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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Bekermann(m): 4:37am On Sep 22, 2022
ProphetJeroboam:
There’s this ongoing discussion about Nigerian women and their obsession with food dates. Personally I’ve observed the same thing with African American women.

Nigerian girls just want to go on food dates and post monthly photo dumps. It’s a hustle, the main guys fvcking them don’t take them to Radisson Blu to eat Chicken Pasta bolognese. It’s you who wants to impress them that shoulders the responsibility of feeding the less privileged. Your reward will be a side hug while she posts photos of herself with you obviously missing from said photos. A girl that truly loves you will not ask or hint to you that she wants an exotic food date.

This brings me back to my old write-up about demographics and location affecting women’s choice in mates. In a financially unstable community, the women gravitate towards mates who can feed, clothe and take care of their financial needs. In a financially stable community, the young women fvck guys based on appearance, raw feelings , game etc

I have been in both situations and this is facts, not a theory. The white girls in my city will fvck you because they think you’re cute, funny or just straight up sweet and nice. I have never in my interactions with them spoken about food dates nor do they obsess about food dates, you will never hear bullshit like “my love language is food or see I am a foodie“ boldly written on their social pages, you’re dealing with hungry girls in Nigeria and I am not shaming them, it’s the reality, they’re not used to eating good so food becomes luxury.

I quickly noticed that the Nigerian girls in clubs in my city go home with guys who spends the most on drinks in the club and the White girls go home with the guy who dances with her and gives her a good time inside the club.

I am not in anyway glorifying white girls, I am just pointing out some notable differences. I hope y’all get the chance to experience the best of both worlds. I have some friends who got white girls for serious relationships and in a month or two you’ll see the whites girls learning how to prepare Nigerian dishes and trying to communicate in pidgin English, all they care about is making you happy. I’ll mention, just don’t get caught cheating on them grin grin

Hmm... Your submission is spot on. I've really noticed it too. Last Last, na passport movement sure pass.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 8:04am On Sep 22, 2022
ubunja:
No No masculinity IS NOT muscles. Masculinity is the total combination of characteristics that embody what being Male is all about (culturally and biologically) i.e being logical, ambitious, driven, calm under pressure, self-sacrificing, etc.

Also consider the fact that BOTH men and women have masculine properties in them but in different degrees. Just as both men and women have feminine properties also in different degrees: men have far more masculinity than women have and women have far more femininity than men have. But both contain both.

Men's masculinity and Women's femininity are always changing in degrees in response to socio-economic factors and romantic situations.......
Truth.
Pristine truth.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 8:07am On Sep 22, 2022
Emotionss:
Learn To Talk Less.

Being the strong and silent type of man is also another quality the New generation set of Men are gradually losing.

One of the most powerful impressions you can give as a Redpiller that will differentiate you from other men in a crowd of men, is by being the Authoritative strong and silent type. A MAN OF FEW BUT POWERFUL WORDS....
Spot on.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 8:23am On Sep 22, 2022
heartofcity12:
That’s why cold approach most times don’t work. It most times leads to nowhere..
Cold approach works flawlessly and effortlessly for good looking guys who are bold, spontaneous, carry that confident air about them and don't suffer from approach inertia.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 8:25am On Sep 22, 2022
Emmynator:
I had to go to the guy's Facebook page to finish the story. cheesy
Help those of us that are not on facebook to post it here bro. The gist was sweeting me grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 8:27am On Sep 22, 2022
from the friend zone to the bro zone,our friend is getting ahead. cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Heryormilekan(m): 8:53am On Sep 22, 2022
heartofcity12:
..

I saw this BS on one relationship page on FB. Imagine the handler was asking women 'what a real man is'. Shit was disgusting and irritating at the same time. Of course, funny answers as expected.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 8:59am On Sep 22, 2022
Tonnyray:
Cold approach works flawlessly and effortlessly for good looking guys who are bold, spontaneous, carry that confident air about them and don't suffer from approach inertia.


Despite all those qualities you listed, it still doesn’t work all the time. Many women you like and cold approach will reject you, like it or not. Mind you, there is a huge difference between getting women’s number and actually having your way with them. Many will waste your time or keep you in the friendzone with that approach. I don’t dispute the fact that it works but it only has limited success rates no matter who you are.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 9:00am On Sep 22, 2022
Heryormilekan:


I saw this BS on one relationship page on FB. Imagine the handler was asking women 'what a real man is'. Shit was disgusting and irritating at the same time. Of course, funny answers as expected.

It’s always about who a real man is, they never tell you about who a real woman is.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 9:01am On Sep 22, 2022
I have had some crazy sexual encounters with some of the most innocent looking women in today's society that I am 100% sure both their boyfriends and eventual husbands will never get to experience Such with same women.

