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The world don change and everything don change.. things ain't the same again

Messi1 this is the reason you can't find a girlfriend

Candora:
Finding love in Nigerian isn't hard.
People get married almost every Sunday.

Your issue is that you just can't get enough of one lady, you want to have a taste of all.

Everyone is after money now, most ladies personally look forward to making money before going into love. Don't want no one talking us down at any given opportunity.

My sister, I'm not one of those who condermn on basis of gender, religion etc

But the fact remains "love in relationship" is declining at high speed, it's completely about, money , money and money, except for ladies that are approaching 30, they are the one who may show u love without so much emphasis on money.

If u are opportuned to have matured for relationship in late 90s, you would have understood better and see the clear different, unlike now.

Though, it's not only in relationship that pivoted on monetary aspect in naija today, even in religion, education, politics, etc.

Rema14:
Stream raves and roses

May I be your partner?

Chaos14:
Messi1 this is the reason you can't find a girlfriend

And I told you that I don't have girlfriend? Shuu? I my girlfriend is from a wealthy family. Her father was a visa officer.

Messi1:
And I told you that I don't have girlfriend? Shuu? I my girlfriend is from a wealthy family. Her father was a visa officer.

in your words "was". Are you sure? Okay. But, the girl doesn't know you have been toasting other girls cus of dreads

Because Nigeria is not friend friendly
Love friendly
Friendly love

Chaos14:
in your words "was". Are you sure? Okay. But, the girl doesn't know you have been toasting other girls cus of dreads

Yea, was because he is not working again. I dont toast girls because of my dreadlocks. However, they fall for me coz I'm handsome. She almost found out I was interested in another girl.

Messi1:
Yea, was because he is not working again. I dont toast girls because of my dreadlocks. However, they fall for me coz I'm handsome. She almost found out I was interested in another girl.

Handsome ko handplenty ni. I think have seen your real pics before. You look like your cousin a little bit.

Chaos14:
Handsome ko handplenty ni. I think have seen your real pics before. You look like your cousin a little bit.

You have never and will never see my real pic untill the day you meet me offNL. Only a pastor we met in the Health section have seen me. All those ladies and women we met offNL, none of them have seen me.

Rema14:
Gone are the days you'll just walk up to a girl and she would be shy and you'll be toasting small small till she accepts you but now if you walk up to a girl its you that will be shy.
so what happened why is it hard to find love or stay in a relationship?

go make money first .
She would be the one to toast you after making raba

Oh yes yes very difficult to find love here due to entitlement mentality of all daughters of eve that reside in this part of the world.

The only real love that exists is the one a parent has for his/her child, know this and know peace!

Rema14:
Gone are the days you'll just walk up to a girl and she would be shy and you'll be toasting small small till she accepts you but now if you walk up to a girl its you that will be shy.
so what happened why is it hard to find love or stay in a relationship?

Mumu SIMP

You self go find am.

You cant find genuine love amongst Nigerian women unleses you have money and once its gone.their devilish character auto ignite.

Not Nigeria.

Majority of Ladies here are prostitute. rolling with you in exchange for cash or gift.

Majority...A LovePeddler doesnt love.

Uchiha14:
There's no love thats why i use my sharingan on girls

Naruto don finish your life.
Wake up kid

Easier for a camel to pass thru a needle than to find true love in Nigeria.

U gotta start your own company n have ur own business before you go attract employees. Same wt love - u gotta build life that people wana join.

de do things, B happy on ur own, then mulitply it by adding the right perosn.

as economy kon hard, base on buhari gonment
dem say love drive kon over speed get accident den die along Benin ore express..

The language on d Street now is no money, no money no love, can u imagine

All the guys want is sex nowadays from multiple women, so ladies learnt how to chop them so they will not be at the losing end.

Ladies were loyal those days until they learnt not to put their eggs in one basket from men disappointing them all the time.

Slynation:
Atleast not in Nigeria...Our ladies want money while our men wants sex, so everything is based on beneficial emotional transactions...Even in most marriages, at a point, both parties are just enduring and tolerating themselves but in the nutshell, psychologically, that marriage ended long time ago...

You are absolutely correct!
U have a thinking CAP

Rema14:
Gone are the days you'll just walk up to a girl and she would be shy and you'll be toasting small small till she accepts you but now if you walk up to a girl its you that will be shy.
so what happened why is it hard to find love or stay in a relationship?

Wetin you wan use love do?

Rema14:
Gone are the days you'll just walk up to a girl and she would be shy and you'll be toasting small small till she accepts you but now if you walk up to a girl its you that will be shy.
so what happened why is it hard to find love or stay in a relationship?

Random thought

A couple with social media consumption vs another another that don't do social media ?

Which do you think would have less issues with the relationships ?

You said it all nwanne

Samat12:
Poverty and greediness...
Nigerians are naturally greedy and selfish...
Tueh!

No.

Love ke?
Stay there and be deceiving yourselves.

Haba bro not all.. My damsel loves me more than anything she's even begging me to do love covenant with her and guess what its only 20k all in all I've spent on her... Oga not all chase money.. Am the one who even sends to her she's never asked me for money..

Savedday:
Because, 9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace