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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by JJuanMiguel: 1:00pm On Sep 02, 2022
Is it by force to converse with them?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by womenareapezz: 4:02pm On Sep 02, 2022
Chatting with a Nigeria and woman is like communicating with an animal undecided

Those piece of shiit called naija women doesn't seems to have an intellectual properties when communicating via social media unless when displaying Thier begging talent undecided

Try chat with a foreign women and you will be the one tired of the chat because of over chatting.

I wonder why you guys keep approaching those animals undecided
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Israeldan1(m): 4:38pm On Sep 02, 2022
Badboibipo:
I have only seen one Nigerian girl that is good at chatting and that was a one time thing. You message them and it’s as if you’re disturbing them. Me that have enough money to change your life you’re replying me like I’m bugging you. Some won’t even reply, funny how it’s them that even asked for your contact. Are these people cursed? If it was me that initiated the exchange of contacts I may understand, the fool asked for my number now I’m chatting you on WhatsApp , she reads and ignore.


Them Neva tell u how useless naija girls be

Except my wife

This is why I don’t date anyone, Nigerian girls irritate my soul. Common chat you people cannot chat, and they do this bullshit with everyone , even their so called boyfriends.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Sep 02, 2022
siofra:
Mtchewwwwweeeee!!

As if Nigerian men chat better.

They'll be chatting like dyslexic illiterates. One reason I broke up with all my Nigerian exes.
who re the fools that dated u?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Sep 02, 2022
Rozross:
Nigerian men are worst, wait till the one you think has some value starts telling you to send pictures, very irritating and a big turn off. E no dy kuku hard me to ignore your existence.
Naija women are d worst, wait till the one that u tot is normal, starts asking u for money she wants to buy pad, e no dey hard me to excuse d dead
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by ricy20(f): 7:15pm On Sep 02, 2022
Badboibipo:
I have only seen one Nigerian girl that is good at chatting and that was a one time thing. You message them and it’s as if you’re disturbing them. Me that have enough money to change your life you’re replying me like I’m bugging you. Some won’t even reply, funny how it’s them that even asked for your contact. Are these people cursed? If it was me that initiated the exchange of contacts I may understand, the fool asked for my number now I’m chatting you on WhatsApp , she reads and ignore.

This is why I don’t date anyone, Nigerian girls irritate my soul. Common chat you people cannot chat, and they do this bullshit with everyone , even their so called boyfriends.
maybe there is something wrong about how you chat or you are selective so you end up meeting same kind of persons and i heard you saying you have money that can change there life is wrong too much pride
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by obaaderemi: 7:19pm On Sep 02, 2022
Nazgul:
. There's nothing to get angry over, just keep trying others until you get the right one.
OP, follow this advice.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by obinna58(m): 7:27pm On Sep 02, 2022
Badboibipo:
I have only seen one Nigerian girl that is good at chatting and that was a one time thing. You message them and it’s as if you’re disturbing them. Me that have enough money to change your life you’re replying me like I’m bugging you. Some won’t even reply, funny how it’s them that even asked for your contact. Are these people cursed? If it was me that initiated the exchange of contacts I may understand, the fool asked for my number now I’m chatting you on WhatsApp , she reads and ignore.

This is why I don’t date anyone, Nigerian girls irritate my soul. Common chat you people cannot chat, and they do this bullshit with everyone , even their so called boyfriends.
E go shock you when they start to bomber with messages when festive season approaches.
Criminals
They don't even care even when they're obviously faking it, they just want mugu
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Loverboi2cute(m): 7:42pm On Sep 02, 2022
Emyzoloye5:
Na you fuvk up! She asked for your number and you started chatting her like tomorrow no dey.
I once asked a girl I met in my church for her number but never called or chatted her cus if I do that, she being a butterfly might start thinking itself a bird. I ignored her until she chatted me on whatsapp one evening....I pretended that I didn't know her until she started explaining herself lolz!
She was like "which kind person are you, you collected my number without calling or chatting me, you no even save my number" hahaha! I told her plainly that I rarely chat or call people, infact I cleared her one time!

Now she's sticking around me like a little bitch although I don't want to date her, just friends with benefit!!!!
odogwu..bad guy
i want to learn from you
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Sep 02, 2022
Though I'm not a Nigerian, but I think it's because most guys take a lady's friendliness for something else..