As I Rule I don't do married women.
Suprisenly, the number of Green lights, Sexual fantasie chats And Nude pictures that comes my way on a daily basis from married women (in most cases they usually hide their marital status) has inforced my beliefs that Most married men know absolutely nothing about the sexual nature of their supposed Good wifes and it also validates my suspicion that most married women are using marriage to cover up their whoring enterprise....

Back in the days women used virginity, fidelity and feminine characteristics to bargain for a man's commitment.

But this day's, it is we the men that are willingly offering our commitments (some even their birth right) to women for something as pathetic as validation from a woman even when sex ( not to talk of virginity ) is not guaranteed.

We sold our rights, dignity And Authority in the name of being civilized and Woke.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 9:05am On Sep 22, 2022
Tonnyray:
Truth.
Pristine truth.
nice one man.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Shegzdave: 9:06am On Sep 22, 2022
Emmynator:

Boss man, I was one of those you encouraged to go into coding, I decided to go the data science / machine learning route.
Still learning and pushing myself to new boundaries, I know if I keep at it, the bag will follow.
Thanks.
Good Morning man,
Please I need your help concerning the data science route cause someone advised Me to go for data science rather than data analysis.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 9:09am On Sep 22, 2022
heartofcity12:
Despite all those qualities you listed, it still doesn’t work all the time. Women you like will reject you, like it or not. Mind you, there is a huge difference between getting women’s number and actually having your way with them. Many will waste your time or keep you in the friendzone with that approach. I don’t dispute the fact that it works but it only has limited success rates no matter who you are.
Tell me what works all the time.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by iamphenomenal(m): 9:14am On Sep 22, 2022
MJBOLT:
from the friend zone to the bro zone,our friend is getting ahead. cheesy
Hey the Bro zone is the worst oo
Chai

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by iamphenomenal(m): 9:17am On Sep 22, 2022
Checked my status, saw this as posted by a lady
Remember she said "Real man"

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 9:17am On Sep 22, 2022
Tonnyray:
Tell me what works all the time.

Choosing signals or greenlights are preferable, then you can warm approach, yet I wouldn’t say this works all the time either coz not all are genuine but it by far has more success rate than cold approach. Tested and trusted.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 9:20am On Sep 22, 2022
heartofcity12:
Choosing signals or greenlights are preferable, then you can warm approach, yet I wouldn’t say it works all the time either coz not all are genuine but it by far has more success rate than cold approach. Tested and trusted.
Lol.
The way you guys make your experiences into gospel truth though. grin
So what do I do when a Xoli Mfeka or Lulu Mezinwa walks past me in a shopping mall for example?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 9:25am On Sep 22, 2022
Tonnyray:
Lol.
The way you guys make your experiences into gospel truth though. grin
So what do I do when a Xoli Mfeka or Lulu Mezinwa walks past me in a shopping mall for example?

You can always do what works for you man, no one says you shouldn’t cold approach but be ready for the outcomes. Make yourself seen to them and watch their reaction or do you think Xoli Mfeka or Lulu Mezinwa can’t show you greenlight or choosing signal? cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 9:38am On Sep 22, 2022
Emotionss:
I have had some crazy sexual encounters with some of the most innocent looking women in today's society that I am 100% sure both their boyfriends and eventual husbands will never get to experience Such with same women.

As I Rule I don't do married women.
Suprisenly, the number of Green lights, Sexual fantasie chats And Nude pictures that comes my way on a daily basis from married women (in most cases they usually hide their marital status) has inforced my beliefs that Most married men know absolutely nothing about the sexual nature of their supposed Good wifes and it also validates my suspicion that most married women are using marriage to cover up their whoring enterprise....

Back in the days women used virginity, fidelity and feminine characteristics to bargain for a man's commitment.

But this day's, it is we the men that are willingly offering our commitments (some even their birth right) to women for something as pathetic as validation from a woman even when sex ( not to talk of virginity ) is not guaranteed.

We sold our rights, dignity And Authority in the name of being civilized and Woke.
"Whóríng Enterprise". Lol.

But for real, Some married women will even give you a baby. That's how deep, cold and dark the game is. They'll literally get pregnant for you.

If you speak to a lot of married women get in the habit of jokingly saying,"I wish your next baby was mine!".
If they act shocked say you're just joking. But I assure you, say it to enough of them one day one of them will take you up on it. And you'll lose all your faith in humanity.
The reproductive game is the most cruel of all the games.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by machote: 9:44am On Sep 22, 2022
Tonnyray:
Cold approach works flawlessly and effortlessly for good looking guys who are bold, spontaneous, carry that confident air about them and don't suffer from approach inertia.
Stop spewing trash tonnyray. I thought we were way past this.

