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Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 4:56pm On Sep 10, 2022
Good evening everyone. I'll make it short and simple. I'm 31 years old guy. I really don't know what's wrong with me. I think someone should suggest a very good pastor to me for deliverance. I'm basically not progressing in life. Can't afford to feed even once daily. Unmarried and not in a relationship cos most relationships ended due to my broke state

I'm a graduate of public administration 2:2, since I served in 2017, I have been basically jobless. Can't even boast of 1k right now. My mates we finished together in school are way ahead of me financially, maritally and otherwise. Some of my friends that are into Yahoo advised me to join but because of the fear of God I refused. Now I see them buying cars and building houses and travelling abroad while am left with nothing. The economy is terrible. I need a breakthrough please. I'm tired of living like this. It's not like I'm not making effort, I am. I've put my hands in some business here and there but it's all been fruitless. I need suggestion of a strong man of God to pray for me because I'm losing it honestly and seriously depressed. God bless.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Adekot: 5:04pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
Good evening everyone. I'll make it short and simple. I'm 31 years old guy. I really don't know what's wrong with me. I think someone should suggest a very good pastor to me for deliverance. I'm basically not progressing in life. Can't afford to feed even once daily. Unmarried and not in a relationship cos most relationships ended due to my broke state

I'm a graduate of public administration 2:2, since I served in 2017, I have been basically jobless. Can't even boast of 1k right now. My mates we finished together in school are way ahead of me financially, maritally and otherwise. Some of my friends that are into Yahoo advised me to join but because of the fear of God I refused. Now I see them buying cars and building houses and travelling abroad while am left with nothing. The economy is terrible. I need a breakthrough please. I'm tired of living like this. It's not like I'm not making effort, I am. I've put my hands in some business here and there but it's all been fruitless. I need suggestion of a strong man of God to pray for me because I'm losing it honestly and seriously depressed. God bless.
Where are located my brother
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by adeoyekay(m): 5:05pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
Good evening everyone. I'll make it short and simple. I'm 31 years old guy. I really don't know what's wrong with me. I think someone should suggest a very good pastor to me for deliverance. I'm basically not progressing in life. Can't afford to feed even once daily. Unmarried and not in a relationship cos most relationships ended due to my broke state

I'm a graduate of public administration 2:2, since I served in 2017, I have been basically jobless. Can't even boast of 1k right now. My mates we finished together in school are way ahead of me financially, maritally and otherwise. Some of my friends that are into Yahoo advised me to join but because of the fear of God I refused. Now I see them buying cars and building houses and travelling abroad while am left with nothing. The economy is terrible. I need a breakthrough please. I'm tired of living like this. It's not like I'm not making effort, I am. I've put my hands in some business here and there but it's all been fruitless. I need suggestion of a strong man of God to pray for me because I'm losing it honestly and seriously depressed. God bless.
Go into fasting and prayer

Before that, ask God for forgiveness and pray for divine intervention.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by budaatum:
gameova:
I really don't know what's wrong with me. I think someone should suggest a very good pastor to me for deliverance.
What is wrong with you is the above. Instead of delivering yourself, you irresponsibly want a good pastor to come and deliver you, as if the God of the pastor said "bring your cross to the pastor and let him carry it for your lazy ass".

Here's a link to a conversation with udele1 who is broke and starving like you are and waiting for others to feed him the manna that they bring from the heavens.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:08pm On Sep 10, 2022
Adekot:
Where are located my brother
Ebonyi State Sir
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Nobody:
Keep praying and working hard, don’t compare your life with others , some men started living a meaningful life at 40(May it not be your portion) and have surpassed those that started earlier. Just live right, pray and work hard and you’ll come out of your situation successfully. It is well with you
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:11pm On Sep 10, 2022
adeoyekay:
Go into fasting and prayer

Before that, ask God for forgiveness and pray for divine intervention.
I need a strong man of God to guide me please. Thanks for your suggestion.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Moh247: 5:13pm On Sep 10, 2022
Insha Allah your helper shall locate you, you will look back and smile
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by dododawa1: 5:14pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
Ebonyi State Sir
leave your comfort zone
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Ekejoestar(m): 5:14pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
I need a strong man of God to guide me please. Thanks for your suggestion.
Hope u are not into masturbation.

Go and learn handwork
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by ThothHermes: 5:16pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
I need a strong man of God to guide me please. Thanks for your suggestion.
Download and listen to Joshua Selman messages. You can start with "The Mystery of Divine Intervention". You will thank God forever I guarantee you.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:19pm On Sep 10, 2022
budaatum:
What is wrong with you is the above. Instead of delivering yourself, you irresponsibly want a good pastor to come and deliver you, as if the God of the pastor said "bring your cross to the pastor and let him carry it for your lazy ass".

Here's a link to a conversation with udele1 who is broke and starving like you do are and waiting for others to feed him the manna that they bring from the heavens.
How do you mean deliver myself sir? I've gone through the thread but couldn't understand how it all relates. God bless
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by henrimoto(m): 5:22pm On Sep 10, 2022
...you even finished higher education with so much difficulty, if not for your determination and the Grace of God, you would have dropped out of school. Do you reside in Abakaliki ?
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:25pm On Sep 10, 2022
Ekejoestar:
Hope u are not into masturbation.

Go and learn handwork
I used to but quit. Thanks. I'm really interested in learning sir.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by culf: 5:26pm On Sep 10, 2022
easy on yourself bro, its a good thing you're not relenting. please stop comparing yourself with others, you might be the one to sustain them tomorrow, God will soon come through for you. just be diligent with whatever you're doing and anytime you have opportunity to learn any skill, please don't hesitate.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by budaatum: 5:26pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
How do you mean deliver myself sir? I've gone through the thread but couldn't understand how it all relates. God bless
Did you note what I said your problem was? You seem to think you can be delivered by others instead of putting in the work to deliver yourself.

