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Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 6:09pm On Sep 10, 2022
dododawa1:
BRO,you should know everyone is going through HARDSHIP due to this present government,you can not relet, keep trying and d end Will be GULDER.
Thanks Soo much
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Chioma4eva(f): 6:13pm On Sep 10, 2022
This is a really sad situation.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Hardy123(m): 6:16pm On Sep 10, 2022
OP do you have PVC?
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 6:17pm On Sep 10, 2022
Hardy123:
OP do you have PVC?
Yes I have
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 6:18pm On Sep 10, 2022
Chioma4eva:
This is a really sad situation.
thanks for your concern.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Hardy123(m): 6:21pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
Yes I have
Who are you voting for next year?
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op):
Hardy123:
Who are you voting for next year?
I'm Obidient sir
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Hardy123(m): 6:26pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
I'm Obedient sir
Okay. Goodluck.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 6:32pm On Sep 10, 2022
Hardy123:
Okay. Goodluck.
Thanks
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 6:55pm On Sep 10, 2022
I need a job please or assistance.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 6:59pm On Sep 10, 2022
immortalcrown:
Last last, pastor go tell you say you get "calling". Meaning God wants you to become a pastor.

Guy, I understand your situation. But do not give up in hoping for a better future. At least, be grateful to God that you are not battling a serious illness.
I just want God to break the curse of stagnation in my life. 5 years no job. it's not ordinary. I thank God for good health. God bless you
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by henrimoto(m): 7:00pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
Thanks
be positive about life, even at difficult moments of life. Come what may, just be persistance in your endeavours. Creat a dream, believe. Focus and never stop trying. Build a strong relationship with God, listen more to spiritual/deliverance messages, NEVER STOP PRAYING TO YOUR MAKER.- GOD
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 7:08pm On Sep 10, 2022
henrimoto:
be positive about life, even at difficult moments of life. Come what may, just be persistance in your endeavours. Creat a dream, believe. Focus and never stop trying. Build a strong relationship with God, listen more to spiritual/deliverance messages, NEVER STOP PRAYING TO YOUR MAKER.- GOD
Thanks alot sir. I appreciate. I'm really trying my best but it seems not enough but I believe God will make a way for me soon or send a helper.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by frozen70(f): 7:50pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
Thanks alot sir. I appreciate. I'm really trying my best but it seems not enough but I believe God will make a way for me soon or send a helper.
Have you tried teaching as a job for the time being

You can start with that and from there
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by ThothHermes: 7:59pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
Thanks I appreciate. Don't have data right now but I will later. God bless.
They are not big files. Less than #200 data will do it. I can send you the airtime if you want.
Drop your number and airtime.
Also download "Spiritual Intelligence" and "Complete deliverance" if you can.
Your life will change I guarantee you.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by ThothHermes: 8:01pm On Sep 10, 2022
gameova:
I just want God to break the curse of stagnation in my life. 5 years no job. it's not ordinary. I thank God for good health. God bless you
You are right. Stagnation and delay is a curse. People who experience it often have dreams of seeing themselves in their secondary school, former house, and other places they have been. It has to be dealt with spiritually.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by ibechris(m): 8:30pm On Sep 10, 2022
U just reminded me similar thing.

During my depressed state in 2011,I met a lady who was far older than me online and I complained of no job she was ready for us to marry then but I refused because I just left camp to face the real world.

After some time she asked me to do some prayers at mid night and she was specific about the midnight prayer even after I had met a pastor who told me how my uncle has tied our destiny including my elder brother.

But I ended up listening to that God sent of a lady...ever since that singular prayer,my life turned around for good.
Without boasting,I am 39yrs this year...I, alone knows what God has done for my family through me.

I,personally do not believe in prayer without individual effort,I don't also believe in most pastors but God in heaven.

Try this and see what God will do for u.

Prayer is key.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by pansophist(m):
Understand life as "cause and effect". I don't think there is anything wrong with you, but maybe you're not willing to go low enough. Youve mentally pinned yourself on a level economically and unwilling to be flexible.

Can you be a bus/Uber driver? Can you sell something on a busy road side? If you're so broke to even feed, then can you go to major market and sell your strength (eg offloading containers)?

I know people like you, schooled individuals that feel frustrated because they don't have work, but think doing something they consider menial insults them. Some are ashamed to do menial jobs, but not ashamed to beg. Lol.

Most of us in the university was trained by our parents who did menial jobs. I know an okada man with his house in his village, and an akara seller with children in university. Many times, people suffer because of their ego.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Nobody: 1:24am On Sep 11, 2022
pansophist:
Understand life as "cause and effect", or that what you sow you shall reap. I don't think there is anything wrong with you, but maybe you're not willing to go low enough.

Can you be a bus/Uber driver? Can you sell something on a busy road side? If you're so broke to even feed, then can you go to major market and sell your strength (eg offloading containers)?

I know people like you, schooled individuals that feel frustrated because they don't have work, but think doing something they consider menial insults them. Some are ashamed to do menial jobs, but not ashamed to beg. Lol.

Most of us in the university was trained by our parents who did menial jobs. I know an okada man with his house in his village, and an akara seller with children in university. Many times, people suffer because of their ego.
Gbam!
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Thugnificent(m): 10:55am On Sep 11, 2022
Also facing same issue. We both studied same course.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by Acidosis(m):
1. The truth is that majority of the genuine deliverance pastors are actually broke and poor - implying that your key to wealth does not lie in the hands of any deliverance pastor.

2. Maybe it's time to change the way you view and your idea of "success." Success means different things to different people. You see those broke deliverance pastors, many of them are actually successful in their own rights.