Let me share something interesting:
I do attend a Sunday meeting every now and then were we youths gather. After some weeks of attending this meeting, I remember leaving the meeting when a fair woman walked up to me and asked me what was my name. I told her. For some reason, she was just interested in me and we started talking, before I knew it, one thing led to another and we started holding hands, not a big deal I know but this is where things actually gets interesting.

Her close friend literally came right to us and separated us from holding hands.....TWICE lol).
WTF. Maybe her friend wasn't comfortable with us holding hands in a church setting or something. I didn't care and I didn't give a fvck.

But guess what, this particular woman persisted when we got downstairs and found my hands once again. How about that for a greenlight?

Now this is what solidified things for me:

While coming back from a similar meeting this Monday, She ambushed me in front of the church gate and asked for my name again and I told her. I gave her my phone number and asked her what does she want to save it as, She inputed my name and asked me if I should put "boyfriend" or "husband" right next to it.....WTF. I said boyfriend was ok lol. She then told me that she had her birthday coming up and that we should still speak later. I told her whatever.

We met later and spoke a bit then I called her yesterday to specifically ask if she had plans with her friends to celebrate and she told me not really, but that she really wants to spend it with me and spend more time with me too for some reason. I told her I will think about it and get back to her.

Why am I saying all this?, I did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO GET THIS GIRL'S ATTENTION. Contrary to what you proposed tonnyray,I
didn't cold approach, I didn't appear bold, spontaneous or even carry any confident air or whatever.
. She just liked me. Please Guys, not matter how tempted you are to go for a woman you want, just wait for a woman that wants you, it makes things a million times easy.

Remember to stay chosen.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 9:44am On Sep 22, 2022
iamphenomenal:
Checked my status, saw this as posted by a lady
Remember she said "Real man"
This woman is definitely a LovePeddler.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 9:46am On Sep 22, 2022
ubunja:
"Whóríng Enterprise". Lol.

But for real, Some married women will even give you a baby. That's how deep, cold and dark the game is. They'll literally get pregnant for you.

If you speak to a lot of married women get in the habit of jokingly saying,"I wish your next baby was mine!".
If they act shocked say you're just joking. But I assure you, say it to enough of them one day one of them will take you up on it. And you'll lose all your faith in humanity.
The reproductive game is the most cruel of all the games.
@bolded I laughed out loud hahaha grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 9:48am On Sep 22, 2022
heartofcity12:
You can always do what works for you man, no one says you shouldn’t cold approach but be ready for the outcomes. Make yourself seen to them and watch their reaction or do you think Xoli Mfeka or Lulu Mezinwa can’t show you greenlight or choosing signal? cheesy
It's quite easy to tell actual war veterans from those that are war video games experts. How many seconds do you have to receive greenlights or choosing signals bla bla bla from someone who's about entering her Uber or whose boyfriend is waiting outside the mall? grin
Or we're just deliberately oblivious to the fact that the whole gig is totally time and opportunity dependent.
heartofcity12:
You can always do what works for you
Exactly. Do what works for you without necessarily putting down what works for others.
Cheers bro.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 9:53am On Sep 22, 2022
machote:
Stop spewing trash tonnyray. I thought we were way past this.

Let me share something interesting:
Lol. Thanks for the insult bro. I thought we were way past that.
And as for your experience I can relay thousands of experiences that validate my position too (from as far back as 200level university days) so who wins?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 9:54am On Sep 22, 2022
ProphetJeroboam:
There’s this ongoing discussion about Nigerian women and their obsession with food dates. Personally I’ve observed the same thing with African American women.

Nigerian girls just want to go on food dates and post monthly photo dumps. It’s a hustle, the main guys fvcking them don’t take them to Radisson Blu to eat Chicken Pasta bolognese. It’s you who wants to impress them that shoulders the responsibility of feeding the less privileged. Your reward will be a side hug while she posts photos of herself with you obviously missing from said photos. A girl that truly loves you will not ask or hint to you that she wants an exotic food date.

This brings me back to my old write-up about demographics and location affecting women’s choice in mates. In a financially unstable community, the women gravitate towards mates who can feed, clothe and take care of their financial needs. In a financially stable community, the young women fvck guys based on appearance, raw feelings , game etc

I have been in both situations and this is facts, not a theory. The white girls in my city will fvck you because they think you’re cute, funny or just straight up sweet and nice. I have never in my interactions with them spoken about food dates nor do they obsess about food dates, you will never hear bullshit like “my love language is food or see I am a foodie“ boldly written on their social pages, you’re dealing with hungry girls in Nigeria and I am not shaming them, it’s the reality, they’re not used to eating good so food becomes luxury.

