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Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by GemstoneJs(m): 10:20pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
I'm always scared/shy of asking a lady to relationship, like i don't know how to make the first approch, what to say and what to ask her. Please I need advice on what to do. Its my first time posting here, please mod move to front page. Thanks. |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by kelspinall(m): 10:22pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
man up, you only fear rejection not more mine be say,i no good with convos but ones we dey room na knacking ozogbo o zogbo.. 4 Likes |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Promosaver: 10:27pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Eyaaa Sorry 1 Like |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Onucs(m): 10:28pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
I love you, talk your own. It's that simple 1 Like |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Baitullah: 10:34pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
You wanna join the crew of slut makers 1 Like |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by GemstoneJs(m): 10:44pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Baitullah:Most times I just feel like, how I go stress myself over watin I go still spend money on. Then I go just move on. 6 Likes |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by GemstoneJs(m): 10:45pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
kelspinall:You're right, fear of rejection and I can't handle it. 1 Like |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Michelle70(m): 10:46pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Just ask her out for a date like twice, which will form a bond On the third date, make sure u give her the illusion of time, if the date was suppose to be till 8pm(based on what u both agreed) just tell her u will be leaving by 7pm, then when its 7pm, just tell her u still got some few minutes to spare, she will be greatful and feel important for u to spend extra minutes with her, meanwhile u just used the illusion of time to get her. During the date just make sure u tell her how amazing she was but never tell her u like her and shit.(This is because most people loose interest wen u are direct, they love it when they dont know ur intention which will send a little fear and uncomfort in them, i call it the power of negativity) This will send a strong message to her and will question herself if u want a date or not, trust me throughout the date she will be really uncomfortable thinking of u. After the date, make sure she sees u off, dont go and tell her to see u off, just tell her u are late and u could need some company on ur way home, she will be glad to see u off, afterall u spend an hour for her. (Which in reality, u didnt) On ur way home, look her in the eyes and plant a goodnyt kiss. Dont be scared if she accepts the kiss or not, if she accepts, u have scored 100points, if she doesnt, atleast u have send a message into her brain that will make her think of u all nyt long. If she doesnt call after the date, dont call her that night and be thanking her for the date, she will be busy thinking of u and its best u dont disturb her. Afterall she is suppose to be the greatful one cos u spend an hour with her BTW, u should be able to tell if shes there to chop ur money and run away or she is really into u. I really dont fancy telling a girl "i love u" or "will u be my girl" i just use tricks to get into ur mind and allow ur neurons and body chemistry do all the work for me. Its called the skill of lure 2 Likes |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by GemstoneJs(m): 10:47pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Promosaver:Thanks |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by GemstoneJs(m): 10:48pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Michelle70:Na your own contribution to my problem be that? |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Michelle70(m): 11:04pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
GemstoneJs:i just edited my comment |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by GeneralPula: 11:25pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Hey ma’am? My name is Abc.. I’m single and hoping to find myself a good girl for a relationship.. Do you mind to get along? If she say no? Just bounce like Ruger.. |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by EmzyT: 11:25pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by judatech: 11:32pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Just get a carton of indomie and 1 crate of egg... you don start something |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Paulianfa(m): 11:49pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
GemstoneJs: This is a serious matter |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by ednut1(m): 11:55pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Ask them online, then u build confidence from there. I know people who cant toast babe in real life but control babes from facebook,instagram or dating apps |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Nobody: 12:43am On Sep 10, 2022 |
Build up your confidence. |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Yusufisraelj(m): 1:12am On Sep 10, 2022 |
Sweetplum: I don't think it's a confidence thing, he needs to understand himself first, knows what he wants, identify it and learn to be friends with a lady before even considering relationship. His fear at the moment is as a result insufficient information concerning dating. |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Fiscus105(m): 5:45am On Sep 10, 2022 |
GemstoneJs: Ur age not yet fully mature for asking woman out. With time confident will come up, every guy passes this stage of life. |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Nobody: 6:07am On Sep 10, 2022 |
GemstoneJs: |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Nobody: 6:11am On Sep 10, 2022 |
GemstoneJs: bro the first rule is to love pucccci.this mean u can do anything for pucccci including driving from Nigeria to China juss for puccci. u can even disown yor family juss for puccci..like i did..the second rule is u must allways belif the puccci is there juss wait for u to ask. the 3rd rule is: ASK,u can say thiings like,babe do u belif in love at first sight coz u loooklike beyansi...then when she smile...U ask for pucccci.thats how u play the game!!!((THANK ME LATER)) |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Das1mama: 6:14am On Sep 10, 2022 |
GemstoneJs:How old are you? |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Ikennaford: 7:57am On Sep 10, 2022 |
kelspinall:Idiot 1 Like |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Ikennaford: 8:01am On Sep 10, 2022 |
Michelle70:Real men don't go dates |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Michelle70(m): 8:03am On Sep 10, 2022 |
Ikennaford:Do u mean "broke men dont do dates" ? I am a demisexual, so dates is neccessary for me |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Stephenmoka4(m): 8:07am On Sep 10, 2022 |
GeneralPula:Isn't this too fast... After saying your name, you got to know a little about the person and get the common interests... Then the invitation and the remaining talk/info comes in. It could be good talk and finding out what she likes or something everyone could like e.g. ice cream/pizza and meat pie or whatever, one can say what's your favorite flavor/toppings, during the week we could get one it's been awhile since I tasted one. |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Stephenmoka4(m): 8:11am On Sep 10, 2022 |
Michelle70:No worry yourself, na cover-up for I no |
Re: Always Scared Of Asking A Lady Out. by Stephenmoka4(m): 8:15am On Sep 10, 2022 |
GemstoneJs:Nothing to be scared of... It's your mind playing with you, a girl you are not attracted to - you might not feel this way. No rush rush, you can start with something you guys all have in common. Asking the right questions at the right time could help, also been around your guys 'em. |
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