Anyone who claims they will deliver you will just further enslave you, so you should consider whom you deliver yourself to or you'd compound your brokeness.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:26pm On Sep 10, 2022
ThothHermes:
Download and listen to Joshua Selman messages. You can start with "The Mystery of Divine Intervention". You will thank God forever I guarantee you.
Thanks I appreciate. Don't have data right now but I will later. God bless.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:28pm On Sep 10, 2022
dododawa1:
leave your comfort zone
How do you mean pls? Because I sure I'm making an effort. Not lazy
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:30pm On Sep 10, 2022
henrimoto:
...you even finished higher education with so much difficulty, if not for your determination and the Grace of God, you would have dropped out of school. Do you reside in Abakaliki ?
Thanks for your kind words. Yes I'm in Abakaliki. I live close to House of Assembly. Nkaliki
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Matrix137(m): 5:35pm On Sep 10, 2022
I really love the fact you are making an effort. Keep looking upto God. It is well
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:38pm On Sep 10, 2022
budaatum:
Did you note what I said your problem was? You seem to think you can be delivered by others instead of putting in the work to deliver yourself.

Anyone who claims they will deliver you will just further enslave you, so you should consider whom you deliver yourself to or you'd compound your brokeness.
Thanks sir. Your point is well noted.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Xscape1993(m): 5:41pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
Good evening everyone. I'll make it short and simple. I'm 31 years old guy. I really don't know what's wrong with me. I think someone should suggest a very good pastor to me for deliverance. I'm basically not progressing in life. Can't afford to feed even once daily. Unmarried and not in a relationship cos most relationships ended due to my broke state

I'm a graduate of public administration 2:2, since I served in 2017, I have been basically jobless. Can't even boast of 1k right now. My mates we finished together in school are way ahead of me financially, maritally and otherwise. Some of my friends that are into Yahoo advised me to join but because of the fear of God I refused. Now I see them buying cars and building houses and travelling abroad while am left with nothing. The economy is terrible. I need a breakthrough please. I'm tired of living like this. It's not like I'm not making effort, I am. I've put my hands in some business here and there but it's all been fruitless. I need suggestion of a strong man of God to pray for me because I'm losing it honestly and seriously depressed. God bless.
A breakthrough will come dear. It is just a matter of time...
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:41pm On Sep 10, 2022
Moh247:
Insha Allah your helper shall locate you, you will look back and smile
Amen. Thanks alot.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:48pm On Sep 10, 2022
culf:
easy on yourself bro, its a good thing you're not relenting. please stop comparing yourself with others, you might be the one to sustain them tomorrow, God will soon come through for you. just be diligent with whatever you're doing and anytime you have opportunity to learn any skill, please don't hesitate.
Thanks for your kind words sir. God bless
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 5:49pm On Sep 10, 2022
Rozross:
Keep praying and working hard, don’t compare your life with others , some men started living a meaningful life at 40(May it not be your portion) and have surpassed those that started earlier. Just live right, pray and work hard and you’ll come of your situation successfully. It is well with you
Thanks alot ma'am
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by immortalcrown(m): 5:50pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
Good evening everyone. I'll make it short and simple. I'm 31 years old guy. I really don't know what's wrong with me. I think someone should suggest a very good pastor to me for deliverance. I'm basically not progressing in life. Can't afford to feed even once daily. Unmarried and not in a relationship cos most relationships ended due to my broke state

I'm a graduate of public administration 2:2, since I served in 2017, I have been basically jobless. Can't even boast of 1k right now. My mates we finished together in school are way ahead of me financially, maritally and otherwise. Some of my friends that are into Yahoo advised me to join but because of the fear of God I refused. Now I see them buying cars and building houses and travelling abroad while am left with nothing. The economy is terrible. I need a breakthrough please. I'm tired of living like this. It's not like I'm not making effort, I am. I've put my hands in some business here and there but it's all been fruitless. I need suggestion of a strong man of God to pray for me because I'm losing it honestly and seriously depressed. God bless.
Last last, pastor go tell you say you get "calling". Meaning God wants you to become a pastor.

Guy, I understand your situation. But do not give up in hoping for a better future. At least, be grateful to God that you are not battling a serious illness.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by dododawa1: 5:55pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
How do you mean pls? Because I sure I'm making an effort. Not lazy
staying in one place for long,try others states,e.g LAGOS,PH and ANAMBRA.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by culf: 5:58pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
Thanks for your kind words sir. God bless
You're welcome and God bless you too my brother.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 6:03pm On Sep 10, 2022
dododawa1:
staying in one place for long,try others states,e.g LAGOS,PH and ANAMBRA.
I was in Lagos 2018 job hunting and applying here and there but no show. Couldn't also cope with accommodation as the friend I was squatting with was very cold and made it plain that I over stayed my welcome. I'm ready to move to any place as long as there is accommodation and also job opportunity. Thank you
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by henrimoto(m): 6:05pm On Sep 10, 2022
dododawa1:
staying in one place for long,try others states,e.g LAGOS,PH and ANAMBRA.
Have you thought of the sugestion ?... You are close to hatchery road?
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by dododawa1: 6:05pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
I was in Lagos 2018 job hunting and applying here and there but no show. Couldn't also cope with accommodation as the friend I was squatting with was very cold and made it plain that I over stayed my welcome. I'm ready to move to any place as long as there is accommodation and also job opportunity. Thank you
BRO,you should know everyone is going through HARDSHIP due to this present government,you can not relet, keep trying and d end Will be GULDER.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 6:08pm On Sep 10, 2022
henrimoto:
Have you thought of the sugestion ?... You are close to hatchery road?
Yes I have and yes I'm close to hatchery road.
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