3. If success, according to you, is getting a job and making some cash, then it's time to focus your attention on getting a job. What efforts have you made in that regard? Have you sat down to ask yourself whether the course you studied in school is the problem? What efforts have you made in terms of getting an in-demand skill?

4. Being a graduate is no longer a direct ticket for employment. Over 85% of youth corp members today do not know the meaning of "quarter past 6." There's a popular video on Facebook with millions of views where corp members couldn't answer that simple question. Your potential employers both home and abroad have probably seen that video so it's time to dump that graduate mentality.

5. Why didn't you apply for the F-G NPower program in 2020? N30,000 is almost of no value today but, at least, over 500,000 graduates get that money every month from the federal government without doing anything in return.

6. Maybe it's time to take information gathering very seriously. Information is power.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 8:20pm On Sep 11, 2022
ThothHermes:
They are not big files. Less than #200 data will do it. I can send you the airtime if you want.
Drop your number and airtime.
Also download "Spiritual Intelligence" and "Complete deliverance" if you can.
Your life will change I guarantee you.
Good evening sir. I was banned. Can't post my number here to avoid being banned again. Just sent you an email. Thanks
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 8:21pm On Sep 11, 2022
ThothHermes:
You are right. Stagnation and delay is a curse. People who experience it often have dreams of seeing themselves in their secondary school, former house, and other places they have been. It has to be dealt with spiritually.
Exactly. My situation is far from ordinary.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 8:22pm On Sep 11, 2022
ibechris:
U just reminded me similar thing.

During my depressed state in 2011,I met a lady who was far older than me online and I complained of no job she was ready for us to marry then but I refused because I just left camp to face the real world.

After some time she asked me to do some prayers at mid night and she was specific about the midnight prayer even after I had met a pastor who told me how my uncle has tied our destiny including my elder brother.

But I ended up listening to that God sent of a lady...ever since that singular prayer,my life turned around for good.
Without boasting,I am 39yrs this year...I, alone knows what God has done for my family through me.

I,personally do not believe in prayer without individual effort,I don't also believe in most pastors but God in heaven.

Try this and see what God will do for u.

Prayer is key.
Your testimony is touching. God continue to bless you. Yes you are correct. Faith without work is dead.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 8:27pm On Sep 11, 2022
pansophist:
Understand life as "cause and effect". I don't think there is anything wrong with you, but maybe you're not willing to go low enough. Youve mentally pinned yourself on a level economically and unwilling to be flexible.

Can you be a bus/Uber driver? Can you sell something on a busy road side? If you're so broke to even feed, then can you go to major market and sell your strength (eg offloading containers)?

I know people like you, schooled individuals that feel frustrated because they don't have work, but think doing something they consider menial insults them. Some are ashamed to do menial jobs, but not ashamed to beg. Lol.

Most of us in the university was trained by our parents who did menial jobs. I know an okada man with his house in his village, and an akara seller with children in university. Many times, people suffer because of their ego.
I also did menial jobs but not the physical tasking one's cos I had an operation not too long ago. Also I've sold fuel, Hawked okrika, sold bread in traffic when I was in Lagos and done other menial jobs but for how long? If I start to remember everything I get teary eyed. But I'm hoping on God to turn my situation around. Thanks for your comment.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 8:29pm On Sep 11, 2022
Acidosis:
1. The truth is that majority of the genuine deliverance pastors are actually broke and poor - implying that your key to wealth does not lie in the hands of any deliverance pastor.

2. Maybe it's time to change the way you view and your idea of "success." Success means different things to different people. You see those broke deliverance pastors, many of them are actually successful in their own rights.

3. If success, according to you, is getting a job and making some cash, then it's time to focus your attention on getting a job. What efforts have you made in that regard? Have you sat down to ask yourself whether the course you studied in school is the problem? What efforts have you made in terms of getting an in-demand skill?

4. Being a graduate is no longer a direct ticket for employment. Over 85% of youth corp members today do not know the meaning of "quarter past 6." There's a popular video on Facebook with millions of views where corp members couldn't answer that simple question. Your potential employers both home and abroad have probably seen that video so it's time to dump that graduate mentality.

5. Why didn't you apply for the F-G NPower program in 2020? N30,000 is almost of no value today but, at least, over 500,000 graduates get that money every month from the federal government without doing anything in return.

6. Maybe it's time to take information gathering very seriously. Information is power.
Thanks for your words of encouragement. It's very much appreciated. Yeah I applied for Npower but I've never been selected. I don't know why. Would have really gone a long way. Thanks once again
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by descarado: 8:34pm On Sep 11, 2022
You alone is responsible for your success and failure.
It starts with your mind.
Some had it worst than you.

When you start listening to your inner man cos it knows what u can or cannot do. Positive mindset is 50%, the rest are layered on top of it.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by gameova(op): 8:45pm On Sep 11, 2022
descarado:
You alone is responsible for your success and failure.
It starts with your mind.
Some had it worst than you.

When you start listening to your inner man cos it knows what u can or cannot do. Positive mindset is 50%, the rest are layered on top of it.
Thanks alot sir
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by henrimoto(m): 8:49am On Sep 12, 2022
@ibechris. What was the prayer point ?
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by ibechris(m): 8:53am On Sep 12, 2022
henrimoto:
@ibechris. What was the prayer point ?
She didn't give me a prayer point. Say your prayers according to your problems.
Re: Will I Ever Be Successful In Life? *depressed* by henrimoto(m): 9:00am On Sep 12, 2022
ibechris:
She didn't give me a prayer point. Say your prayers according to your problems.
how many days ? How long ?
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