I'm always scared/shy of asking a lady to relationship, like i don't know how to make the first approch, what to say and what to ask her. Please I need advice on what to do. Its my first time posting here, please mod move to front page. Thanks.

man up, you only fear rejection not more


mine be say,i no good with convos but ones we dey room na knacking ozogbo o zogbo..

Eyaaa
Sorry

I love you, talk your own.

It's that simple

You wanna join the crew of slut makers

Baitullah:
You wanna join the crew of slut makers

Most times I just feel like, how I go stress myself over watin I go still spend money on. Then I go just move on.

kelspinall:
man up, you only fear rejection not more


mine be say,i no good with convos but ones we dey room na knacking ozogbo o zogbo..

You're right, fear of rejection and I can't handle it.

Just ask her out for a date like twice, which will form a bond

On the third date, make sure u give her the illusion of time, if the date was suppose to be till 8pm(based on what u both agreed) just tell her u will be leaving by 7pm, then when its 7pm, just tell her u still got some few minutes to spare, she will be greatful and feel important for u to spend extra minutes with her, meanwhile u just used the illusion of time to get her.
During the date just make sure u tell her how amazing she was but never tell her u like her and shit.(This is because most people loose interest wen u are direct, they love it when they dont know ur intention which will send a little fear and uncomfort in them, i call it the power of negativity)
This will send a strong message to her and will question herself if u want a date or not, trust me throughout the date she will be really uncomfortable thinking of u.
After the date, make sure she sees u off, dont go and tell her to see u off, just tell her u are late and u could need some company on ur way home, she will be glad to see u off, afterall u spend an hour for her. (Which in reality, u didnt)
On ur way home, look her in the eyes and plant a goodnyt kiss.

Dont be scared if she accepts the kiss or not, if she accepts, u have scored 100points, if she doesnt, atleast u have send a message into her brain that will make her think of u all nyt long.

If she doesnt call after the date, dont call her that night and be thanking her for the date, she will be busy thinking of u and its best u dont disturb her.
Afterall she is suppose to be the greatful one cos u spend an hour with her
BTW, u should be able to tell if shes there to chop ur money and run away or she is really into u.

I really dont fancy telling a girl "i love u" or "will u be my girl" i just use tricks to get into ur mind and allow ur neurons and body chemistry do all the work for me.
Its called the skill of lure

Promosaver:
Eyaaa
Sorry

Thanks

Michelle70:
ok

Na your own contribution to my problem be that?

GemstoneJs:

Na your own contribution to my problem be that?

i just edited my comment

Hey ma’am?

My name is Abc..

I’m single and hoping to find myself a good girl for a relationship..

Do you mind to get along?

If she say no? Just bounce like Ruger..

Just get a carton of indomie and 1 crate of egg... you don start something

GemstoneJs:
I'm always scared/shy of asking a lady to relationship, like i don't know how to make the first approch, what to say and what to ask her. Please I need advice on what to do. Its my first time posting here, please mod move to front page. Thanks.

This is a serious matter

Ask them online, then u build confidence from there. I know people who cant toast babe in real life but control babes from facebook,instagram or dating apps

Build up your confidence.

Sweetplum:
Build up your confidence.

I don't think it's a confidence thing, he needs to understand himself first, knows what he wants, identify it and learn to be friends with a lady before even considering relationship.

His fear at the moment is as a result insufficient information concerning dating.

GemstoneJs:
I'm always scared/shy of asking a lady to relationship, like i don't know how to make the first approch, what to say and what to ask her. Please I need advice on what to do. Its my first time posting here, please mod move to front page. Thanks.

Ur age not yet fully mature for asking woman out.

With time confident will come up, every guy passes this stage of life.

GemstoneJs:
I'm always scared/shy of asking a lady to relationship, like i don't know how to make the first approch, what to say and what to ask her. Please I need advice on what to do. Its my first time posting here, please mod move to front page. Thanks.

