CaveAdullam:

Winks.

BigBashiru:


Your thoughts are good and noble but are idealistic.... unfortunately marriage has evolved and some of its noble values eroded...

When a woman can put a picture on instagram and get 1000 likes and 5000 followers in the span of 2-3 weeks you are telling that same woman to have a husband? Why should she have a husband when her ig inbox is filled with guys looking to give her money?

What standard do you want to hold them to - standard is set by society - the partriachy is gone thats the reality.....stop trying to go back to the past...

My dear evolve with the times or sink...

Zabiboy:
Imagine spending time, resources, sacrifices to make something work, and the person you do it for wakes up one morning and say she's no longer interested..
This is marriage not relationship of few months.
And then you say someone is accepting "failure" because he decides to avoid such or because he'll rather go for a shared responsibility to reduce the effect if it fails.


Omor.... We move...
Thanks to everyone that contributed
The day we talk extensively about "how men and their ego sets them up perfectly to be used" on this thread e go too sweet..

chikasnight:
I understand your point but I believe any young girl who chooses you will want to get married to you regardless of her age, where the problem lies mostly is in maybe arranged marriages or referrals or maybe cold approaching and convincing them into the marriage. Yes I’ve seen situations where when they get older they feel they were cheated but it’s always when the marriage was as a result of one of the reasons i wrote above.
Being chosen reduces that risk to the minimum...

BigBashiru:


Women marry for security... if she "chooses you" - its for both psychological and financial security....moreover, if a better option presents even after they have chosen you, they will still explore....

BigBashiru:


Your thoughts are good and noble but are idealistic.... unfortunately marriage has evolved and some of its noble values eroded...

When a woman can put a picture on instagram and get 1000 likes and 5000 followers in the span of 2-3 weeks you are telling that same woman to have a husband? Why should she have a husband when her ig inbox is filled with guys looking to give her money?

What standard do you want to hold them to - standard is set by society - the partriachy is gone thats the reality.....stop trying to go back to the past...

My dear evolve with the times or sink...

kobams:
Awwwwnnn caring boyfriend

Smartb0y:


From the link

Anything worthwhile in life is going to be hard. A quality woman. A great career. An useful higher education degree.

If it is easy to obtain, it is likely worthless.

Finding a quality Christian woman in our corrupt world today is going to be hard. That is what makes her worthwhile.

This means you will need a 3-pronged approach to your search: local churches; local Christian-focused charities; online. You will need to do some legwork here.

This is especially of you want/need one who is at least a 5 physically and not obese or seriously lacking in any physical beauty. Keep in mind, you can compromise that 5+ in the appearance requirement down somewhat, but remember that any relationship where the man and woman are more than 2 points apart in appearance is NOT stable and is at high risk for divorce, etc.

If you are a 7 man and you negotiate yourself down (“negotiated attraction” = danger!) to accept a 4 woman because she is a wonderful Christian person, I commend you. But you also need to know that there will be trouble, no matter what you do, especially as she ages after 30. Either other more attractive women will tempt you OR she will (eventually) become jealous of you around other women. Stay within 2 points of each other in appearance (this means both need stay fit, dress ok, hygiene, etc) and it will be stable. �

Oh yeah and take it from a man who was married in his early 20s well into his late 30s: she will age, and even the ones who age gracefully and stay in shape will lose their youthful beauty in time. That is human nature and it is Biblical concept. “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised”. Proverbs 31:30

Just to keep it in perspective, folks. We need to keep it real and go into marriage and the courtship of a quality Christian woman with realistic expectations and eyes wide open. That is the Red Pill lifestyle: you have to keep it real and keep it honest with yourself, have realistic expectations, and expect hard work to succeed.

#copied

pansophist:
What I noticed with many ladies is that they have a need to scratch a bit to know that you have teeth, and can actually bite, before they treat you right, or even stay and fall in love with you. And your inability to bite when pushed will make them disrespect you and treat you like trash. Which points to the fact that treating you right is not dependent on their (the woman's) morality of being a good person, but the fear of your consequence.

