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So many men go into marriage unprepared for what is expected of them besides providing money.
Many of them think that the moment they can afford to pay bills, then they are good husbands and fathers Lori iroooo….. The ability of provide financially for your family is only one of the many skills required of you as a husband and father, You need to be emotionally intelligent enough to speak the love languages of your wife and your children, master the art of making a good woman happy and you will go very far in marriage.
These are a few of the knowledge and skills you need before getting marriage
1. Know how to be faithful to ONE woman ( your wife)…. Not having this one is enough to wipe out any good your money brings…. Even if you succeed in keeping your wife married to you because she may not cope financially if she leaves you, her heart and soul will leave the marriage, you will only be married to her body.
She will either have a side dude that will meet her emotional needs whilst she resents the h£ll out of you and look for ways of d01ing away with you permanently so she can balance well and enjoy whatever wealth you think you have with your children and the other m£n she will invite to take your place. No amount of money you give her will make her happy in the face of your serial infidelity. It is almost impossible for a woman to be happy when she knows her husband is sleeping with another woman. It almost impossible for her not to know that he is cheatng. Women have a 6th sense about these such things. She will know! So many m£n have rad1cal1sed the good women they married because of their penchant for infidelity! Never forget that h£ll hath no fury like a woman sc0rn£d
2. Know how to be useful in the home asides from bringing money. Be able to do house chores and attend to the needs of
your children when you are at home and if there is no domestic
help. Even when there is domestic help, try to do house chores from time to time so that you can normalise your children seeing
Daddy doing house chores like cooking and cleaning once in a while. That way your male children especially will see you as a role model ( they will grow to do the same) and your female
children will look forward to having a husband like you.
3. Know how to spend quality time with your wife and children.
Get to know your children so you can build a strong bond with them in order to influence them aright. Be a hands-on father who
enjoys doing stuff with your children. They will remember your
presence in their lives more than they will remember your presents to them. Every time you are not at work, spend at least 80% of it with your wife and children, be at home to watch movies, do chores, do homework with them, go shopping for them and with them, pray with them etc. This is what will register in their memory for life.
4. Be the Priest of your home, be the Spiritual director of your
family. Be the one who leads them in prayer most of the time,
read the Bible or Quaran with them ( depending on your religion).
Have a family alter where you are the Priest. Teach your children
the ways of God in words and in action. This will help keep you in
check in your personal life. When you know that you are the Priest of your home, you will be less likely to dabble into extra-marital affairs or any other clandestine activities
5. Be a kind responsible man, be kind to your wife and children at
all times, even when you are angry with her or your children stay kind to them. Express your anger but remain kind to them. Your kindness will bring you favour more than your money.
Let me stop here for now so I don’t bore you Practice these 5 in addition to having a legitimate source of income and paying some bills ( your wife is expected to pay some bills too if she is earning money ), and watch your family flourish, thrive and prosper under your very eyes even when you don’t have all the money in the world.

Are you married ??

Bluezy13:
Are you married ??

Are you interested in my status or the message?

SeniorMan715:
Are you interested in my status or the message?

Your status determines the factuality of your message.
I'm interested in both.

Bluezy13:
Your status determines the factuality of your message. I'm interested in both.

No

SeniorMan715:
So many men go into marriage unprepared for what is expected
of them besides providing money
Many of them think that the moment they can afford to pay bills.

God bless you SeniorMan715. Na man you be. May you marry well if you v not and may your home be blessed.
I love men that v sense. Not all these dirty short broke black redpillers on Nairaland.
When a man posses these, he ll enjoy his home.

This one never know 9ja girls.

They are so useless such that, all these your theory will become very meaningless as the "p" in psychology.


Know this and know peace!

Since the days of Eve, neither God not man hasth fully satisfied a woman.

Bluezy13:
Your status determines the factuality of your message. I'm interested in both.

wrong

Savedday:
This one never know 9ja girls.

They are so useless such that, all these your theory will become very meaningless as the "p" in psychology.


Know this and know peace!

Girls wey don waka....
Girls wey no get team mentality...
No matter what you do...u are just an ATM and a provider of MRS title....dem go frustrate you

SeniorMan715:
No

Then your write-up would have been better off if you were married.
Unmarried men learn from married men.

ThankUUJesus:
wrong

Are you married ?

Sweetplum:
God bless you SeniorMan715. Na man you be. May you marry well if you v not and may your home be blessed.
I love men that v sense. Not all these dirty short broke black redpillers on Nairaland.
When a man posses these, he ll enjoy his home.

Can your gender ever be satisfied? Even Adam couldn’t satisfy Eve.
Ok should I share what your gender just did to a good husband-material friend of mine?

The op na Johnny just come, he still dey new for game .. being inlove is a mental disorder wake up these is 2022.

Oga go and punctuate this your write up abeg.

Sweetplum:
God bless you SeniorMan715. Na man you be. May you marry well if you v not and may your home be blessed.
I love men that v sense. Not all these dirty short broke black redpillers on Nairaland.
When a man posses these, he ll enjoy his home.

After checkin your profile yea, the only good thing about you is that you love football
Asides that
With this your mentality,... You go jam sha
Them no dey tell person

dhiqson:
After checkin your profile yea, the only good thing about you is that you love football
Asides that
With this your mentality,... You go jam sha
Them no dey tell person

Make I jam you naa

Sweetplum:
Make I jam you naa

Abeg oh
Wah club you fan

Wotoporiously speaking

I no disagree with wetin you talk o but my own be say Just pray make God no give you wetin he give Adam cuz you go begin dey doubt everything wey you talk up there.

Sweetplum:
God bless you SeniorMan715. Na man you be. May you marry well if you v not and may your home be blessed.
I love men that v sense. Not all these dirty short broke black redpillers on Nairaland.
When a man posses these, he ll enjoy his home.

Man ke. Na seniorwoman be that. Lol

Great0ne1:
Man ke. Na seniorwoman be that. Lol

na u be woman. All the boys saying he should leave the woman are women