Wuppdex:
Part of the problem being discussed, money worshipper syndrom, the only quality description you can give about your girlfriend is she's from a wealthy family and who her father is or was, sad indeed. You are dating her status i guess.

We love each other so much. Despite the fact that I'm from a poor family, she sticks with me.

Wotoporiously speaking

My brother he hard o even the one wey you feel say you don find you go come realise say na person first you find am

Because women are now wise and see through your lies and deceit.

Because I thought y'all were red pillers that don't need women. What changed?

The simple truth is that girls are hungry for food or marriage.

Aboks:
U Dey find love na heart attack you go get

TRUE TALK

paulolee:
Social media don make all look like cruise n joke
Even married couples self no sure about thier marriage going by d madness them de see each day online

Bored housewives addicted to Facebook.

seangy4konji:
You self go find am.

You cant find genuine love amongst Nigerian women unleses you have money and once its gone.their devilish character auto ignite.

Not Nigeria.

Majority of Ladies here are prostitute. rolling with you in exchange for cash or gift.

Majority...A LovePeddler doesnt love.

calm down na

Is much easier now,just do YAHOO YAHOO, BLEACH,ANY RIDE( Okada) and own small MONEY,their will love you instead.

It is not hard just approach the right way and check yourself. It is so so easy but would the love last or lead to marriage. Left to the both of you. Many are ready to fall in love and are looking for love.

Slynation:
Atleast not in Nigeria...Our ladies want money while our men wants sex, so everything is based on beneficial emotional transactions...Even in most marriages, at a point, both parties are just enduring and tolerating themselves but in the nutshell, psychologically, that marriage ended long time ago...

Wow, so have you met even up to 30 Nigeria women to conclude this? Meanwhile there are, conservatively, 90 million Nigeria females including your sisters, aunties, cousins, nieces and mother.

GetDoings72:
U gotta start your own company n have ur own business before you go attract employees. Same wt love - u gotta build life that people wana join.

de do things, B happy on ur own, then mulitply it by adding the right perosn.

This is true. But it does feel like the only kind of stimulus most women respond to these days is when it's financial. Especially when they happen to be, even slightly, attractive. You can have the kindest and the sweetest personality but unless they see it clearly that you look like you have money, they will snub you; the ones who are respectful will concoct one big lie and tell it to you -- out of respect, to get you off their back; yet they never stop checking your WhatsApp status. What they are looking, i don't know.

LOVE kill you there,NDI LA.

Love is for sale in Nigeria

It's easy to find money in Nigeria than love

MrCuteking:
There is no love in Nigeria. Make money and endure the fake love she gives you for the rest of your life.

God bless you boss.
You nailed it

Zooposki:
All the guys want is sex nowadays from multiple women, so ladies learnt how to chop them so they will not be at the losing end.

Ladies were loyal those days until they learnt not to put their eggs in one basket from men disappointing them all the time.

Another sad truth.
Things just escalated rather quickly, i must say.
So many men desiring lots and lots of sex all of a sudden, and the ladies quickly learnt they can make a fortune by monetizing their bodies.
I guess there is nothing anyone can do about it at this point. Life is always evolving -- but this particular stage of evolution is a bitter pill to swallow i wont lie.

Dem still dey find love for this Buhari era?

BirtherOfKings:


I believe finding love is so easy right now
The comments of people will endear u to them , staying in d same location helps alot and most important ur confidence and character..once u build this up, just like Hermes in big brother, it's woman that will endear themselves to u

as a man!

Never you take advise from a woman!

This particular black species got nothing to offer!

MrCuteking:
There is no love in Nigeria. Make money and endure the fake love she gives you for the rest of your life.

You can say that again!!

As a guy hustle hard love will come at the right time.

Rema14:
Gone are the days you'll just walk up to a girl and she would be shy and you'll be toasting small small till she accepts you but now if you walk up to a girl its you that will be shy.
so what happened why is it hard to find love or stay in a relationship?

My woman love me die and that's enough for me.

Rema14:
Oh i love that show

no wonder.

superCleanworks:

no wonder.

STFU

99% of Nigerians can't define love. How about that?
Most ladies embrace the idea of love because it appeals to their carnal lusts. It gives them access to somebody's pocket somewhere. Most men are driven by things like lust of the flesh and covetousness.
Love is a complex term that cannot be defined with physical understanding.

Rema14:
STFU

no wonder.
small pikin.

It is not hard, it is impossible!
Broke Nigerian women will only date you for money, and made Nigerian women will only date you to turn you to boy boy.
So, if you want to know how it feels like to be treated right by a woman, look for a good foreign woman. Those women know how to make a man feel good.
All women have their issues, but Nigerian women just date for all the wrong reasons.

Rema14:
Gone are the days you'll just walk up to a girl and she would be shy and you'll be toasting small small till she accepts you but now if you walk up to a girl its you that will be shy.
so what happened why is it hard to find love or stay in a relationship?

Op it's not hard, try me and see

B4ecause, 9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Pele bros
Who serve you breakfast?

This problem is everywhere. It's a human thing. Not just in Naija. However, there's no one to be blamed, or maybe the society. There's still true love in Naija for those who are willing to sacrifice. Love will always need sacrifice, else, you should just let it be. Loyalty is key, communication is also key. Both parties have to be loyal to each other. But there's a problem, many guys want only sex; many ladies want the money. Until we revisit this issue...

Social media.

The average man is not good enough for the average woman. In fact, a man earning 100k is not good enough for a woman earning zero. That is how bad it is. As someone said, make money and enjoy the fake love that abounds.

But let us men not victimize ourselves and think it's all women's fault. We simply caused it. Capitalism and the invention of all kinds of nonsense such as social media, porn, and heavy monetization of relationships should be blamed. And men are responsible. Women integrated properly by enjoying and exploiting the mess men created.

Relationship no hard, na you de find true love