lizychimamanda:
ah, oya show your girl some cash gifft love

hahahahahaha...you won't take

OyeofIkoTuN:


hahahahahaha...you won't take

As far as I'm concern, the only love that exist is "fake love". It's a practical survey. I have dated three girls so far. My findings shows that love and care from most Nigerian girls diminishes the moment you reduce the rate at which you give them money.
Recently, my girl served me breakfast because of money. Off course, I have enough money to give her but, I intentionally did that just to test her. Low and behold, she failed.
My hint: you are been loved by what you give.

Its hard to find love all the world.

What people are labelling love, is trade by barter. What you are offering and what I'm getting in return.

In relationship, you will think is love, when you her, your eye go clear

1. Dem don tear eye.
2. Use of condom.
3. Love of money.
4. Greed.
5. Runz

jeromestarks:
Be loveable and you will find love.

And how many breathe love, only to inhale the hate bomb

MrCuteking:
Stay single and see how you will enjoy your life to the fullest

what type of enjoyment is that without a woman or women ,my brother women are the no 1 entertainment facility for men,the creator is smart to make it like that

BirtherOfKings:


I believe finding love is so easy right now
The comments of people will endear u to them , staying in d same location helps alot and most important ur confidence and character..once u build this up, just like Hermes in big brother, it's woman that will endear themselves to u

I wanted to tell him this when I opened this thread..But reading through, it is cool to realize someone has got same mindset like mine on this issue...Kudos!.

Finding love is as easy as nowadays..Unlike before.

And I don't expect anyone to be that shy even she is a virgin..Social media exposure is there to brush of the timidness to a level.

Pure and true love does not exist. Even the love some parents have for their offsprings something is attached to it. Just find a girl u can tolerate and manage her like that, make sure u have excess money to keep the ministry moving. Tenkio

Very simple. Most women in this country (not all) are extremely materialistic. The average typical Nigerian woman believes that the only way a man can show that he really loves her is to spend money on her. They use culture and religion to justify this belief.

Poverty is another problem. Most women aren't actually looking for love but someone who can rescue them and their family from poverty. Many Nigerians are just trying to survive the harsh economic climate they find themselves in. Survival of the fittest they say. Your typical Nigerian woman is looking for a hero to rescue her from the clutches of poverty. She doesn't believe that she has to work hard to provide for herself. She will never hold her parents responsible for her predicament. Instead, she will look for an innocent man to carry the responsibilities of her parents.

As to the fact that many people get married everyday. That is true but bear in mind that this is a country where marriage is the ultimate goal. Many people get married to people who weren't their first choice/Ideal spouse. Single people, especially single women, are gossiped about, frowned at and mocked. As such, many women marry men they don't fancy in order to answer the name "Mrs".

Let's not single out the men as they are responsible for a lot of this rubbish. Most Nigerian men believe that the only way to a woman's heart is money. They even broke shame their fellow men who can't provide. Your typical Nigerian man is indoctrinated from youth to believe that his purpose in life is to be a provider. He is not a "man" if he cannot spend money on his woman. They then take this mentality abroad and wonder why men from other countries despise them.

If you have enough money, you will find love in Nigeria because money is the love that most women needs.

ednut1:
No such thing as love in Nigeria. I have never seen a female doctor or banker falling in love with mechanic or vulcanizer before in 9ja

true.

Doyou2019:


And how many breathe love, only to inhale the hate bomb

Shut up!
Don't try to be smart. Just be a loving person. That's all it takes.

Very easy. Our version of love in Nigeria is different. Money for hand back for ground

Love will find us when the time is right, power supply is what I need at the moment and the oraimo powerbox 400 has been the power storage keeping my devices powered on.

Oop. You no dey walk up to girls to toast now aday. you park beside girls. my friend hustle and get money. It is easier to woe ladies nowaday than before.

It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for you to find love in Nigeria... Nobody really knows why

[quote author=MrCuteking post=116434581]Stay single and see how you will enjoy your life to the fullest [ the most Wrong advice so far. Marry the right woman and see the happiness of marriage.]

The question is , does love truly exist? . Someone said love is a chemical reaction and after much consideration i am beginning to buy into that philosophy.

In my opinion ,Smell, sight ,touch and sound are triggers that can make love happen or make love disappear and something controlled by these parameters is as unstable as it can get and can be influenced.Therefore I think love is conditional depending on the triggers.

[quote author=Candora post=116436073]Finding love in Nigerian isn't hard.
People get married almost every Sunday.

Your issue is that you just can't get enough of one lady, you want to have a taste of all.

Everyone is after money now, most ladies personally look forward to making money before going into love. Don't want no one talking us down at any given opportunity.[ Why are you looking for money when i have already have enough. I just asked a simple task. Come and enjoy this blessing. And submit your thing for my this stubborn 3rd leg.]

Who Nigeria girls EPP




Hardly for you to see good 9ja girl.

Rema14:
Gone are the days you'll just walk up to a girl and she would be shy and you'll be toasting small small till she accepts you but now if you walk up to a girl its you that will be shy.
so what happened why is it hard to find love or stay in a relationship?

brother...98% of nigerian women are now officially Oloshos & can no longer be trusssted.......I no this sir becoz I sleep wit only married womens. I have slept wit 8 this year..so far. Everyonne know that Nigerian women are now olosho so please please pelase be careful sir. my advise, bro juss nak & go!!!

Finding love in Nigeria is not hard. Maintaining the love is the hard part.

yiheaster:
There is no genuine love in Nigeria

People love you when it’s only beneficial

Right, when they're sure they can bite off something from you or use you in any case. Otherwise, they don't care—honestly.

Sad thing is even we ourselves are like that: we might as well come clean. We too are mainly interested in selfishly getting something or using people, whether it's within the family or among friends.

I've been trying to learn by grace to love people even if all they've got is zero to offer me...

tnerro1:
Love has been monetized, know this and know peace

Yes o.... Money is the oil of love now.

True love though is not motivated by money.

Yes for men

jeromestarks:
Shut up! Don't try to be smart. Just be a loving person. That's all it takes.

Nigeria is the cheapest to find love, love goes as low as 500 naira depending on the area you look for it

MrCuteking:
There is no love in Nigeria. Make money and endure the fake love she gives you for the rest of your life.

As usual, no mention of you loving, but you always want her to love you, even without any money.

Let the two-way fake love continue.

Abeg follow give me small cash online just for dinner. I dey school. 1k done handle my dinner. God bless you. 0107170371-access bank.

OyeofIkoTuN:


It's sad to see men wooing women that are married with kids,sometimes 4 to 5 children yet they are all over her dms expressing their feelings for her and telling her pleasant things..

Then talk about young girls....Oh they get those pleasantries times 1000.. even cash gifts.

True story,I've given babes cash gift online without meeting them before.

judedwriter:


Yes o.... Money is the oil of love now.

True love though is not motivated by money.

My lecturer in uniabuja once jokingly said all women are prostitutes , when the class disagreed, he said “ give your wife good money and see her attitude change towards you, if she was loving before, she will be more loving “