GemstoneJs:
I'm always scared/shy of asking a lady to relationship, like i don't know how to make the first approch, what to say and what to ask her. Please I need advice on what to do. Its my first time posting here, please mod move to front page. Thanks.

bro the first rule is to love pucccci.this mean u can do anything for pucccci including driving from Nigeria to China juss for puccci. u can even disown yor family juss for puccci..like i did..the second rule is u must allways belif the puccci is there juss wait for u to ask. the 3rd rule is: ASK,u can say thiings like,babe do u belif in love at first sight coz u loooklike beyansi...then when she smile...U ask for pucccci.thats how u play the game!!!((THANK ME LATER))

GemstoneJs:
I'm always scared/shy of asking a lady to relationship, like i don't know how to make the first approch, what to say and what to ask her. Please I need advice on what to do. Its my first time posting here, please mod move to front page. Thanks.

How old are you?

kelspinall:
man up, you only fear rejection not more


mine be say,i no good with convos but ones we dey room na knacking ozogbo o zogbo..

Idiot

Michelle70:
Just ask her out for a date like twice, which will form a bond

On the third date, make sure u give her the illusion of time, if the date was suppose to be till 8pm(based on what u both agreed) just tell her u will be leaving by 7pm, then when its 7pm, just tell her u still got some few minutes to spare, she will be greatful and feel important for u to spend extra minutes with her, meanwhile u just used the illusion of time to get her.
During the date just make sure u tell her how amazing she was but never tell her u like her and shit.(This is because most people loose interest wen u are direct, they love it when they dont know ur intention which will send a little fear and uncomfort in them, i call it the power of negativity)
This will send a strong message to her and will question herself if u want a date or not, trust me throughout the date she will be really uncomfortable thinking of u.
After the date, make sure she sees u off, dont go and tell her to see u off, just tell her u are late and u could need some company on ur way home, she will be glad to see u off, afterall u spend an hour for her. (Which in reality, u didnt)
On ur way home, look her in the eyes and plant a goodnyt kiss.

Dont be scared if she accepts the kiss or not, if she accepts, u have scored 100points, if she doesnt, atleast u have send a message into her brain that will make her think of u all nyt long.

If she doesnt call after the date, dont call her that night and be thanking her for the date, she will be busy thinking of u and its best u dont disturb her.
Afterall she is suppose to be the greatful one cos u spend an hour with her
BTW, u should be able to tell if shes there to chop ur money and run away or she is really into u.

I really dont fancy telling a girl "i love u" or "will u be my girl" i just use tricks to get into ur mind and allow ur neurons and body chemistry do all the work for me.
Its called the skill of lure

Real men don't go dates

Ikennaford:

Real men don't go dates

Do u mean "broke men dont do dates" ?

I am a demisexual, so dates is neccessary for me

GeneralPula:
Hey ma’am?

My name is Abc..

I’m single and hoping to find myself a good girl for a relationship..

Do you mind to get along?

If she say no? Just bounce like Ruger..

Isn't this too fast... After saying your name, you got to know a little about the person and get the common interests... Then the invitation and the remaining talk/info comes in. It could be good talk and finding out what she likes or something everyone could like e.g. ice cream/pizza and meat pie or whatever, one can say what's your favorite flavor/toppings, during the week we could get one it's been awhile since I tasted one.

Michelle70:
Do u mean "broke men dont do dates" ?

I am a demisexual, so dates is neccessary for me

No worry yourself, na cover-up for I no get money wan spend. I do go out alone but anyone willing to join regardless of status or gender is free to come along...

GemstoneJs:
I'm always scared/shy of asking a lady to relationship, like i don't know how to make the first approch, what to say and what to ask her. Please I need advice on what to do. Its my first time posting here, please mod move to front page. Thanks.

Nothing to be scared of... It's your mind playing with you, a girl you are not attracted to - you might not feel this way. No rush rush, you can start with something you guys all have in common. Asking the right questions at the right time could help, also been around your guys 'em.