Sometimes you may find that the lady is not attracted to the guy and she's just trying to be nice, but the guy would receive some mixed signals thinking the lady is giving him the green light.

So maybe the best thing for them to do is to use their actions to show the guys that they're not interested in any friendship with them.

That's just my opinion.
Badboibipo:
I have only seen one Nigerian girl that is good at chatting and that was a one time thing. You message them and it’s as if you’re disturbing them. Me that have enough money to change your life you’re replying me like I’m bugging you. Some won’t even reply, funny how it’s them that even asked for your contact. Are these people cursed? If it was me that initiated the exchange of contacts I may understand, the fool asked for my number now I’m chatting you on WhatsApp , she reads and ignore.

This is why I don’t date anyone, Nigerian girls irritate my soul. Common chat you people cannot chat, and they do this bullshit with everyone , even their so called boyfriends.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Sep 02, 2022
ednut1:
At every given time they are chatting to many guys. She no dey feel u ni
Make una rest, the babe be no Dey online. She dey message me wella now
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Mrscarter(f): 2:00am On Sep 03, 2022
4Humanity4All:
What do you mean by that?
I mean they write looooooong msgs
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by ceede2: 3:06am On Sep 03, 2022
Badboibipo:
Make una rest, the babe be no Dey online. She dey message me wella now
No be juju be this?

Ekuke.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Fanikoko: 5:45am On Sep 03, 2022
Rozross:
Nigerian men are worst, wait till the one you think has some value starts telling you to send pictures, very irritating and a big turn off. E no dy kuku hard me to ignore your existence.
Forget All this things she de talk this rat na person serious girlfriend
siofra:
Mtchewwwwweeeee!!

As if Nigerian men chat better.

They'll be chatting like dyslexic illiterates. One reason I broke up with all my Nigerian exes.
This one go de beg one nigga offline tode look her side
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Nobody: 8:02am On Sep 03, 2022
Mrscarter:
I mean they write looooooong msgs
Well,I wish I meet people like that not those that say typing is stressful.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Aklee4994(m): 8:42am On Sep 03, 2022
Badboibipo:
I have only seen one Nigerian girl that is good at chatting and that was a one time thing. You message them and it’s as if you’re disturbing them. Me that have enough money to change your life you’re replying me like I’m bugging you. Some won’t even reply, funny how it’s them that even asked for your contact. Are these people cursed? If it was me that initiated the exchange of contacts I may understand, the fool asked for my number now I’m chatting you on WhatsApp , she reads and ignore.

This is why I don’t date anyone, Nigerian girls irritate my soul. Common chat you people cannot chat, and they do this bullshit with everyone , even their so called boyfriends.
few people will understand your point because they are not there save yourself from them.the most painful part is that even if they have a conversation with you they words will be coming in a monosyllabic words which is more annoying to a smart and sane guy like you than not replying at all.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Dailyparrot: 9:11am On Sep 03, 2022
Badboibipo:
Make una rest, the babe be no Dey online. She dey message me wella now
You obviously have a bias mindset about girls and also low self esteem about yourself.

And, you seem less busy. This is what causes one to feel offensive when they are not getting quick replies to chats.

Sometimes, I send some messages and forget that I actually sent them. It's only when the girl replies that I go back to actually read through my chats with her to understand the replies.

This is because I chat with many girls and I'm busy to even know who replied and who hasn't. My read receipt on WhatsApp is permanently disabled. I don't want to give myself unnecessary worries because someone who probably doesn't have me in her mind read my messages and not respond immediately.

Sometimes when I see some young pretty girls grinding it out in the streets to make a living for themselves and their family, I will just think to myself that some guy somewhere is busy getting angry that this girl isn't replying him or accepting to come and see him.

For pet's sake, most of these girls have a life to live. They can be quite busy with work and home duties. So, don't expect every girl you meet online to always be available for you.

I have been with some girls that were jobless and were always available for me anytime I call them. But immediately they got jobs, it became really difficult to meet up because my schedule most times overlap with theirs.