I quickly noticed that the Nigerian girls in clubs in my city go home with guys who spends the most on drinks in the club and the White girls go home with the guy who dances with her and gives her a good time inside the club.

I am not in anyway glorifying white girls, I am just pointing out some notable differences. I hope y’all get the chance to experience the best of both worlds. I have some friends who got white girls for serious relationships and in a month or two you’ll see the whites girls learning how to prepare Nigerian dishes and trying to communicate in pidgin English, all they care about is making you happy. I’ll mention, just don’t get caught cheating on them grin grin
Nigerian girls are just too low value, I mean in every ramification. grin
They're mostly masculine, hungry and very disloyal since the term "love" is foreign to them.

Imagine Nigerian women coming in second worldwide in terms of paternity fraud,they want to satisfy their hypergamy and lust.
It's all or nothing for them.
They'll never compromise grin

I'll present another case study....on dating sites, I'll use tinder.

A higher percentage of Nigerian women are on there for prostitution. You'll see them using terms like masseuse,I don't do hook ups grin and all that yada yada. Their bios are usually shit,not to mention the less than classy hustle mode pictures they always drop on there. From afar, you don't even need binoculars to know that they're oloshos grin

Now for their counterparts,which are the westerners,a higher percentage of their women are very refined, simple and classy.
By simple,I mean just being themselves.
They're bad asf, don't get me wrong but they tend to do it with dignity. Perhaps it's the feminism at play idk.

I'm in no way gravitating white women,they have their headaches too but the disparity as regards the mode of thinking is just too much to ignore.

It's way worse now because the few good ones are continually turning bad.
Yahoo Yahoo is now a culture in Nigeria, every girl secretly wants to date a Yahoo boy.
Lol, what future prospect does that hold for her once those bad guys have taken everything of value from her both physically and spiritually.

This is the trend that has taken root over the years and will only spiral downwards into oblivion. grin

Birthing females with no self worth whatsoever, it's saddening really.

You've said it all my man,the enonomic hardship over the years has transformed what's left of what a woman should be into something else.

It'll be difficult for many to understand what a relationship should entail just as you have clearly stated until they date outside of Africa in fact lol.

In mosdii voice......all Nigerian girls are all useless.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 9:57am On Sep 22, 2022
heartofcity12:


That’s why cold approach most times don’t work. It most times leads to nowhere.. These days, I barely approach any random broad if I don’t see greenlight or choosing signal. Modern women don’t deserve any of those stress anymore. Let them also put in the work.. ain’t nobody fueling these girls egos anymore. grin
This is my son in whom I am well pleased grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:04am On Sep 22, 2022
Tonnyray:
Cold approach works flawlessly and effortlessly for good looking guys who are bold, spontaneous, carry that confident air about them and don't suffer from approach inertia.
Here we go again grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 10:06am On Sep 22, 2022
Smartb0y:
Here we go again grin
The minute you guys learn to stay with what works for you without having to put down what works for others, this issue will never rear its head again. grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:06am On Sep 22, 2022
MJBOLT:
from the friend zone to the bro zone,our friend is getting ahead. cheesy
If a woman you're interested in starts calling "bro", just go and do baptism again grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:14am On Sep 22, 2022
ubunja:
"Whóríng Enterprise". Lol.

But for real, Some married women will even give you a baby. That's how deep, cold and dark the game is. They'll literally get pregnant for you.

If you speak to a lot of married women get in the habit of jokingly saying,"I wish your next baby was mine!".
If they act shocked say you're just joking. But I assure you, say it to enough of them one day one of them will take you up on it. And you'll lose all your faith in humanity.
The reproductive game is the most cruel of all the games.
This genuine desire shit is no joke grin. What these married women give out,theirs is more than green light lol

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by machote: 10:34am On Sep 22, 2022
Tonnyray:
Lol. Thanks for the insult bro. I thought we were way past that.
And as for your experience I can relay thousands of experiences that validate my position too (from as far back as 200level university days) so who wins?
Agree to disagree.

I hope you'll pull your head out of my ass now. Thanks.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by YoobaNesan: 10:38am On Sep 22, 2022
A Man woman relationship is never about equality or competing to each other.

It is about living together as one and completing each other.

The Masculine provides protection, leadership and strength to the relationship.

The feminine provides love warmth and flavour to the relationship.

It is the Man who decides how long a relationship will last.

It is the woman who decides how beautiful the relationship will be.

Yes love exist yet it is an emotion, a small part of the relationship.

A man woman relationship grows beyond love with time.

It slides into a healthy dependency on each other thus further strengthening the bond.

This is also why it is bery important that a man must be Masculine and woman must be feminine.
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