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Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:18pm On Sep 28, 2022
MufasaLion:
It's a health issue. Visit a physician at the clinic.

It's not a spiritual issue. Don't let anyone deceive you.
Thank you Sir
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:20pm On Sep 28, 2022
OkCornel:


Is she a quiet and intelligent person?
I’m trying to get an angle on her personality type.
Yes, she's quiet and I wouldn't call her 'dull'
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by OkCornel(m): 8:22pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
Yes, she's quiet and I wouldn't call her 'dull'

Which means she’s more likely to think than talk, and keep things to herself.

And perhaps she finds it a bit challenging expressing herself?
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:23pm On Sep 28, 2022
MEGA4BILLION:

Run a test for typhoid fever, it could be the cause and if positive, treat her well
Exactly what we did First but after observing stagnation in her condition, my Dad think it's spiritual
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:26pm On Sep 28, 2022
Hassanmaye:

Play Qur'an for her to listen and please I'm not joking. Get back to me.
We have been doing this. I have Sudais, Minshari, Abdulbasit, Abdullahi abba etc recitations app in my phone and she has been listening to it. Infact, she's almost mrmorized Sudais' Al Qunuts but still, she still laugh and talks alone.
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by malvisguy212: 8:27pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
She's a Minor and an Introvert. Always indoors. Thanks for your input.
if your dad say it's a spiritual attack. seat down with him and reason together. maybe there are things you don't know yet. there is a saying that said " what an old man seat and see a young man standing will not see it "

seat down and reason with your dad before you go and spend unnecessary money in the hospital.
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:28pm On Sep 28, 2022
blaquebelle:
I hope she didn't experience any psychological trauma at childhood?
Yes, she did. She never wanted to attend Day school. Our dad force her and since then, all these started. Could it be the cause and what should we do?
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by Tylerbankz: 8:29pm On Sep 28, 2022
Brotherly, I would recommend to take it to prayers.
God can and will heal her.
Please, search on YouTube, Facebook for Streams of Joy International, NSPPD by Pastor Jerry Eze Uchechukwu.
Please mark my words, if you sister case isn't mentioned and she get healed in 1 week, just know that I am not serving the living God.
Don't doubt this.
I can't share the link on this forum so I don't spam the forum.
But join the online prayer platform and connection your sister, you will testify the healing power of God on your sister.
Thank you as you do this.
HumbleOptimist:
Good Day Dear Nairaland Family,

My Sister started behaving weirdly last few Weeks. She laughs alone, talks alone and is sometimes restless especially at Night.

Though she always responds well and correctly when engaged. I've asked her and she told me she doesn't know when that happens and it's unintentional.

I, on my part have tried talking to my Dad to take her to a Mental Health Expert, my Dad seems to believe it is spiritual attack instead.
Please, I need Medical practitioners in the house to help tell me what she's probably suffering from so I can Confidently convince my Dad.

Can you please help move this to front page?
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:30pm On Sep 28, 2022
malvisguy212:
if your dad say it's a spiritual attack. seat down with him and reason together. maybe there are things you don't know yet. there is a saying that said " what an old man seat and see a young man standing will not see it "

seat down and reason with your dad before you go and spend unnecessary money in the hospital.
But the spiritual remedies he has been trying for months now have no noticeable effects.
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:32pm On Sep 28, 2022
Mindlog:

How old is she?
16
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:34pm On Sep 28, 2022
morpheus101:

@OP

Your sister may be experiencing what is referred to as a "spontaneously induced psychosis" without the presence of any external factor such as drugs. The symptoms you explained are consistent with people who experience such mental breaks and she if she is a minor, it is important you get her to a medical facility that treats mental health issues as quick as possible for observation.

People who normally experience this break are not aware of what is going on are very vulnerable and may fall in and out of coherence. She should be observed and examined for a reasonable period of time before introducing any drugs into her system.

Wish your family the best.
Thank You Sir
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by ibawon(m): 8:34pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
Good Day Dear Nairaland Family,

My Sister started behaving weirdly last few Weeks. She laughs alone, talks alone and is sometimes restless especially at Night.

Though she always responds well and correctly when engaged. I've asked her and she told me she doesn't know when that happens and it's unintentional.

I, on my part have tried talking to my Dad to take her to a Mental Health Expert, my Dad seems to believe it is spiritual attack instead.
Please, I need Medical practitioners in the house to help tell me what she's probably suffering from so I can Confidently convince my Dad.

Can you please help move this to front page?