My advice to you is to stop checking a girl's last seen on WhatsApp and disable your read receipts, that way, even if it takes her two weeks to respond, it wouldn't bother you.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by BlackMan6969(m): 10:16am On Sep 03, 2022
You dumb Niggas b calling our girls mumu, like u ain't got sisters & mothers. Grow up guys. All women cannot like, there is a woman for every man. Its a simple Logic.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Nobody: 10:21am On Sep 03, 2022
Dailyparrot:
You obviously have a bias mindset about girls and also low self esteem about yourself.

And, you seem less busy. This is what causes one to feel offensive when they are not getting quick replies to chats.

Sometimes, I send some messages and forget that I actually sent them. It's only when the girl replies that I go back to actually read through my chats with her to understand the replies.

This is because I chat with many girls and I'm busy to even know who replied and who hasn't. My read receipt on WhatsApp is permanently disabled. I don't want to give myself unnecessary worries because someone who probably doesn't have me in her mind read my messages and not respond immediately.

Sometimes when I see some young pretty girls grinding it out in the streets to make a living for themselves and their family, I will just think to myself that some guy somewhere is busy getting angry that this girl isn't replying him or accepting to come and see him.

For pet's sake, most of these girls have a life to live. They can be quite busy with work and home duties. So, don't expect every girl you meet online to always be available for you.

I have been with some girls that were jobless and were always available for me anytime I call them. But immediately they got jobs, it became really difficult to meet up because my schedule most times overlap with theirs.

My advice to you is to stop checking a girl's last seen on WhatsApp and disable your read receipts, that way, even if it takes her two weeks to respond, it wouldn't bother you.
Well,well said but everything is funny till it happens to you.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Deicide: 2:18pm On Sep 03, 2022
Rozross:
Nigerian men are worst, wait till the one you think has some value starts telling you to send pictures, very irritating and a big turn off. E no dy kuku hard me to ignore your existence.
is it cause you are ugly?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Dailyparrot: 9:46pm On Sep 03, 2022
4Humanity4All:
Well,well said but everything is funny till it happens to you.
I do get ignored by girls too but I don't take it to heart. It's normal.

If all the girls you chat up online agree to give you attention 100%, you will run.

Roll with those that gave you attention and move on. I understand that sometimes the beautiful girls, the perfect specs that we do desire are the ones giving attitude or perceived attitude, but we've got to learn how to move on. We don't always get what we want.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Rema14: 10:20am On Sep 06, 2022
siofra:
Mtchewwwwweeeee!!

As if Nigerian men chat better.

They'll be chatting like dyslexic illiterates. One reason I broke up with all my Nigerian exes.
Are you sure you broke up with them or they broke up with you. nigerian men don't like smelling pussy
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Bad at conversations online? by Tundelagos: 12:19am On Sep 27, 2023
Nigerian girls are not humans, una dey try to dey even chat them sef , when you live the shores of Nigeria and try other African ladies , you will not like to have anything to do with naija girls. The hate for Nigerian girls is rising and I wonder what would happen 10 years from now , it just doesn't make sense that I don't even see them to be sexy or good looking anymore. When you see them on dating sites you see hookup written on there foreheads , you can't indulge in a meaningful conversation with any of them. I really don't like our girls and I wish they can be better. but for marriage I have cancelled getting married to any Nigerian girl. Because you must surely see drama , if you are ready to watch or act drama marry a Nigerian girl. These girls throw there husband's out abroad, these girls don't like to hear the sound of DNA test, these girls like to be spoonfed , they have a very serious entitlement mentality, they like to flirt by sending friend request to men on Facebook, these girls can't cook or wash or do house chores , the traditional identity of a Nigerian female is dead, so guys look else where for marriage if you don't want to die young , because these girls don't need to poison you they know the right buttons to press to end you . They will only mourn you for 3 months and meet up with there ex's in a hotel to have sex . Why have our girls gotten so bad . The level of hatred towards them now even instigates guys to use them for rituals (which I am not in support of ) .what went wrong , why is it always money money money , did your father have so much money before he got married to your mother ? It's just crazy . Well getting married to them is a waste and would never advice that to even my enemy. The bad ones are more to the extent that the good ones tend not to look like they exist . It's just to bad . But in 10 years from now that rate of ladies single in there 30s and 40s would be too high , They will learn .
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