherBona: 10:24am On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.
The more reasons they should not find out.
What are guys for cool
If you like go and run your mouth like a sister, and watch the trust your brother had for you which has taken years to build, go down the drain.

Receive sense

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by donbachi(m): 10:24am On Apr 01, 2020
4get constructive advice...all ur bro need,is 4 him to reconstruct his lifestyle.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Seandisputed(m): 10:26am On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.
Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by FatherBona: 10:29am On Apr 01, 2020
Seandisputed:

Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.
U don follow me see am abi grin

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Iyiataata92: 10:30am On Apr 01, 2020
donbachi:
4get constructive advice...all ur bro need,is 4 him to reconstruct his lifestyle.
He's seeking constructive advice from Nairaland, the home of masturbators.

Hahaha

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by freeman131: 10:31am On Apr 01, 2020
Seandisputed:

Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.

I never mentioned he's involved in premarital sex even if he's involved I really won't get guilty of what I know nothing of.

I'm only concerned about the one I've seen him do.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by donbachi(m): 10:35am On Apr 01, 2020
Iyiataata92:

She's seek constructive advice from Nairaland, the home of masturbators.

Hahaha
him no sabi sey,some nairalanders don already enter "masturbation hall of fame".

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by bigcee(m): 10:37am On Apr 01, 2020
Seandisputed:

Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.
Baba, abeg manage am...

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by HarunaWest(m): 10:44am On Apr 01, 2020
some people will come here now and say masturbation is a spiritual problem...Mad people

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by yomi007k(m): 10:45am On Apr 01, 2020
Spiritual cleansing.


Like the cleansing they are doing for the corona virus abi? grin

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by chatinent(m): 10:45am On Apr 01, 2020
Sexdicted.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Seandisputed(m): 10:46am On Apr 01, 2020
FatherBona:
U don follow me see am abi grin
My brother i weak like mad. Some so called Christians with their high level of hypocrisy. One na sin but he sees nothing wrong in the other.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Babatunde40(m): 10:46am On Apr 01, 2020
You are living with someone and judging him for masturbating. Have you thought maybe your presence hinders him from bringing girls home. Pack and let him be

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by FatherBona: 10:47am On Apr 01, 2020
Babatunde40:
You are living with someone and judging him for masturbating. Have you thought maybe your presence hinders him from bringing girls home. Pack and let him be
I owe you a plate of isiewu for this reply

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Seandisputed(m): 10:48am On Apr 01, 2020
bigcee:
Baba, abeg manage am...
Ride on my brother. Thank you, but i'm okay with juice.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Seandisputed(m): 10:52am On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


I never mentioned he's involved in premarital sex even if he's involved I really won't get guilty of what I know nothing of.

I'm only concerned about the one I've seen him do.
Okay man.
He's 29 already and know what's good or bad for him. Since you said you've talked to him about it, then there's no point telling everyone about it again. Except you want him to have this great resentment for you.
God bless you and your brother.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by AhlexOfficial(m): 10:53am On Apr 01, 2020
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Hed0nist: 11:01am On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

Apart from you judging him, has his masturbation actually affected you in any negative way? How will your parents find out he is wanking if you don't open your mouth to tell them?

Mind your business.

You mentioned that he has a beautiful girlfriend. What sinless alternative does she provide with respect to calming agro?

Till you get your own place, the only thing you should be concerned about is ensuring that he washes his hands after each meat beating session.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Meedon: 11:01am On Apr 01, 2020
Seandisputed:

Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.

They criticize masturbation and abhor pre-marital sex



Sex outside marriage issa sin

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by luwiizy(m): 11:10am On Apr 01, 2020
Everyone has one addiction or the other...remember everything has a phase don't be in hurry to cast your lots.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by jokinexcel(m): 11:20am On Apr 01, 2020
Please mind your business, and let him be, when he finally gets married and living with his wife, she will take care of that. 90% of men masturbate , I assure you he will get over it when married. Act mature and never disclose it to anyone else he will hate you for life.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by iammo(m): 11:27am On Apr 01, 2020
cool


Your Brother is a Medical Doctor, am sure he is knowledgeable when he has a problem and knows when to seek help medically

as for the sin part.. Moses stated every Laws YHWH Yahweh God (Abraham , Shedrac, Abnego) and of Christianity orders, and only him and Jesus had claimed to ever stand in presence of God YHWH, and Mastvrbation wasn't mentioned. even in the whole 1200 pages of your bible or isreali torah was never outlawed

what you are trying to do is guilt trap your brother into your own mindset with less knowledge, you would take him to your pastor and not God because you serve you pastor and he knows how to keep you in his flock

"will a non hypocritical , under achieving, manipulating brother ever use condescending words like his elder brother and benefactor, "masturbate for a living" , or should you even think of humiliating him by reporting him to "his Parents and Pastors" as if this people never did it before"

.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Nobody: 11:29am On Apr 01, 2020
Op, if we tell you to confront your brother will you have the morale to do it. For sure, you won't dare it because if you are capable of doing it, this thread would have gone like this: How I gave my elder brother a piece of my mind or How I confronted my elder brother, instead of My brother is a chronic masturbator



What if we advise you to report to your parents, will you have courage to face your brother, afterwards. For sure you won't dare, because if you are capable of doing it this headline would be: My brother is angry with me for reporting him to our parents.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by StrikeBack(m): 11:30am On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.
Who defined the act a sin??

Your government?.

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