Spiritual or not move her to a psychiatrist straight. Mental health is important and can be cured just like any other illness, but one must be quick about it.
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by King2019(m): 8:35pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
She's a Minor and an Introvert. Always indoors. Thanks for your input.
Red flag
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:35pm On Sep 28, 2022
Owutuotuo:


Heard of Schizophrenia? Please do some extensive reading on it and take advantage of help from mental health experts. A blood relative, top of his class, med student, developed the traits and sadly had to stop med school. God help your sis.
Thank You
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by superCleanworks(m): 8:36pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:

Though she always responds well and correctly when engaged.

she MAY have taken something that has pushed her off the cliff of sanity and now she is hyper-reasoning.
I have seen this 100 times and they usually respond fine to you but to them it takes so much energy to respond. they are fighting hard to appear normal.
Please, do not talk plenty words to her. one at a time and don't scream or behave frantic around her before you push her further into an unstabl state.
Ask her what drugs (WEED, SK, AZ, HK, CK, METH) she has experimented with. She might try to deny but CALMLY keep asking her.

Let your dad not act frantic around her if he doesn't want to TRAP HER in the hole of instability with his hysterical behaviour out of his fear and panic. I understand sha, he is a father.

I hope you get to read this.
good luck.
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by Mindlog: 8:39pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
16

Send me a DM.
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:40pm On Sep 28, 2022
placeofallure:


Hmmmn! Not funny. I can imagine your state of mind now.

How old exactly is she? What school is she in? Who are her friends? What activities do they co-engage in? Find out ASAP. Many mental homes are scary these days, unpalatable news springing out from there .
She is 16. Dad enrolled her in a Private School of Health Tech to save her from stress cuz of her condition. She currently doesn't have friends cuz of her condition. She doesn't socialize. Care to expatiate the bolded?
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by kwasoly(m): 8:42pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
Good Day Dear Nairaland Family,

My Sister started behaving weirdly last few Weeks. She laughs alone, talks alone and is sometimes restless especially at Night.

Though she always responds well and correctly when engaged. I've asked her and she told me she doesn't know when that happens and it's unintentional.

I, on my part have tried talking to my Dad to take her to a Mental Health Expert, my Dad seems to believe it is spiritual attack instead.
Please, I need Medical practitioners in the house to help tell me what she's probably suffering from so I can Confidently convince my Dad.

Can you please help move this to front page?


Hope those yahoo boys never use her?
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by DOINGS2022: 8:43pm On Sep 28, 2022
Prechgold1180:
Any time she start to carry laugh

Find better oraimo cord wipe her for neck

She go well

Thank me later

2 in the evening before she sleeps and two cord and in the morning before she wakes up from sleep

Modified too many mentions

No sorry I said what I said if oraimo cord nur work make unah use iPhone 13 cord wipe her for neck

Since unah nur get psychiatric hospital for unah state

Be like majority of people for Nairaland don Dey mad

Headache go do unah first thing unah go rush come here come post
They find unnecessary sympathy

No Bleep given


Your Oraimo cord no dey finish?
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:46pm On Sep 28, 2022
Mindlog:


Mental homes have always been scary, so it is nothing new.
Clarify please.
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by fairwilliams: 8:51pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
Good Day Dear Nairaland Family,

My Sister started behaving weirdly last few Weeks. She laughs alone, talks alone and is sometimes restless especially at Night.

Though she always responds well and correctly when engaged. I've asked her and she told me she doesn't know when that happens and it's unintentional.

I, on my part have tried talking to my Dad to take her to a Mental Health Expert, my Dad seems to believe it is spiritual attack instead.
Please, I need Medical practitioners in the house to help tell me what she's probably suffering from so I can Confidently convince my Dad.

Can you please help move this to front page?


I thnk ur dad understnd mre than u..
Hw i wish u av d kind mentality ur dad had.. But u dnt jst want to ans this 3quest people av bn asking u.

1. Her real age
2. Her class
3. Her relati0nship status.
Even if ur 6ta d0esn't av ph0ne, it doesn't mean she's nt on faceb0ok trust me. Pr0vide me her real age and class n0w
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 8:52pm On Sep 28, 2022
monfizzy:


How old is she? Is she in her teenage years and less or around 22years old? If yes, it could be signs of early psychosis such as paranoid schizophrenia. She need to see a consultant psychologist who’ll review her and run a mental health assessments on her and the diagnosis will determine if she’ll be placed on antipsychotics or CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) medication to manage her symptoms.

There’s nothing like spiritual attack here. Mental health is an absolute medical condition and only a medical intervention will help.
She's 16. Thanks Sir for your input
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by seunak2016: 8:52pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
She's a Minor, doesn't have phones. She's an introvert too. Thanks for your input.
hope your sister third eyes chakra isn't open ? like she can see what ordinary eyes can't see and hear what ordinary ears can't hear.

mostly that thing occur often at night whereby she won't be able to sleep but will be hearing things from other realms.

if that is the case then you need to find healer who can assist and close the third eyes for her
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by Mindlog: 8:53pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
Clarify please.