And women like this are a straight turn-off for me. You know them by how they treat those they can't get anything from such as uber drivers, waiters, etc. Women with no character, filled with unsubstantiated pride. `That is focused on what they can get, not what they can give. Women that know everything a guy should do for them, but have no idea their responsibilities to him. So full of pride that their only achievement in life is to be called a fine girl.

These women not only turn me off, but they also make me vomit. I do not like them at all, and sadly, they are almost the majority.

Don't mind anyone that says you have work And study. I have friends in US that work to pay their tuition. Hourly rate at some places in US can go as high as $1600 per hour. If you work 20hrs per week, that's already $32,000 per week. You can make over $150,000 per month. Very easy. Within 6 months , you'll finish building a house in Nigeria

heartofcity12:


Can you imagine.. They’re far gone and majority of them don’t deserve any sane man’s commitment.

Seeker3:
Yeah she's keeping fit in shape

ubunja:
RedPill music video of the day:
Beyonce - Upgrade U.

what's the song about?
Beyonce is listing all the good things she brings to the table for her man. These include helping him shine in business deals, boosting his bank balance, taking care of the home and introducing him to greater things he never knew etc.
It describes the perfect helpmate. No challenging her man and no ursuping a man's leadership role and always supporting his vision.
Sample lyrics:
it's very seldom that you're blessed to find your equal, still played my part and let you take the lead, believe me".


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6nr8hPnZfMU

Smartb0y:


They were gonna divorce sometime ago

Smartb0y:

They're not even useful for birthing kids considering how many lives they've taken

ubunja:
usually a lot of videos on "HOW TO GET A GIRL IF YOU'RE BROKE" turn out to be just clickbait trash not offering any meaningful or usable information,, but this lady is on to something. I know some of my brothers in the Redpill are at that stage of their life where their finances are not yet in order, this video will be very helpful:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Otd2w1Ez5Y

geedot:
More reasons you should date them at this age, because this is the only time you can know their true self since they are at their prime at this age. Better than dating a 29years that started acting wise only due to the decline in the influx of men that now finds her attractive.


Example: The only time you can truly know a man's behavior is when he has money. All promises made when broke doesn't matter, they were only made due to his current predicament. Now replace money on a man with youth on a woman. All promises older ladies make were just made based on the decline in their attractiveness. They are not wise, they are still the same.

So any 20/21 years old that has sense already can be gambled on to even have more sense as she gets older. Date and marry young girls with brains only and fvck young girls without brains and discard them when they get older.

Women always shout it so loud that "no sex for broke men". Well, we men should also start saying "no commitment for ladies past their prime", aka 'evening newspapers'.

Karlifate:
Here's the thing:

Complaining about lots of today's women being whores accomplishes nothing. Exploit the situation to your advantage. Use the whores for fun, and marry a proper woman (preferably virgin) when you're ready for marriage. Don't marry the whores and you'll do fine.

satandeterrible:

Very intelligent post.
Thank you for rebuffung those bluepilled vibes.

How can any same man think the best thing for him is to commit to used up, washed out cum depots?
So as a man after struggling to make it, you then decide to settle down for an old hen who has hit the wall after crossing her hoe phase?

They are advising men to settle for less, because they can't find anything better. Or because they think they atr not worth anything better.

That why they are advising men to commit to 30+ women, because those women won't have much options at that moment. How ridiculous!!

I cannot believe that on a redpill thread, a supposedly redpill preacher is advising men to settle down with women who have hit the wall, because they no longer have options at that stage.

What is the difference then between a redpill guy and a bluepilled simp?
Both ate committing to women who have been sexed severally by other men and have now retired.
Quite shameful.

heartofcity12:
She meant it. Marriage doesn’t stop them from monkey branching if given the opportunity..

Karlifate:


Women would rather share an high value man than settle with a faithful, broke loser.

BigBashiru:


Women marry for security... if she "chooses you" - its for both psychological and financial security....moreover, if a better option presents even after they have chosen you, they will still explore....