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Dating is a circumstances game and a numbers game.

When you meet someone, you need to be:

• Attracted to each other
• Compatible
• Available (single, hopefully)
• Emotionally-ready


After the biggest breakup of my life, I hadn't been on a date in months.

(A lot of months.)

I was emotionally ready to date again.

But I was too shy to put myself out there.

I tended to back off rather than face rejection.

So I decided to use the 15-day challenge as motivation.

Let me pause and say: This challenge works.

I recommend it to anyone with the guts to try.


1. Zero fear of rejection

After the first few attempts,

getting rejected was just part of the process.

"Who should I get rejected by today?"

I stopped being worried about people saying no.

What was more important was that I tried.

1. Best pickup line

Any attempt at a pickup line was always awkward and immediately regretted.

"How's your day going?" was the best way to get a conversation started.

People like authenticity.

I could save the stupid one-liners for later.


3. People are friendly

I met a lot of nice people.

Some had boyfriends, or just weren't interested.

They were still happy to talk to a friendly person.

Because I was polite about it, nobody was offended. They were flattered to feel attractive.

4. Attraction is a vibe

There's a dance. You look at each other. It tickles your insides. You feel it.

Early in the challenge, I hadn't done the dance

I just walked up to hot girls and asked.

Build anticipation first. Let it spread slowly.

I learned a lot, but also had some bloopers.

A few illustrations of how not to ask people out:

"Hi, I saw you over here and thought you were attractive. Want to go out sometime?"

"No thanks."

"Okay. Talk to you later!"


"Hey."

"Hey."

(Awkward silence.)

(Still silence.)

"So, I felt like maybe we had a connection. You want to go on a date sometime?"

(More silence.)

Her Friend) "Oh, it's that guy again. Hi guy."

(Me) "Yeah, I came over to ask out your friend, but she's been on her cell for like half an hour."

(Her Friend) "Yeah, she's talking to her ex."

(Me) "She over him?"

Okay,

Its results time. How'd I do?

15 attempts to get dates.

How many said yes...

0 dates.


ZERO.


But here's what I got instead...

I asked 15 women out over 15 days,

got 0 dates,

and it still:

• Destroyed my fear of rejection
• Built a daily habit of talking to attractive people
• Broke my fear of dating people not in my social group
• Improved my self-confidence

100% worth it.

Now, I know how to make myself irresistible to woman..

If you're single and get rejected, it may not have to do with you.

There are circumstances. Numbers.

But keep putting yourself out there.

(Yes, work on yourself, too. It's attractive.)

And if you found a good match. Congratulations.

And if you haven't...

Let me know in the comments and see how this book I have can help you

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IRMC

For this Buhari period.. u dey try

melody91:
For this Buhari period.. u dey try

Who tell you buhari dey do period?

Kids that don't know what to do with the pocket money their parents and uncles give to them.. Continue is as if you where not informed about Adulthood, don't worry its coming.