Fact is, a psychiatric facility has a way of unsettling one, even if you are a visitor. The first time, I started working in one.......I was disoriented for about 2 weeks before I eased into the system,
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by fairwilliams: 8:55pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
She's 16. Thanks Sir for your input

Ya sis av a bf... And am very sure she's jst pretending to be an intr0vert.. Be a gentle man and ask her h0w many male bestie did she av and that u want to gve her ur phone so that she can login to her fbk accnt.. I dnt think u are a smart br0 cox ur sis is dating a real nigha
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by seunak2016: 8:56pm On Sep 28, 2022
Mindlog:


Send me a DM.
why must op send DM ? I pity op if he fall into 419 Shi.t

help him publicly or tell him what to do then he decided to do it whether your route or another route similar to yours
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by MufasaLion: 9:00pm On Sep 28, 2022
Yankee101:
See a psychiatrist immediately
I’m a a Christian and I’m telling you the solution is available already. See a doctor before it worsens and becomes difficult to reverse


Some things to also look out for
1. See a doctor/psychiatrist TODAY!!!
2. Family history of mental illness
3. Recent stressful event
4. Diseases like HIV
5. Hard drugs intake
6. Go to a teaching hospital

You seem to have sense than most of the other religious folks that has made comments.

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Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by Regex: 9:01pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
Good Day Dear Nairaland Family,

My Sister started behaving weirdly last few Weeks. She laughs alone, talks alone and is sometimes restless especially at Night.

Though she always responds well and correctly when engaged. I've asked her and she told me she doesn't know when that happens and it's unintentional.

I, on my part have tried talking to my Dad to take her to a Mental Health Expert, my Dad seems to believe it is spiritual attack instead.
Please, I need Medical practitioners in the house to help tell me what she's probably suffering from so I can Confidently convince my Dad.

Can you please help move this to front page?

You really have to make your dad understand that your sister going to get medication from the mental hospital will not stop God from doing wonders. Let him act now before it's late.

It could be a bacteria infection. I know of a woman whom got bacteria infection, and it affected her brain due to neglect. Although she's being taken care of but she can never be whole again. Do not let religion Rob your sister a life she could have had. Nigerians will always be an extremist in everything.
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by fairwilliams: 9:02pm On Sep 28, 2022
K0l0 k0lo doesn't start in a day since she haven't bn in that p0siti0n while in childhood... Br0 u need to ask her if she's a virgin and if n0, then u must ask her d same undies she wore d day she was disfl0wer cox frm what am seeing, the issue might be anytime she put on that same undies, she'll start.. Do it fast c0x s0mething like her predicament doesn't stay l0ng b4 d stuff escalate.
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by MufasaLion: 9:02pm On Sep 28, 2022
Nigeriaiscasted:


Read the above or google what a specialist means.

My knowledge of disorders grew as a result of my narcissistic abuse from my ex and parents. We are two in my family my sister is the golden child and I am the scape goat. Baba pack well you be illiterate

You're the illiterate here.

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Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by OkCornel(m): 9:02pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
16

First things first, don’t ever panic and send your sister to charlatans disguised as anointed prayer warriors and prayer homes. Sexual perverts are there licking their lips to take advantage of her and also fleece your family financially.

Secondly, know that you stand a much better position to diagnose what’s going on with your sister more accurately than a doctor or a psychiatrist who’s an outsider. You live with your sister everyday (I assume). You understand the scenarios better.

I’ll advise you should research extensively on mental illnesses/disorders, understand the triggers and symptoms for each of them, and see which of the illness/disorder closely mirrors your sister’s situation.

These were the steps I took, and saved myself and my family over 10 years of pain, fasting and prayers and other needless stressful experiences we went through on my brother’s case. He’s fully healed and restored now (7 years and counting - living a normal life and helping out people with similar struggles). No need for drugs, night vigils and tearful stories.

I’m more than happy to discuss with you on practical steps you can take to manage the situation much better, so she comes out of this phase.
Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by HumbleOptimist(m): 9:05pm On Sep 28, 2022
khadaffi:


I'm not a doctor. So it will be good you see one preferably a neurologist. But I'm familiar with most neurological problems as most of my family members have suffered from it.
1. How was she born? Is it through CS or normal delivery.

2. Has she ever had any kind of seizure like fainting, epilepsy (or related illness), convulsion, etc.

Having this answers will help and I might be able to suggest what you will need to do. If your family is covered in any health schemes such as NHIS, cost shouldn't be a problem.

On another hand if she is an introvert her behaviour might just be normal since you said she talks(responds) well.
1. Normal delivery
2. No case
Yes, she's an introvert

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