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What do you guys think on this? Discussing your future plans with your girlfriend

Nothing wrong if she’s sensible and into you. What else will I be discussing with my partner if not his future plans and mine.

Depends on the kind of girl you have

Ronaldo723:
What do you guys think on this? Discussing your future plans with your girlfriend

if it’s a girl you are courting to marry in less than 1 year, yes.

if na normal relationship without direction, abeggi, just fück, drink postinor 2, do abortion and find anoda gf

Rozross:
if she’s sensible.

Follow this advice OP.. I believe u understand what he meant by it.. D rest is up 2u

Ebubu:
if it’s a girl you are courting to marry in less than 1 year, yes.

if na normal relationship without direction, abeggi, just fück, drink postinor 2, do abortion and find anoda gf

In a situation where you guys are dating but marriage is nowhere close because you are yet to arrive at your destination but you really love(like) the girl what would you say

U will know if she is someone you can discuss your future plans with or not.

Nor go discuss your future with girl wey nor get future ooo///abort mission..even your wife sef na 40% dem dey discuss with them oo

Ronaldo723:
In a situation where you guys are dating but marriage is nowhere close because you are yet to arrive at your destination but you really love(like) the girl what would you say

if you really love her to wife her and you find the wife signals in her, it’s not bad to inform her of your business plans or route to make money, it will be natural if a more financial or buoyant man comes around to marry her off instanta, and she follows him, leaves you, thinking you have no plans or means to settle. it’s understandable. so my advice is inform her, if she still leaves, don’t look back, don’t take her back either.

Ronaldo723:
In a situation where you guys are dating but marriage is nowhere close because you are yet to arrive at your destination but you really love(like) the girl what would you say

Focus on getting to your destination don't be distracted

Never discuss your future plans with anybody not even your own wife. Keep it a secret. Let everything materialise in due time.
You can distract them from the real future plans by giving them fake stories about your plans. A word is enough for the wise.

Don't do that shît, It brings "see finish" in a relationship.

blinking001:
Never discuss your future plans with anybody not even your own wife. Keep it a secret. Let everything materialise in due time.
You can distract them from the real future plans by giving them fake stories about your plans. A word is enough for the wise.

Hmmm what about she becomes upset on not telling her it would seem as if you don't have her in mind to keep her out of your plans/decisions

JoeRizzla:
Don't do that shît, It brings "see finish" in a relationship.

Okay I will think about this

Ronaldo723:
Hmmm what about she becomes upset on not telling her it would seem as if you don't have her in mind to keep her out of your plans/decisions

Why do you care if your girlfriend is upset that you're not telling her about your future plans? Is she your financial adviser or your lawyer?

blinking001:
Why do you care if your girlfriend is upset that you're not telling her about your future plans? Is she your financial adviser or your lawyer?

I have heard your advice bro

That is something I will never do ...

How can you discuss your future with a mere girlfriend? Not even wife o, girlfriend! ...

I better look at myself in the mirror and tell who I see there, rather than to tell a girlfriend ...